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post 1511535471 07-12-2017, 07:00 AM
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Yeah I let her do what she wants and draw conclusions about how she acts, how she sets boundaries, etc...

I'm not going to tell her who she can hang out with or what she can do with her friends, I just pay attention and if I start noticing behaviour disrespectful to our relationship I will simply not continue the relationship. I assume she does the same to me.
post 1511535541 07-12-2017, 07:00 AM
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Men and women shouldn't be friends. Not close friends at least.
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post 1511535671 07-12-2017, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Aesthetical⏩
lol no

My wife does not have any guy friends and will not have any guy friends. No talking to any guys at all unless shes at work as has to at the office.

On the flip side, it works the same for me. No female friends and no talking to females.

Makes life easier.

As a former single guy who had fun in his 20s, theres only one reason for a guy to be friends with a girl and that is to nail her. Why would I want a single guy to be friends with my wife when I know the intentions. Only a cuck would allow that.
If your girl went for this, then she's a phuckin keeper and I can see why you wifed her. Yes, this really is the best arrangement, but unfortunately, only traditionalists can pull it off these days. Most sloots will get all pissy about it.
post 1511536721 07-12-2017, 07:17 AM
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We don't have any opposite sex friends unless it is another couple.
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post 1511536851 07-12-2017, 07:18 AM
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Yah but it depends. Here's my guidelines:

No new male friends allowed unless they're the boyfriend of a new female friend.

Male friends that she met before we started dating are cool as long as there is no history between them.

Any male friend that makes any kind of pass or flirts, regardless of time known, has to go.

If you're dating a sloot that says "I mainly have male friends", I got some bad news for you.
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post 1511537121 07-12-2017, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
Yah but it depends. Here's my guidelines:

No new male friends allowed unless they're the boyfriend of a new female friend.

Male friends that she met before we started dating are cool as long as there is no history between them.

Any male friend that makes any kind of pass or flirts, regardless of time known, has to go.

If you're dating a sloot that says "I mainly have male friends", I got some bad news for you.
Notentirelytrue. I used to have a lot of male friends. Dropped all of them when my bf finally convinced me srs

Some girls just don't understand that it's the right thing to do until more time goes by.

Just the last part, I agree with pretty much everything else you said
post 1511537481 07-12-2017, 07:25 AM
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my male friends are her male friends.
post 1511537611 07-12-2017, 07:26 AM
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nope.

I keep her locked, tight and comfortable in my basement.
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post 1511537641 07-12-2017, 07:27 AM
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My gf has a couple of guy friends but they're in relationships themselves and are beta as fukk. I'm not worried about them at all.

If my gf started hanging around with a chad I'd certainly be asking questions.

A guy who genuinely wants to be friends with a girl is beta as fukk and you have nothing to worry about. The only girls that I'm friends with because of old times sake are annoying as fukk and I avoid like the plague. Lol at being a grown man and having female friends. If he's not that kind of dude then he's obviously trying to bang and I would obviously tell her to stop seeing him. If she didn't it would end.

Ultimately I'm not that bothered if my gf were to cheat. If she did I would just erase her from my life and get another gf/carry on with life. No biggy.
post 1511537651 07-12-2017, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By numb3rrs⏩
Notentirelytrue. I used to have a lot of male friends. Dropped all of them when my bf finally convinced me srs

Some girls just don't understand that it's the right thing to do until more time goes by.

Just the last part, I agree with pretty much everything else you said
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post 1511537751 07-12-2017, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
Hold the fuking phone...You're a girl?

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post 1511538091 07-12-2017, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By numb3rrs⏩
Notentirelytrue. I used to have a lot of male friends. Dropped all of them when my bf finally convinced me srs

Some girls just don't understand that it's the right thing to do until more time goes by.

Just the last part, I agree with pretty much everything else you said
A girl having many male friends is a serious red flag.

I see your rep power is growing. How did miscers found out you're a female?
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post 1511538251 07-12-2017, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
A girl having many male friends is a serious red flag.

I see your rep power is growing. How did miscers found out you're a female?
none I don't think. This one cool person with a lot of reps repped me because I said something funny that didn't give my gender away.

