Thread: Did I screw my best friend over?
07-11-2017, 10:17 AM
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Cannot logically think of how to cliff this - so I'll just write it out.
My best friend started dating this girl like 3 or 4 years ago. The girl was one of my friends I went to high school with roughly 9 years ago.
They break up around a year ago - and he starts banging his ex-ex-gf frequently. and then starts rekinding things with the most recent ex-gf.
He had been sleeping with these two girls frequently over the last year and lying to both of them saying that he's not seeing anyone else. So he's effectively leading both girls on as both of them still have very strong feelings for my best friend.
I have witnessed countless fights between all of them in the last year, and, countless times he's lied about all of it.
So now it gets good - yesterday, one of the girls comes over to my house. She is visibly in distress (crying etc). She is asking me if I knew where my best friend was, I told her that I didn't (mind you I knew he was out bowling with the other girl). And she then asked me if my best friend had been hanging out with the other girl, I said "yes, he does". and then she asked if the other girl ever stays over, and I told her that yes she had in fact.
This girl is a friend of mine, and I'm not going to lie. I care about her not getting lead on just as much as anyone else.
Did I goof? My best friend already asked me about all this and I didn't hide anything from him. He was pissed, but I think it's a disgusting thing he's doing by lying to both of them.
what would you have done?
My best friend started dating this girl like 3 or 4 years ago. The girl was one of my friends I went to high school with roughly 9 years ago.
They break up around a year ago - and he starts banging his ex-ex-gf frequently. and then starts rekinding things with the most recent ex-gf.
He had been sleeping with these two girls frequently over the last year and lying to both of them saying that he's not seeing anyone else. So he's effectively leading both girls on as both of them still have very strong feelings for my best friend.
I have witnessed countless fights between all of them in the last year, and, countless times he's lied about all of it.
So now it gets good - yesterday, one of the girls comes over to my house. She is visibly in distress (crying etc). She is asking me if I knew where my best friend was, I told her that I didn't (mind you I knew he was out bowling with the other girl). And she then asked me if my best friend had been hanging out with the other girl, I said "yes, he does". and then she asked if the other girl ever stays over, and I told her that yes she had in fact.
This girl is a friend of mine, and I'm not going to lie. I care about her not getting lead on just as much as anyone else.
Did I goof? My best friend already asked me about all this and I didn't hide anything from him. He was pissed, but I think it's a disgusting thing he's doing by lying to both of them.
what would you have done?
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07-11-2017, 10:19 AM
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07-11-2017, 10:21 AM
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I would have said, "You need to talk to him about this. I can't get involved"
She would have got the point and you wouldn't have broken bro-code so flagrantly
She would have got the point and you wouldn't have broken bro-code so flagrantly
07-11-2017, 10:22 AM
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who were you friends with first?
Regardless tho, it's still not really your business, and you should have just said "IDK, you should take it up with him". That's what a good bro does. Plausible deniability.
If one of those girls does something terrible to him now because of it, that's now also going to be on you, not solely him. You played yourself.
EDIT: posting cliffs here so any newcomers can get the full scoop without reading thru thread
so she's a close, longtime friend
but you hate her
but you lied to her
but you don't wanna lie to her
and you screwed your best friend in her favor
who actually isn't your best friend
just some dude you play sports with
who you threw under the bus for a girl you have "never gotten along" with
Regardless tho, it's still not really your business, and you should have just said "IDK, you should take it up with him". That's what a good bro does. Plausible deniability.
If one of those girls does something terrible to him now because of it, that's now also going to be on you, not solely him. You played yourself.
EDIT: posting cliffs here so any newcomers can get the full scoop without reading thru thread
so she's a close, longtime friend
but you hate her
but you lied to her
but you don't wanna lie to her
and you screwed your best friend in her favor
who actually isn't your best friend
just some dude you play sports with
who you threw under the bus for a girl you have "never gotten along" with
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07-11-2017, 10:24 AM
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Strong "friend" you are. I can understand it if she is a better friend than he is.
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lol a simple "I don't know" and non-interference couldn't work with you, huh?
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Weird move to lie about where your buddy was but then tell her the truth about the other girl staying over.
Makes your whole stance on "she's my friend, I wouldn't lie to her" seem like total bullchit.
Makes your whole stance on "she's my friend, I wouldn't lie to her" seem like total bullchit.
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Wow you're a fukcing *******.
Just say i don't know what he does. I'm not with him all the time. I dont keep track of his business.
Do you want to get with her? Sounds like you do. Trying to play the "man she deserves". Now you and your "friend" are gonna fight over her and she'll want neither of your bitch asses. Get fukced idiot.
Just say i don't know what he does. I'm not with him all the time. I dont keep track of his business.
Do you want to get with her? Sounds like you do. Trying to play the "man she deserves". Now you and your "friend" are gonna fight over her and she'll want neither of your bitch asses. Get fukced idiot.
07-11-2017, 10:26 AM
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It depends if you told your friend beforehand that you think it's fukked up, since you were also friends with the girl. And told him if questioned by her you would tell the truth. If that was not made clear than I would never rat out a friend. I'd just play dumb and immediately tell him about what the girl asked me.
