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09-12-2017, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By jaygee15⏩
Had a manlet friend who would disrespect everyone in one of my friend circles when he drinks, no one stood up to him cuz they're timid nice guys. This dude tried it on me and I was sobering up, so I was real tired. He said "shut the **** up before I knock you out". Stood up in his face and told him to do it, his response is "Alright man, you're right". Probably helped that I had height over him thoughBut look bro.. Even tho i like this dude better than you, i will still give you some advise how to handle this.
When he calls you a bitch in front of anybody, with super srs look on face and 1000 yard stare , tell him,, you want to go outside and see who the bitch is.
Example story time: Used to go over to a good friends quite often, he had a couple new friends that were over often,, one time i went over and for one reason or another the conversation turned to him calling me a bitch, i told him dont make me drage your azz out of your apt and whoop your azz in front of your new friends( which he new very well i could and would) ,, awkward moment pursued,,, hence he never tried that shiit again..
Moral of story: Grow some balls
When he calls you a bitch in front of anybody, with super srs look on face and 1000 yard stare , tell him,, you want to go outside and see who the bitch is.
Example story time: Used to go over to a good friends quite often, he had a couple new friends that were over often,, one time i went over and for one reason or another the conversation turned to him calling me a bitch, i told him dont make me drage your azz out of your apt and whoop your azz in front of your new friends( which he new very well i could and would) ,, awkward moment pursued,,, hence he never tried that shiit again..
Moral of story: Grow some balls
09-12-2017, 02:35 PM
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What Spagetti id do Spagetti is follow him into the toilets and slap the **** out of him and probably shove his head down the toilet. But I have a personality disorder. Spagetti Apparently people like him are okay to behave like that and they don't have personality disorders. I used to come across people Spagetti like that in the past and because I don't have a quick wit ,they would just carry on and they would get worse and humilitate me more,thats what will happen if you don't do anything ,he will just get worse . In the end I got sick of it and just started hurting people like him Spagetti and apparently this is wrong.
I suspect he is insecure and needs someone to put down to feel more comfortable, you are that someone. you have three options, if you are quick witted talk Spagetti worse **** back to him so he shuts up. If you can't do that ,hurt him so he don't do it anymore or the third option is just to avoid him. It really angers me that people like him put others who don't feel the need to make people Spagetti uncomfortable into these situations because Spagetti they secretly hate themselves.He probably feels uncomfortable around the women, if he alright when women aren't there?
But again, why make excuses for him? Spagetti why are we trying to understand him, ? I don't understand why we have any sympathy for people like him,if he is that insecure he needs to see a psychologist like I do,thing is despite my problems I don't feel the need to insult other people to make myself feel better. Spagetti
I suspect he is insecure and needs someone to put down to feel more comfortable, you are that someone. you have three options, if you are quick witted talk Spagetti worse **** back to him so he shuts up. If you can't do that ,hurt him so he don't do it anymore or the third option is just to avoid him. It really angers me that people like him put others who don't feel the need to make people Spagetti uncomfortable into these situations because Spagetti they secretly hate themselves.He probably feels uncomfortable around the women, if he alright when women aren't there?
But again, why make excuses for him? Spagetti why are we trying to understand him, ? I don't understand why we have any sympathy for people like him,if he is that insecure he needs to see a psychologist like I do,thing is despite my problems I don't feel the need to insult other people to make myself feel better. Spagetti
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09-12-2017, 02:36 PM
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i actually made a thread about this some years ago here on the misc :
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...light=behavior
i would go NC on scum like that and kick them out of my social circle. i only like people who are real 100% of the time, chill people who spread love and peace.
story time though : people who talk tough are usually giant pussies.
real men don't do that ****. why? because they have experience and know the consequences of doing that. they know they will have to fight and could get hurt.
i remember one time this one guy was doing that **** to me. im a laid back quiet dude who relaxes and is kind to everyone you know? so this dude kept throwing insults my way and laughing with his friend and ****. i looked at him and told him to stop and he kept going. so i let the rage build up inside of me until said, ok **** it. I got up, grabbed his head with my right hand and put my right palm on his forehead and SLAMMED his head backwards into the wall behind him. then i balled my fists up and was about to go ape on his ass but he started whining and holding the back of his head and looking at the floor.
he NEVER spoke to me again and didn't do ****.
Moral of the story : people who rap a lot are usually pussies.
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Originally Posted By CalmWind
i hate this ****. Guys who change their behavior when a woman shows up........ suddenly they try to act alpha or something....Sometimes I don't like it when an attractive sloot is around
Cause then all the men start acting different. Trying to show off, try to act like they are dominant, etc..... all their behavior changes. And suddenly the attention is on the sloot instead of just chilling and laughing and bein real.
