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post 1521822511 10-07-2017, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
And I understand* that, but see what you're saying isn't this:
Right, and why is that coping that this is her physical preference? That the chubby/dad bod guy will turn her head? We all like different things.
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So the women that agree with this assessment, do you get wet over Dean Norris? He has that perfect dad bod going for him. No homo.
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Not really. I usually go for skinny guys. Closest chubby crush I had was on this Italian singer with the voice of an angel. (Likely not even straight).

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
^^^^ He gets it. I have met and had the ability to smash complete Chad's. Face and body 20/10's. But guess what?! I felt no mental connection and they did nothing for me physically because of that.
See I don't get it. If they're 20/10's then surely you'd find them sexually attractive? Not saying youd want to settle down with them but just cause there's no mental connection, does that really diminish any physical attraction? For instance famous actors that are hot, you'll never know if there's a connection or not, but surely you can still find them well, hot?

What I'm saying is.. I get what you're saying, but let's be honest, the guy in the third pic, even just his physique type IS hot. Maybe it's just me. And I get what GGW is saying, but it's not as cut and dry as "ripped guys aren't hot, more 'normal' looking guys are" cause we're all human after all
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post 1521822611 10-07-2017, 04:47 PM
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post 1521822651 10-07-2017, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
Strong lies. You're a dried up mentally ill old hag. What chad would want you? LMAO
Oh sweetie. LMAO. Just LMAO. You truly have no idea.
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post 1521822771 10-07-2017, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Right, and why is that coping that this is her physical preference? That the chubby/dad bod guy will turn her head? We all like different things.
I explained why it was cope already ITT
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
her physical bias is her just saying she is attracted to what she knows...the only guy she has been with. It's like a baby having it's first ice cream ever (vanilla), and then making a thread about vanilla ice cream being the best tasting to it.
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
Hahaha well I'm thin, but I ldo ove to eat

And yes I haven't had any bad experiences with men since I have only had a few boyfriend's beside my husband and of those bf we broke up on friendly terms.

This is so funny. These skinny men who have worked so hard for their physiques SO mad that there are possibly females that just do NOT get turned on by their avis.

If you lined a 10/10 personality Chad up beside a 10/10 personality Jeremy (Jeremy is not Timothy since he's still alpha. Jeremy is the funny and chill guy) I'd take Jeremy.

All other things being equal I would still go after the chubbier one.
It's reverse cope.


Calling out her cope for a VERY BASIC standard and preference for attraction is a huge projection that strips you of your confirmation bias that a muscular physique is better. The thing is, it probably is - she's most likely the unpopular opinion. But to say it HAS to be because of psychological issue or an adaption to results is bogus. I'm not WK'ing either, this really isn't rocket science. You cool in my book tho drvillian, I'm just not followin you on this one.
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post 1521822821 10-07-2017, 04:49 PM
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I understand that the OP is being serious about her preferences. However, as a guy who is consistently around 20-25% bf I can honestly say that I am near invisible to most women based on looks alone.
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Originally Posted By MissChill⏩
Not really. I usually go for skinny guys. Closest chubby crush I had was on this Italian singer with the voice of an angel. (Likely not even straight).

Aww yeah. I love Hispanic or Italian men. My husband has italian features and Hazel Green eyes. Burtiful.
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post 1521822881 10-07-2017, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh sweetie. LMAO. Just LMAO. You truly have no idea.
Just put him on your ignore list.

You don't deserve to see that kind of negativity around here.
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Originally Posted By MuckSnapper⏩
It's reverse cope.

Calling out her cope for a VERY BASIC standard and preference for attraction is a huge projection that strips you of your confirmation bias that a muscular physique is better. The thing is, it probably is - she's most likely the unpopular opinion. But to say it HAS to be because of psychological issue or an adaption to results is bogus. I'm not WK'ing either, this really isn't rocket science. You cool in my book tho drvillian, I'm just not followin you on this one.
You're cool in my book as well so lets just agree to disagree. I don't think it's bogus
post 1521822951 10-07-2017, 04:51 PM
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Some of you seem extremely rustled at the idea that no matter how much gym time you log, there are some chicks that won't ever desire you
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post 1521822991 10-07-2017, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
See I don't get it. If they're 20/10's then surely you'd find them sexually attractive? Not saying youd want to settle down with them but just cause there's no mental connection, does that really diminish any physical attraction? For instance famous actors that are hot, you'll never know if there's a connection or not, but surely you can still find them well, hot?