07-11-2017, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By plumedollar1⏩
lmaoooo thislol a simple "I don't know" and non-interference couldn't work with you, huh?
deep down, OP is most likely jelly without realizing and is justifying this because "she is also muhhh muhh friend"
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welp, hope that girl is willing to be better friends than ex homie was!
07-11-2017, 10:28 AM
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lol at being friend zoned
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07-11-2017, 10:28 AM
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lol, op acting like a saint. what happened to bros first?
you're telling me your 100% honest all the time and never tell lies? if not, then why not tell a lie for your friends benefit?
you're telling me your 100% honest all the time and never tell lies? if not, then why not tell a lie for your friends benefit?
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Originally Posted By atgbrahsrs⏩
I'm actually raging now. OP if you're trolling good job because you got me. Such a two faced *******. Can't believe you call him your "best friend" after that bullshiet. You don't know what that word means. Just jealous the guy was double dipping while you're stroking your cock beating off to his fukcing.lmaoooo this
deep down, OP is most likely jelly without realizing and is justifying this because "she is also muhhh muhh friend"
deep down, OP is most likely jelly without realizing and is justifying this because "she is also muhhh muhh friend"
Don't take the moral high ground pussy. "His lying is disgusting". You're such a *******. They're all adults. She knows what's going on. She likes being treated like shiet otherwise she would have left. She's not being seriously hurt. You're not her older brother or father. Just tell her if she isnt happy then leave him and leave it at that.
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Lol such a btch move man. Op is jelly cause he not smashing and playing both girls, either way it wasn't your business to tell her any of that. I've had girls ask me if my boy is messing with other girls, I've told them all "ask him that's between you two" I don't like to lie so I avoid it by taking myself out of it lol. Truly sad.
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OP tried to play the "shoulder to cry on" card to get in them jimmies.
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Originally Posted By Scrizzle⏩
30K suits you well brahI'm actually raging now. OP if you're trolling good job because you got me. Such a two faced *******. Can't believe you call him your "best friend" after that bullshiet. You don't know what that word means. Just jealous the guy was double dipping while you're stroking your cock beating off to his fukcing.
Don't take the moral high ground pussy. "His lying is disgusting". You're such a *******. They're all adults. She knows what's going on. She likes being treated like shiet otherwise she would have left. She's not being seriously hurt. You're not her older brother or father. Just tell her if she isnt happy then leave him and leave it at that.
Don't take the moral high ground pussy. "His lying is disgusting". You're such a *******. They're all adults. She knows what's going on. She likes being treated like shiet otherwise she would have left. She's not being seriously hurt. You're not her older brother or father. Just tell her if she isnt happy then leave him and leave it at that.
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would not be friends with you/10
....you threw him under the bus, would deny till I die for a close friend, and if friends with both probably like another miscer said suggest they take it up with the person in question i.e. you're on to something but I'm not getting involved
....you threw him under the bus, would deny till I die for a close friend, and if friends with both probably like another miscer said suggest they take it up with the person in question i.e. you're on to something but I'm not getting involved
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Tell your friend that you always have his back, but you arent a liar.
You stayed out of his business as long as you could, but when it comes in your home and confronts you, you arent a liar.
If he cant get that, he can suck a dik.
Or you can do as said above ^^^
Tell them its not your business because thats essentially telling the truth.
You stayed out of his business as long as you could, but when it comes in your home and confronts you, you arent a liar.
If he cant get that, he can suck a dik.
Or you can do as said above ^^^
Tell them its not your business because thats essentially telling the truth.
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Originally Posted By Aesthetical⏩
Essentially this was my thought process. This chick came into my home, asked me a straight up question, and I didn't want to lie. I didn't go into any details, just one word answers and then I had her out the door.Tell your friend that you always have his back, but you arent a liar.
You stayed out of his business as long as you could, but when it comes in your home and confronts you, you arent a liar.
If he cant get that, he can suck a dik.
Or you can do as said above ^^^
Tell them its not your business because thats essentially telling the truth.
You stayed out of his business as long as you could, but when it comes in your home and confronts you, you arent a liar.
If he cant get that, he can suck a dik.
Or you can do as said above ^^^
Tell them its not your business because thats essentially telling the truth.
edit: misc I could care less if none of y'all wanted to be my friend. Doubt we'd make good friends anyways if you're the ones leading multiple chicks on. Not saying smashing more than one chick at a time is bad, but, if you're lying to their face about anything then that kinda makes you a P.O.S. We console enough FA's on here about getting lead on and getting played and we ALWAYS call sloots sloots, shouldn't that apply back to you?
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Stop calling him your best friend. If he was your best friend, you wouldn't have fukced him over.
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Originally Posted By FriendOfFrank⏩
^THIS. You could have avoided lying and not screwed over your "best friend" if you weren't such a colossal *******.I would have said, "You need to talk to him about this. I can't get involved"
She would have got the point and you wouldn't have broken bro-code so flagrantly
She would have got the point and you wouldn't have broken bro-code so flagrantly
LOL, say you don't want to lie to her, but you lied about where he was.
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bad friend
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u prolly wanted sugarwalls and didnt get them and now feel like sht but woulda been fine bein in the second hand sugarwalz
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I would go as far as to lie about my boy being dead, before I ratted him out to a chick. I guess this chick was also your friend, but unless she was very close to the level this guy was, I would have said that that stuff is between her and him.
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