OP just means that condom sex sucks.

last night i met a horse riding girl who went insane in bed. best sex ive ever had. Girls ive dated and gone slow with were more awkward.

never been in love though so cant compare to gf situations.

I love the build up. The first time we hold hand, the first kiss. The first finger in her. The first time I stick my dink in her. That makes me rock hard.

This is why you should try to develop a FWB-relationship so you can have great sex and then dash when things get serious.

Although I hate the "chase", I do love this aspect.

If you fuk anything just to fuk then ya its overrated. If you meet a girl and you have strong chemistry its great

damn. even someone optimistic would probably have trouble getting past that fact.

what a mental image.

Why do you think the average male is fast to get rid of them? Most girls I smash are down right terrible at sex, hard to find one that's actually good. Among that, it takes some time to learn what each other likes. Hence why relationship sex is always better.

Disagree OP. If it's someone you find attractive / has a great body/ and you have great chemistry with, casual sex can be one of best things on earth. Doesn't matter if you just met them. Sad part is, most men are desperate for sex, so they settle with 5s and below for sex, or put up with a lot of bull**** from 6s that it's not even worth it.


Imagine having an 8/10+, with a great ass and tight waist, ****ing her with your rock hard cock because you're so turned on by her appearance and femininity. And you're so tempted to take that condom off and jizz deep in her pussy, grabbing that ass and grabbing dat hair while you're railing her like the world is about to end.

Sadly, most men will only equate casual sex from 6/10 with makeup / push-up bra and decent ass /has a little pudge around the stomach plain jane Becky who is an accountant.

Opie you're absolutely right : Not only is casual sex very akward but the void that you feel right after you busted is the worse.

Almost feel like killing myself and question all I've accomplished so far everytime that happens.

All the sex I've had in the past year feels like sheit compare to what and my crazy ex used to have.

The void was there all along, you become more conscious of it because you expect the sex to make you feel happy and whole but it didn't. Man up little boy.

Dude this right here quoted for truth. That emptiness feeling right afterwards, though...

Even worse for me last night, when I woke up to find she had already left, lol.
Awful feeling. I hate myself and my life.

Can confirm.

I broke up with gf about two months ago and have had a few slays since. While some of them were decent, it doesn't even compare to the sex I had with my gf. It definitely makes me feel empty inside. **** I miss her brahs

I've noticed this as well. It's further evidence of how men are becoming increasingly feminine. Feminine and traditional women are attracted to masculine men. A man can't be weak, overly emotional, and in constant need of validation and be attractive to a traditional woman. When such men do get into a relationship, it's usually with a "strong" woman who takes control in the relationship. And then later these men come crying to the misc about how they've been cheated on.

This is sad how people can just dash and leave someone behind who is lonely and empty. I'm guessing she is from out of town and just wanted a thrill and then forget about it. What happens if she gets pregnant? Or an STD?

People seem to forget that these are possibilities when they smash and dash. How bizarre for a woman to just have sex and Uber away. Will she text back, or did she just tell you she's traveling and goodbye forever?

1. You feel that way because you're depressed. The only thing that ever felt empty for me after casual sex was my balls. Of course, as I stated in an earlier post, I realize that people are different and that casual sex isn't for everyone. But wanting to kill yourself? That's a sign of depression.

2. Part of the problem is that like most men, you're looking at your ex with rose-tinted glasses. This is likely a symptom or part of the cause of your depression. Probably both.

Yes in a way but I don't mind my man being emotional as long as he's not weak. Also, not quite sure what you mean by validation but I absolutely want to tell my man how proud I am for everything he does. If he is to be strong and the leader of our family, I want to make him feel supported and appreciated by telling him that because why would he do all that otherwise?

That's why I said "overly" emotional. Nothing wrong with sharing your feelings with a significant other. I've noticed that a lot of miscers come across as incredibly sensitive.

And I'm talking about being needy for validation. Key word being "needy."

Thats understandable. Generally speaking, the better the connection you have with the girl the better the sex will be. It can be difficult to establish the kind of thing immediately without really knowing the girl but it is possible.

