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post 1519269861 09-13-2017, 07:37 AM
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'Sorry' is the hardest word

...but it doesn't mean shiet. Agreed?

I don't know why people think that they can fuk somebody over and then a single word makes it all better... There isn't any making it up to somebody just don't fuk up in the first place
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Originally Posted By RaphaelDeLaGhetto⏩
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Everyone seems to fuk me over eventually... gonna end up very alone cos fuk it I'm sick of people telling me 'sorry'

I don't apologise for shiet - if I said it I meant it, if I did it I meant to
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Everyone seems to fuk me over eventually... gonna end up very alone cos fuk it I'm sick of people telling me 'sorry'

I don't apologise for shiet - if I said it I meant it, if I did it I meant to
If everyone fuks you over then you're either a scumbag who deserves it or a doormat with no integrity. Grow some balls and make sure no one fuks with you twice brah.
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Everyone seems to fuk me over eventually... gonna end up very alone cos fuk it I'm sick of people telling me 'sorry'

I don't apologise for shiet - if I said it I meant it, if I did it I meant to
So what do you want then?

You make these threads complaining about chit all the time but never a solution. We call those people a "bish"
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
If everyone fuks you over then you're either a scumbag who deserves it or a doormat with no integrity. Grow some balls and make sure no one fuks with you twice brah.
We'll go with the second. I guess I let it happen to me because deep down I don't think I deserve to be treated with any respect being that I don't even manage to respect myself or hold myself to any real standard... but it's hard to develop that respect for myself when everyone treats me like a doormat
Originally Posted By RaphaelDeLaGhetto⏩
So what do you want then?

You make these threads complaining about chit all the time but never a solution. We call those people a "bish"
A bullet in the brain would be nice
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
If everyone fuks you over then you're either a scumbag who deserves it or a doormat with no integrity. Grow some balls and make sure no one fuks with you twice brah.
I pretty much agree with this. If you're a person where people value being in your life or they are afraid of dealing with repercussions, then they will not cross you
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
We'll go with the second. I guess I let it happen to me because deep down I don't think I deserve to be treated with any respect being that I don't even manage to respect myself or hold myself to any real standard... but it's hard to develop that respect for myself when everyone treats me like a doormat



A bullet in the brain would be nice
If you dont respect yourself you shouldnt expect others to respect you either

Eveything is from the inside put brah...at least its something you can actually change
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
We'll go with the second. I guess I let it happen to me because deep down I don't think I deserve to be treated with any respect being that I don't even manage to respect myself or hold myself to any real standard... but it's hard to develop that respect for myself when everyone treats me like a doormat
I have a friend who is like that, he just exudes a complete lack of self-respect and kunts pick up on that and give him chit because they can sense he isn't gonna resist. I guess it's a negative feedback loop but you gotta try to break out of that chit somehow man.
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Bet you've not been to the Dr's.

Amirite?
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
I have a friend who is like that, he just exudes a complete lack of self-respect and kunts pick up on that and give him chit because they can sense he isn't gonna resist. I guess it's a negative feedback loop but you gotta try to break out of that chit somehow man.
See the fear of reprocussions strategy the other brah mentioned was my first choice, but 1. that puts me into the first category you put me on being a scumbag that deserves it and 2. legal reprocussions seem to come my way as a result, I can't have that list getting any longer I'll never get hired anywhere decent ever again
Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
If you dont respect yourself you shouldnt expect others to respect you either

Eveything is from the inside put brah...at least its something you can actually change
Well I don't know how to change it... because when somebody fuks me over enough times I eventually tell them to kick rocks but it's not like I have something to fall back on after that, I end up alone cos like I said everybody fuks me over in the end and treats me that way

It's like a job with a high turnover rate I need a constant stream of people coming in to make up for the ones I show the door but I'm losing faith in meeting new people cos I know how it always ends
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Bet you've not been to the Dr's.

Amirite?
Booked for Monday, was the earliest I could get

Been getting my car fixed too so I can get there but shiet man I'm not holding out much hope I'll be honest, i know I'm just gonna end up with the same crap I dealt with the first time from them

You have to fall off the deep end and attempt harm on yourself to get anywhere with them seemingly but I've not got the balls for that
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post 1519273011 09-13-2017, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
You have to fall off the deep end and attempt harm on yourself to get anywhere with them seemingly but I've not got the balls for that
Not so.

