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post 1534072511 11-09-2017, 04:40 PM
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BRB - What game you running atm, same as before or changed things up? I send one message then move on to inviting for the meet. A lot aren't replying now - like it's too quick. And how you using IG, the same type of messages as tinder? I must've added 1000 girls to snapchat over the last 3 yrs from tinder profiles etc, but was just a waste of time. Seems the same type of thing.

Have a friend who's a genuine 8/10 guy. Loads of great photos. A girl's dream. Used them where I live, a year ago, matched almost everyone, loads of messages from girls etc. Tried them in a few places over in the US - mainly LA. Not getting much, less than 20 matches in a week or so. This account should have 1000s so even a great looking guy like this isn't being shown as much. That northside guy to have 1000s must be constantly shown? Without boosts?

And the number of bots I'm seeing is mad. How are they making thousands of ********s to create these? FB stopped me making another account - have about 4/5. Needed some more for these apps as a few have been banned.
post 1534118251 11-10-2017, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus
Not great game here imo. Over-enthusiastic and semi-autistic emoji use not matching hers (she sent no emojis, you sent a ton, this matters srs). Some chicks dig emojis but if she doesn't then you should be more sparse. It makes you look like a fourteen year old kid or over-excited puppy (laughing crying smiley twice and there's not a single funny thing in there), it doesn't come across as very manly imo.

Bad last message, interview question and hard to respond to. Too open, plus most basic girls don't have a clearly defined personality. Odds are her hobbies are hanging out with friends, drinking pumpkin space lattes and gossiping. How does she respond to that? Keep the conversation lighter and make it easier for her to respond, less try-hard.

Also you disqualified yourself saying you don't message a lot of girls. First off, it gives her too much power because now she knows she's special. Second, it doesn't make you come across as choosy as you probably thought (which still isn't great because it's a compliment to her at the same time), it makes you come across as though you have very few options/matches and that's why you remember some girl you barely talked to from months back.

You can try a double text but you're not in a good place I'd say, so maybe give it a while and see if she hits you up again first.
I agree. Especially the part about emojis and mirroring their texting style. It does actually have a huge impact from my personal experiences as well so far.

Generally speaking it is good practice to never use more emotes than they do, if they spam emotes then you can include (few) them too.

Also:

If I were in the same situation I would have purposefully guessed her name wrong. Just to make her wonder about how many girls you have in your pipeline.
post 1534118401 11-10-2017, 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted By ballieveryday
It was probably also a mix of drinking too much jack Daniels and performance anxiety since it was like by far the best match I've had. But yeah pretty sure I blew it.
You have a mouth, fingers and a fist nomsayn? Tons of other options to make her fly and have a great time. I don't get why you guys so insecure about not being able to properly smash and whatnot. Geez Ive hooked up with womanz and did a **** poor job sometimes but they still loved it ... because "overall" it was a great experience.
post 1534245081 11-11-2017, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Bangemall
You have a mouth, fingers and a fist nomsayn? Tons of other options to make her fly and have a great time. I don't get why you guys so insecure about not being able to properly smash and whatnot. Geez Ive hooked up with womanz and did a **** poor job sometimes but they still loved it ... because "overall" it was a great experience.
Yeah there's a lot of things I probably could have done now that I look back at it, but I was also pretty hammered halfway through smashing. Again, I don't have a lot of experience when it comes to that. We still been talking though and she hasn't blocked or deleted me so I couldn't have been that bad. Anyways though... Tinder has been poppin lately. Probably since its winter time over here in Chicago and women are bored so they hop on tinder. I got a few girls on top of my list that I been snapchattin with so hopefully I'll get something again by the end of this year. Has anyone used the app feeld? I recently met a couple on there and it was probably the weirdest meet up I ever had.
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Been seeing girls post their venmo so I called one out and she took it out right after lmao

post 1534263681 11-11-2017, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By KingSaddam
This account should have 1000s so even a great looking guy like this isn't being shown as much. That northside guy to have 1000s must be constantly shown? Without boosts?