Yea man. I guess that's why they call it "cheating." You can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't have the long term satisfaction or having a wife, family, being a good man, while at the same time, partying like an animal in Vegas, and humpnig every piece of ass you see that you wanna fukk. And it sucks, because a man (who has a career/his chit together) hits his prime in his late 20s and early to mid 30s. A guys making 150-200k a year, single, has experience, game, has kept up his fitness, has his own spot, money, status, etc. I've worked hard for a long fukking time to secure a good high paying career, and I now want to reap some of the rewards of my hard work. Part of it is yes, money to travel, working a good job, being satisfied with accomplishing something, buying yourself nice clothes, nice things, have my own pad, security, being able to help family when they need it, etc. But a BIG part of it is now being able to fuk loads of hot women. I never had my own place to bring them back to, had to pinch pennies, had no money before I graduated, girls were turned off by a guy in his late 20s with no job, etc. Now that I can finally cash in on all the sacrifice of my youth, all the broke years, staying in and studying, now that I can finally go and slay poosy and indulge in the fantasies I have been working so hard for and waiting so long for....I'm supposed to pack it in, call it a day, and getmarried to one fukking woman? You gotta be out of ya fukking mind.

Like I said, I hope I can meet the one that satisfies me on so many levels, that I just don't feel the desire to go out and find new women. I seriously do. But goddamn the rush of the hunt is so exciting. Ain't nothin like it.Cause I have a lot on my mind, and its hard to elaborate everything in just a few words. And writing on the misc helps me express myself, let out energy, and put what I feel into words. Long posts like mine or even the response above are very therapeutic for me. I try to make everything that I do somehow productive, and beneficial for me. Some people misc to laugh, fap, and kill time. Some people smoke pot to laugh their asses off and get as fukked up as possible, some people watch movies purely for entertainment, and for distraction.

I try to learn and improve my self on the misc, seek out the beneficial threads that can teach me something, or I try to contribute in some way that can give insight to a fellow miscer and help them out. I smoke pot for creativity, inspiration and try to brainstorm ideas that I can write down and try when I am sober, having been able to find them in an alternative perspective/consciousness. I try to watch educational movies, that can teach me something about history, politics, current events, science, or even when I watch very popular movies, part of the reason I watch is so I am in touch with current events, memes, jokes, etc.

I find that I can articulate ideas better in real life, especially if I have posted about them or discussed them on the misc at one point, because it forced me to think about it, put it into words and type it out, and share ideas with other guys. Not trying to sound like Mr. enlightened, like I know everything, cause I don't and I always look to learn from whoever I can. But that's the main reason I go into detail when I type responses. Plus, I learned to type from the home keys recently, the proper way they teach you in keyboarding class, and now I always look for a chance to practice my new, still developing skills. in b4 didnotread.I think I made a thread about this very idea recently, that if girls are considered sloots at one point in their, life, most people, or at least brahs engaged in locker room talk, will say she is always a sloot. I wondered if the same principle applied to men, that if they were players/manwhores in their youth, could they ever be trusted to be loyal to one woman?

I seriously hope I can, I think my desire for multiple women and living a hedonistic lifestyle is not natural or genetic, but rather, learned from TV, media, hip hop music, etc. When I was younger, my parents, the local priest, my football coach, teachers, older siblings, the fukking US president, nobody, I mean NOBODY had a higher authority as far as the final word on what is right, than gangsta rappers and criminals. Christ himself could've descended from the heavens, told me, "the key to happiness is to find a woman you love, lover her, and be faithful to her for all time" and if standing next to him, Snoop Dogg, DMX, 50 cent said "LoL fukk that, get bitches, fukk mad hoes, fukk their friends and sistas, smack that bish if she act up, cause a ****** don't give a fukkk, keeping it real ya heard".....I would've said, "welp, you heard the man." The environment I grew up around glorified the degenerate scumbag lifestyle so much, it was tattooed and imprinted into my head all the way into my early 20s when I started to learn otherwise. And while I have changed alot, when you've believed something for so long, its hard to just turn off.

