Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum » Females are truly different creatures
  1. Results 1 to 29 of 29
  2. Page 1 of 1

Thread: Females are truly different creatures

post 1513885011 07-30-2017, 12:44 AM
-
#1
  1. AhDo
  2. Registered User
  1. AhDo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2011
  4. Posts: 15,422
  5. Rep Power: 873

Females are truly different creatures

How can it be possible to relate to and understand people who have everything they want in their sex and relationship life?

From my viewpoint, girls enjoy being hit on and girls are attracted to people who are nice to them (because I would be interested in any girl who is nice to me).

This is coming from the frame where no girls are interested in me.

It is almost impossible to understand what it is like to be able to have so much abundance.

I can't predict how it would feel or what would attract a girl if she has all that abundance.

So I will be beta around females because I can't act in the right way around them to attract them, because I can't understand them.
( ͡ಠ ͜ʖ ͡ಠ) That's life son ( ͡ ͜ʖ ͡)
post 1513885331 07-30-2017, 12:48 AM
-
#2
  1. epidox01
  2. rooftop korean
  1. epidox01
  2. rooftop korean
  3. Join Date: Jun 2017
  4. Posts: 1,830
  5. Rep Power: 4310
Originally Posted By AhDo⏩
From my viewpoint, girls enjoy being hit on and girls are attracted to people who are nice to them (because I would be interested in any girl who is nice to me)\
no duh sherlock
people like people who make them feel good. and hitting on and being nice to someone is an act of validation and approval.
it's not rocket science; you don't need to write a fukking thesis on your new-found revelation.
post 1513885421 07-30-2017, 12:50 AM
-
#3
  1. Land_Down_Under
  2. Huntin a bit of meat
  1. Land_Down_Under
  2. Huntin a bit of meat
  3. Join Date: Sep 2009
  4. Location: Victoria, Australia
  5. Posts: 18,853
  6. Rep Power: 104299
men are from mars, women are from uranus. u expect to understand them op?
'Id rather die on my feet, than live on my knees' - Emiliano Zapata

-: COUNTRYMIKE Appreciation Crew :-

'I Will Walk Through The Valley Of The Shadow Of Death, I Will Fear No Evil Because I'm The Baddest Motherfuker In The God Damn Valley'

Fukn Brozart
post 1513885531 07-30-2017, 12:52 AM
-
#4
  1. CodyZellery
  2. Almost Chad
  1. CodyZellery
  2. Almost Chad
  3. Join Date: Jul 2015
  4. Age: 33
  5. Posts: 12,737
  6. Rep Power: 70131
Why don't you go to ******* or a site like that OP? There you will find more brahs like you.
5'10 176lbs
No hymen no diamond
post 1513885631 07-30-2017, 12:53 AM
-
#5
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
That is almost perfect in its victimhood

People like people who like them
Nobody likes me
I shall LDAR

Learn social skills
post 1513885731 07-30-2017, 12:55 AM
-
#6
  1. BostonRockets
  2. Flâneur
  1. BostonRockets
  2. Flâneur
  3. Join Date: Aug 2012
  4. Posts: 16,681
  5. Rep Power: 31297
Women will also never be able to relate with man on how much burden is added on their lives to attract the opposite sex.

Think of how much time men spend working or trying to build wealth to be attractive in the female eye. We're talking YEARS not minutes or hours here.
Death is impossible for us to fathom: it is so immense, so frightening, that we will do almost anything to avoid thinking about it. Society is organized to make death invisible, to keep it several steps removed. That distance may seem necessary for our comfort, but it comes with a terrible price: the illusion of limitless time, and a consequent lack of seriousness about daily life. We are running away from the one reality that faces us all.
post 1513885861 07-30-2017, 12:58 AM
-
#7
  1. hoganrulz
  2. mreatassbtchslapr
  1. hoganrulz
  2. mreatassbtchslapr
  3. Join Date: Feb 2007
  4. Posts: 47,761
  5. Rep Power: 284006
theyre from venus mayne, we're from mars. i like them squishy. wat.
Formerly HandBrah, LipBrah & FootBrah
they call me Don Taters
NYM
<3 Miami Dolphins
WE GONNA WIN THE FUKING SUPERBOWL SOON BAYBEH
Hala Madrid
££££££sports betting crew££££££
This is all OJ's fault
Ass cheeks are the titties of the ass
First I romance the pie maker, then I romance the pie
post 1513886261 07-30-2017, 01:07 AM
-
#8
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  3. Join Date: Jan 2016
  4. Age: 37
  5. Posts: 4,061
  6. Rep Power: 2561
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
That is almost perfect in its victimhood

