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12-11-2017, 11:12 PM
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For those of you that are using Instagram to meet people now, how do you go about doing that? Do you just add random people you find attractive, like some photos and shoot them a DM? Do you wait for them to like something of yours? How do you find the people, can you search by location?
I'm GF'd up now, so no online dating for me. But I don't wanna fall behind the curve should I become single again.
I'm GF'd up now, so no online dating for me. But I don't wanna fall behind the curve should I become single again.
12-12-2017, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted By RunTheJewels2⏩
would follow - and then wait for a follow back, if shes not following back, chances are she isnt gunna respond to DMFor those of you that are using Instagram to meet people now, how do you go about doing that? Do you just add random people you find attractive, like some photos and shoot them a DM? Do you wait for them to like something of yours? How do you find the people, can you search by location?
I'm GF'd up now, so no online dating for me. But I don't wanna fall behind the curve should I become single again.
I'm GF'd up now, so no online dating for me. But I don't wanna fall behind the curve should I become single again.
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12-12-2017, 05:26 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
You would need a public profile for that no? I don't like the idea of sharing my life with all the people out there :-/would follow - and then wait for a follow back, if shes not following back, chances are she isnt gunna respond to DM
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12-12-2017, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Next heavy snow I’m outta here to travel the country and find a gym/start fighting. Will be tindering along the way but nbd.Anyone else with year end summaries or goals for the new year?
@brah with questions, send to RMBoyos cause he da best.
12-12-2017, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By American
Next heavy snow I’m outta here to travel the country and find a gym/start fighting. Will be tindering along the way but nbd.
@brah with questions, send to RMBoyos cause he da best.
@brah with questions, send to RMBoyos cause he da best.

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12-12-2017, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Hold your horses, we've still got three weeks left!Anyone else with year end summaries or goals for the new year?
Pancake I remember you did a good summary last year, are you doing one this year?
Pancake I remember you did a good summary last year, are you doing one this year?
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12-12-2017, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By pancakemouse⏩
That popped up on my Tinder this morning as I'm part of the testing area. There is a function in settings that allows you to turn off any of your information from being shared thankfully. I would not want a new pic to show up in a feed for all my matches in a lot of cases - e.g. when I plan to go travel, I might toss up a shirtless pic for more aggressive game, but would not want everyone I've matched with at home to see that in a Feed.Tinder is copying Hinge:
http://blog.gotinder.com/introducing-feed/
http://blog.gotinder.com/introducing-feed/
12-12-2017, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
just give me back moments, so i can identify the dtf sloots lol.That popped up on my Tinder this morning as I'm part of the testing area. There is a function in settings that allows you to turn off any of your information from being shared thankfully. I would not want a new pic to show up in a feed for all my matches in a lot of cases - e.g. when I plan to go travel, I might toss up a shirtless pic for more aggressive game, but would not want everyone I've matched with at home to see that in a Feed.
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12-12-2017, 02:15 PM
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tfw meet a chick out and have a good time, then reach out a few days later and she is keen to meet out again and as the days go on you start losing interest as better prospects begin to line up.


12-13-2017, 07:24 AM
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Back on Tinder boyos!
Just got my profile reinstated again. Had a few matches from before I got suspended and spoofed to seoul (korean girls can be super hawt mane) & Manila for some fun. I'm not really too keen on meeting any of those girls obviously. The being exclusive thing is actually going pretty well right now and I want to see where it leads. Meanwhile just testing some openers and stuff on korean girls.
Not able to upload screens from work. I'll do so once I find the time at home
Just got my profile reinstated again. Had a few matches from before I got suspended and spoofed to seoul (korean girls can be super hawt mane) & Manila for some fun. I'm not really too keen on meeting any of those girls obviously. The being exclusive thing is actually going pretty well right now and I want to see where it leads. Meanwhile just testing some openers and stuff on korean girls.