And the number of bots I'm seeing is mad. How are they making thousands of ********s to create these? FB stopped me making another account - have about 4/5. Needed some more for these apps as a few have been banned.
I spam, the yes button for a straight 30 minutes to hour. I stopped swiping a week ago, I was being unmatched by 10-30 women a day.

You don't need FB to sign up for Tinder anymore... I get mad cheating ass whores who hit me up not using real photos of themself. Always some dumb ass bull**** excuse to why they aren't using their real photos on their profile.

Stop taking Tinder and all these dating apps seriously guys, the game is all ****ed up.







Had a interesting conversation with this bumble match. She's attractive but regular as ****... she is a member of some sugar daddy website. She said her minimal is $500 just for a date and she never lacks without one. When she is bored and wants to travel, she'll browse men in other cities who will hit her up after seeing she viewed they profile offering thousands of dollars just so she can fly out to them.

She said she is actually a novice still and met a stripper who is quite experienced in sugar daddy websites raking in thousands just for dates without any sexual **** going down.
post 1534268151 11-11-2017, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
Just lol... Good luck with that. Now it's clear why you crave validation by posting convos with swamp things on the misc.
Why would I need luck? I'm back to craving validation on misc thanks to you.













post 1534268381 11-11-2017, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
Just lol... Good luck with that. Now it's clear why you crave validation by posting convos with swamp things on the misc.










Denver Colorado tinderella flew to Pittsburgh to meet me and gave me neck on the way back home a few minutes after picking up at the airport
post 1534280851 11-11-2017, 07:47 PM
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[QUOTE=4North1Side2 post_id=1534263681]I spam, the yes button for a straight 30 minutes to hour. I stopped swiping a week ago, I was being unmatched by 10-30 women a day.

You don't need FB to sign up for Tinder anymore... I get mad cheating ass whores who hit me up not using real photos of themself. Always some dumb ass bull**** excuse to why they aren't using their real photos on their profile.

Stop taking Tinder and all these dating apps seriously guys, the game is all ****ed up.


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Had a interesting conversation with this bumble match. She's attractive but regular as ****... she is a member of some sugar daddy website. She said her minimal is $500 just for a date and she never lacks without one.[b]When she is bored and wants to travel, she'll browse men in other cities who will hit her up after seeing she viewed they profile offering thousands of dollars just so she can fly out to them.[/b]

She said she is actually a novice still and met a stripper who is quite experienced in sugar daddy websites raking in thousands just for dates without any sexual **** going down.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=4North1Side2 post_id=1534268381][IMG]https://i.imgur.com/dBiK0LQ.png[/IG]

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[b]Denver Colorado tinderella flew to Pittsburgh to meet me and gave me neck on the way back home a few minutes after picking up at the airport[/b]
[IMG]https://i.imgur.com/tjpbmuy.gif[/][/QUOTE]Lmao I hope you didn't pay for her flight, but if she's the same caliber as the bumble girl you posted pics of then I see why she had to travel so far to get dink...

Past two weekends. Both traveled over an hour to me, and I spent less than $20 on them for food and drinks.

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Side note: Deleted tinder yesterday and bumble last week.
post 1534289141 11-11-2017, 09:24 PM
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why did you delete
post 1534300131 11-11-2017, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
Just lol... Good luck with that. Now it's clear why you crave validation by posting convos with swamp things on the misc.














post 1534300201 11-11-2017, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
Just lol... Good luck with that. Now it's clear why you crave validation by posting convos with swamp things on the misc.












post 1534300531 11-11-2017, 11:54 PM
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Banned from Tinder again.... I was sitting at 6,520 matches last time I checked.





post 1534318711 11-12-2017, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Lmao I hope you didn't pay for her flight, but if she's the same caliber as the bumble girl you posted pics of then I see why she had to travel so far to get dink...

Past two weekends. Both traveled over an hour to me, and I spent less than $20 on them for food and drinks.







