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post 1524143341 10-28-2017, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1
You say you are satisfied, but you keep creating threads that are born from your insecurity about your height.

You are tiny.

Accept it so you can move forward in a positive way.

Lashing out at the world about it isn't really helping you.
Haha yes I am tiny, yes I am fine with that

If I was so insecure about my height and weight why would i constantly joke about them? Why wouldn't I make a troll account saying I'm 6'7 200lbs.....

To some people it really doesn't matter

Because of my height and weight I've been able to achieve some magnificent things in my sport. Maybe if I was taller and heavier I may not have had the opportunity to achieve those same goals.
Unlike the follower mindset of most miscers, I put my personal goals over getting sloots. And only thing height effects (according to miscers) is pulling chicks.....
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Haha yes I am tiny, yes I am fine with that

If I was so insecure about my height and weight why would i constantly joke about them? Why wouldn't I make a troll account saying I'm 6'7 200lbs.....

To some people it really doesn't matter

Because of my height and weight I've been able to achieve some magnificent things in my sport. Maybe if I was taller and heavier I may not have had the opportunity to achieve those same goals.
Unlike the follower mindset of most miscers, I put my personal goals over getting sloots. And only thing height effects (according to miscers) is pulling chicks.....
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It also helps us reach the freezer without standing on a chair. Too bad you won't know those feels.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Damn brah, feel bad for your pops

Sounds like a dude that should've had a loyal loving wife stand by his side

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Originally Posted By seekingainz
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It also helps us reach the freezer without standing on a chair. Too bad you won't know those feels.
My freezer takes the lower segment on my fridge freezer


Try harder lanklet

Edit: holy chit just seen your Avi, lmao you fukin Michelin man wannabe, zero shoulder development, gyno through the roof, body fat higher than your 2 digit IQ

Fatty please
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Haha yes I am tiny, yes I am fine with that

If I was so insecure about my height and weight why would i constantly joke about them? Why wouldn't I make a troll account saying I'm 6'7 200lbs.....

To some people it really doesn't matter

Because of my height and weight I've been able to achieve some magnificent things in my sport. Maybe if I was taller and heavier I may not have had the opportunity to achieve those same goals.
Unlike the follower mindset of most miscers, I put my personal goals over getting sloots. And only thing height effects (according to miscers) is pulling chicks.....
Yet you make a thread that boils down to "I'm tiny, but I can kick ass!" followed by "I'm not insecure about my physical appearance (really!) but what do you do when your wife ages and doesn't look 20?"

When you say your height and weight has been a positive in your sport, I read "it's better because I didnt have to lose to big guys"

At this rate, you don't have to worry about your wife aging, because you won't have one.

Like I said before, believe in yourself. Confidence will conquer your insecurities.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
My freezer takes the lower segment on my fridge freezer


Try harder lanklet

Edit: holy chit just seen your Avi, lmao you fukin Michelin man wannabe, zero shoulder development, gyno through the roof, body fat higher than your 2 digit IQ

Fatty please
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Not everyone ages the way your mum did OPie.


That said, everyone ages, everyone gains a bit of weight naturally with age. Some women get cellulite, some men bald. Some women gain too much weight, some men can't get it up. It's called love and knowing this person fits with your personality and your life more than some young thing on the streets. Maybe one day when you're 60 and realizing you don't actually have enough money to offer to get a 20 yo to sleep with you, you'll think back to this thread and regret your life decisions.
They said she's gone too far this time

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I'm going through this in a way right now. My wife was fit and 20lbs. lighter until she hit depression for the last 20 years and gained that 20lbs.

Luckily the fat was distributed well with her working out methods. Still though. I liked her body more when she ran constantly and was pushing soft abs on her body. I'm a visual creature and i need sexy features to be into you. Which is a bad thing imo, but is something I can't change.

Now she is pregnant and will be getting bigger.

At this point. We both agree to eat healthy and focus on weightlifting. She doens't want to be heavy herself and wants to lose at least 10lbs. So i'm not that disappointed, since she wants to change her body as well. This is alot better than being with someone that doesn't want to put the effort in to be in a fit lifestyle. So I am willing to wait. I've told her in the past. If your lifestyle changes to where you don't want to diet, and workout anymore. Where you eat Burger King everyday and watch Netflix afterwards. Then we have a problem that I will deal with. Since that is a lifestyle conflict, and conflicting lifestyles don't help marriages.