I want to have this be my ideal in life, like a normal person. I want this to be my ultimate goal, my promised land:



Instead of this, which I can't seem to let go:

She's from out of town visiting with friends here for Fourth of July. She was basically looking for a thrill, because I texted her in the morning what happened. She basically said as much, said she's actually wanting to date this guy from where she came from. So she just wanted some fun with a random dude in a different city, smash and dash. Fuk man, feelsbadman.

If your profile age is correct and you're 26 I for one (and I'm female) would not expect you to get married, nor would I think your 'wild oats' days were over (esp if you didn't sow many when younger) ... 26 is still young. And as a bloke you can comfortably push the marriage and kids thing back til later (though they now advise guys no later than 39/40 for optimum sperm).

Here's why I'll stay the same:

- Relationships take effort and work
- FWB do not

ITT rep seekin *******s

better give an answer that pleases sword_ 4 reps

gg

Its weird, I would like to be married sometime soon. Yes I am 26, and I always wanted to be a young father. I want to have the energy to keep up with my kids when they are young, be a strong role model for them as they are growing up instead of a low energy old man. But to accomplish that, I gotta cut the party shortSo I gotta find a sweet spot in the middle.

And you are also right about the second thing. I did not sow wild oats, even attempt to, until I was 23. I had many different focuses in life during my adolescent years, from video games, skateboarding, bodybuilding, BJJ, etc. And when it came to the more difficult pursuits (fitness, martial arts), I was so focused and lasered in on being the very best I could be, that I would sacrifice partying, fun, dating, etc. just in the name of being "hardcore" to what I was doing. It wasn't until I was 21, 22 when I finally realized I need to start slaying sloots, my entire fun teen years are over, and it was cringy as fuk to not go out with that super cute girl from math class just because "I have to be up at 6am to do stretching to be the ultimate BJJ fighter!! HURRR!!" CRINGE. And so many girls were interested in me, but I always rejected, being too cool or just being a straight ahole for no reason. So I started my "wild oats sowing" just a few years ago. I wish I started when I was 15, then I would have a solid 10 years of hooking up with chicks and having fun, to be getting a bit tired of the ride by now. I feel like right now, I am making up for lost time.

So hopefully, I can squeeze in as much craziness and fun in these next 4 years, and then start looking to get serious when I am 30. But then, if I am making more money in my career, am at a better point in my life, I've made even MORE gains in the gym, got even more style for outfits, etc. I am theoretically going to be able to take slaying and party to an even HIGHER level and get even HOTTER sloots. Do I really want to sacrifice that? Am I going to potentially be selling myself short with the quality of wife I can marry (I don't mean a gold digging trophy wife, the quality of wife you can get working at McDonalds vs. being a Doctor making 350k is night and day, even if you are the same exact person personality wise, and not all women who marry successful men necessarily have to be soulless leeches looking to divorce and take half) ? Should I push back the married with children part of my life,just a few more years?Biggest dilemma man.

I think for the most part the sex itself isn't even the driving force it is just the hunt and validation. I don't know about everyone else but I'm completely jaded in regards to tinder type hookups. Most of my hookups on there were for the most part forgettable and honestly just isn't worth the hassle. I truly don't get the appeal of those. Even if you had good sex you still have to deal with being forced to hang out with a stranger for some extended time. When people go out drinking and hook up it at least seems natural because people get caught up in the moment.

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Both are great for different reasons

Nothing quite like that rush you get right before pulling the panties off a new sloot for the first time though

100% agree with OP.

The sex with my ex was amazing - that feel when connecting on all levels. I'd bust a nut and she'd orgasm at the same time and it was fukn amazing.
Sweat dripping everywhere, holding each other close, the kissing, etc.
It was wild, rough, passionate... Everything all in one.
Did it everyday at least once.
Fukc, typing this post makes me miss her.

Dat feel when 9/10, cute/caring/protective personality... Gone.

Sucks when chit happens that neither one can help.

never been a fan of sweaty sex

brb sweat dripping off my head onto the girls face and then feeling slightly awkward about it and wiping my face on the sheets

Cope