Your Dr might need to fist himself and you may need to tell him that when you see him.

I posted a link the other week,https://www.mind.org.uk/- the Dr will probably refer you to them but you can refer yourself.

Give them a call/email.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Not so.

Your Dr might need to fist himself andyou may need to tell him that when you see him.

I posted a link the other week,www.mind.org- the Dr will probably refer you to them but you can refer yourself.

Give them a call/email.
One of my convictions happened getting escorted out of a doctors office for doing just that haha

Kicked his fcking skeleton over and everything
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edit: lmao @ kicking over skeleton
Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
See the fear of reprocussions strategy the other brah mentioned was my first choice, but 1. that puts me into the first category you put me on being a scumbag that deserves it and 2. legal
reprocussions seem to come my way as a result, I can't have that list getting any longer I'll never get hired anywhere decent ever again
Nah man, you don't have to get your knife out and gut everyone who fuks with you, there's a middle ground. All you gotta do is make the other guy think you'll put up a fight, either physically or mentally. People never fuk with me anymore because I stand up straight, look them in the eye and tell them to go fuk themselves. I used to get beat up when I was a kid until I picked myself the fuk off the ground and grew a pair. You're not a scumbag for standing up for yourself.

Besides there's other ways to fight, it depends on the situation. You can fight with your head or with your words. Sometimes having a smart mouth is enough, make people look stupid and they'll back off. Or you can just outmaneuver them, I've done that at work a couple times when lower management was fuking with me etc.
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How many of these threads are you going to make before you actually try to fix your life?

I'm starting to think you're just an elaborate, subtle troll
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
One of my convictions happened getting escorted out of a doctors office for doing just that haha

Kicked his fcking skeleton over and everything
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/helplines/
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it's only tough because we get trained as kids to understand saying sorry as a punishment, rather than as an expression of remorse.

same problem in taking a sorry - we only see 'sorry' as me having power over you, because youhad tosay sorry.
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Everyone seems to fuk me over eventually... gonna end up very alone cos fuk it I'm sick of people telling me 'sorry'

I don't apologise for shiet - if I said it I meant it, if I did it I meant to
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I'm so sorry opie.
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Personally, one thing I have no problem with is admitting when I'm wrong and apologizing. But again, it doesn't really mean chit since I'm so free with it.

My wife on the other hand has a very difficult time admitting fault and apologizing, so when she does, it actually does mean something.
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Personally, one thing I have no problem with is admitting when I'm wrong and apologizing. But again, it doesn't really mean chit since I'm so free with it.

My wife on the other hand has a very difficult time admitting fault and apologizing, so when she does, it actually does mean something.
Kind of like saying "I love you." If it's excessive, it loses meaning - especially if the actions don't match the sentiment.
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In time i'll repent and say it - hopefuly 10 times from 10 ... unless it's a slur on my family!

some ppl on here never will (and they know who THEY ARE), it consisted of users with 3/4 or more names merged in 1 and so forth
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Personally, one thing I have no problem with is admitting when I'm wrong and apologizing. But again, it doesn't really mean chit since I'm so free with it.

My wife on the other hand has a very difficult time admitting fault and apologizing, so when she does, it actually does mean something.
Kind of like saying "I love you." If it's excessive, it loses meaning - especially if the actions don't match the sentiment.
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The thing now is compared to 5/7years back I relent and accept sorry (though am spitting blood and feathers inside)

So to me - that is the Key to getting over - no matter how much hate you have inside towards the perpertraitors!!
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OP is looking for people to grovel at his feet for forgiveness instead of accepting an apology and cutting those people out of your life.
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Originally Posted By Auraria⏩
OP is looking for people to grovel at his feet for forgiveness instead of accepting an apology and cutting those people out of your life.
So ehat if he is, it's like a Car or any Vechile - it needs both Oil and Water to make it work (as does an apology - 2 ways to include forgivness)!!
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