Sometimes I think it's better to just have a bunch of bro's having fun.
Cause then all the men start acting different. Trying to show off, try to act like they are dominant, etc..... all their behavior changes. And suddenly the attention is on the sloot instead of just chilling and laughing and bein real.
Sometimes I think it's better to just have a bunch of bro's having fun.
i would go NC on scum like that and kick them out of my social circle. i only like people who are real 100% of the time, chill people who spread love and peace.
story time though : people who talk tough are usually giant pussies.
real men don't do that ****. why? because they have experience and know the consequences of doing that. they know they will have to fight and could get hurt.
i remember one time this one guy was doing that **** to me. im a laid back quiet dude who relaxes and is kind to everyone you know? so this dude kept throwing insults my way and laughing with his friend and ****. i looked at him and told him to stop and he kept going. so i let the rage build up inside of me until said, ok **** it. I got up, grabbed his head with my right hand and put my right palm on his forehead and SLAMMED his head backwards into the wall behind him. then i balled my fists up and was about to go ape on his ass but he started whining and holding the back of his head and looking at the floor.
he NEVER spoke to me again and didn't do ****.
Moral of the story : people who rap a lot are usually pussies.
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09-12-2017, 02:37 PM
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He's just jealous. You're also being pretty sensitive. However, if it really bothers just tell him straight up to stop disrespecting you or you'll have problems. Just be stern with him
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Originally Posted By therealistwat⏩
classic case of napoleon syndromeHad a manlet friend who would disrespect everyone in one of my friend circles when he drinks, no one stood up to him cuz they're timid nice guys. This dude tried it on me and I was sobering up, so I was real tired. He said "shut the **** up before I knock you out". Stood up in his face and told him to do it, his response is "Alright man, you're right". Probably helped that I had height over him though
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maybe he likes you
09-12-2017, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
lol this.maybe he likes you
just casually be like "that's kinda gay that you have favorites when it comes to men... not that i have anything against gays"
tbh tho, i'd never let this chit fly and never have. ppl have tried, you have to put them in their place as soon as it happens or else they think it's okay and you become the cuck of the group
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09-12-2017, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Mlinebacker0⏩
the issue is, if he allows the dude to do that to him in front of the group.... and especially the girls, he comes off as a giant pussy. he loses social status and respect within his group.He's just jealous. You're also being pretty sensitive. However, if it really bothers just tell him straight up to stop disrespecting you or you'll have problems. Just be stern with him
he's gotta do something. it's not being sensitive to want to be respected.
it's one thing to mess around with friends and rib each other..... but this dude doesn't know OP that well and it doesn't sound like friendly banter.
OP: look at this situation as a good thing. the idiot chose you to be his punching bag in order to elevate himself. Now you can use him as an example and show everyone you are dominant by shutting his punk ass down and scaring him.
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09-12-2017, 02:54 PM
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respond back with some jokes or catch him off guard. by catching him off guard either by jokes or push buttons even more. Usually ppl like that joke at your expense but generally don't like it when you dish it back in front of others. That's when you say things like "whats wrong snowflake, you like to dish it out but can't take it back? Aww bitch!"
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09-12-2017, 03:04 PM
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OP, have a party this weekend and while everyone is smoking and chilling, take him into the bathroom to talk. Choke him out, then put him in a walk-in freezer. Doubt you'll have to deal with him trash talking after that.
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ITT a bunch of autists that have never been around women. Insulting each other back and forth will just make you both look like idiots and make that punani dry up like the sahara. Laugh off or absorb the little jokes, and if they really bother you, talk to him on the side and tell him to stop doing it. If he keeps doing it, you tell him to fuk off and stop hanging out with him.
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If one of my boys brings sloots around I make them look good, not insult them. WTF is this chit
09-12-2017, 03:11 PM
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Lol at people telling op to verbally roast him back in a low key/witty/funny way, there's a reason why op hasn't done that already and it's not because he's a pussy, it's because he's probably a more introverted brah who simply doesn't have the social skills to do it
OP has to get mad and go for the kill shot, that's the only way this is going to stop
Shame him for being a fat balding ******* and if that doesn't work beat the **** out of him SRS
OP has to get mad and go for the kill shot, that's the only way this is going to stop
Shame him for being a fat balding ******* and if that doesn't work beat the **** out of him SRS
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09-12-2017, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By blowwzilla⏩
you're a rare friend. it's more common to find scum who don't care about anyone else.If one of my boys brings sloots around I make them look good, not insult them. WTF is this chit
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Originally Posted By DaddysGotANew45⏩
What? No. He was completely fine the last time I saw him. Actually it was the best thing that happened in my life. It made me overcome my fear of confrontation. It made me realize that no one will come help you. You have to help yourself. Most importantly it helped me realize the importance of staying calm.Did you just confess to a murder??
