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post 1533759871 11-06-2017, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper
things I am not speculating on

1) You get feelings for a female miscer you haven't even met LOL
2) You are unfaithful to your wife emotionally

Case is closed on those 2 boyo,

Curiosity does have me wondering which female miscer it is, earlier on you wanted to compliment Cass' boobs so I am leaning towards it being her.
It really doesn't sound like it's Cass. Whoever it is I'd be Keen to know too so I can stop being friendly with them, but I doubt we'll ever know
post 1533760111 11-06-2017, 06:28 PM
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post 1533760361 11-06-2017, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By WutangFlex732
The constant thought of divorce or your wife trying to come after everything you worked for is daunting. Any day can be the day where she just snaps and calls everything off.
Haven't read the thread yet, but I'm sure it's a marriage-bashing fest.

I just came in to tell OP that good marriages aren't like what you described at all. That's how you know you've found one that's worth marrying.

I've been married for over fifteen-years now, and I love her more today than I did fifteen-years ago. (dead srs)
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post 1533760441 11-06-2017, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper
things I am not speculating on

1) You get feelings for a female miscer you haven't even met LOL
2) You are unfaithful to your wife emotionally

Case is closed on those 2 boyo,

Curiosity does have me wondering which female miscer it is, earlier on you wanted to compliment Cass' boobs so I am leaning towards it being her.

Go be with your wife, Jaymz, tell her what you've done. Tell her what shame you've brought to the sanctity of marriage LOL
would rape you if i got the chance, but my cheeks are on spread
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post 1533760641 11-06-2017, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Muzzlr pls, we're getting to the bottom of something here
post 1533760661 11-06-2017, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke
holy chit dude go be with your wife and get off the misc
So nobody likes it when I joke around and nobody can be srs when I try to be srs, got it. This thread sux, good idea man.
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post 1533760851 11-06-2017, 06:34 PM
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just imagining Jaymzj's wife making him dinner while he furiously masturbates over a female miscer in the other room
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post 1533761321 11-06-2017, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted By dimassive
just imagining Jaymzj's wife making him dinner while he furiously masturbates over a female miscer in the other room
LOL

post 1533763141 11-06-2017, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper
LOL

Holy phuck LMFAO at work on srs.
This whole back and forth between Jaymz and the misc is the best thing I've come across in the misc. LOL
post 1533782481 11-06-2017, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
2nded

But in a better voice
post 1533783091 11-06-2017, 11:31 PM
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Cliffs?
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post 1533783641 11-06-2017, 11:44 PM
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I just try to be the best husband and father I can be.

Edit:wut is going on in here
post 1533783951 11-06-2017, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery
Cliffs?
-Some miscers think you never know what's going to happen in marriage no matter how you plan it.
-Others argue as you choose your partner carefully, you'll be happily married forever as long as you work on it.
-Jaymez is adamant about his marriage lasting.
-Miscers point out his flirting.
-Jaymez claims flirting is innocent and not threat to marriage.
-Cass points out, he had said he developed feels and flirting is not innocent.
-Jaymes says he would never leave his wife nor cheat and he would just continue being friends even if he had feelings and not cross boundaries.
-Miscers speculate which miscer is the object of his feelings.


Anyway..I still think you can't be sure of anything, you can only appreciate the time you have with your loved one and enjoy every moment. Future is never guaranteed, we can only hope for the best.
post 1533784181 11-07-2017, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper
LOL

Lmfao
post 1533784211 11-07-2017, 12:02 AM
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Wow...strong wtf at jay. How do you develop feels for someone online (through misc of all places) while you are married. That's really fukked.
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post 1533785481 11-07-2017, 12:37 AM
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Marriages don't last because of this.






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post 1533785671 11-07-2017, 12:43 AM
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I just got out of a 5+ year relationship and I'll tell you, you never know. Another girl a long time ago, was with her 3 years and I thought everything was perfect and then poof. I've also seen too many guys wrecked by divorce. Like one dude I know, he was like a mentor to me, but he was really good to his wife, she had the life. One day, new years day, she just left him and the reason was "we are different people". She even said later that he didn't do anything wrong, and was good to her, but she just wasn't happy. If she found happiness away from him she sure has a talent of making it look like mysery. Truth is it wasn't him, it was that she wasn't happy with herself.

Fact is that the factors for a marriage to work and be happy are very small. I think the foundation is trust, honesty, and communication, but that is just the foundation, you have the rest of the house to build. It doesn't have to be perfect but it's got to hold together. You've got to understand that your partner isn't going to be perfect, and you aren't always going to agree, but you have to work it out.

My ex, it was financial that caused all the problems. She was just bad with money. I wouldn't mind helping her out but she would get paid and then go blow it on stupid crap until she was broke long before she was getting paid again. She was needy otherwise, and it seemed like she went from one crisis to another. I could deal with it, but it drained me both financially and drained my energy until I was depressed and not the same person. I didn't get mad at her exactly, but just was drained all of the time. I can't say I'm perfect, but damn. Since we broke up my life has improved so much, hers not so much. She is on a serious Coping tour.
post 1533785781 11-07-2017, 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40
-Some miscers think you never know what's going to happen in marriage no matter how you plan it.
-Others argue as you choose your partner carefully, you'll be happily married forever as long as you work on it.
-Jaymez is adamant about his marriage lasting.
-Miscers point out his flirting.
-Jaymez claims flirting is innocent and not threat to marriage.
-Cass points out, he had said he developed feels and flirting is not innocent.
-Jaymes says he would never leave his wife nor cheat and he would just continue being friends even if he had feelings and not cross boundaries.
-Miscers speculate which miscer is the object of his feelings.