Side note: Deleted tinder yesterday and bumble last week.
you giving up online dating?
post 1534324351 11-12-2017, 09:44 AM
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Northside, are you really 30? What would you say is the average age of your matches?
post 1534329611 11-12-2017, 10:52 AM
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I've been back in the dating game for two months now. Here are some stats:

Me: Early 30's, med-large size city, probably rate myself about a 6, about 250 matches on Tinder in two months (mostly 5-6's) and considerably less on Bumble

Total slays since mid-Sept - 11

Tinder - 6 (rating: 3, 4, 5, 6, 6, 6)
Bumble - 2 (rating: 6, 6)
OKC - 1 (rating: 6)
IRL - 2 (rating: 5, 6)

Could have a few more that were guaranteed things, but have gained some self-respect and told myself no more 3's and 4's.

I rarely match with 7+'s, and have only converted one of them to a first date. I run a few different misc openers which are usually pretty successful, and my own text game after that. If I find the girl interesting, I can almost always convert a convo into a date. I'd say convert just under 50% of dates into slays eventually.

I've been trying out new pics, but success isn't really changing much in terms of matches. I would obviously love to go out with more 7's and the occasional 8. Anyone with good results with girls in this range want to take a look at my latest pics/bio and give me some advice on how to improve it (or be honest and let me know that 5-6's is all I'm realistically going to get)?
post 1534359411 11-12-2017, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.
I've been back in the dating game for two months now. Here are some stats:

Me: Early 30's, med-large size city, probably rate myself about a 6, about 250 matches on Tinder in two months (mostly 5-6's) and considerably less on Bumble

Total slays since mid-Sept - 11

Tinder - 6 (rating: 3, 4, 5, 6, 6, 6)
Bumble - 2 (rating: 6, 6)
OKC - 1 (rating: 6)
IRL - 2 (rating: 5, 6)

Could have a few more that were guaranteed things, but have gained some self-respect and told myself no more 3's and 4's.

I rarely match with 7+'s, and have only converted one of them to a first date. I run a few different misc openers which are usually pretty successful, and my own text game after that. If I find the girl interesting, I can almost always convert a convo into a date. I'd say convert just under 50% of dates into slays eventually.

I've been trying out new pics, but success isn't really changing much in terms of matches. I would obviously love to go out with more 7's and the occasional 8. Anyone with good results with girls in this range want to take a look at my latest pics/bio and give me some advice on how to improve it (or be honest and let me know that 5-6's is all I'm realistically going to get)?
TBH I'm happy with the 5-6 range. Usually the hotter they are... the shadier they get. I'm not sure what your profile is like, but it seems like you get a good amount of matches. It's probably not you. It's the women.
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Originally Posted By ballieveryday
TBH I'm happy with the 5-6 range. Usually the hotter they are... the shadier they get. I'm not sure what your profile is like, but it seems like you get a good amount of matches. It's probably not you. It's the women.
I'm not unhappy with 5-6s, and will obviously keep doing it. If I can do better though, of course I'd like to. Who doesn't want to be looking down at that perfect ass while pounding, or up at a perfect set of tits and gorgeous O face while she's riding...
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Originally Posted By Scotty.
I would obviously love to go out with more 7's and the occasional 8. Anyone with good results with girls in this range want to take a look at my latest pics/bio and give me some advice on how to improve it (or be honest and let me know that 5-6's is all I'm realistically going to get)?
I don't really date anything below about a 7, and prefer to concentrate mostly on 8+'s. I've dated a few international fashion models off tinder and other online dating sites, as well as strippers, promo models etc. Including a Maxim cover girl, a girl that has done a Loreal campaign among many other big brands, girls from some of the top modelling agencies in the world, and a heap of other girls that can make a very good living off their looks alone. I didn't sleep with all of them, only some of them, but at the least, I was able to get them out on dates after meeting them online.

I don't want to see your pics and bio, but what I will tell you is dating the hottest girls consistently firstly requires you to be in a city where there are plenty of them, the best cities for this are the top tier internationals that are very expensive, so NYC, London, LA, Sydney etc. If you are in some 3rd rate city then chances are the hottest girls leave for a top tier city, unless of course it has something going for it like being a college town which will attract very hot students during certain times of the year.

Granted there will be at least some very hot women in every decent sized city, but obviously the more the better.

