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post 1510073701 06-28-2017, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood
You are completely right.

The misc is extremely biased, so they always assume the worst.

What if you were in a relationship, made a huge lifestyle change, and your partner didn't follow suit? We love people who share similar characteristics to us. If your partner didn't follow suit, it makes sense to leave and find someone who has a similar lifestyle.

Nope.

How do you know he was paying bills and providing for the family?
Just lol @ different lifestyle being a reason to divorce someone....brb gonna leave husband now because he doesn't share my love for music festivals and is a homebody.

My husband is a tad overweight and gives excuses for not working out but I still love the **** out of him and he is my best friend (with benefits). People who don't take "for better or worse" literally should never get married.
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post 1510074661 06-28-2017, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood
You are completely right.

The misc is extremely biased, so they always assume the worst.

What if you were in a relationship, made a huge lifestyle change, and your partner didn't follow suit? We love people who share similar characteristics to us. If your partner didn't follow suit, it makes sense to leave and find someone who has a similar lifestyle.
That's nonsense. She never loved him, she only felt accepted by him and no one else, that's not love, it wasn't him that changed it was her and with her change as soon as she felt accepted by others that was all she needed to ditch him. If a similar lifestyle is all you want out of a relationship then fine, but you gotta understand that's not what love is right? It's unconditional, and considering he did nothing wrong and didn't change from what she supposedly loved her reason for leaving is completely fukked up especially having kids with the man, she's most likely got custody of them now and that guy is now fukked paying child support and barely seeing his children while his ex-wife is on the lookout for some chad dik but you and that other ******* think she did nothing wrong? lol gtfo.
post 1510075121 06-28-2017, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood
You are completely right.

The misc is extremely biased, so they always assume the worst.

What if you were in a relationship, made a huge lifestyle change, and your partner didn't follow suit? We love people who share similar characteristics to us. If your partner didn't follow suit, it makes sense to leave and find someone who has a similar lifestyle.

Nope.

How do you know he was paying bills and providing for the family?
I know it's fun to play devil's advocate sometimes, but you know just as much as any of us. However unlike you we have the sense to know that when someone gives a vague reason for divorce, such as "I just fell out of love with him. Sorrynotsorry" then it seems shady and we can easily assume the worst for good reason.

and lol at divorcing the father of your children because "he didn't want to lose weight too" is somehow an acceptable reason.
post 1510075141 06-28-2017, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Beelze
That's nonsense. She never loved him, she only felt accepted by him and no one else, that's not love, it wasn't him that changed it was her and with her change as soon as she felt accepted by others that was all she needed to ditch him. If a similar lifestyle is all you want out of a relationship then fine, but you gotta understand that's not what love is right? It's unconditional, and considering he did nothing wrong and didn't change from what she supposedly loved her reason for leaving is completely fukked up especially having kids with the man, she's most likely got custody of them now and that guy is now fukked paying child support and barely seeing his children while his ex-wife is on the lookout for some chad dik but you and that other ******* think she did nothing wrong? lol gtfo.
Imagine how he probably begged her to stay. How many nights he cried into his pillow :'(
Too sad. I can't. Even.


Srs though :'(
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post 1510077401 06-28-2017, 09:34 PM
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Das it.
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post 1510077771 06-28-2017, 09:37 PM
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Worst part is the two autistic children. Scumbag
Originally Posted By FryDude
lol professional football players offering to fly her out?I swear males are the majority of the reason male-female dynamics are the way they are. The thirst....
Correct. The internet is largely to blame for this, any average looking girl can go there and have all the desperate dudes in their country messaging them about how they've never seen anyone as beautiful in their life.
Originally Posted By RainingBlood
What if you were in a relationship, made a huge lifestyle change, and your partner didn't follow suit? We love people who share similar characteristics to us. If your partner didn't follow suit, it makes sense to leave and find someone who has a similar lifestyle.
Let's include a bit of context here. In your 20s? Okay cool. Been married probably 10+ years and have two autistic kids? Fukk no I ain't leaving her. Some things in life matter more than if your partner lifts.
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post 1510078881 06-28-2017, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted By EoR
Wow she's deciding to be a slut way past her prime? What a keeper. Enjoy being a cum bucket, because you're just going to be an old lady fuk bros and chads laugh about.
She's probably going to get alimony and child support. Why would she need to remain in a marriage when her finances are taken care of? It's win-win for her. And you'd be sorely mistaken if you think she couldn't get another husband in a day if she wanted.
post 1510080951 06-28-2017, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166
you can't trust a woman with your feelings, they don't understand karma , they don't understand that if they make a person around them happy, that happiness spreads

