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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That's why you should go for a kiss either way. You don't know if she's interested until you try. Going for a kiss is the way to find out if she likes you. If she dodges it then you can stop spending time on her.
The problem is... you need some kind of conversation skills to get there..
I am so terrible at everything..

with that being said.. I am working on it and have a girl coming over at 6 today.
I will kiss her for sure.. but thats the least of what we are planning to do
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Originally Posted By Bangemall⏩
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is a good strategy, if I were a guy this would be my rule too.

On a first date you cannot be sure she is interested but you should go for a kiss either way because you will gain knowledge of her interest.

If she dodges it then you know she is not interested so you can stop talking to her and not waste your time.

If she kisses you back then you know she is interested and you can go further either that same date or next date.

that's why you should go for a kiss either way. You don't know if she's interested until you try. Going for a kiss is the way to find out if she likes you. If she dodges it then you can stop spending time on her.
I'm fairly good/accurate at reading body languages,signs of interest on dates. If she doesnt flick her hair back/preen herself/make direct eye contact with broad smile or when you're leaving,she gets up first and walks far ahead of you.....Kill it with fire.

On the last unsuccessful date i went,we met for coffee. Conversation was great,90% of the topic was about her,barely asked questions about me, which i like. I dont want people in my business. When we left,she stood up first and walked ahead about 5 feet. I let her go,she kept on walking without looking back. Out in the parking lot she kept on walking,right past my car. I didnt say a word,got in my car and drove off. I lold at the look on her face as a drove away. Priceless. She unmatched me on Tinder. ZFG
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
Dat feel..
I never know if they want me to make a move.. I have never kissed a girl on the 5 dates ive been on.. only when the girl asked me..

I just dont know if they want me to

doesnt help that all the dates ive been on.. I felt like they were just doing it to be nice
They want you to if they:

Stay for multiple drinks
Reinitiate conversation multiple times
Compliment your physical appearance
Offer you to sit next to them instead of across from them

There are many more indicators but those are pretty sound

They DONT want you to try to kiss them if they:
- Say 'I actually have to call it a night / leave etc' - this is usually an incredibly bad sign because it means they are so disgusted by your appearance they wont even do you the courtesy of staying the whole date. (I've had a few girls do this to me within 20-30 minutes of meeting and your ego will never recover)
- Talk about other men alot / their sex lives with other men / other tinder men - thats a TERRIBLE sign.
- Generally appear uninterested.
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
I'm fairly good/accurate at reading body languages,signs of interest on dates. If she doesnt flick her hair back/preen herself/make direct eye contact with broad smile or when you're leaving,she gets up first and walks far ahead of you.....Kill it with fire.

On the last unsuccessful date i went,we met for coffee. Conversation was great,90% of the topic was about her,barely asked questions about me, which i like. I dont want people in my business. When we left,she stood up first and walked ahead about 5 feet. I let her go,she kept on walking without looking back. Out in the parking lot she kept on walking,right past my car. I didnt say a word,got in my car and drove off. I lold at the look on her face as a drove away. Priceless. She unmatched me on Tinder. ZFG
I'd never recover from that tbh. Did you go on more dates after?
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
I'm fairly good/accurate at reading body languages,signs of interest on dates. If she doesnt flick her hair back/preen herself/make direct eye contact with broad smile or when you're leaving,she gets up first and walks far ahead of you.....Kill it with fire.

On the last unsuccessful date i went,we met for coffee. Conversation was great,90% of the topic was about her,barely asked questions about me, which i like. I dont want people in my business. When we left,she stood up first and walked ahead about 5 feet. I let her go,she kept on walking without looking back. Out in the parking lot she kept on walking,right past my car. I didnt say a word,got in my car and drove off. I lold at the look on her face as a drove away. Priceless. She unmatched me on Tinder. ZFG
I used to think the hair fixing was just something girls did all the time, with long hair I find myself fixing it whenever a pretty girl is around. It's unavoidable lol.
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could you elaborate more on the stare part? I always find it difficult to just keep looking into their eyes. I read somewhere that maintaining eye contact is important, also during daygame when you just want to get the nr of some sloot in the subway or something?

How do? --- Really doesn't staring at them just freak them out?
Idk how to explain. That post was highly exaggerated tho. Bedroom eyes is they way it's done. The eyes, they never lie Chico -Scarface
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Tinder is absolute garbage in Australia specifically melbourne.

Girls here only use tinder for validation and have zero intentions to meet up and only want insta followers. Its pathetic.

Even using male model pics like miro you cant get bitches to meet up despite how hard it is to get matches in melbourne
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Originally Posted By Payrab⏩
The love of my life left me a little over a month ago. Not an ideal situation, but I've been filling the void the old fashioned way. Obviously I got back on tinder. It's gone really well. I definitely need to slow down since I'm going to make an effort to get my gf back. Such is life.

To all you FA's, definitely make a move on the first date. If they didn't want you to make a move, they wouldn't have agreed to meet you. I've gotten at least a make out sesh every date I've been on. It's been nice for the confidence, but I'm still dead on the inside.
Was in the same situation 4 months ago with my ex gf of 4.5 yrs who I was going to propose to. Gl winning her back, but don't drag it out if she's adamant. Makes it harder on both of you. Tinder is the only thing keeping me sane rn
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Originally Posted By wangbadan⏩
Was in the same situation 4 months ago with my ex gf of 4.5 yrs who I was going to propose to. Gl winning her back, but don't drag it out if she's adamant. Makes it harder on both of you. Tinder is the only thing keeping me sane rn
Yeah, I was wanting to propose as well. Biggest blow I've taken in years for sure. It's nice knowing that attractive women find me desirable, but the grass is most certainly greener on the other side.
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[QUOTE=spadelexus post_id=1509301591]Feminists, confidence, making moves, butt hair, logistics, assertiveness, not giving a phuck, and other related chit...

