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post 1521611231 10-05-2017, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
There are more social, physical and emotional obstacles blocking a woman from cheating than there would be a man.
Only if you have a time machine.

Today, a woman cheats and gets a major publication telling the world "it was the right choice".
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Originally Posted By Cass40
It was Dr. Phil who said that.

He had statistics about divorce rates, then how second marriage had even bigger chance to fail.

Something like 40% of marriages end up in divorce 60% if it's a second marriage, and 95% if it starts from an affair.
Good enough for me - I have a friend who is making a huge mistake and I'd love to beat him over the head with some statistics.


Edit - I used the google machine and found that very episode in 20 seconds.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
I am not saying women DONT cheat. Women cheat and so do men. It is the reality of life. The fact is, in the society we live in, a man cheating is not morally or socially apprehended as much as a woman who cheats, the normalisation of cheating for the man, the over-sexualisation of society and also a man's greater urge to have sex propels them to cheat moreso than a woman....
not sure if srs or slightly slow or jaded from your past. Any man that cheats these days is thrown under the bus and left with his head on a pike outside the city for everyone to see. Let us not forget he will then get violated like no ones business in the divorce. A woman can openly cheat, update her social media status and people will congratulate her for better her life, then for the cherry on top will get the guy for alimony and spousal support in the divorce even though she was the one that did the wrong doing. So please tell me when a man is able to do that to a woman with such ease.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Something like 40% of marriages end up in divorce
chit least it went down from 50% a couple years ago
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Originally Posted By Cass40
I don't know where you find those women seriously.
Everywhere from every nation and every type of background.

The crossfit girl I've been seeing for 9 mths or so is VP of a very large corporation.

She sees me only for sex. We haven't been on a date in almost 9 months. I often will ask if she's free and we have to book play dates around her work and social schedule. For example I'm going over there tonight. She has dinner plans. She's leaving me a key and said she'll be home later. She never responded to my last text this morning.

She will go days without responding to a text then pop up out of the blue.

There are others that might like you but not Love you and have sex with you on and off for years.
My first love who is 15yrs older than me dated me for two years. She liked me but was in love with another guy. But according to her I was just way better in bed than him. She has always been a very successful engineer.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
people are stating anecdotal evidence cause all it takes is one example to defeat the arguments you made ITT.

Like I said, you're not necessarily wrong but the way you put it and your matter-of-fact attitude about what you said made you out to be an insufferable kunt.


Do men have less social angst against cheating? probably
Do more men cheat? apparently
do women have a harder time dissociating sex and their emotions? Yes


Is that even close to how you framed your opinion? fuk no.


You can't say 'when women cheat, it takes more reasons than men' or whatever bs you were claiming as if it's true across the board. You will trigger miscers
That is everything how I framed it.

Perhaps since this is non verbal exchange, it comes across as a slightly off-putting or 'kunt-ish' as you put it, but none the less, I am not saying anything out of the ordinary.
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Originally Posted By Notafitchick
Some of you men have an invalid argument with " a girl I dated." This isn't about some chick you dated, and stuck your dink in a few times then found out she was bagging some other guy cause instead of getting to know her you stuck your dink in her by date two then later found out she was slut. This is about wife material and you screwing it up so bad she'd rather be with another man.
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Originally Posted By Notafitchick
Some of you men have an invalid argument with " a girl I dated." This isn't about some chick you dated, and stuck your dink in a few times then found out she was bagging some other guy cause instead of getting to know her you stuck your dink in her by date two then later found out she was slut. This is about wife material and you screwing it up so bad she'd rather be with another man.
If she'd rather be with another man then maybe she should fk off and be with him
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke
chit least it went down from 50% a couple years ago
No, I can't remember exactly. I only remember the 95% because it was so remarkable. However, with every new marriage the likelihood of it working, goes down.

That's why I stay with my original husband
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
That is everything how I framed it.

Perhaps since this is non verbal exchange, it comes across as a slightly off-putting or 'kunt-ish' as you put it, but none the less,I am not saying anything out of the ordinary.
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Originally Posted By residesinAZ
Communist News Network continuing the attack on the American family.
Correct, they are creating as much chaos as they can through the media.

We getting LGTTB rammed down our throats 24/7 also
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke
You are beyond annoying. On a serious level.
post 1521612101 10-05-2017, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
If she'd rather be with another man then maybe she should fk off and be with him
And, if men would rather screw it up so bad with drugs, porn, financial moves that hurt the family, secrets, lies, partying, drinking, and many other things instead of protecting the very thing he swore to protect then he should be left to it also, and when women get enough and it clicks that is it.
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Srs white men need to take control of their women. Lol@ giving women too much "freedom".
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Something like 40% of marriages end up in divorce 60% if it's a second marriage, and 95% if it starts from an affair.
People like to blame the institution of marriage on that, especially around here. They say marriage is a horrible idea and that it should be banished. The Democrat Party and gay movements are in an all-out attack on marriage and the traditional family.


However, it's not marriage that is the problem, it's the people involved...selfish people. Marriage is absolutely worth it and fulfilling when you do it right (like me). The thing is, in a selfish, narcissistic society (just look at the obsession with social media and LOOK AT ME ME ME!)...it's becoming increasingly difficult for people to do the necessary step of setting their own desires aside to focus on the needs of their spouse. Marriage is not a 50/50 deal, it's a go all-in and give 100% to the other person deal. When a husband and wife BOTH focus on the other's happiness and needs instead of their own, it will be a long, happy, successful marriage.