People like people who like them
Nobody likes me
I shall LDAR

Learn social skills
and as you can see here, their lack of empathy is disgusting.
post 1513886961 07-30-2017, 01:21 AM
-
#9
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
and as you can see here, their lack of empathy is disgusting.
Oh the power of having a quick forum post represent 3.2 billion people
post 1513887211 07-30-2017, 01:25 AM
-
#10
  1. BeastModeFTW
  2. Registered User
  1. BeastModeFTW
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2013
  4. Posts: 21,454
  5. Rep Power: 2931
this is how you attract girls:

post 1513887221 07-30-2017, 01:25 AM
-
#11
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2008
  4. Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 31,261
  6. Rep Power: 40507
A woman's true challenge is getting a man they want to hang around. A difficult feat since the men they want are usually desired by other women. And even more paradoxical since theyonlywant men who are desired by other women. Hence the reason so many of them are single.
post 1513887401 07-30-2017, 01:28 AM
-
#12
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  3. Join Date: Jan 2016
  4. Age: 37
  5. Posts: 4,061
  6. Rep Power: 2561
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Oh the power of having a quick forum post represent 3.2 billion people
we see it all the time you stupid ****, women refuse to even so much as concede how much better they have it in dating
post 1513887641 07-30-2017, 01:33 AM
-
#13
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
we see it all the time you stupid ****, women refuse to even so much as concede how much better they have it in dating
If I conceded that it is easier to be the hunted than the hunter would that make you happy?

Women are the selectors...never said they weren't ...

It's easier when you're looking at the concept of first contact and/or sex because men go after physical generally. But pretty much matched in difficulty if looking for a worthwhile relationship
post 1513887701 07-30-2017, 01:36 AM
-
#14
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2008
  4. Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 31,261
  6. Rep Power: 40507
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
If I conceded that it is easier to be the hunted than the hunter would that make you happy?

Women are the selectors...never said they weren't ...

It's easier when you're looking at the concept of first contact and/or sex because men go after physical generally. But pretty much matched in difficulty if looking for a worthwhile relationship
Making a man hang around with whom they want to be with is where it really becomes difficult. Social media and Tinder has made things significantly worse because women interpret men giving them attention and sexually charged comments as a confirmation that they are SIGNIFICANTLY better than they actually are. Slippery slope.

The social media and Tinder high is a very dangerous thing for women.
post 1513887911 07-30-2017, 01:40 AM
-
#15
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  3. Join Date: Jan 2016
  4. Age: 37
  5. Posts: 4,061
  6. Rep Power: 2561
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
If I conceded that it is easier to be the hunted than the hunter would that make you happy?

Women are the selectors...never said they weren't ...

It's easier when you're looking at the concept of first contact and/or sex because men go after physical generally. But pretty much matched in difficulty if looking for a worthwhile relationship
yeah.. i'm not dumb enough to engage in this argument with you sweetheart. look at you already trying to include your buts and rationalise it away.
post 1513887961 07-30-2017, 01:41 AM
-
#16
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Making a man hang around with whom they want to be with is where it really becomes difficult. Social media and Tinder has made things significantly worse because women interpret men giving them attention and sexually charged comments as a confirmation that they are SIGNIFICANTLY better than they actually are. Slippery slope.

The social media and Tinder high is a very dangerous thing for women.
Agree completely ...social media and instant connection is a very dangerous thing for society as a whole.

It's fracturing the western world into much more distinct stratas than the social classes but there seems to be a rise of rejection of vacuousness in some circles so there's hope
post 1513888011 07-30-2017, 01:43 AM
-
#17
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
yeah.. i'm not dumb enough to engage in this argument with you sweetheart. look at you already trying to include your buts and rationalise it away.
Sweetheart
Honeybunch
Don't underestimate yourself
post 1513888121 07-30-2017, 01:45 AM
-
#18
  1. AhDo
  2. Registered User
  1. AhDo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2011
  4. Posts: 15,422
  5. Rep Power: 873
Originally Posted By BostonRockets⏩
Women will also never be able to relate with man on how much burden is added on their lives to attract the opposite sex.

