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post 1524841741 11-03-2017, 07:53 PM
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Married and engaged miscers, how do you know your marriage will last

The constant thought of divorce or your wife trying to come after everything you worked for is daunting. Any day can be the day where she just snaps and calls everything off.
post 1524842161 11-03-2017, 07:58 PM
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Nothing lasts. Just let it go.
post 1524842201 11-03-2017, 08:00 PM
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cuz you gotta have FAITH....baaaaaaaaaby, if i could touch your body, you know not everybody, has gotta body like you...baaaaaaaaaaaby, i know you steal my heart away, please please please please don't away, cuz you're giving me the blues....wake me up before you go go cuz i'm not planning on going solo....what a waste that dude was, he could have had all kindz of vag...oh, look, a shiny new penny
post 1524842231 11-03-2017, 08:00 PM
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There's nothing you can do about it. You can't control others. People don't stay the same, either.

Don't get married.
post 1524842281 11-03-2017, 08:01 PM
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Cool...I prolly finally get laid
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post 1524842641 11-03-2017, 08:05 PM
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You don't. I know of plenty of middle aged women who decided to up and leave in their 40's or 50's to live out their lifelong dream of chasing Chads srs. They had families, 20+ year marriages, all the material things they wanted, etc. From the outside, everything appeared bulletproof - but sloots can and do replace their husbands very easily. There is no sure thing anymore.

Women get married under the pretense that he will will change. Men get married under the pretense that she won't change. Good luck. The only way to win at marriage is not to play.
post 1524842911 11-03-2017, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
You don't. I know of plenty of middle aged women who decided to up and leave in their 40's or 50's to live out their lifelong dream of chasing Chads srs. They had families, 20+ year marriages, all the material things they wanted, etc. From the outside, everything appeared bulletproof - but sloots can and do replace their husbands very easily. There is no sure thing anymore.

Women get married under the pretense that he will will change. Men get married under the pretense that she won't change. Good luck. The only way to win at marriage is not to play.
Men do the same. Don't kid yourself
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post 1524843681 11-03-2017, 08:18 PM
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Because I married a good person, and I'm not an idiot like half the people that get married. So many rush marriage or look past major issues. We have problems, like every other couple, but we have a very solid foundation. Been together for over 12 years and not stressed at all about our relationship ever ending
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post 1524843691 11-03-2017, 08:18 PM
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Same way I know I'm not going to get hit by a bus tomorrow, I don't.

Live your life, try to do good and enjoy your day and see how it plays out.
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

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post 1524843931 11-03-2017, 08:21 PM
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Proposed last weekend and never feel influenced by the egotistical LDAR MGOTW *******s on here. I get where they're coming from because I had similar thoughts, but after meeting the one, all that **** goes out of the window.
post 1524844251 11-03-2017, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Griggz
Proposed last weekend and never feel influenced by the egotistical LDAR MGOTW *******s on here. I get where they're coming from because I had similar thoughts, but after meeting the one, all that **** goes out of the window.
This

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post 1524844431 11-03-2017, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Griggz
Proposed last weekend and never feel influenced by the egotistical LDAR MGOTW *******s on here. I get where they're coming from because I had similar thoughts, but after meeting the one, all that **** goes out of the window.
Congrats brah. We just had our five year anniversary and haven't been happier.
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

Send In The Clowns
post 1524844461 11-03-2017, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted By numb3rrs
I'm pretty sure that's exactly how he feels too.
I think you could be surprised one day.
post 1524844521 11-03-2017, 08:30 PM
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Marriage was my only way to get laid.
post 1524844801 11-03-2017, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG
Men do the same. Don't kid yourself
not nearly as often since they tend to lose much, much more in divorces - 90% for those with degrees, proving women only tend to stay around when they need the financial support

http://www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-d...-more-than-men
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXGZu4yxjW0
post 1524845271 11-03-2017, 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted By jawbruh
I think you could be surprised one day.
I better not be. Rawr
post 1524845461 11-03-2017, 08:44 PM
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This day and age you're never sure. Even when you think you are.
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post 1524845651 11-03-2017, 08:46 PM
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If you’re getting into a relationship where you shoulder all the risk and the other person has most of the power, you’re doing it wrong in the first place. That’s a terrible position to put yourself in.
post 1524847181 11-03-2017, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted By HotCheetos
Because I married a good person, and I'm not an idiot like half the people that get married. So many rush marriage or look past major issues. We have problems, like every other couple, but we have a very solid foundation. Been together for over 12 years and not stressed at all about our relationship ever ending
I'm not saying you're wrong to feel like that, but all it takes is one of her dozens of orbiters to catch her at just the right (wrong) time and it's over. Loyalty is a male trait, not a female one - so always stay on your game.
post 1524847251 11-03-2017, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By WutangFlex732
The constant thought of divorce or your wife trying to come after everything you worked for is daunting. Any day can be the day where she just snaps and calls everything off.
sign prenup ..profit?
post 1524847271 11-03-2017, 09:10 PM
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sloots gon sloot boyos

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post 1524847321 11-03-2017, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
You don't. I know of plenty of middle aged women who decided to up and leave in their 40's or 50's to live out their lifelong dream of chasing Chads srs. They had families, 20+ year marriages, all the material things they wanted, etc. From the outside, everything appeared bulletproof - but sloots can and do replace their husbands very easily. There is no sure thing anymore.

Women get married under the pretense that he will will change. Men get married under the pretense that she won't change.Good luck. The only way to win at marriage is not to play.
100% truth
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post 1524848371 11-03-2017, 09:28 PM
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Marriage in 2k17 lol
post 1528303541 11-04-2017, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40
There's nothing you can do about it. You can't control others. People don't stay the same, either.

Don't get married.
I disagree with the ppl don’t stay the same part, some do. I have never changed much at all since I have gotten married, even one of my best friends that I haven’t seen in years and then saw me again (was my best man at my wedding) said with a smile on his face: “You are exactly the same as the last time I saw you!”, to which I said: “Well who were you expecting? Lol” He then says “you haven’t changed a bit” and then we went in for a bro hug.
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post 1528303651 11-04-2017, 06:22 PM
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A lot of mixed feelings are sorted out while you plunge a toilet.
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because I proposed to her at an EDM festival, d u h
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post 1528304151 11-04-2017, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass
Congrats brah. We just had our five year anniversary and haven't been happier.
Belated Happy Anniversary!
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post 1528304211 11-04-2017, 06:29 PM
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You don't know, but you put in your best effort to prevent that from happening. My wife and I have been together almost 9 years, and we've had fights and problems, but you learn from them and work on strengthening the areas that caused the fights. I've never been as connected to and happy with my wife as I am now, and I contribute a lot of that to us going through chit to get to where we are.
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post 1528304511 11-04-2017, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By harmsxwhey
You don't know, but you put in your best effort to prevent that from happening. My wife and I have been together almost 9 years, and we've had fights and problems, but you learn from them and work on strengthening the areas that caused the fights. I've never been as connected to and happy with my wife as I am now, and I contribute a lot of that to us going through chit to get to where we are.
Das it mane, marriage isn’t easy by any means but for some it’s worth it, me included.
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