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Thread: Obese woman loses her weight, then realises she's not in love with hubby anymore

post 1510000731 06-28-2017, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Aussie939291⏩
My ex apparently didn't get this memo.
Yea? I'm sorry about that.

It's the world we live in, unfortunately. These days kids kick their own parents to the curb when they get old and need help. Very sad.

People, in general, jump ship when the going gets hard.

But physical fitness is a different matter. Both parties should take care of themselves physically. It's not your spouse's job to manage that for you. Peopleshouldhave standards for their significant other.

Besides - when you let yourself go (get fat) you're sending a message to your spouse that you don't care enough about them to maintain your physical looks. That they're not important enough for you to control your eating habits and/or exercise.
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post 1510001101 06-28-2017, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Nah, I'm not blaming him. She's a scumbag for leaving him. You shouldn't leave your spouse because they've developed some sort of health issue or anything.

But let's be real tea - how many of you would stay with your wife if she was a 10/10 before marriage, then ballooned to an obese whale after marriage?

We shouldn't have double standards.
That's not the same thing. We are talking here that he stayed the same and she improved.

Let's say your husband gets a body like this in three years.



Would it be ok for him to leave you then?
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post 1510001191 06-28-2017, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Barbellasaurus⏩
Well she already ****ed her children for life from her previous unhealthy habits:

"Ms Thurlow's life at home became complicated at around the same time she hit her 60 kilogram goal weight.

Her eldest child, Amber, now seven, was diagnosed with autism. She and her then husband realised their marriage was over and their youngest child, Logan, now three, was having medical problems.

He has since being diagnosed with autism."
To be fair, I'm sure that would be extremely hard on even the best of marriages. The amount of women who do this though is sickening. It's like they were just staying with the person because they felt they couldn't get anyone better (which is a ****ty reason)

They had such low self esteem that they just took the first guy that gave them validation. When they lost weight and more guys started to notice them, they dumped their husbands who stayed by their side when they were fat asses.
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post 1510001421 06-28-2017, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Nah, I'm not blaming him. She's a scumbag for leaving him. You shouldn't leave your spouse because they've developed some sort of health issue or anything.

But let's be real tea - how many of you would stay with your wife if she was a 10/10 before marriage, then ballooned to an obese whale after marriage?

We shouldn't have double standards.
Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yea? I'm sorry about that.

It's the world we live in, unfortunately. These days kids kick their own parents to the curb when they get old and need help. Very sad.

People, in general, jump ship when the going gets hard.

But physical fitness is a different matter. Both parties should take care of themselves physically. It's not your spouse's job to manage that for you. Peopleshouldhave standards for their significant other.

Besides - when you let yourself go (get fat) you're sending a message to your spouse that you don't care enough about them to maintain your physical looks. That they're not important enough for you to control your eating habits and/or exercise.
1st, that's not what happened...so not a good comparison. It went the other way, she was fat then got thin.

And I hope people who married their wife and had kids would just instantly leave if she got fat(Or if one got "better" looking and then dumped their significant other.). Now, that being said, I would defiantly tell her( or in the case if the guy is fat) how I feel and say she needs to stopping fat so she doesn't die.

Lol...trying to make the guy the bad person some how in this....please stop.
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post 1510001941 06-28-2017, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Well usually you encourage them to lose weight but I have seen way more men stay with fat women than women staying with fat men that weren't wealthy.
Because men can really love. Women can't.







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post 1510002001 06-28-2017, 10:37 AM
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post 1510002421 06-28-2017, 10:41 AM
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Marriage is not primarily about love, or happiness or attraction or anything like that. It's about family, having and raising children. Almost no one these days seems to recognise this.
post 1510002721 06-28-2017, 10:44 AM
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Good luck finding that one-in-a-million woman to be your 'wife'.

Marriage - for men - in this day and age is practically like signing your own death sentence. It's a lose-lose deal 99.99999% of the time.


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post 1510002761 06-28-2017, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
That's not the same thing. We are talking here that he stayed the same and she improved.

Let's say your husband gets a body like this in three years.



Would it be ok for him to leave you then?
That's why I asked for husband's pic. I don't know the details other than what's in OP.

Yes, if his body stayed the same, and she changed - that is wrong. Again, she's a scumbag for leaving him once she got hotter. No doubt.

My husband can do what he wants. I have a lot more to offer than just looks - if he chooses to go with a hotter woman - that's on him. I'm not too keen on babysitting anyone. If that's his happiness, he can go. lol. Lucky for me though, my husband is much smarter than that.
Originally Posted By Clydesdale1991⏩
1st, that's not what happened...so not a good comparison. It went the other way, she was fat then got thin.

