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post 1518429511 09-04-2017, 06:17 PM
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post 1518430131 09-04-2017, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By BigPoppaPumpin
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you just admitted to being a chit eater. you're a real doofus now.
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post 1518431831 09-04-2017, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By dimassive
he has no chance because he never had one to begin with, she has no attraction to him physically or mentally. she enjoys his company because he gives her attention and strokes her ego to chat to other guys

op should stop wasting his time immediately and leave, dont even think of this bish again.
I don't dwell (I rarely dwell)

She was more special than your average girl but it's always on to the next

This happened 2-3 weeks ago. Since then I've slept with 2 different girls, one arguably cuter than her, and the other a ONS
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post 1518432301 09-04-2017, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By phillyfreak7
Sounds like she is interested in you but knows she wouldn't be fully committed because she is still in love with her ex. Which isn't fair to you and I think she realizes that, which is why she is willing to hang out but doesn't want to do anything.

I get that it's bull**** but at the end of the day she'd drop you for her ex if she had the chance. Even if you did have some kind of relationship with her, she'd be distant, on and off, and weird. Speaking from experience here so hopefully this is helpful.
Happens to me all the time

You have fun with a girl on a date, then she's like "sorry I just broke up with my bf, I'm in a bad place right now." It's like every hot girl over 23 is either in a relationship, bat**** crazy, or just out of a relationship and depressed.
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post 1518433081 09-04-2017, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By nnl
only one pic wtf
Here you go buddy

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post 1518433281 09-04-2017, 06:53 PM
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she seems dumb. surprised you 2 idiots didn't mesh better in this situation.
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post 1518433581 09-04-2017, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By BigPoppaPumpin
Haha it's her draft


Friendzoned b4 the first date?
I dunno I don't do that stuff and it reminds me of something innocent about liking paintball and the girl I said it too dried up like a prune in the Texas heat. Fickle ****s.
post 1518433621 09-04-2017, 06:57 PM
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post 1518434371 09-04-2017, 07:05 PM
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I hate people who start text messages with a drawn out "soooo". That **** is basic and annoying enough face to face. Seriously, it's a text. Get to the god damn point. Would borderline consider going no contact on her just for that.

OP you and I both know you could have handled that a little bit better. It's like you weren't prepared to hear a "no" to your advances so you tried to manipulate it into a yes.

A large number of girls don't actually want to fuk you. But there's a large number of girls that do. The more time you waste on the previous category, the less time you have for the latter.
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post 1518434661 09-04-2017, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By paralyticileus
I hate people who start text messages with a drawn out "soooo". That **** is basic and annoying enough face to face. Seriously, it's a text. Get to the god damn point. Would borderline consider going no contact on her just for that.

OP you and I both know you could have handled that a little bit better. It's like you weren't prepared to hear a "no" to your advances so you tried to manipulate it into a yes.

A large number of girls don't actually want to fuk you. But there's a large number of girls that do. The more time you waste on the previous category, the less time you have for the latter.
Good **** bro

Sometimes you gotta hear the obvious
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post 1518434881 09-04-2017, 07:10 PM
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I learned a long time ago that if someone says something I don't like over text, I just leave it for a while before I respond. That way it isn't out of anger or anything.

Cut your losses, you're good bro
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post 1518434941 09-04-2017, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By BigPoppaPumpin
She was more special than your average girl
this is where you lost
post 1518435821 09-04-2017, 07:21 PM
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You quadruple texted at one point and also wrote *shrug*. Not sure if you thought you did a good job with this but I cringed reading it tbh.
post 1518436191 09-04-2017, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By phillyfreak7
Sounds like she is interested in you but knows she wouldn't be fully committed because she is still in love with her ex. Which isn't fair to you and I think she realizes that, which is why she is willing to hang out but doesn't want to do anything.

I get that it's bull**** but at the end of the day she'd drop you for her ex if she had the chance. Even if you did have some kind of relationship with her, she'd be distant, on and off, and weird. Speaking from experience here so hopefully this is helpful.
lol damn brah you're so wrong. She's willing to hang out with OP because it's convenient for her to have a BF but without the sex. This is essentially what being friendzoned is.
post 1518436831 09-04-2017, 07:31 PM
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I hope you still went to see Cory cause he's amazing mannnn
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post 1518437241 09-04-2017, 07:36 PM
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OP confirmed sexual assualter.

Yesterday in his post he came up behind his date and fondled her and she said **** off. Today he tells a girl if they hang out hes gonna touch her.

OP the kind of guy to get his ass beat by a girls brother.
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post 1518437391 09-04-2017, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By otehblasian
I hope you still went to see Cory cause he's amazing mannnn
who the fuk is cory. Sounds like some dude down the street
post 1518437611 09-04-2017, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted By WestAfrica
OP confirmed sexual assualter.

