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post 1517339281 08-25-2017, 09:26 AM
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So nervous-square boy has been uber quiet since I last saw him. We sent a few texts to each other on Monday. Then on Wednesday I sent a link to place he likes to eat at and no response. Were on a group chat with some mutual friends and he's quite on there. Doesn't even acknowledge me like he use to. This weekend he going on a hike out of state with some friends (not in the group). He usually tells me about stuff he goes to, but not this time. He's acting really weird. Since I don't do Tinder or online dating, it's really hard to just "talk to other guys.." I feel like he lost interest. Grrrrrr dating sucks.

Last time we spoke he said he had some roommate issues, so IDK what's going on with him.
post 1517347411 08-25-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
So nervous-square boy has been uber quiet since I last saw him. We sent a few texts to each other on Monday. Then on Wednesday I sent a link to place he likes to eat at and no response. Were on a group chat with some mutual friends and he's quite on there. Doesn't even acknowledge me like he use to. This weekend he going on a hike out of state with some friends (not in the group). He usually tells me about stuff he goes to, but not this time. He's acting really weird. Since I don't do Tinder or online dating, it's really hard to just "talk to other guys.." I feel like he lost interest. Grrrrrr dating sucks.

Last time we spoke he said he had some roommate issues, so IDK what's going on with him.
No different than with women, suggest getting together and any run around should give you the hint on how he feels. He seems hot and cold given your last date went well. When you are together, things are good but he back burners you when you are not.

You should get POF, set profile to private (so nobody can see your profile) and just message men you interested in. Way too much effort into 1 guy who doesn't sound worth it.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
No different than with women, suggest getting together and any run around should give you the hint on how he feels. He seems hot and cold given your last date went well. When you are together, things are good but he back burners you when you are not.

You should get POF, set profile to private (so nobody can see your profile) and just message men you interested in. Way too much effort into 1 guy who doesn't sound worth it.
Yeah I'm so over dealing with modern dating, the flakeyness in men and women has to stop. I am trying to put in effort and lowering my standards with nothing to show for it. I'm just over it.
post 1517351211 08-25-2017, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
So nervous-square boy has been uber quiet since I last saw him. We sent a few texts to each other on Monday. Then on Wednesday I sent a link to place he likes to eat at and no response. Were on a group chat with some mutual friends and he's quite on there. Doesn't even acknowledge me like he use to. This weekend he going on a hike out of state with some friends (not in the group). He usually tells me about stuff he goes to, but not this time. He's acting really weird. Since I don't do Tinder or online dating, it's really hard to just "talk to other guys.." I feel like he lost interest. Grrrrrr dating sucks.

Last time we spoke he said he had some roommate issues, so IDK what's going on with him.
Just leave him alone. He already knows how you feel. I don't think dating sucks but it is not the most important thing either. To each their own.
post 1517351891 08-25-2017, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Yeah I'm so over dealing with modern dating, the flakeyness in men and women has to stop. I am trying to put in effort and lowering my standards with nothing to show for it. I'm just over it.
Try batting 0/20 when your first 2 attempts were successful. Just gotta keep passively going til you meet someone who'll reciprocate just as much.

I say that when I'm currently experiencing a slump.
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post 1517351911 08-25-2017, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Yeah I'm so over dealing with modern dating, the flakeyness in men and women has to stop. I am trying to put in effort and lowering my standards with nothing to show for it. I'm just over it.
Be thankful that you know what the signs mean. Alot of people don't. Adapt and rinse/repeat is all you can do. I do sense you are a little hard on yourself too and am curious to see what you look like.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Just leave him alone. He already knows how you feel. I don't think dating sucks but it is not the most important thing either. To each their own.
Yeah that's what I am going to do. BTW your doing coding right?
post 1517355341 08-25-2017, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By footmenrow⏩
Try batting 0/20 when your first 2 attempts were successful. Just gotta keep passively going til you meet someone who'll reciprocate just as much.

I say that when I'm currently experiencing a slump.
I have been extreme unsuccessful in dating. People are starting to ask if I like men... At all...
post 1517355491 08-25-2017, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Be thankful that you know what the signs mean. Alot of people don't. Adapt and rinse/repeat is all you can do. I do sense you are a little hard on yourself too and am curious to see what you look like.
Says the guy with no avi

I've always been hard on myself, because there is always room for improvement.
post 1517357681 08-25-2017, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I have been extreme unsuccessful in dating. People are starting to ask if I like men... At all...
how is this possible? are you not that physically attractive? are you batting above your league. this should NEVER happen with women.
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post 1517359361 08-25-2017, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
how is this possible? are you not that physically attractive? are you batting above your league. this should NEVER happen with women.
I'm not attractive and I go way below my league. Read some of my past posts. I know it shouldn't happen to women, but you do have realize that men of all shapes and sizes go for the prettiest girls in the room. I've gone to hippy concerts and even flirted with the fat, long hair, smelly guys at those things and zero play. I have been told I'm too "Harvard" so IDK what to do. I'm now just focusing on my career (getting a raise in a few weeks) and learning to code. It's just life.
post 1517361291 08-25-2017, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Says the guy with no avi

I've always been hard on myself, because there is always room for improvement.
Woman don't make me show you mine if you show me yours

As long as you are working towards your goals, be content.
post 1517363411 08-25-2017, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Woman don't make me show you mine if you show me yours

As long as you are working towards your goals, be content.
I'm not content with life cause I like chasing money, the right way. I have few competitions coming up so I'm pretty happy. I just want a guy to enjoy it with me.
post 1517363961 08-25-2017, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Yeah that's what I am going to do. BTW your doing coding right?
Yes I code in Java and Oracle PL/SQL. I am also a Hadoop Admin and create MapReduce programs. If you love coding, then you are going in the right direction. Keep it up!
post 1517364851 08-25-2017, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I'm not content with life cause I like chasing money, the right way. I have few competitions coming up so I'm pretty happy. I just want a guy to enjoy it with me.
We all on dat paper chase!

