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post 1524138261 10-28-2017, 09:23 AM
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How do you deal with your gf/wife aging?

Any of you been in this position?

Was thinking about people who are in LTR and how you cope with the change....

Your long term gf who used to be hot, is now getting a bit plumper on her belly, her skin is not that hnnngg silky smooth anymore, she's not as tight as she used to be, her hair is falling out constantly, her perky teds now droop and fall, that azz you used to eat like groceries now is covered in cellulite......

How do LTR brahs deal with this?

Does love transcend physical appearance?

What if you look better now than when you both got together and she now looks like chit?

Do you just go NC?

Discuss brahs
post 1524138381 10-28-2017, 09:24 AM
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You do what 90% of men do and go to stripclubs, escorts, dating apps and work colleagues and live out the rest of your life as a dude who couldn't even be honest with himself let alone his family.
When that maxilla go forward their panties go downward
post 1524138391 10-28-2017, 09:24 AM
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post 1524138431 10-28-2017, 09:25 AM
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Fuark bro you need to get outside.

If you're just after young flesh, it'd be cheaper over the long run to buy hookers.
post 1524138591 10-28-2017, 09:28 AM
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Personally I just neg op and go on with my life
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post 1524138601 10-28-2017, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By American
Fuark bro you need to get outside.

If you're just after young flesh, it'd be cheaper over the long run to buy hookers.
Stop being a salty lil bitch, I'm not mocking anyone, I'm asking how you deal with it? Does it cross your mind she's changed? Does it bother you someone you invest years of your life into now looks awful?

Why does everyone get so butthurt when asked uncomfortable questions?
post 1524138641 10-28-2017, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
Personally I just neg op and go on with my life
Pmsl, someone is bitter his wife looks like chit lmao

Just think of the cawk carousel she rode before she settled for your beta self.
post 1524138771 10-28-2017, 09:32 AM
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good question. id also like to gain some of this wisdom
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post 1524138821 10-28-2017, 09:32 AM
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Humans deteriorate over time, some more gracefully than others.

If you can't get past the idea that the body of the woman you've fallen in love is going to sag and get wrinkly over the years then like poster above said, stick to banging young hookers and randos.
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post 1524138921 10-28-2017, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Any of you been in this position?

Was thinking about people who are in LTR and how you cope with the change....

Your long term gf who used to be hot, is now getting a bit plumper on her belly, her skin is not that hnnngg silky smooth anymore, she's not as tight as she used to be, her hair is falling out constantly, her perky teds now droop and fall, that azz you used to eat like groceries now is covered in cellulite......

How do LTR brahs deal with this?

Does love transcend physical appearance?

What if you look better now than when you both got together and she now looks like chit?

Do you just go NC?

Discuss brahs
Not inevitable

Also ..we've had this thread recently
post 1524138991 10-28-2017, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Pmsl, someone is bitter his wife looks like chit lmao

Just think of the cawk carousel she rode before she settled for your beta self.
She looks better now than she did 22 years ago when we started dating. It’s something called love that you may never experience.
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post 1524139081 10-28-2017, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By fmylife4real
Humans deteriorate over time, some more gracefully than others.

If you can't get past the idea that the body of the woman you've fallen in love is going to sag and get wrinkly over the years then like poster above said, stick to banging young hookers and randos.
Of course but is there something in us as males that we would rather be with a young hot sloot or somebody you have invested years into? Is it choice as a result of the monogamy our society has played up? Or is it a biological impulse?
post 1524139091 10-28-2017, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
She looks better now than she did 22 years ago when we started dating. It’s something called love that you may never experience.
Sure she does delusionalbrah
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post 1524139111 10-28-2017, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
She looks better now than she did 22 years ago when we started dating. It’s something called love that you may never experience.
Sure she does, that's why your so mad lmao
post 1524139281 10-28-2017, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Sure she does, that's why your so mad lmao
Not mad at all just telling the truth. You are the mad one. I’m chilling at swim class with my wife and kids admiring how great my life is.
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post 1524139321 10-28-2017, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted By fmylife4real
Humans deteriorate over time, some more gracefully than others.

If you can't get past the idea that the body of the woman you've fallen in love is going to sag and get wrinkly over the years then like poster above said, stick to banging young hookers and randos.
This. If all you've ever had is fish love OP then of course you're only going to focus on these things. What happens when YOU start getting soft, maybe have a gut developing, are balding, balls sag, maybe gyno starts to settle in, that prostate of yours is acting up, can't make love to her like you used to etc. You grow old and age together, it's part of the process.
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post 1524139411 10-28-2017, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
Not mad at all just telling the truth. You are the mad one. I’m chilling at swim class with my wife and kids admiring how great my life is.
Hahaha how great your life is yet you can't tear yourself away from miscing and spend real time with your family.....

Bitter as fuark
post 1524139561 10-28-2017, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By lawsfallmute
This. If all you've ever had is fish love OP then of course you're only going to focus on these things. What happens when YOU start getting soft, maybe have a gut developing, are balding, balls sag, maybe gyno starts to settle in, that prostate of yours is acting up, can't make love to her like you used to etc. You grow old and age together, it's part of the process.
Fish love?
post 1524139691 10-28-2017, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
She looks better now than she did 22 years ago when we started dating. It’s something called love that you may never experience.
This.

Bishing about having to grow old with your woman is pure cope for not being able to keep a woman.
post 1524139771 10-28-2017, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre
Personally I just neg op and go on with my life
This
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You do what 90% of men do and go to stripclubs, escorts, dating apps and work colleagues and live out the rest of your life as a dude who couldn't even be honest with himself let alone his family.
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As long as she still puts out, it's just part of life.
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1
This
You with a fatty too I take it. Condolences cuck.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Not inevitable

Also ..we've had this thread recently
What is not inevitable?
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****** you age too like everyone else *******
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I used to be soft and curvy. Now I'm strong and curvy with greater musculature. If I think objectively it could be kinda weird cos it's a different body but he seems to like it ...it didn't happen overnight

I'll never have the voluptuousness of youth it's true but I'm happy with the boobs I have left and sag is not inevitable (even with pregnancy and breastfeeding). Access to the weight room means the rest is easier to build and maintain and the ratios are still there

I see a lot more men turning to chit than women tbh
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Hahaha how great your life is yet you can't tear yourself away from miscing and spend real time with your family.....

Bitter as fuark
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The truth is you don't notice it. You see her every day and don't perceive the slow decline.
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