Anyway..I still think you can't be sure of anything, you can only appreciate the time you have with your loved one and enjoy every moment. Future is never guaranteed, we can only hope for the best.
JaymzJ is nice to female miscers but most of them don't like him.

Just proof that women don't like nice guys.
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post 1533785841 11-07-2017, 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
I just got out of a 5+ year relationship and I'll tell you, you never know. Another girl a long time ago, was with her 3 years and I thought everything was perfect and then poof. I've also seen too many guys wrecked by divorce. Like one dude I know, he was like a mentor to me, but he was really good to his wife, she had the life. One day, new years day, she just left him and the reason was "we are different people". She even said later that he didn't do anything wrong, and was good to her, but she just wasn't happy. If she found happiness away from him she sure has a talent of making it look like mysery. Truth is it wasn't him, it was that she wasn't happy with herself.

Fact is that the factors for a marriage to work and be happy are very small. I think the foundation is trust, honesty, and communication, but that is just the foundation, you have the rest of the house to build. It doesn't have to be perfect but it's got to hold together. You've got to understand that your partner isn't going to be perfect, and you aren't always going to agree, but you have to work it out.

My ex, it was financial that caused all the problems. She was just bad with money. I wouldn't mind helping her out but she would get paid and then go blow it on stupid crap until she was broke long before she was getting paid again. She was needy otherwise, and it seemed like she went from one crisis to another. I could deal with it, but it drained me both financially and drained my energy until I was depressed and not the same person. I didn't get mad at her exactly, but just was drained all of the time. I can't say I'm perfect, but damn. Since we broke up my life has improved so much, hers not so much. She is on a serious Coping tour.
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post 1533786291 11-07-2017, 12:57 AM
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Just read this entire thread and I'm too tired to respond.

Night kids.
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post 1533787031 11-07-2017, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery
JaymzJ is nice to female miscers but most of them don't like him.

Just proof that women don't like nice guys.
Wrong. He’s a hypocrite. That’s why they don’t like him.
post 1533787671 11-07-2017, 01:48 AM
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Coz dated and lived with for 5 years. Why not be married
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post 1533790531 11-07-2017, 03:46 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery
JaymzJ is nice to female miscers but most of them don't like him.

Just proof that women don't like nice guys.
Cody pls
Originally Posted By IH8RICE
Wrong. He’s a hypocrite. That’s why they don’t like him.
No, I would rather you say nobody likes me than to call me a hypocrite, I always stick to my word or at the very least try to adhere to it as much as possible, if you are talking about me quoting the bible, I admit to my mistakes, that’s what real men do, I only try to follow it as closely as I can and I think I do that better than most tbh, I live a very morally and physically clean life but I don’t always say or do the right things because I am imperfect just like everyone else. I really don’t think whoever said “we aren’t judging you” is a true statement anymore.

“For there is no righteous man on earth who always does good and never sins.”
Ecclesiastes 7:20
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post 1533791021 11-07-2017, 04:02 AM
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Just LOL @ so many miscers in this thread with marriages going into meltdown mode!

I'm creasing over here as I tuck into my high-protein brunch with vegetables!
Still looking for a crew... crew

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Originally Posted By JaymzJ
Cody pls


No, I would rather you say nobody likes me than to call me a hypocrite, I always stick to my word or at the very least try to adhere to it as much as possible, if you are talking about me quoting the bible, I admit to my mistakes, that’s what real men do, I only try to follow it as closely as I can and I think I do that better than most tbh, I live a very morally and physically clean life but I don’t always say or do the right things because I am imperfect just like everyone else. I really don’t think whoever said “we aren’t judging you” is a true statement anymore.

“For there is no righteous man on earth who always does good and never sins.”
Ecclesiastes 7:20
Ephesians 5:28, 33 = Husbands and wives are to love and respect each other.

You are not respecting her when you are complimenting womens t1ts online and being emotionally unfaithful getting feelings for female miscers
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She let me rawdog her. Once I did that I was trapped and there was no going back, son... srs.
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post 1533848891 11-07-2017, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper
LOL

holy fuk lmao
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post 1533852461 11-07-2017, 04:07 PM
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I don't have any new progress pics, though. ^ False advertisement.
post 1533855111 11-07-2017, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40
I don't have any new progress pics, though. ^ False advertisement.
When that day comes J will be eating a late dinner nomsayin
post 1533905831 11-08-2017, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ
Just so all of the girls/women here are clear, don't read into anything I say to you, I am a devoted husband and am not looking for anything more than friendship.
FFS I'm devastated - I thought we were gonna run off to a cabin in the Canadian wilderness, raise a herd miniature goats together and live off the proceeds of their goat-milk products (by selling them to fools who think goat milk has significantly less lactose than cow's milk; it doesn't actually).

You utter b*stard, I'm done with you now.
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