Yesterday in his post he came up behind his date and fondled her and she said **** off. Today he tells a girl if they hang out hes gonna touch her.

OP the kind of guy to get his ass beat by a girls brother.
Stop PMing me man

I'm not gonna send you dick pics
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post 1518438111 09-04-2017, 07:47 PM
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I read it and you wasted far too many characters on that broad and are considered to be what us miscers call a beta *******. OP never fails it seems

*shrugs*

Off yourself for that one pal
post 1518438251 09-04-2017, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
lol damn brah you're so wrong. She's willing to hang out with OP because it's convenient for her to have a BF but without the sex. This is essentially what being friendzoned is.
I'm aware of what being friend zoned in. She wouldn't have made out with him or went on multiple dates with him if that were truly the case. She's somewhat into him, just not as much as her ex, and there's not much he can do about it.
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post 1518438901 09-04-2017, 07:56 PM
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Would've said 'alright' after he first message and left it at that. Why you gotta write her 5 novels ffs
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i like the "i wont kiss,touch, or have sex" part lol. Most girls i go out with know whats up after the first date. You ****ed up somewhere OP, all those long ass text aren't even necessary
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Originally Posted By phillyfreak7
I'm aware of what being friend zoned in. She wouldn't have made out with him or went on multiple dates with him if that were truly the case. She's somewhat into him, just not as much as her ex, and there's not much he can do about it.
she didn't make out with him from what I read

edit: whoops im wrong
post 1518440411 09-04-2017, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By otehblasian
I hope you still went to see Cory cause he's amazing mannnn
Yep wore this so she wouldn't recognize me





JK, I didn't go. It was all her idea. Had no idea who he was
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post 1518442731 09-04-2017, 08:39 PM
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Wow. Who does she think she is. Does she actually think she's something more than a sex toy for you? I think you handled the situation very well though and I aspire to have the skills you've shown in that conversation. Maybe as I age
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Originally Posted By BigPoppaPumpin
In b4 too long didnt read

In b4 cringe

Met this girl earlier this year. First date we made out the whole night. Second date I spent the night at her place but nothing really happened except for cuddling/making out. When I try to set up a third date she tells me that she's still getting over her ex, she's in a bad place, and isn't ready for anything casual or serious. I message her maybe 2 months later, and we grab a drink. We're vibing, touching, and laughing. At the end of the "date," I go for the kiss. She turns her face says she won't kiss me. I tell her it's ok. That night, expecting that all hope is lost, I text her "Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything or if you want to hang again." She responds,"I'd like to hang out again sometime!"

So we finally set up another meetup. We're going to see this jazz singer Corey Henry. Right after we set the "date" up, she sends the text:



I respond:



It goes back and forth:











After seeing how she looks i can see why you are saying what you are saying in your texts bro. But she isnt down to f3ck unfortunately. But damn she fine. Looks like friend zone is one option or making up an excuse where you dont contact her for a while and then when you do if shes still single you can try to advance again.
But usually when it doesnt work out now means you wont ever get to nail her.
Most chicks after a relationship want to have a quick f3ck with nsa or minimal friend relations unless the guy is incredibly attractive and amazing in bed. Id move to another girl. Thats what i did when i was in your situation. Next time your in this position getting laid asap is a good idea because the longer you drag it on the less likely anything will happen.
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Ok OP i actually read it. You did too much chit chat. You should have told her no thanks and moved on
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post 1518449021 09-04-2017, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By danny0880
After seeing how she looks i can see why you are saying what you are saying in your texts bro. But she isnt down to f3ck unfortunately. But damn she fine. Looks like friend zone is one option or making up an excuse where you dont contact her for a while and then when you do if shes still single you can try to advance again.
But usually when it doesnt work out now means you wont ever get to nail her.
Most chicks after a relationship want to have a quick f3ck with nsa or minimal friend relations unless the guy is incredibly attractive and amazing in bed. Id move to another girl. Thats what i did when i was in your situation. Next time your in this position getting laid asap is a good idea because the longer you drag it on the less likely anything will happen.
Yea man, I screwed up not getting laid that 2nd time we hung out

Might have turned it into some NSA stuff
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Originally Posted By Lawlstud
Holy chit what a bunch of stupid bullchitting going on.

Should have immediately said, "Well then we are at a crossroads, it was very nice hanging out with you I wish you the best"


Strong wtf OP
So much this. Hard to believe OP is actually 27 years old.

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You could have saved a lot of time simply saying "I already have plenty of friends. All the best"
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