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[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/embed/_zPlr-o-YEQ[/youtube][/QUOTE]No offense, but that's definitely some ****boy game. Quit trying so hard, srs.
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Originally Posted By Payrab⏩
No offense, but that's definitely some ****boy game. Quit trying so hard, srs.
You are half right. Its phuck boy game but Im not trying hard at all, which is why these girls are responding to it. Notice in my convos its all about me. What I want. Im not even asking them what they want Im telling them what I want them to do.

That should be the main take away from those screens.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
You are half right. Its phuck boy game but Im not trying hard at all, which is why these girls are responding to it. Notice in my convos its all about me. What I want. Im not even asking them what they want Im telling them what I want them to do.

That should be the main take away from those screens.
Yeah, but you're coming off as a twat, no offense. I'm bi and I'm a gay man's wet dream, so I've had plenty of game ran on me. I know what's good and what's not.
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Originally Posted By Payrab⏩
Yeah, but you're coming off as a twat, no offense. I'm bi and I'm a gay man's wet dream, so I've had plenty of game ran on me. I know what's good and what's not.
Lmao @ thinking men and women are alike. Even if you are gay and have guys hitting on you, that does not mean you think like a woman. You think like a gay guy. I dont pitch to gay guys (no homophobe) and you are not a woman so your commentary is completely irrelevant.

More relavant is your tinder experience with girls. If you critique my game, thats cool, but show me how your game is better rather than just name call. Maybe I can learn from you. I explained what the take aways from the screens I posted should be. Guy's that succeed on tinder would agree with those points, because they are who I learned from.

So show me a successful # close (with a girl) or gtfo.
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Do you all usually know exactly where you're taking a date, or is it cool to meet up and go for a stroll before stopping somewhere nice for drinks.

Live in a major city and many bars are rammed because it's summer, so would want to head to a quieter place..
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Changed up my pics to better quality and vibes on the 3rd one getting some better matches gonna keep it like this for a few months. you guys need goo quality photos.

pulled 2 half Arabic half white girls number in my old city I would do damage there haha.

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Originally Posted By UKbrah93⏩
Do you all usually know exactly where you're taking a date, or is it cool to meet up and go for a stroll before stopping somewhere nice for drinks.

Live in a major city and many bars are rammed because it's summer, so would want to head to a quieter place..
Go for a stroll and see what's good. It's patio season, make it a little adventure.
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my tinder is messed up keeps going to a different city from my locations like they are mixed up also not many people in my area I swiped already lol maybe is that why it is doing it?
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Originally Posted By Payrab⏩
No offense, but that's definitely some ****boy game. Quit trying so hard, srs.
Originally Posted By Payrab⏩
Yeah, but you're coming off as a twat, no offense. I'm bi and I'm a gay man's wet dream, so I've had plenty of game ran on me. I know what's good and what's not.
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i get your points

but girls deep down WANT a fukboy - spade and psycho and me and others itt have shown time and time again that being a bit of a twat gets you places haha

cocky, confident, witty and a wee bit arrogant gets you places on the online dating world
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can you succesful brahs elaborate what fotos work well and in which setting?
i'm cutting right now and was thinking to let a friend take some photos of ma physique on da beach. do body pics work as a main profile pic?
need to cut more though before going that route... face is okay, but nothing great so i though my height and physique could help me getting more matches?

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Originally Posted By Sternentreue⏩
can you succesful brahs elaborate what fotos work well and in which setting?
i'm cutting right now and was thinking to let a friend take some photos of ma physique on da beach. do body pics work as a main profile pic?
need to cut more though before going that route... face is okay, but nothing great so i though my height and physique could help me getting more matches?

please share your experiences brahs and brahettes
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NEVER have your main photo as a group photo

have a photo of you with a doggo

have a photo in some super nice smart fitted clothes
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is a good strategy, if I were a guy this would be my rule too.

On a first date you cannot be sure she is interestedbut you should go for a kiss either way because you will gain knowledge of her interest.

If she dodges it then you know she is not interested so you can stop talking to her and not waste your time.

If she kisses you back then you know she is interested and you can go further either that same date or next date.



That's why you should go for a kiss either way. You don't know if she's interested until you try. Going for a kiss is the way to find out if she likes you. If she dodges it then you can stop spending time on her.
why you lying to miscers? we both know you sloots make it very clear/obvious when youre interested in a dude. women understand they have to put forth SOME interest/effort its not a complete guessing game.


If she doesnt give you any hints/signs shes interested, shes probably not interested. that simple
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Originally Posted By SOPHSTICATEDBrA⏩
why you lying to miscers? we both know you sloots make it very clear/obvious when youre interested in a dude. women understand they have to put forth SOME interest/effort its not a complete guessing game.


If she doesnt give you any hints/signs shes interested, shes probably not interested. that simple
you missed the second part of the bolded

On a first date you cannot be sure she is interestedbut you should go for a kiss either way because you will gain knowledge of her interest.

some sloots are really introverted

its kind of irrelevant if you think shes interested or not - still go for a kiss, you'll soon find out...
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