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Thread: Married and engaged miscers, how do you know your marriage will last

post 1528346051 11-05-2017, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
You got married at 21??

Fuk
I'm not actually married. Just been with her for almost 12 years.
Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Chances of being run over and killed by a car: Probably less than 0.1%
Chances of divorce: nearly 50%.
Sure, but I'd rather get divorced than hit by a car.
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post 1528347371 11-05-2017, 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You can never be sure. All you can do is pick the best partner possible and then work on the marriage and on yourself. But there is never any certainty in relationships.

People who think there is certainty or who say "divorce is not an option" etc are people who think you can truly know someone or can control someone. Neither is true.
Disagree

I think they know themselves
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post 1528348251 11-05-2017, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Chances of being run over and killed by a car: Probably less than 0.1%
Chances of divorce: nearly 50%




There's nothing you can get in marriage that you cannot get out of it. Meaningless risk.
A life long friendship with someone you love? Tax benefits?

My parents have been happily married for 35 years, my wife's parents have been happily married for about 30 years. My wife and I both come from very close families with good values as well as incredibly good financial values (which makes a big difference). We're sure we'll be with each other for life.
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post 1528350711 11-05-2017, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Nearly all women ONLY want to marry someone with much MORE money than they do. It's essentially prostitution.

brb


I hate being the bread winner says resentful working mother-of-two
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...other-two.html
Another extreme being pushed to further your agenda. She's basically taking care of the entire family and every bill while the husband tries to find stable work. With finances being the number 1 reason why marriages don't work, I can see why they're in trouble. Also, how dumb were they to continue to have their children in private schools, and huge universities instead of public school and local community colleges to alleviate some of that debt.
What women really want: to marry a rich man
Women still want to marry men who are better educated and earn more money than them, a report finds today.

"The idea that women dislike being financially dependent on men is a myth, with more choosing to “marry up” now than did so in the 1940s, according to Dr Catherine Hakim from the London School of Economics.
After decades of gender equality campaigning many women now find it hard to admit that they want to be a housewife more than they want a successful career of their own, she said."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/ukne...-rich-man.html
This is how every marriage should be done, but as others have pointed out, most go into it ignoring huge red flags which almost always ends up destroying the marriage.


You can never fancy a man who becomes a house husband
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...g-verdict.html
Yet another extreme you are using to push a narrative that only affects a small percentage of marriages.

Women more attracted to men in expensive cars
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/motoring/...sive-cars.html

"It appears that the stereotype of women being positively influenced by a man's status is true and, evolutionarily speaking, this makes sense. However, even with the growing number of women in high-paid careers and the fact that they can be highly successful has no effect on how attractive they are to men. What you find is that thesenew, wealthy women still show a preferment for high-status males."
You're focusing too much on the extremes to push your narrative. I like how you cherry pick reports from daily mail to help. It's common sense that smart men and women alike want someone who is successful and has potential to earn more money in their lifetimes.
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It makes you wonder what kind of package he thinks he has to offer a partner that he is so worried about all the tabloid style extremes

Are people lining up to commit to you goonar? Is that your concern?
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You can never be sure about something that can change at any moment.

It's like saying, "I am sure the wind will blow east for the next 40 years", when at any moment, for any reason, it can suddenly blow south.

Marriage is a gamble with no reward and all risk. If it goes bad, you can lose everything. If it goes well, great, but you could have had the exact same situation without a government contract involved that says if it doesn't work out, you lose everything. A long term relationship without marriage is all reward, no risk. A marriage is all risk, no reward.

I know why people do it though. Because their friends get married and they feel pressured. Because their girlfriend pressures them into it. It's all just fuked up human nature.
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I started dating my wife 22 years ago and our 10 year wedding anniversary is coming up next year. We lived together for a while before getting married and you just know that you will be together forever. I wake up every day happy with her next to me.
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post 1528360911 11-05-2017, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE⏩
You're focusing too much on the extremes to push your narrative. I like how you cherry pick reports from daily mail to help. It's common sense that smart men and women alike want someone who is successful and has potential to earn more money in their lifetimes.
Are you retarded you dikkhead? Giving 4real world examplesto back up my claim is "cherry picking" to suit an "agenda"? Just LMAO!