So that's why it went up so much so quick lolz
post 1511538431 07-12-2017, 07:35 AM
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Sure. Most of the girls I've dated didn't really have guy friends anyway. Only time I got burned was when one girl claimed she was talking to a friend when in reality it was an ex who was white knighting the **** out of her. She was setting up her back-up plan because she knew I was moving out of the area to bigger and better things. I was considering asking her to go with me. Thank god I didn't.
post 1511538611 07-12-2017, 07:37 AM
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Yes but they have to fill out an application form first
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post 1511538661 07-12-2017, 07:38 AM
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Of course

Who else is she supposed to dump her emotional garbage on to? I like to use beta orbiters to my advantage
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post 1511538801 07-12-2017, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Flognutz⏩
The question is why does your girl need male friends if she has a man?

Male acquaintances sure....male friends who she insists on hanging out with........tell her to pack her bags. Infact this was one of the reasons why my ex got told to pack her bags and move along.......relationships don't work when there are male orbiters hanging around....it's also blatant disrespect for a girl to hangout with other men while in a relationship.....that chit is 100% not on.

Some of you guys who approve need to stop drinking from plastic bottles or get some estrogen blockers cause you have clearly lost your balls.
This guy gets it. A lot of beta cucks ITT

There's something odd with a girl that would actually want guy friends. Same with guys
post 1511539001 07-12-2017, 07:42 AM
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The only way it would bother me is if she was hanging out with them or texting them constantly. I understand messaging with an old friend to catch up or something like that, but if my gf were to be texting a guy or guys all day every day then I'd be bothered. She wouldn't even be my gf if she did that.

I have no problem with her having guy friends in person though like at school or her work.
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post 1511539211 07-12-2017, 07:44 AM
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post 1511539361 07-12-2017, 07:45 AM
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Married but we have always had the same mind set that neither of us hang out with the opposite sex alone. Think about it, every guy is going to try to steal your woman without fail. Throw alcohol in the mix and its a recipe for disaster.
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She has guy friends on Snapchat, intramurals, work, etc. but hasn't hung out with any of them since we've been dating unless I was there. Then again, we've spent the vast majority of our free time together since we met. Doesn't bother me that she has these guy friends bc most of them are married and/or not aesthetic.

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post 1511540021 07-12-2017, 07:52 AM
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no idea lol, my gf has male friends who has gfs, otherwise she just tells other dudes to FK off
post 1511540201 07-12-2017, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By xx45xx⏩
my male friends are her male friends.
This.. over the years we weeded out all her old male friends because they wanted to fuc her. Now the only guy friends she has were my buds originally... they too want to fuk her
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Ya.... old friends, my friends, her friends boyfriends. I dont worry about it honestly. I did in the beginning of relationship. But once you are with a girl for a while you can feel her out and see if shes slooty or not. Bunch of the girls actually went to a male strip club after a bachelorette party the other night and my girlfriend just went home cause she didnt feel like spending money on cawk. Was proud


Also a point you hit where you are just like "meh, if she leaves she leaves" LTR bros will understand...
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
Ya.... old friends, my friends, her friends boyfriends. I dont worry about it honestly. I did in the beginning of relationship. But once you are with a girl for a while you can feel her out and see if shes slooty or not. Bunch of the girls actually went to a male strip club after a bachelorette party the other night and my girlfriend just went home cause she didnt feel like spending money on cawk. Was proud


Also a point you hit where you are just like "meh, if she leaves she leaves" LTR bros will understand...
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Yea I don't care lol.

My only "Rule" is that if there's a past as in they were together/hooked up at some point they shouldn't be conversing on the reg or hanging out.

My girl/I did it perfectly before we met each other... dated other people and whatnot, and went it went south, cut the chord and walk away completely. I literally don't have to deal with ANYONE from her past and she doesn't have to deal with anyone from mine. And when something does surface from our past we have a deal that we "handle it" and make it stop without having to tell each other, I trust her 100%.
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Men and women can not have platonic relationships. Your girlfriend may find it completely platonic but the male in the friendship is more than likely sexually attracted to her. There was a study on this.
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Originally Posted By TimDF⏩
We don't have any opposite sex friends unless it is another couple.
This^

All the couples are originally my friends so I trust them.

She has one friend who is now single after being in a long ass relationship with a beta cuck.
The single friend keeps asking her to go out for drinks with her but my wife always finds an excuse.

We dont do the drinking and driving thing, and Im not driving 25 minutes to drop her off so she can go out drinking with a single friend and then not come home.
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