People are just too selfish to do what it takes these days, but it's not marriage's fault.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
That is everything how I framed it.

Perhaps since this is non verbal exchange, it comes across as a slightly off-putting or 'kunt-ish' as you put it, but none the less, I am not saying anything out of the ordinary.
No you claimed some random numbers about how many men and women have cheated, even though you actually have no idea
Originally Posted By ALyon120
It is not even arguable. Out of 100 women I'd say 50% have cheated before, but out of say a sample of men, the odds are that 80% have cheated on their respective partners. (of course this are hypothetical figures but nonetheless an indication that a man cheating is likely to be far higher than a women cheating, due to social acceptance, and Western civilisation).
Then you claimed a majority of miscers have cheated, even though AGAIN you have no fukking clue
Originally Posted By ALyon120
That may be the case for you (not cheating) but I can assure you majority of your 'brahs' have cheated, if not once, multiple times.
Then you claimed that it will take more for a woman to cheat than a man, even though you can't prove that in any way
Originally Posted By ALyon120
It's also a point to make that it would take more than one factor for a woman to cheat than it would for a man, most women (unless their straight up whores!) do not jump into bed with someone, they often need to feel emotionally connected with the other before being intimate with them.
Just one example where it wouldn't take more than one factor for a woman to cheat, and your claim is obviously wrong. AKA I mention my sloot ex who fuked a guy for some pills. Just the one reason. your argument is invalid.


so tell me again how you framed your argument well? You said all of those things as truths, not softening your opinion with phrases like 'typically' or 'in my experience' or anything of the sort. You just said them like they're true.

But you have no fukking idea, goddamn how did you get so arrogant...
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Originally Posted By Notafitchick
And, if men would rather screw it up so bad with drugs, porn, financial moves that hurt the family, secrets, lies, partying, drinking, and many other things instead of protecting the very thing he swore to protect then he should be left to it also, and when women get enough and it clicks that is it.
If she's had enough, then why wouldn't she fking leave? Staying with a guy you don't want to be with and adding another problem into the mix isn't going to fix anything.

Common sense, not even once.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You are beyond annoying. On a serious level.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
No you claimed some random numbers about how many men and women have cheated, even though you actually have no idea



Then you claimed a majority of miscers have cheated, even though AGAIN you have no fukking clue



Then you claimed that it WILL take more for a woman to cheat than a man, even though you can't prove that in any way




so tell me again how you framed your argument well? You said all of those things as truths, not softening your opinion with phrases like 'typically' or 'in my experience' or anything of the sort. You just said them like they're true.

But you have no fukking idea, goddamn how did you get so arrogant...
Perhaps that was my mistake, perhaps I should have instead of sounding so matter-of-fact stated them more as a hypothesis's.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You three have very little perspective, Jacob guy, badblood and Frazettachit...
also, you don't even know me so how do you know my perspective?


I'm older, been with a good number of women, been cheated on, and am happily married. I probably have a lot more perspective than you do.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
I'm older, been with a good number of women, been cheated on, and am happily married.
ayeeeee fellow 24 year old married brah checking in
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
If she's had enough, then why wouldn't she doing leave? Staying with a guy you don't won't to be with and and adding another problem into the mix isn't going to fix anything.

Common sense, not even once.
I never said it's going to fix anything. I never said it will make it worse, or better. I just simply made a statement of what I felt about these men " comparing marriage/wife" to a " woman they dated." And how when a woman is done she is done.

Sometimes it isn't that easy to leave for either sex. #1 the children #2 finances #3 you hold on to hope a miracle can save what you loved
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
also, you don't even know me so how do you know my perspective?


I'm older, been with a good number of women, been cheated on, and am happily married. I probably have a lot more perspective than you do.
You are 2 years older than I am.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You are 2 years older than I am.
believe me, it shows
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
also, you don't even know me so how do you know my perspective?


I'm older, been with a good number of women, been cheated on, and am happily married. I probably have a lot more perspective than you do.
Your posts came across as insensitive and quite rude to be honest with you.
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Originally Posted By Thunder999
Correct, they are creating as much chaos as they can through the media.

We getting LGTTB rammed down our throats 24/7 also
It's getting rammed down your throat, not mine. Feminists, LGTTB, race wars, gender wars have never bothered me, never will
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You are 2 years older than I am.
.... been with a good number of women, been cheated on, and am happily married. I probably have a lot more perspective than you do.



I notice you didn't deny it.
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Originally Posted By Notafitchick
I never said it's going to fix anything. I never said it will make it worse, or better. I just simply made a statement of what I felt about these men " comparing marriage/wife" to a " woman they dated." And how when a woman is done she is done.

Sometimes it isn't that easy to leave for either sex. #1 the children #2 finances #3 you hold on to hope a miracle can save what you loved
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Originally Posted By Notafitchick
I never said it's going to fix anything. I never said it will make it worse, or better. I just simply made a statement of what I felt about these men " comparing marriage/wife" to a " woman they dated." And how when a woman is done she is done.

Sometimes it isn't that easy to leave for either sex. #1 the children #2 finances #3 you hold on to hope a miracle can save what you loved
If you agree that it's not going to fix anything then I'm not sure how what you are saying has any relevance. Like I said if she's gotten to the point where she wants to go be with someone else and can't fix it with current guy them she should go be with someone else.

No excuses.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
Your posts came across as insensitive and quite rude to be honest with you.
So do yours, and also uninformed and naive


this the misc what did u expect?? You can't pontificate a bunch of BS and not get flamed.



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