These articles includedtwo different studiesshowing that women want men with MORE wealth than THEY do! Just LOL @ you coping!
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post 1528361741 11-05-2017, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
It makes you wonder what kind of package he thinks he has to offer a partner that he is so worried about all the tabloid style extremes
Articles just give real world examples to match the statistics of a near 50% divorce rate in western countries. You're the one that chooses to ignore facts, not me. And women do choose partners to marry based on their wealth. That is another stone cold FACT.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Are people lining up to commit to you goonar? Is that your concern?
You never answered my question from the other day. If marriage is so great, why are you posting pics of your tits on the misc, seeking attention from numerous young males? Shouldn't you be committing your time to your husband instead?
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
I started dating my wife 22 years ago and our 10 year wedding anniversary is coming up next year. We lived together for a while before getting married and you just know that you will be together forever. I wake up every day happy with her next to me.
I feel that.
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post 1528362681 11-05-2017, 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Are you retarded you dikkhead? Giving 4real world examplesto back up my claim is "cherry picking" to suit an "agenda"? Just LMAO!



These articles includedtwo different studiesshowing that women want men with MORE wealth than THEY do! Just LOL @ you coping!
Are you slow? All the articles YOU chose were all biased towards your opinion on marriage. What I'm saying is it's common sense that smart women would want men who possess wealth and status just like smart men would of women. What you posted really has nothing to do with what the OP asked anyway.
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
Love is an experience, not a thing. Many times people are deeply in love, but know a relationship won't work, while some may not even be in love, but find that a relationship suits both parties. People need to get the notion out of their heads that marriage is about love, because that was never its intention. It's a social contract, usually to help family stability when you have kids. If more people look at it as an social arrangement rather than un-ending Hollywood romance, then I think they would be much happier together.
Love is more than that, stop dumbing it down.
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE⏩
Are you slow? All the article YOU chose were all biased towards your opinion on marriage. What I'm saying is it's common sense that smart women would want men who possess wealth and status just like smart men would of women. What you posted really has nothing to do with what the OP asked anyway.
Citing objective studies which show women marry for wealth is not "biased" to my opinion you *******.It's fact, whether you like it or not.

And I was responding to someone else anyway you fukkin retard.
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Citing objective studies which show women marry for wealth is not "biased" to my opinion you *******.It's fact, whether you like it or not.

And I was responding to someone else anyway you fukkin retard.
Why are you so rustled lol?
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Once you get married the sexual life gradually decreases, once you get your first kid, the tour is over.

There are no valid reason whatsoever to get married nowadays.
post 1528364411 11-05-2017, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Once you get married the sexual life gradually decreases, once you get your first kid, the tour is over.

There are no valid reason whatsoever to get married nowadays.
Not to you anyways, lolololol. Should be reasons<plural btw, or change the are to is.
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post 1528364951 11-05-2017, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
You never answered my question from the other day. If marriage is so great, why are you posting pics of your tits on the misc, seeking attention from numerous young males? Shouldn't you be committing your time to your husband instead?
What? A pic in a tshirt and jeans is hardly "posting pics of tits" ...and is certainly far less flesh than many display in their avs. I actually posted that in a conversation with a female miscer. We have boobs and my natural shape is different from my strapped down av.

I'm actually proud of, and confident in, my body (particularly after 2 kids, srs illness and years going by) and your ridiculous attempts at being demeaning are just that. Who gives a fuk? Why do you?

I chat to lots of different people about lots of different stuff for interest, fun and basic amusement ...some are intrinsically charming and enjoyable, others are diverting in other ways ..I rather enjoy your own particular brand of tabloid driven anecdotal angst about marriage despite its repetitive nature.

I am happily married, have been for 17 years ..Marriage is fukking awesome right now ...it isn't always, it's RL.

If it helps reassure you my feet are in my husband's lap and he and our youngest are watching Stranger Things ...I'm sharing space but I'm not that into TV. I'm not gonna live in his pocket much as he doesn't in mine ...how cloying would that be?
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
What? A pic in a tshirt and jeans is hardly "posting pics of tits" ...and is certainly far less flesh than many display in their avs. I actually posted that in a conversation with a female miscer. I'm proud of, and confident in, my body and your ridiculous attempts at being demeaning are just that. Who gives a fuk? Why do you?

I chat to lots of different people about lots of different stuff for interest, fun and basic amusement ...some are intrinsically charming and enjoyable, others are diverting in other ways ..I rather enjoy your own particular brand of social tabloid driven anecdotal angst about marriage despite its repetitive nature.

I am happily married, have been for 17 years ..Marriage is fukking awesome right now ...it isn't always, it's RL.