they think the solution to happiness is another beta dong

this is short lived

happiness is on the inside , it's no one else's fault you are unhappy and they shouldn't be left in your wake for doing nothing but trying to make you happy


you can talk to them till you're blue in the face


they will find one flaw, we all have them , and pick at it and pick at it until it's an excuse for them to run away , when all they are doing is running from their own insecurities

they will just ignore you, bounce from dong to dong, then try and come back, with 15 more men in their phone than before , more unhappy than before , and jizz in their teeth


it doesn't even bother me anymore , i'm more appalled and disgusted by observing, it's like going to the zoo
Haha except the zoo is ever day life....

Same ****ty conversations, same ****ty jokes, same ****ty questions.. same predictable behavior.

All COPE strategies, such as the life of a wage slave.
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post 1510081111 06-28-2017, 10:13 PM
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inb4 she gets pumped and dumped by chad/jamal, then goes back to beta provider (and he accepts)
post 1510081561 06-28-2017, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah
It doesn't matter if he's fat if he's the one paying all the bills and providing for her.

On top of working to provide for his family he also has to be a fitness model?
do you honestly think a woman care about some beta provider paying her bills? good luck keeping your wife interested and in love with you only by paying the bills.
Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird
Just lol @ different lifestyle being a reason to divorce someone....brb gonna leave husband now because he doesn't share my love for music festivals and is a homebody.

My husband is a tad overweight and gives excuses for not working out but I still love the **** out of him and he is my best friend (with benefits). People who don't take "for better or worse" literally should never get married.
your husband surely keeps you interested in some way or another and you can overlook the fact hes fat . in her case, losing the fat probably made her realise she wanted a different life and a more entertaining husband to spend the rest of her life with. the way I see it is that the dude was dead inside while she was busting her ass making her life better.
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post 1510098501 06-29-2017, 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted By ZantaKlaus
Pic of husband from their wedding day, apparently.




Nothing wrong with the guy.
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No hymen no diamond
post 1510099491 06-29-2017, 03:46 AM
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never settle
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Originally Posted By Barbellasaurus
lmao who makes these?
post 1510100001 06-29-2017, 04:03 AM
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whats up with this modern-age notion of "not being in love anymore"? stupid as fuk. back in the day, husbands and wives hated each other (lol) but sucked it up, raised their kids, and got the fukin job done. so much for "til death do us part" smh
post 1510100591 06-29-2017, 04:19 AM
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Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro
Hits me right in the feels because my father married multiple times cheated, remarried then divorced, mom married twice divorced also.

Reading that makes me sympathize for the guy. I put up with my ex's bs then she cherry picks at my 1 negative flaw and leaves

Loyalty means nothing anymore
see what i mean , repped , hang in there bud , we all gota deal with this immature shallow crap , it's what the world has come to , the honest generations across the board are dead or dying , i'm one of the most honest people i know , at 51 i still have yet to meet more than i can count on one hand
post 1510100841 06-29-2017, 04:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird
Just lol @ different lifestyle being a reason to divorce someone....brb gonna leave husband now because he doesn't share my love for music festivals and is a homebody.

My husband is a tad overweight and gives excuses for not working out but I still love the **** out of him and he is my best friend (with benefits). People who don't take "for better or worse" literally should never get married.
sound like my ex of 18 years, she would have lived in a box with me , i've been trying to find that , i'd have to lower my standards and i just can't do it , guess i'm stuck

i didn't get married cuz i'm a man of my word , when and if i say those words i will mean them

marriage is not a hypocritical act , tho it is treated as such

women today don't know how to be a friend to a man , they have never approached it that way , he is just a tool

that's not how you treat people you meet in your life , regardless of gender , and to sleep with them, look them in the eye, tell them you love them , and be setting up goals behind their back?

i just don't get it, is that how you live the one life you were handed here?

that's it?

