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Thread: CNN: Women should cheat on their husbands to save the marriage

post 1521604161 10-05-2017, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
Thats true too, but whats the stats for women vs men on that?
I'd say about 350% do, and odds are I'm right
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
Perhaps for yourself, but given the factors, it is a reality that goes without saying.

It's also a point to make that it would take more than one factor for a woman to cheat than it would for a man, most women (unless their straight up whores!) do not jump into bed with someone, they often need to feel emotionally connected with the other before being intimate with them.

Whereas, a man often has two brains. (His brain.....and the other well you know where that is!)


You have no idea
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
I am not talking out of my ass, you can either have a reasonable discussion or you can leave.

You choose.
You forgot...
Option 3: Stay and continuously insult your intelligence and logic.
post 1521605121 10-05-2017, 01:12 PM
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Humans gunna human (male and female).....

You cant control people and people tend to do dumb sh*t. Dont wrap your life, happiness and self worth up in your partner. If they cheat, next them and move on with the life.....
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"Many of the friends I spoke to expressed similar feelings. "I shop and cook, my husband does dishes and empties the trash," one told me. "We each do our own laundry. But I've always been in charge of the 'calendar,' and what I didn't realize until recently is that in some way I'm in charge of managing many of our relationships."

"The inequality of it all is such an annoying factor that I am usually in a bad mood when my spouse is in my presence," and another said that while her husband was a competent adult in the world,at home he felt like "another child to clean up after."

My husband is a homebody and I initiate/plan almost all of our social endeavors.

They married betas.

Case closed.
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post 1521605591 10-05-2017, 01:16 PM
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"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." It occurred to me as I listened that these women were describing infidelity not as a transgression but a creative or even subversive act, a protest against an institution they'd come to experience as suffocating or oppressive.

As some that just got married this part made me sick to my stomach. Divorce or throw out other ideas before just cheating.
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post 1521605761 10-05-2017, 01:18 PM
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What guys have to realize is that any woman who is easily persuaded by an article isn't a woman you want anyway. Humans are flawed creatures. Just do your best not to be in a relationship with one or get out in time before you make a mistake. Good luck.
post 1521605941 10-05-2017, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Absentone⏩
"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." It occurred to me as I listened that these women were describing infidelity not as a transgression but a creative or even subversive act, a protest against an institution they'd come to experience as suffocating or oppressive.

As some that just got married this part made me sick to my stomach. Divorce or throw out other ideas before just cheating.
They want the emotional and financial support of something stable, but want the excitement of strange D on the side.
post 1521606071 10-05-2017, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By kids.got.soul⏩
"Many of the friends I spoke to expressed similar feelings. "I shop and cook, my husband does dishes and empties the trash," one told me. "We each do our own laundry. But I've always been in charge of the 'calendar,' and what I didn't realize until recently is that in some way I'm in charge of managing many of our relationships."

"The inequality of it all is such an annoying factor that I am usually in a bad mood when my spouse is in my presence," and another said that while her husband was a competent adult in the world,at home he felt like "another child to clean up after."

My husband is a homebody and I initiate/plan almost all of our social endeavors.

They married betas.

Case closed.
I dont think that statement clearly indicates the men in the relationship are betas. Most women I know manage the couples social calendar because their husbands simply dont want to be social... There have been plenty of studies done that clearly show as men age they tend to withdraw from social situations/dynamics. There is even a name for it but I cant remember it...
post 1521606221 10-05-2017, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Quit Your Crying.
lol I got negged by someone too stupid to notice OP's username.
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post 1521606361 10-05-2017, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
I dont think that statement clearly indicates the men in the relationship are betas. Most women I know manage the couples social calendar because their husbands simply dont want to be social... There have been plenty of studies done that clearly show as men age they tend to withdraw from social situations/dynamics. There is even a name for it but I cant remember it...
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post 1521606511 10-05-2017, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
I am not talking out of my ass, you can either have a reasonable discussionor you can leave.
post 1521606551 10-05-2017, 01:26 PM
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Ahh, only if he is a sugar daddy. Any other cheating and feelings get caught up and chit.
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post 1521606611 10-05-2017, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Absentone⏩
"The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." It occurred to me as I listened that these women were describing infidelity not as a transgression but a creative or even subversive act, a protest against an institution they'd come to experience as suffocating or oppressive.

As some that just got married this part made me sick to my stomach. Divorce or throw out other ideas before just cheating.
That's bullcrap. Women can't compartmentalize like that. They usually fall for their affair partner and start resenting the husband, and it almost always ends up in divorce and they leave the husband for whoever they're having sex with.
Men, on the other hand, almost never do.
post 1521606681 10-05-2017, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
most women (unless their straight up whores!) do not jump into bed with someone, they often need to feel emotionally connected with the other before being intimate with them.
Then why is the first line they say when they get caught is "baby, he didn't mean anything to me!"