All assets on Mayweather tomorrow night=profit lol
post 1517366331 08-25-2017, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I'm not attractive and I go way below my league. Read some of my past posts.I know it shouldn't happen to women, but you do have realize that men of all shapes and sizes go for the prettiest girls in the room.I've gone to hippy concerts and even flirted with the fat, long hair, smelly guys at those things and zero play. I have been told I'm too "Harvard" so IDK what to do. I'm now just focusing on my career (getting a raise in a few weeks) and learning to code. It's just life.
I would disagree with this in real life. I think this only applies in online dating. Most guys do not talk to random girls unless they already know them or have mutual friends or something. Something like 1% of guys everywhere willl actually do a true "cold approach" and the more attractive he thinks she is, the more he will put her on a pedestal and hesitate to make a move.

Haven't read all of your posts as I'm at work but, have you not been approached before in real life? Haven't tried online dating?
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at what point do you boyos have "the talk" and how do you go about it?


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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
We all on dat paper chase!

All assets on Mayweather tomorrow night=profit lol
Srsly thought about betting on that fight, till I saw the odds for Mayweather were like 1.17 : 1.

Screw that mayne, that's barely even worth the effort to make a $50 bet.
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post 1517374581 08-25-2017, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By imperialmisc⏩
I would disagree with this in real life. I think this only applies in online dating. Most guys do not talk to random girls unless they already know them or have mutual friends or something. Something like 1% of guys everywhere willl actually do a true "cold approach" and the more attractive he thinks she is, the more he will put her on a pedestal and hesitate to make a move.

Haven't read all of your posts as I'm at work but, have you not been approached before in real life? Haven't tried online dating?
Just from my experiences in school, work, hobbies, job, etc men just don't approach me and go for the hot blonde. I went out for lunch near the office and saw a guy with shirt of a team I follow. I said "GO XYZ!" 2x and he didn't even acknowledge me. His friends looked and smiled, but he was in the zone and not paying attention. That right there is an example of my dating life.

I have been approached before and I said yes to the date. I barely make it to the 2nd date. They usually ghost or flake and I don't hear back. I avoid online dating, just reading the stuff on here makes me want to vom.
post 1517374721 08-25-2017, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
We all on dat paper chase!

All assets on Mayweather tomorrow night=profit lol
Mehhhh it's 50-50 mayne. Never put all of your eggs in 1 basket.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I'm not attractive and I go way below my league. Read some of my past posts. I know it shouldn't happen to women, but you do have realize that men of all shapes and sizes go for the prettiest girls in the room. I've gone to hippy concerts and even flirted with the fat, long hair, smelly guys at those things and zero play. I have been told I'm too "Harvard" so IDK what to do. I'm now just focusing on my career (getting a raise in a few weeks) and learning to code. It's just life.
Jesus you sound like otaku except he goes within his league, not below it.
post 1517375431 08-25-2017, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Jesus you sound like otaku except he goes within his league, not below it.
To be fair, I value personality and intelligence over looks. I'm not shallow. I really do feel for Otaku though, he tries and women don't see it.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
To be fair, I value personality and intelligence over looks. I'm not shallow. I really do feel for Otaku though, he tries and women don't see it.
Are you in shape?
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
To be fair, I value personality and intelligence over looks. I'm not shallow. I really do feel for Otaku though, he tries and women don't see it.
How old are you?
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Are you in shape?
I think she rated herself a 5.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think she rated herself a 5.
He's not asking how she would rate herself in a 1/10 scale, he asked if she wasn't fat.
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
at what point do you boyos have "the talk" and how do you go about it?


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When she brings it up. My current girl knew I thought like this, and strongly disagreed and said she'd never bring it up. A week later she said something like, "you're a flirty boyfriend aren't you?". BOOM, she brought it up and I still give her **** for it to this day for bringing up the "b word", in a playful way of course. Women will do it naturally if you're on the same page and doing everything right.
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Originally Posted By SeanGarrity⏩
When she brings it up. My current girl knew I thought like this, and strongly disagreed and said she'd never bring it up. A week later she said something like, "you're a flirty boyfriend aren't you?". BOOM, she brought it up and I still give her **** for it to this day for bringing up the "b word", in a playful way of course. Women will do it naturally if you're on the same page and doing everything right.
i think im in the same boat as you are, where im 95% sure she wont bring it up. Like she just seems to shy to bring it up, we've already smashed but she still acts very shy around me so i thought i should bring it up
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
i think im in the same boat as you are, where im 95% sure she wont bring it up. Like she just seems to shy to bring it up, we've already smashed but she still acts very shy around me so i thought i should bring it up
dont ever bring it up. she should
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
He's not asking how she would rate herself in a 1/10 scale, he asked if she wasn't fat.
Intent is the same.
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