And I hope people who married their wife and had kids would just instantly leave if she got fat(Or if one got "better" looking and then dumped their significant other.). Now, that being said, I would defiantly tell her( or in the case if the guy is fat) how I feel and say she needs to stopping fat so she doesn't die.

Lol...trying to make the guy the bad person some how in this....please stop.
He's not the bad person.

If my husband got obese, I'd work with him to get back into shape. If he truly cares for me, he'll do what's necessary to keep both of us healthy and strong.

It's sad to see that people change when their bodies change. Narcissism and high ego are side affects of any body transformation. Left unchecked, it leads to stories like OP.
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post 1510003361 06-28-2017, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
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What if he became obese and stayed obese? You'd leave wouldn't you?
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post 1510004091 06-28-2017, 10:56 AM
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It's the Daily Mail

It's about a decent a paper as the National Enquirer

Gotta love miscers though...use an article it to fuel your self hatred and self pity
post 1510004231 06-28-2017, 10:57 AM
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post 1510004341 06-28-2017, 10:58 AM
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post 1510004491 06-28-2017, 10:59 AM
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No pity for the husband since he made not just one but two fundamental mistakes:
He married.
And he married a whale.
post 1510004631 06-28-2017, 11:01 AM
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she is still fat
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
It's the Daily Mail

It's about a decent a paper as the National Enquirer

Gotta love miscers though...use an article it to fuel your self hatred and self pity
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post 1510004641 06-28-2017, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
What if he became obese and stayed obese? You'd leave wouldn't you?
Me? Nah - because I have other things that are more important to me. I've been in very tough scenarios in life and don't believe in jumping ship under any circumstance unless it's extreme, like cheating, renouncing religion, physical abuse.

God forbid, if my husband developed an addiction, I'd stay and help him through it. If he lost his ability to work, I'd support both of us and the family. Etc.

.....

All I'm saying with my posts is that people should not have double standards. MOST dudes would at least think about leaving their wife if she became unattractive to him.
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post 1510005021 06-28-2017, 11:05 AM
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Hope she gains it all back, turns into a cat lady and lives in misery for the rest of her existence.
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post 1510006771 06-28-2017, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By TimDF⏩
Hope she gains it all back, turns into a cat lady and lives in misery for the rest of her existence.
Most likely a bunch of dudes are going to use her as a sex-object, then when she's lost the "glow," some balding, fat, rich dude will become her beta provider for life. It's usually how it goes.

Scumbags rarely see the error of their ways...
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Come on guys. Attraction is subjective.

Like, it depends on how attractive she is and what she thinks she can get for what she will say is attractive.

Let this be a lesson to you homos that think women don't care about looks and your quirky weirdo behavior and unusual appearance is what attracted them to you. They are just settling.
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Why is the husband cropped out of every pic? Wtf? Kinda rustled here.
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
It's not just that. The new "normal" for women who couldn't lock down a Chad and settled for a beta provider is to divorce their beta husband as soon as the last child is off to college. Then they "discover" that they are no longer in love and "need to find themselves". So it's off to Tuscany or Paris to ride the carousel.

It's that whole "Eat, Pray, Love" BS that has been glamorized by Hollyweird.
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good riddance. time for the husband to find a better wife
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Pic of husband from their wedding day, apparently.




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Whoops ,the quote about ex not getting memo on dumping someone for health reasons





This ,my ex early on dumped me cuz I had anxiety from too many antibiotics ,swore she'd never do it again ,then did it on my bday ,and like a dope I hung around for a year and a half only to have her tell me on wens she wanted to be my best friend and wife ,then go out on a date and block me on the following Friday
You can't believe anything they say
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They will stop at nothing
And then they want you to care about their feelings
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Going to upgrade for Chad just like every other woman who's ever existed.

Males are just placeholders for women until a better one that they can get comes along.
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
This ,my ex early on dumped me cuz I had anxiety from too many antibiotics ,swore she'd never do it again ,then did it on my bday ,and like a dope I hung around for a year and a half only to have her tell me on wens she wanted to be my best friend and wife ,then go out on a date and block me on the following Friday
You can't believe anything they say
It's all a way to get something
They will stop at nothing
And then they want you to care about their feelings
Holy Christ
You sound like a bitch srs

Stop doing that
I'm back, bitches!
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Just lmao at expecting loyalty from married women. They are some of the worst offenders when it comes to cheating.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
You sound like a bitch srs

Stop doing that
I know man ,not usually like me ,just wanted this girl to care Bout me ,can't change anyone ,if they are a POS that's the way it goes ,I feel sorry for the new guy ,I'm tougher than. Most
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
Because men can really love. Women can't.







Laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwddddddddd dddd

This is my biggest fear in the entire phucking world. Chit makes me wake up in a cold sweat at 3am thinking this could happen to me

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