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post 1521606691 10-05-2017, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
We are comfortable in our own skin and don't need to be around others or social acknowledgement from outsiders to feel accomplished in life?
Exactly...Im in my 40s and I can definitely tell I've started to withdraw. I feel no need or desire to be a "social butterfly"...
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
That's bullcrap. Women can't compartmentalize like that. They usually fall for their affair partner and start resenting the husband, and it almost always ends up in divorce and they leave the husband for whoever they're having sex with.
Men, on the other hand, almost never do.
it sounds like you've had a bad experience, srs. explain what happened?
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
Perhaps for yourself, but given the factors, it is a reality that goes without saying.

It's also a point to make that it would take more than one factor for a woman to cheat than it would for a man, most women (unless their straight up whores!) do not jump into bed with someone, they often need to feel emotionally connected with the other before being intimate with them.

Whereas, a man often has two brains. (His brain.....and the other well you know where that is!)
You think women wouldn't just jump into bed with a man?

The following threads are Tinder experiments, where a good looking guy pictures are uploaded on Tinder and his comments revolve around sex. Take a quick read and then come back to tell me what you think about your statement.

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=165391081

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=164410151

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=160326681
Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
That's bullcrap. Women can't compartmentalize like that. They usually fall for their affair partner and start resenting the husband, and it almost always ends up in divorce and they leave the husband for whoever they're having sex with.
Men, on the other hand, almost never do.
Why do women go back to their exes then?
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
it sounds like you've had a bad experience, srs. explain what happened?
No, I'm still with my original husband for 21 yearsHowever, I do know that about women, they don't just have "sex" the way men do. Misc can say whatever they want about sloots slooting, but it doesn't make it so.
post 1521607161 10-05-2017, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By bustermac⏩
Then why is the first line they say when they get caught is "baby, he didn't mean anything to me!"

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also, considering they are cheating they are straight up whores, so her point is moot.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
No, I'm still with myoriginal husband for 21 yearsHowever, I do know that about women, they don't just have "sex" the way men do. Misc can say whatever they want about sloots slooting, but it doesn't make it so.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
No, I'm still with my original husband for 21 yearsHowever, I do know that about women,they don't just have "sex" the way men do. Misc can say whatever they want about sloots slooting, but it doesn't make it so.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=165391081

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=164410151

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=160326681


I'm sure they don't
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Originally Posted By AndYUKnowThis⏩
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=165391081

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=164410151

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=160326681


I'm sure they don't
None of those links work.
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I'm pretty fuking sure ALYON has unanimously taken the position of "worst poster".
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
I am not talking out of my ass, you can either have a reasonable discussion or you can leave.

You choose.
Who are you to tell him "You can either have a reasonable discussion or you can leave....You choose"?


What if he doesnt choose one of your options?

Are you a mod?
Are you the forum admin?
Do you own this forum?
Are you going to give him an infraction?
Are you going to ban him?

This is a DISCUSSION form and you may find opinions that you dont agree with, snowflake.
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
I'm pretty fuking sure ALYON has unanimously taken the position of "worst poster".
Why are you always bashing me?

I don't even communicate with u half the time

Just leave me alone for Gods sake...
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
Who are you to tell him "You can either have a reasonable discussion or you can leave....You choose"?


Are you a mod?
Do you own this forum?

This is a DISCUSSION form and you may find opinions that you dont agree with.
Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
I'm pretty fuking sure ALYON has unanimously taken the position of "worst poster".
i almost feel sorry for her, "almost" being the key word
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
I am not talking out of my ass, you can either have a reasonable discussion or you can leave.

You choose.
So you defend your stance about it being more likely for men to cheat than women, by saying women need an emotional connection before sleeping with someone.

Did you forget that for the man to cheat he would have to build an emotional connection (by your definition) with the new lover? Requiring an equal amount of effort for men and women to cheat.

Unless the man is gay or a rapist, in which case it's a completely different topic.
working on it
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
That's bullcrap. Women can't compartmentalize like that. They usually fall for their affair partner and start resenting the husband, and it almost always ends up in divorce and they leave the husband for whoever they're having sex with.
Men, on the other hand, almost never do.
Yes. Cass, you are right on this.

Women are not the same as men when it comes to this part in life, if a woman cheats on her partner/husband, she has 'mentally' divorced/left him already. A woman just doesn't straight up jump in the sack like a man would, it doesn't work like that, there is a process involved.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
That's bullcrap. Women can't compartmentalize like that. They usually fall for their affair partner and start resenting the husband, and it almost always ends up in divorce and they leave the husband for whoever they're having sex with.
Men, on the other hand, almost never do.
You're one of my favorite posters but you're wrong.

A lot of women can compartmentalize.

Just because you can't (which is fine) doesn't mean most can't.
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