Still. I do miss that 20-27 year old body of hers. But I do love the 30+ one as well. If she lost the 10lbs, it would be nice and luscious.
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1
Yet you make a thread that boils down to "I'm tiny, but I can kick ass!" followed by "I'm not insecure about my physical appearance (really!) but what do you do when your wife ages and doesn't look 20?"

At this rate, you don't have to worry about your wife aging, because you won't have one.

Like I said before, believe in yourself. Confidence will conquer your insecurities.
I make threads out of boredom when at work. I'm a cheeky fukkers yes, I will jest with bigger ppl that I would whoop them well aware that some big guys with no skills but a bad temper can easily have me eating out of a straw, I've seen enough people's lives change in ten seconds due to stupid fights.

Me not following society and getting a wife is not something that bothers me. Right now in my life I don't want a woman to tie me or my feels down. I'm constantly working, training/competing and traveling, I don't want a woman getting in the way right now. I've had women in the past trying to stop me progressing.

I understand women age, which is why I asked how men deal with it. Yet so many of you got butthurt.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
My freezer takes the lower segment on my fridge freezer


Try harder lanklet

Edit: holy chit just seen your Avi, lmao you fukin Michelin man wannabe, zero shoulder development, gyno through the roof, body fat higher than your 2 digit IQ

Fatty please
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu
Not everyone ages the way your mum did OPie.


That said, everyone ages, everyone gains a bit of weight naturally with age. Some women get cellulite, some men bald. Some women gain too much weight, some men can't get it up. It's called love and knowing this person fits with your personality and your life more than some young thing on the streets. Maybe one day when you're 60 and realizing you don't actually have enough money to offer to get a 20 yo to sleep with you, you'll think back to this thread and regret your life decisions.
Hahaha firstly I don't know my mom's so that insult doesn't work

Secondly, don't be bitter your gonna look like a leather purse in less than 5 years. Like you said aging is natural, so try and remember this thread when you hit menopause next year.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
I make threads out of boredom when at work. I'm a cheeky fukkers yes, I will jest with bigger ppl that I would whoop them well aware that some big guys with no skills but a bad temper can easily have me eating out of a straw, I've seen enough people's lives change in ten seconds due to stupid fights.

Me not following society and getting a wife is not something that bothers me. Right now in my life I don't want a woman to tie me or my feels down. I'm constantly working, training/competing and traveling, I don't want a woman getting in the way right now. I've had women in the past trying to stop me progressing.

I understand women age, which is why I asked how men deal with it. Yet so many of you got butthurt.
You work really hard at explaining yourself.

The confident man does not need to do that.
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Originally Posted By ppself
I'm going through this in a way right now. My wife was fit and 20lbs. lighter until she hit depression for the last 20 years and gained that 20lbs.

Luckily the fat was distributed well with her working out methods. Still though. I liked her body more when she ran constantly and was pushing soft abs on her body. I'm a visual creature and needs sexy features to be into you. Which is a bad thing imo, but is something I can't change.

Now she is pregnant and will be getting bigger.

At this point. We both agree to eat healthy and focus on weightlifting. She doens't want to be heavy herself and wants to lose at least 10lbs. So i'm not that disappointed, since she wants to change her body as well. This is alot better than being with someone that doesn't want to put the effort in to be in a fit lifestyle. So I am willing to wait. I've told her in the past. If your lifestyle changes to where you don't want to diet, and workout anymore. Where you eat Burger King everyday and watch Netflix afterwards. Then we have a problem that I will deal with. Since that is a lifestyle conflict, and conflicting lifestyles don't help marriages.

Still. I do miss that 20-27 year old body of hers. But I do love the 30+ one as well. If she lost the 10lbs, it would be nice and luscious.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Hahaha firstly I don't know my mom's so that insult doesn't work

Secondly, don't be bitter your gonna look like a leather purse in less than 5 years. Like you said aging is natural, so try and remember this thread when you hit menopause next year.
I'm 25 and Asian. Try again.
They said she's gone too far this time

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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Hahaha firstly I don't know my mom's so that insult doesn't work
So your height is only part of the foundation of your insecurity.

Therapy might really help you. Seriously, I have PTSD and have benefited greatly from it.

I'm done poking fun. You clearly have real issues that shouldn't be joked about.
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1
You work really hard at explaining yourself.

The confident man does not need to do that.
I like to use my literature skills regularly.