Think of how much time men spend working or trying to build wealth to be attractive in the female eye. We're talking YEARS not minutes or hours here.
that's why women are overachieving men in education. They don't have to spend time and effort finding parties or satisfying their sexual and intimacy needs.
( ͡ಠ ͜ʖ ͡ಠ) That's life son ( ͡ ͜ʖ ͡)
post 1513888891 07-30-2017, 02:04 AM
-
#19
  1. Nicklol
  2. Bodybalder
  1. Nicklol
  2. Bodybalder
  3. Join Date: Jul 2010
  4. Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
  5. Posts: 59,702
  6. Rep Power: 147685
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
we see it all the time you stupid ****, women refuse to even so much as concede how much better they have it in dating
this
Doordasher crew (SRS)
Bidet Crew
Nissan Versa 2023 crew
Bald crew
post 1513889061 07-30-2017, 02:08 AM
-
#20
  1. imperialmisc
  2. ICU mirin'
  1. imperialmisc
  2. ICU mirin'
  3. Join Date: Dec 2014
  4. Age: 33
  5. Posts: 2,850
  6. Rep Power: 5798
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
That is almost perfect in its victimhood

People like people who like them
Nobody likes me
I shall LDAR

Learn social skills
I Srs don't understand why you post. None of your posts I've seen are helpful and you're condescending/demeaning, why? Do you get off on the attention? You realize this is a male-dominated forum, if you aren't going to be helpful then pls go. You don't even have any glow to make this thread worthwhile. And yes negged
IG: humpsfofree
post 1513889421 07-30-2017, 02:15 AM
-
#21
  1. wincel
  2. Banned
  1. wincel
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2016
  4. Location: Chad
  5. Posts: 64,937
  6. Rep Power: 0
Girls basically aren't even people bro. They don't feel the same way. They are shallow creatures. Their ambitions are shallow, their needs are shallow, their lives are shallow. There is nothing going on up there. Most of them will never know real pain and suffering nor will they ever comprehend true joy or love. They are generally physically and mentally weak succubi, soulless and heartless, ever searching for the next Chad or beta upon whom to feed.

post 1513889621 07-30-2017, 02:18 AM
-
#22
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By imperialmisc⏩
I Srs don't understand why you post. None of your posts I've seen are helpful and you're condescending/demeaning, why? Do you get off on the attention? You realize this is a male-dominated forum, if you aren't going to be helpful then pls go. You don't even have any glow to make this thread worthwhile. And yes negged
Oh dear, now I'm hurt to the core
post 1513890211 07-30-2017, 02:27 AM
-
#23
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  1. RC2008
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2008
  4. Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 31,261
  6. Rep Power: 40507
Originally Posted By AhDo⏩
that's why women are overachieving men in education. They don't have to spend time and effort finding parties or satisfying their sexual and intimacy needs.
Definitely a lot of truth to this...
post 1513891351 07-30-2017, 02:48 AM
-
#24
  1. Maatkarah
  2. Why so serious?
  1. Maatkarah
  2. Why so serious?
  3. Join Date: Feb 2016
  4. Location: Herts. UK, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 3,032
  6. Rep Power: 10074
Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
And even more paradoxical since theyonlywant men who are desired by other women.
Saw a post from a guy on here saying men want attractive gf's that they're proud to have on their arm and that other men want/envy them for .. do you reckon he's not representative?

(Cause obv., if he is, both sexes want people other people want.
In fact simply by being attractive enough to attract you, since looks are v important to most men, she would be wanted by other men too, wouldn't she).



Edit: should add I'm referring to dating/relationships here; obv with just sex some men would get with women they may not think are desirable, just for the sex.
Originally Posted By AhDo⏩
How can it be possible to relate to and understand people who have everything they want in their sex and relationship life?

From my viewpoint, girls enjoy being hit on and girls are attracted to people who are nice to them (because I would be interested in any girl who is nice to me).

This is coming from the frame where no girls are interested in me.

It is almost impossible to understand what it is like to be able to have so much abundance.

I can't predict how it would feel or what would attract a girl if she has all that abundance.

So I will be beta around females because I can't act in the right way around them to attract them, because I can't understand them.
Due to own personal situation, OP speaks as though all girls have abundance and no men do; whereas in fact;

> some guys have abundance
> others "do all right" (as one attractive manlet told me once), and
> a portion have a v hard time.**

Likewise some girls have abundance, some median, and some are considered low desirability and have few opportunities.