So once there is at least some supply of very hot girls, you will need to display one of the following traits... be very good looking, like up near male model tier.. if you don't have that, then you will need either, alot of money, or high status. This means that if you don't look like a male model, you will need photos that display wealth (so photos on a yacht, in private jets, travelling etc.) OR give the impression of having high status (so a linked Instagram with 10k+ followers, a high status job title etc.).

You don't NEED these things to date very hot girls of course, but to achieve it relatively consistently through online dating especially the apps that are as shallow as tinder, you will. Alternatively you can just offer them money, which frankly is the easiest way to get super hot women to sleep with you, but I'm assuming you want to do it without having to slap down cash.
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Originally Posted By Slyrz
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Originally Posted By HomerJThompson
you giving up online dating?
Spending way too much time chasing ass and not enough time chasing my dreams.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Spending way too much time chasing ass and not enough time chasing my dreams.
I give it a month max. Once you've been truly sucked in there's no going back, it's like Heroin. Welcome to the second circle of hell.
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So I guess I jumped the gun a little bit on this recent girl, lol.

She hits me up at midnight asking if I want to get drunk and watch harry potter... So you know what I'm thinking.

I say "two things I like. I'm down"

She responds with, "what else do you like travellingbrah?"

To which I respond, "you sitting on my face and then my dick."

Then she's like. "wow that escalated quickly I was expecting you to say -insert normal hobby"

Given the context I thought she was for sure being coy with that question but I guess that was just my eagerness thinking. I'm so bad at reading these situations. Jaysus.
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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney
I give it a month max. Once you've been truly sucked in there's no going back, it's like Heroin. Welcome to the second circle of hell.
Im also not connecting with these broads on anything more than a sexual level. I want to get excited about them, and not just jerking off in their pussies.

Still got happn on. Maybe shes the one.

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What are some typical openers that falls in the line of excitement and a phuckboy in disguise? I'm aware of the chances of hitting it off are 1 in a million, but curious to see if I can pull it off as an above average chad. PM me by any chance.
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Originally Posted By travellingbrah
So I guess I jumped the gun a little bit on this recent girl, lol.

She hits me up at midnight asking if I want to get drunk and watch harry potter... So you know what I'm thinking.

I say "two things I like. I'm down"

She responds with, "what else do you like travellingbrah?"

To which I respond, "you sitting on my face and then my dick."

Then she's like. "wow that escalated quickly I was expecting you to say -insert normal hobby"

Given the context I thought she was for sure being coy with that question but I guess that was just my eagerness thinking. I'm so bad at reading these situations. Jaysus.
tbf i wouldve responded like that hahahaha

maybe its the sloot's issue not yours!



or i would've responded with maybe 'i love to throw hot dogs down big corridors' - and see if she got the reference lol
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Spending way too much time chasing ass and not enough time chasing my dreams.
Too much real life.
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Originally Posted By Kiny0
What are some typical openers that falls in the line of excitement and a phuckboy in disguise? I'm aware of the chances of hitting it off are 1 in a million, but curious to see if I can pull it off as an above average chad. PM me by any chance.
This routine is fukboi lite because it still has an element of romance and getting to know the girl on the date. Have had 8/10's respond positively/# close with this but they flake or go NC. Converted 6-7/10's with this or similar variations Ive ussd.



Notice how ignore her opener. So its really me opening the convo.

Disregard the tinder screens.



I built rapport by asking her about something in her bio. Theres another part of our convo on it with maybe 2-3 exchanges but had to edit most of it because of personal details (mostly hers).

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Originally Posted By travellingbrah
So I guess I jumped the gun a little bit on this recent girl, lol.

She hits me up at midnight asking if I want to get drunk and watch harry potter... So you know what I'm thinking.

I say "two things I like. I'm down"

She responds with, "what else do you like travellingbrah?"

To which I respond, "you sitting on my face and then my dick."

Then she's like. "wow that escalated quickly I was expecting you to say -insert normal hobby"

Given the context I thought she was for sure being coy with that question but I guess that was just my eagerness thinking. I'm so bad at reading these situations. Jaysus.
She was probably dtf but there's still the issue of her not wanting to feel like a slut. Watching harry potter is a pretty innocent activity, if she doesn't like you she can still abort and she also has plausible deniability, "I swear I was just gonna watch the movie but then things just sorta happened".