I'm sure it's hard being autistic brah, don't worry, Allah will look after you.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu
I'm 25 and Asian. Try again.
Hahaha judging by your face you are 38 at the minimum. And what does being Asian have to do with anything?
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Originally Posted By GreenWave1
So your height is only part of the foundation of your insecurity.

Therapy might really help you. Seriously, I have PTSD and have benefited greatly from it.

I'm done poking fun. You clearly have real issues that shouldn't be joked about.
I do have issues....don't we all. Which goes back to why I am more than satisfied with what I have achieved in my life.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
Why is virginity so important to our society though? Ever had sex with a virgin? It sucks.
It's something that nobody else can ever take from you.

It's pretty much a trophy, no matter what happens her virginity is and will always be yours, even when she's 90 years old she'll remember you.


Samething happens to you tho lmao
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Marry someone with good genetics who cares about themselves?

My wife is hotter at 30 than she was at 22.
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Originally Posted By MiniManletBrah
I like to use my literature skills regularly.

I'm sure it's hard being autistic brah, don't worry, Allah will look after you.
*Literacy skills
Originally Posted By LinuxJon
Marry someone with good genetics who cares about themselves?

My wife is hotter at 30 than she was at 22.
Haven't you only known her a short while?
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To answer your question OP, idc.

My gf was never sexually active anyways, all I need is her company, her help & her uterus to bear children. Apparently her whole family was never sexually active, she can literally go months on end without having sex once and will not crave for it, never masturbated etc.

It used to bother me a lot but eventually I just moved on, I'm not gonna throw someone I like simply because they aren't that much into sex, for sexual pleasure I can just jack off, it's faster & the feeling is not that different (when you get used to fuking the same person for years it gets kinda dull is what I mean), as long as she bears my children I don't care anymore.


I have high sex drive tho so I fap a lot lmao
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you're aging too...its reality, its not something you learn to live with.

We all decay and die, not at the same rate.

First mistake made, is thinking you're better looking than her, so you have to "cope" with her visual decline. Its possible we might be getting uglier and older, at a faster rate.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
*Literacy skills



Haven't you only known her a short while?
Like 3 months before they got marrier in Vegas, prego soon after

Good choices all around
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
I used to be soft and curvy. Now I'm strong and curvy with greater musculature. If I think objectively it could be kinda weird cos it's a different body but he seems to like it ...it didn't happen overnight

I'll never have the voluptuousness of youth it's true but I'm happy with the boobs I have left and sag is not inevitable (even with pregnancy and breastfeeding). Access to the weight room means the rest is easier to build and maintain and the ratios are still there

I see a lot more men turning to chit than women tbh
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Originally Posted By stevesteve12
love how you casually neglected your droopy wrinkly face
I'm good

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Originally Posted By ImSamantha
Why would that matter? You would be having sex with your wife a billion times, not once. I'm pretty sure you will both get plenty of practice.

You seem to be wondering why virginity is important in your quest for a **** buddy. Obviously it's not? It's only important in a wife. If you're okay with your wife sleeping around then well quite frankly I don't believe you because we are designed to be territorial of our women to ensure our genetics spread and not another man sneaking his in but okay good for you. A lot of men are not okay with this.
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Originally Posted By sumusikoo
To answer your question OP, idc.

My gf was never sexually active anyways, all I need is her company, her help & her uterus to bear children. Apparently her whole family was never sexually active, she can literally go months on end without having sex once and will not crave for it, never masturbated etc.

It used to bother me a lot but eventually I just moved on, I'm not gonna throw someone I like simply because they aren't that much into sex, for sexual pleasure I can just jack off, it's faster & the feeling is not that different (when you get used to fuking the same person for years it gets kinda dull is what I mean), as long as she bears my children I don't care anymore.


I have high sex drive tho so I fap a lot lmao
What a sad ****ing post. You only live once so don't waste your precious time on a less than ideal situation. Go out there and find that woman who matches you physically, sexually and intellectually so your life can be adequately fulfilled.
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Wtf is this chit thread.

The question and debate had potential but then all these butthurt snowflakes married to fat cows come in and fuking thrash the thread with their own bitterness about marrying a cow-to-be.

idiots
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Originally Posted By homersexual
What a sad ****ing post. You only live once so don't waste your precious time on a less than ideal situation. Go out there and find that woman who matches you physically, sexually and intellectually so your life can be adequately fulfilled.
Life is not only about sex, she fulfills everything else I seek for in a women why would I leave her simply because she's not into sex? Sexual pleasure can easily be solved by yourself, almost everything else she does for me can't
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