If it helps reassure you my feet are in my husband's lap and he and our youngest are watching Stranger Things ...I'm sharing space but I'm not that into TV. I'm not gonna live in his pocket much as he doesn't in mine ...how cloying would that be?
Lol I keep telling you stop responding to bait
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE⏩
Why are you so rustled lol?
Clearly you're the one that got rustled since you negged me for sharing a couple of articles lol.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Lol I keep telling you stop responding to bait
But it's fun

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So a couple I know just got divorced after 35 YEARS of marriage. 8 children (srs)

For all the people in here saying they've been married for XX years and how it's going to last forever because...stuff...or <insert bible proverb here from Jaymz>, it can happen to anyone. Sure, it might be great and you might die together, happy and old and all that, but you're 100% delusional if you think that you're somehow immune to it just because you're happy now and a certain time frame has passed.

I've seen numerous couples 20+ years together call it quits and this is when everything seemed like it was good the entire time. I just can't believe the couple that got divorced 30+ years married with all those kids. I haven't talked to the father about it, I imagine he must be crushed. He's also the one supporting the entire family.
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
Love is more than that, stop dumbing it down.
Saying Love is an experience isn't dumbing it down, its saying that it encompasses more than what people typically think. That means the good, the bad, and the inbetween.

I would think a whiteknight would know this.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
What? A pic in a tshirt and jeans is hardly "posting pics of tits" ...and is certainly far less flesh than many display in their avs. I actually posted that in a conversation with a female miscer. We have boobs and my natural shape is different from my strapped down av.
Just LOL @ your storyline! You took a pic of your cleavage from a revealing angle and posted it on a forum full of young men! We all saw the titty pic! What exactly were you trying to achieve? Flirting with younger men despite your "amazing marriage"?

Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I chat to lots of different people about lots of different stuff for interest, fun and basic amusement ...some are intrinsically charming and enjoyable, others are diverting in other ways ..I rather enjoy your own particular brand of social tabloid driven anecdotal angst about marriage despite its repetitive nature.
Mentioning statistics about marriage is "tabloid driven" and "anectodal"? Just LMAO! I'm losing it over here @ your coping!
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I am happily married, have been for 17 years ..Marriage is fukking awesome right now ...it isn't always, it's RL.
I've been on the misc much longer than you have, yet your post count is over 3 times as much as mine. If your marriage is so awesome, why are you spending so much time on a MALE dominated forum? Obviously you're here to post pics for thirst trapping since your husband isn't enough!

It's like JaymzJ as well. "Happily married" man, yet the number 1 white knight on the misc. Just LOL.
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Just LOL @ your storyline! You took a pic of your cleavage from a revealing angle and posted it on a forum full of young men! We all saw the titty pic! What exactly were you trying to achieve? Flirting with younger men despite your "amazing marriage"?
Awww I was horizontal ...and dressed the way I'd been dressed all day ...how very very upsetting for you ...I'm sorry to have scarred you

A forum full of various people of various ages, sexuality, cultures and genders ....

When you are gauche in your interactions with others and uncomfortable in your communication I suppose you could see having a joke and a laugh as flirting ...I am the same with women (and I'm straight) and old men. You seem obsessed by the "young male" angle ...lots of people I interact with seem to be in their late 30s plus

..you do get this is just words on a page
Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Mentioning statistics about marriage is "tabloid driven" and "anectodal"? Just LMAO! I'm losing it over here @ your coping!

I've been on the misc much longer than you have, yet your post count is over 3 times as much as mine. If your marriage is so awesome, why are you spending so much time on a MALE dominated forum? Obviously you're here to post pics for thirst trapping since your husband isn't enough!

It's like JaymzJ as well. "Happily married" man, yet the number 1 white knight on the misc. Just LOL.
Yeah I post a lot of throwaway comments here...other places too ...booyah!

I hope I've fulfilled some of your attention goals
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Every freakin thread ends up eventually being about Rabbits boobs. Smh..
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You don't. I know of plenty of middle aged women who decided to up and leave in their 40's or 50's to live out their lifelong dream of chasing Chads srs. They had families, 20+ year marriages, all the material things they wanted, etc. From the outside, everything appeared bulletproof - but sloots can and do replace their husbands very easily. There is no sure thing anymore.

Women get married under the pretense that he will will change. Men get married under the pretense that she won't change. Good luck. The only way to win at marriage is not to play.
Theyre everywhere on dating sites.
Taking home Young men easily.
Even with children at home sometimes.

Thats why relationship should be built on spirit! Nor flesh or ego...

Theres a reason philosophies / religions have much to say about the power of sexuality.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Every freakin thread ends up eventually being about Rabbits boobs. Smh..
And now it's about your bikini ...sighs
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
And now it's about your bikini ...sighs
I wish but nobody cares about my B -cups after they have a picture of your honkers embedded in their brain.
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