What I'm saying is.. I get what you're saying, but let's be honest, the guy in the third pic, even just his physique type IS hot. Maybe it's just me. And I get what GGW is saying, but it's not as cut and dry as "ripped guys aren't hot, more 'normal' looking guys are" cause we're all human after all
Oh no no no. I'm absolutely physically attracted to hot guys. That 3rd guy..... total swoon! I'm a total pervert and love me some eye candy. I'm saying that in order to want to actually have sex with someone, I need mental as well as physical.
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post 1521823041 10-07-2017, 04:52 PM
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....I'll be back. Continue the discussion though lol

Also post more hot chubby men. Reps to anyone that finds a hippie that's chubby. They are almost extinct because of all that vegan/vegetarian food
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Oh no no no. I'm absolutely physically attracted to hot guys. That 3rd guy..... total swoon! I'm a total pervert and love me some eye candy. I'm saying that in order to want to actually have sex with someone, I need mental as well as physical.
Ooh ok gotcha
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post 1521823191 10-07-2017, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
Some of you seem extremely rustled at the idea that no matter how much gym time you log, there are some chicks that won't ever desire you
This. It's like a woman of my size getting pissed off because some of y'all would rather have womanl33t or melis' body than mine. I'm small and not every man likes that.

Luckily I give my husband boners by just looking at him so...

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post 1521823251 10-07-2017, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120⏩
Just put him on your ignore list.

You don't deserve to see that kind of negativity around here.
Meh, I can take it because I know what I look like and what I can and have gotten. lol
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the other day i was mirin my ass in the mirror with my boxers on...they are kinda tight and u can see the curves of the glutes without the fatty banana roll...very aesthetic...would smash myself
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
This. It's like a woman of my size getting pissed off because some of y'all would rather have womanl33t or melis' body than mine. I'm small and not every man likes that.
Stop frauding that you're not pissed about that.
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
I'm small and not every man likes that.

Luckily I give my husband boners by just looking at him so...

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lol you prove my point piece by piece with each post
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
This. It's like a woman of my size getting pissed off because some of y'all would rather have womanl33t or melis' body than mine. I'm small and not every man likes that.

Luckily I give my husband boners by just looking at him so...

Be back
Exactly. You are with him because you are better than him physically and you like the power it gives you over him.

I bet you deny him sex whenever you want to get your own way about something. 'I want a new dress and no sex for you until I get it!'

Poor guy
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post 1521823481 10-07-2017, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
This. It's like a woman of my size getting pissed off because some of y'all would rather have womanl33t or melis' body than mine. I'm small and not every man likes that.

Luckily I give my husband boners by just looking at him so...

Be back
Exactly! Just like every guy has a preference so do we.
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This just in! There are people on this planet that will not like you/find you attractive, no matter how hard you try!
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Op pls respond do you like this type? They look sexy to me.
Particularly in the age group a bit older than me (kinda like 25-30 or above) I've definitely had many girls tell me they're attracted to this kind of physique. Not fat, but just bear mode/rugby type physiques. 100kg, broad shoulders, fit, but not too fussed if they're sub-12% or anything.

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Responding to other stuff in this thread: I think when people are arguing about which is better, the arguments need to take "all else equal". Assume physical and mental are completely independent and then what do you pick.
Lots of reverse cope though. Moral of the story is lift for yourself because there are girls that like all body types (within some obvious boundaries)
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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩
Aww yeah. I love Hispanic or Italian men. My husband has italian features and Hazel Green eyes. Burtiful.
HubbabubbaI think if the man has certain things in place he can get away with a lil more fat. Full head of hair, nice face, voice of the gods for example. But I do tend to attract slim guys, maybe its cos I'm tall and taller guys tend to be slimmer (outside of the misc ofc).
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I'd expect some bs like this from you.
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You see!? I've probably said it like 4 or 5 times before, every girl is different, they don't all like the same type of guy. Every guy has a chance so don't try to tell me you're too fat or ugly or poor or socially awkward. It's all excuses fellas
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I'd almost believe it wasnt cope were it not for the "all jacked guys are jerks!!!!!" mentality you have. I know tons of in shape super nice guys.

People like what they can get period.
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