Most people have hot anger. They explode on the spot and nothing good ever comes from it. You have to have cold anger. Something you can just store in the back of your mind for weeks and months without letting it affect your daily life. While you use that time to come up with a plan to exact revenge.
That's the only way you can get away with it. Because overt acts of violence is punished heavily in society. You have to do it in ways that are creative and can't be linked back to you. That takes time to plan out.
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Originally Posted By 97Camry4Lyfe⏩
"stfu you fat bald ******* lol" should do the trick. The lol means you aren't really homophobic or anything. Also you should pee on him while girls are watching to assert dominance.Well he is really damn fat and he is balding. I know he is insecure about balding because he ALWAYS has a hat on... I might bring that up
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Beat him to a bloody fuking pulp. Beat him so hard his face is unrecognizable. Maybe then he'll learn to keep his big ******* mouth shut. Do it in front of everyone and make them fear you
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Originally Posted By Atem69⏩
This. Subtleties will be lost on this guy. It would be a complete waste of time. You have to embarrass him behind belief. Smacking his hat off and making him pick it up off the ground is the only way. Just the sheer humiliation would break his will to fight. You have to destroy his self worth. Otherwise he will keep coming back. He is no friend of yours. The sooner you realize this the better.Lol at people telling op to verbally roast him back in a low key/witty/funny way, there's a reason why op hasn't done that already and it's not because he's a pussy, it's because he's probably a more introverted brah who simply doesn't have the social skills to do it
OP has to get mad and go for the kill shot, that's the only way this is going to stop
Shame him for being a fat balding ******* and if that doesn't work beat the **** out of him SRS
OP has to get mad and go for the kill shot, that's the only way this is going to stop
Shame him for being a fat balding ******* and if that doesn't work beat the **** out of him SRS
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Originally Posted By 97Camry4Lyfe⏩
This will end him. Do it.Well he is really damn fatand he is balding. I know he is insecure about balding because he ALWAYS has a hat on... I might bring that up
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Next time you hang out, bring a puppy. Girls will be all over the guy with the puppy [ie you]. If he tries to act like a douche, he'll be acting like a douche to the guy who brought an adorable puppy.
Bonus point, if you can train the puppy to growl at guys wearing hats, then openly say that the puppy hates hats, and make him take his hat off to reveal his baldingcel shame.
This will also work if you bring like an 8 year old cousin/nephew. Have the kid insult the fat/bald douche for you...then you can have the insults unleashed, while not having to do the dirty work. Then you can be like, "Sorry, bro, kids man, what can you do"
Bonus point, if you can train the puppy to growl at guys wearing hats, then openly say that the puppy hates hats, and make him take his hat off to reveal his baldingcel shame.
This will also work if you bring like an 8 year old cousin/nephew. Have the kid insult the fat/bald douche for you...then you can have the insults unleashed, while not having to do the dirty work. Then you can be like, "Sorry, bro, kids man, what can you do"
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^^ Easy there, of Art of War.
OP again I say point out the obvious. Make fun of him back for only being a tough guy in front of girls. Honesty shuts chit down faster than any well timed joke ever could, especially when everyone else is thinking it.
Screw a roast; You aren't Jeff Ross. Embarrassment while maintaining a lack of care > you're fat jokes.
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OP again I say point out the obvious. Make fun of him back for only being a tough guy in front of girls. Honesty shuts chit down faster than any well timed joke ever could, especially when everyone else is thinking it.
Screw a roast; You aren't Jeff Ross. Embarrassment while maintaining a lack of care > you're fat jokes.
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Originally Posted By 97Camry4Lyfe⏩
Maybe just say "bro that joke's about as bas as your hairline".Well he is really damn fat and he is balding. I know he is insecure about balding because he ALWAYS has a hat on... I might bring that up
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Dangerous strategy. What if his mom or dad is sick with cancer or something. This could backfire unless you know all the details."my favorite kunt is your mom's"
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Originally Posted By blowwzilla⏩
Exactly. This is what you're supposed to do, if you want the sloots then you do it yourself without trying to cockblock everyone.If one of my boys brings sloots around I make them look good, not insult them. WTF is this chit
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One of those fkn guys. There's not even a need for it. In the long run, you get laid more if you all look out for each other.
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Tell him to say that to your face...
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He was fukin with you cause you're a little bishboi as evidenced by this thread. Instead of crying to misc about your boyfriend not being nice to you in front of other little girls, fist yourself.
Once your balls drop and you become a man you can deal with people who fuk with you in public, unless you want to get locked into beta bish mode for life. That's fine too, someone has to be the ******* in the group.
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