and the line of beta hoop jumpers that will feed the bitter machine is miles long


stay who you are girl, people like me and you are dying out
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i should add at this point

i would have nothing but praise for her if she lost the weight for the right reason

you do it for you, your're physical and mental health , and to make you and the people you love happy

you don't do it to use as a tool to get attention and crap on those you love , then you will never reap the rewards of the happiness it was intended for in the first place

those chads lining up to give her attention don't give two craps about her , you could insert any woman into her place and they would act the same


so she just took a positive and turned it into a negative


this is what most women do, they exist in a negative focus realm and don't even realize it
post 1510102141 06-29-2017, 04:58 AM
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its highly possible he married her when she was fat and didnt like or support the weightloss and lost attraction which caused the rift in the relationship. Some guys are into big woman. A perfect example of two people wanting different things and came to the realization it was t going to work.
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Originally Posted By wasp9166
sound like my ex of 18 years, she would have lived in a box with me , i've been trying to find that , i'd have to lower my standards and i just can't do it , guess i'm stuck

i didn't get married cuz i'm a man of my word , when and if i say those words i will mean them

marriage is not a hypocritical act , tho it is treated as such

women today don't know how to be a friend to a man , they have never approached it that way , he is just a tool

that's not how you treat people you meet in your life , regardless of gender , and to sleep with them, look them in the eye, tell them you love them , and be setting up goals behind their back?

i just don't get it, is that how you live the one life you were handed here?

that's it?

and the line of beta hoop jumpers that will feed the bitter machine is miles long


stay who you are girl, people like me and you are dying out
lmao yeah ure fukkin tuff mate

man of ya words man

dont wanna mess wif you mate
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Originally Posted By strangusernam3
lmao yeah ure fukkin tuff mate

man of ya words man

dont wanna mess wif you mate
i don't understand this, i have never been on a pirate ship , so,i'm sorry


back on track
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Originally Posted By ZantaKlaus
Pic of husband from their wedding day, apparently.



The guy actually looks a bit like Jensen Ackles (I know him from Smallville).
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https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=174317311

is this a factor? prob


i had a girl i saw every 2 weeks take out her phone and post on ******** for other men to comment on while we were out to dinner

i said really?

"oh it's perfectly fine to do that "

ummmm, it's not about how you feel about it all the time , it bothers me

"i don't want to be controlled "


sigh
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This reminds me of that poor miscer Cherrypopinski who got swerved by rubyharo. Bitch left him soon as she got depleted.

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You can spin this story a thousand ways.

Maybe she was on the lookout for a new guy and it motivated her for self-improvement.

Maybe the burden of her kids' health issues was too much so she tries to escape in YOLO sluttiness because she's not equipped with the mental tools to take the gravity of life.

Maybe her husband felt insecure because she was improving herself and he wasn't, and his lack of support fed her resentment.

Maybe they just grew apart as her lifestyle changed so drastically.

The only thing we know for sure is that fake boobs + personal trainer means attention whore, and in the end everyone would be better off if she got hit by a meteor instead.
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jesus christ she looks milfy as fuk now

good on her for leaving i say, you can't expect an 8/10 like she is to settle for your average joe but no according to the butthurt neckbeards here she should be forced her to stay in a marriage where she will be miserable
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I became pretty

I don't need you no more husband, prettty hot tbh
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It's straight up female solipsism mixed with goal-oriented (the goal being maximum validation from men at any given time) attitude.
1) She wants validation from other men.
2) Gets called out on it.
3) 'I don't want to be controlled' - as in 'dude, look at yourself. You're a six, at best, and I'm a 9, of course I'm gonna get attention from other men, yours isn't enough by a long shot'.
What did you do about it?
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Originally Posted By GimpManlet
You can spin this story a thousand ways.

Maybe she was on the lookout for a new guy and it motivated her for self-improvement.

Maybe the burden of her kids' health issues was too much so she tries to escape in YOLO sluttiness because she's not equipped with the mental tools to take the gravity of life.

Maybe her husband felt insecure because she was improving herself and he wasn't, and his lack of support fed her resentment.

Maybe they just grew apart as her lifestyle changed so drastically.

The only thing we know for sure is that fake boobs + personal trainer means attention whore, and in the end everyone would be better off if she got hit by a meteor instead.
Lol
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