Note: am talking about dating here; not no-strings sex. If a woman will free-prostitute herself for no strings sex, of course she will have abundance, but it's not real abundance; it's pump and dump on repeat and it's not what the vast majority of women want or are made happy by.

** Real question is what can OP and other guys do to improve their situation. Most people are not conventionally ugly (and sometimes even conventionally ugly people do all right) .. most fall in the middle range looks-wise, so it's down to attitude, understanding of social dynamics, being well-adjusted, personality etc.
Simple minds need simple answers.
post 1513891631 07-30-2017, 02:53 AM
-
#25
  1. mcity23
  2. Banned
  1. mcity23
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Dec 2016
  4. Age: 33
  5. Posts: 251
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
and as you can see here, their lack of empathy is disgusting.
Couldn't agree more. There are some exceptions. I don't consider myself misogynistic at all, but virtually every girl I've come across has gone on about how they're too nice and could never hurt anyone... get to know them better and realise they are the most manipulative people you've ever met. I'm not saying all girls are like that.

But it's pretty obvious whether unconsciously or by design, many women are super hypocritical. They'll be like "guys are such dicks" when Chad doesn't reciprocate their advances. Meanwhile they're scrolling through tinder and going "ew ugly, ugly, what's wrong with your head, indian, asian, manlet, etc." Same goes for all the other guys hitting on them irl who they reject
post 1513891881 07-30-2017, 02:57 AM
-
#26
  1. mcity23
  2. Banned
  1. mcity23
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Dec 2016
  4. Age: 33
  5. Posts: 251
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Sweetheart
Honeybunch
Don't underestimate yourself
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Oh dear, now I'm hurt to the core
I'm not trying to start an argument with you. But you do realise your sarcastic and condascending tone can really push some guys over the edge yeah? There are so many guys who are legit struggling with depression and their confidence about looks, money, etc. and can't get a girl.

Baiting them with ****posts like this may be the tipping point for someone to kill themselves or go on a rampage. I don't understand what you're trying to achieve with this air of superiority? There's just no need for this ****.
post 1513892321 07-30-2017, 03:06 AM
-
#27
  1. Maatkarah
  2. Why so serious?
  1. Maatkarah
  2. Why so serious?
  3. Join Date: Feb 2016
  4. Location: Herts. UK, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 3,032
  6. Rep Power: 10074
Originally Posted By mcity23⏩
I'm not trying to start an argument with you. But you do realise your sarcastic and condascending tone can really push some guys over the edge yeah? There are so many guys who are legit struggling with depression and their confidence about looks, money, etc. and can't get a girl.

Baiting them with ****posts like this may be the tipping point for someone to kill themselves or go on a rampage. I don't understand what you're trying to achieve with this air of superiority? There's just no need for this ****.
She's responding to his neg and insults - not to the OP's situation.
She does try to help people on here; I've seen it in plenty of posts.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Learn social skills
This was her answer and she's correct in my book.
Long-term posters on here are just way more blunt and harsh due to the repetitive nature of these posters/posts. Fu$l is the same (harsher in fact) and he's a guy. Is he also a bish with no empathy?

The problem with this answer (essentially the same as mine) is that it's not an easy fix.
Simple minds need simple answers.
post 1513892411 07-30-2017, 03:08 AM
-
#28
  1. Rexcalibr
  2. Handsome Rex
  1. Rexcalibr
  2. Handsome Rex
  3. Join Date: Mar 2014
  4. Location: Ontario, Canada
  5. Posts: 12,314
  6. Rep Power: 17506
For fuks sake, women have just as many issues as guys. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and see people as people.
-best poster of 2017 (haters are jealous as fuk lol ya'll can't see me i stay crispy)
post 1513893541 07-30-2017, 03:35 AM
-
#29
  1. Vawx
  2. Registered User
  1. Vawx
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2010
  4. Posts: 6,863
  5. Rep Power: 5969
Originally Posted By AhDo⏩
It is almost impossible to understand what it is like to be able to have so much abundance.

I can't predict how it would feel or what would attract a girl if she has all that abundance.

So I will be beta around females because I can't act in the right way around them to attract them, because I can't understand them.
This is why you treat them like normal people and go from there

I've met 9/10 fitness models who are immediately super friendly to me and smile and act like regular people and I've met amateur bikini girls with 1,000 followers (nobodies) who act like stuck up kunts

When you meet a girl for the first time you have no idea if she's attracted to you but if she acts like a bitch it's probably just because she's actually a fuking bitch
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts