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post 1515096921 08-09-2017, 05:31 PM
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Could you/Would you EVER take back a cheater?

For conversation sake, pretend your girl of at least 5 years (maybe a kid or two) got hammered and slept with a dude. She confesses and immediately begs for forgiveness. Is there ANY case to take her back or is it 100% out the door no matter what?
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I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
post 1515097251 08-09-2017, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩
I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
Did she do it again?
post 1515097331 08-09-2017, 05:35 PM
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Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
post 1515097361 08-09-2017, 05:35 PM
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It's not that there wouldn't be a chance for forgiveness, but I just wouldn't ever trust her again. Once you lose trust, the relationship is over.
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post 1515097371 08-09-2017, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Did she do it again?
Cheaters are hibitual liars. If she cheated once, she will cheat again.
post 1515097411 08-09-2017, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
doesn't she sleep up with the trainer weekly too?

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post 1515097421 08-09-2017, 05:36 PM
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I don't see how men can. Wouldn't it be considered beta?
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
Go chum the waters somewhere else
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
Before I reply to this guy, is this dude notorious for posting troll sh!t?
post 1515097461 08-09-2017, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
Once...LOL
post 1515097481 08-09-2017, 05:36 PM
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Are you and she married?
Take it easy Christian
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Did she do it again?
of course
post 1515097641 08-09-2017, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes
Guys who won't just don't have the confidence to get past it and move on
When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
Am her ex, can confirm.
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post 1515097781 08-09-2017, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩
I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
Was she your first relationship? I can understand some people who have never gotten into a relationship before doing something like this because they don't know how to deal with such a bizarre and confusing situation.

To answer the op's question, haven't done it before and won't ever do such a thing. Relationships are special for a reason and this pretty much destroys any trust and worth a relationship has in the first place.
post 1515097851 08-09-2017, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩
I don't see how men can. Wouldn't it be considered beta?
Yes, but it's complicated when you think about your quality of life. Is your life really better if you move to a shoebox apartment in financial ruin? Do people ever move on from that? I dunno I think there's more to it when you're talking about a wife vs. some sloot you've been dating for a few months.
post 1515097931 08-09-2017, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Mparserz⏩
Was she your first relationship? I can understand some people who have never gotten into a relationship before doing something like this because they don't know how to deal with such a bizarre and confusing situation.

To answer the op's question, haven't done it before and won't ever do such a thing. Relationships are special for a reason and this pretty much destroys any trust and worth a relationship has in the first place.
no.. it was an odd situation though. in a phd program, it was her supervisor and they had a weird power relationship (obviously against uni rules). Her funding was contingent on keeping him happy. She was a punk after all the chances I gave her though.
post 1515097971 08-09-2017, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro⏩
If she cheated once, she will cheat again.
Not really
A moment of indiscretion doesn't automatically mean she will repeat it
post 1515098051 08-09-2017, 05:42 PM
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A woman can take a man back sure, if he truly is repentant and has mended his ways. I don't see how a guy can be willing to take a woman back if she had an affair. I knew a man who's wife was screwing around with another guy for a priod of 2 weeks maybe 3. He found out and she apparently ended it with the man who cheated with, and he forgave her.

For me, cheating was always the only thing I'd ever consider getting violent with an SO over. For conversation sake btw.
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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩
no.. it was an odd situation though. in a phd program, it was her supervisor and they had a weird power relationship (obviously against uni rules). Her funding was contingent on keeping him happy. She was a punk after all the chances I gave her though.
Was there signs before it happened? How did you find out?
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post 1515098201 08-09-2017, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By billclintonnn⏩
Was there signs before it happened? How did you find out?
crazy signs all the time. I'm a pretty open guy, have been in open relationships, etc., I'd ask her about him, she'd deny it fervently. one day it all just came to a head though. it became super obvious. she literally left the phd program because of it... **** got messy.

edit: they had been ****ing since she was an undergrad. he was always very hostile towards me (same program, mad awkward). I figured from the start something was up. she finally admitted to it after a few times dating on and off.
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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩
A woman can take a man back sure, if he truly is repentant and has mended his ways.
Dude, that is just stupid sh!t. I am not a politically correct guy, but fuk cheaters, men or women.
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Originally Posted By Mparserz⏩
Dude, that is just stupid sh!t. I am not a politically correct guy, but fuk cheaters, men or women.
I respect that n you for telling it like it is to me
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If she kissed someone, I would smash someone to even it out. If she smashed, I would walk.
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post 1515098691 08-09-2017, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
doesn't she sleep up with the trainer weekly too?
Nope
Just a rumor that some miscers like to keep repeating
She had a male personal trainer for a while and now she has a female trainer
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I wouldn't. Finding out someone is cheating on you is detrimental enough for the relationship fall apart. As several people have stated above, it would for people surely break the trust and the cheater won't ever be trusted again.
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Originally Posted By 0rders⏩
I wouldn't. Finding out someone is cheating on you is detrimental enough for the relationship fall apart. As several people have stated above, it would for people surely break the trust and the cheater won't ever be trusted again.
I think the trust thing is blown out of proportion. Can you ever really trust someone 100%? If the right guy in the right situation comes along, 99.9% of women will put out. Human nature (slooting) beats social conditioning (monogamy) every time.
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Nope, LOL @ even thinking about it.
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Originally Posted By Iukas⏩
Nope, LOL @ even thinking about it.
You're still a young dipchit. I'm talking about a spouse who can ruin you and basically start your life over from 0.
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Nope lol

Not even a kiss.

The one situation where I would take her back is if she's rich and I'm tryna divorce her and take half her stuff


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