Sloots need to tell themselves stories like that so they don't need to face the reality of them being sloots. "It just happened" is like the number one lie women tell themselves. You made the mistake of making the hookup explicit and also placed expectations on her which stresses the girl out. No more plausible deniability plus now there's an expectation of sex which can cause all sorts of issues (maybe she's not feeling sexy that day, is on her period or any number of sloot complications). Now it's a big deal and she's getting nervous.

Hope you learned your lesson, don't get fancy. You already had it in the bag, no need to swing for the fences and do something drastic. If she's already into it just play it safe, go straight to logistics and set up the meet. If she's not being receptive or seems bored with you might be a better time to pull out the dirty talk as a kind of hail mary. Otherwise it's just not worth the risk, UNLESS you have a high number of matches and can afford to lose a lot in order to filter out the turbosloots right away.

HOWEVER, note that she didn't reject you or act offended. That means she's probably okay with the idea hypothetically, but she's probably not okay with spelling it out like that. She doesn't wanna feel like too much of a sloot or give you any expectations. You can salvage it, just keep moving forward unfazed. Don't apologize but don't throw out any more explicit stuff either.
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus
She was probably dtf but there's still the issue of her not wanting to feel like a slut. Watching harry potter is a pretty innocent activity, if she doesn't like you she can still abort and she also has plausible deniability, "I swear I was just gonna watch the movie but then things just sorta happened".

Sloots need to tell themselves stories like that so they don't need to face the reality of them being sloots. "It just happened" is like the number one lie women tell themselves. You made the mistake of making the hookup explicit and also placed expectations on her which stresses the girl out. No more plausible deniability plus now there's an expectation of sex which can cause all sorts of issues (maybe she's not feeling sexy that day, is on her period or any number of sloot complications). Now it's a big deal and she's getting nervous.

Hope you learned your lesson, don't get fancy. You already had it in the bag, no need to swing for the fences and do something drastic. If she's already into it just play it safe, go straight to logistics and set up the meet. If she's not being receptive or seems bored with you might be a better time to pull out the dirty talk as a kind of hail mary. Otherwise it's just not worth the risk, UNLESS you have a high number of matches and can afford to lose a lot in order to filter out the turbosloots right away.

HOWEVER, note that she didn't reject you or act offended. That means she's probably okay with the idea hypothetically, but she's probably not okay with spelling it out like that. She doesn't wanna feel like too much of a sloot or give you any expectations. You can salvage it, just keep moving forward unfazed. Don't apologize but don't throw out any more explicit stuff either.
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus
She was probably dtf but there's still the issue of her not wanting to feel like a slut. Watching harry potter is a pretty innocent activity, if she doesn't like you she can still abort and she also has plausible deniability, "I swear I was just gonna watch the movie but then things just sorta happened".

Sloots need to tell themselves stories like that so they don't need to face the reality of them being sloots. "It just happened" is like the number one lie women tell themselves. You made the mistake of making the hookup explicit and also placed expectations on her which stresses the girl out. No more plausible deniability plus now there's an expectation of sex which can cause all sorts of issues (maybe she's not feeling sexy that day, is on her period or any number of sloot complications). Now it's a big deal and she's getting nervous.

Hope you learned your lesson, don't get fancy. You already had it in the bag, no need to swing for the fences and do something drastic. If she's already into it just play it safe, go straight to logistics and set up the meet. If she's not being receptive or seems bored with you might be a better time to pull out the dirty talk as a kind of hail mary. Otherwise it's just not worth the risk, UNLESS you have a high number of matches and can afford to lose a lot in order to filter out the turbosloots right away.

HOWEVER, note that she didn't reject you or act offended. That means she's probably okay with the idea hypothetically, but she's probably not okay with spelling it out like that. She doesn't wanna feel like too much of a sloot or give you any expectations. You can salvage it, just keep moving forward unfazed. Don't apologize but don't throw out any more explicit stuff either.
She responded today saying "I was totally creepy". I don't think there's any returning from this one.
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