Not able to upload screens from work. I'll do so once I find the time at home
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gonna meet up with 3 girls this weekend. all 18 though so they might flake or not willing to phuck at a strangers place.
gotta get over my oneitis.
gotta get over my oneitis.
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Originally Posted By TrickHenry⏩
Wouldn’t be surprised if all flaked.gonna meet up with 3 girls this weekend. all 18 though so they might flake or not willing to phuck at a strangers place.
gotta get over my oneitis.
gotta get over my oneitis.
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12-13-2017, 07:37 PM
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Any boyos want to test out a line for me? Yes came up with this line while hammered. I didn't have Tinder so I ended up diving into the snaps of any girl who was looking good in their snap story at the time (I guess, I barely remember).
"So are you from Alaska?" (Or some form of that question.)
I had no reply to it, but I'm 6 for 7 on it w/ positive responses:
3 were 6-6.5/10s
1 5/10
1 7/10
1 9/10 (by my standards)
1 didn't respond, but I saw she'd probably already deleted me off snapchat probably because of a "racial" joke I made (no racist, but it was worth the comedic value).
I'm really not that aesthetic (average probs) so it can't be because of looks.
I just need a decent follow up because I had to wing it differently every time.
I'm about to hop back on tinder once the Spring semester starts since no one is in town atm
"So are you from Alaska?" (Or some form of that question.)
I had no reply to it, but I'm 6 for 7 on it w/ positive responses:
3 were 6-6.5/10s
1 5/10
1 7/10
1 9/10 (by my standards)
1 didn't respond, but I saw she'd probably already deleted me off snapchat probably because of a "racial" joke I made (no racist, but it was worth the comedic value).
I'm really not that aesthetic (average probs) so it can't be because of looks.
I just need a decent follow up because I had to wing it differently every time.
I'm about to hop back on tinder once the Spring semester starts since no one is in town atm
12-13-2017, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
OK,it's time to put a stop "Instagram is the new Tinder" memeright now because I'm tired of reading about this here.Talked to an old match about tinder and he said he deleted it. Asked him why and he said that he doesn't need it because he just talks to girls on Instagram. So yeah it seems like a more popular way now.
Instagram is not a hookup app. It's about as effective as hitting girls up on MySpace was back in the day, which means yes, people do get laid from it, but it's not even CLOSE to being as effective as a hookup app.
The ONLY way an Instagram helps is linking it to your Tinder account. Without Tinder, Instagram would be nothing.
I've sent between 500-800 DMs on Instagram over the last year. I've banged two girls from it (they were both also on Tinder by the way). Meanwhile, I've banged 15+ girls from Tinder in that same timeframe, with MUCH less work.
People are not moving to Instagram. It's a niche market. At best, it's only worth focusing on if you find you're not getting results from Tinder anymore.
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12-14-2017, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted By pancakemouse⏩
Not to mention that DMing a lot of girls on IG, especially if you're somewhere like a college area, will gain you a fairly negative rep among the local crowd especially if you're not model tierOK,it's time to put a stop "Instagram is the new Tinder" memeright now because I'm tired of reading about this here.
Instagram is not a hookup app. It's about as effective as hitting girls up on MySpace was back in the day, which means yes, people do get laid from it, but it's not even CLOSE to being as effective as a hookup app.
The ONLY way an Instagram helps is linking it to your Tinder account. Without Tinder, Instagram would be nothing.
I've sent between 500-800 DMs on Instagram over the last year. I've banged two girls from it (they were both also on Tinder by the way). Meanwhile, I've banged 15+ girls from Tinder in that same timeframe, with MUCH less work.
People are not moving to Instagram. It's a niche market. At best, it's only worth focusing on if you find you're not getting results from Tinder anymore.
Instagram is not a hookup app. It's about as effective as hitting girls up on MySpace was back in the day, which means yes, people do get laid from it, but it's not even CLOSE to being as effective as a hookup app.
The ONLY way an Instagram helps is linking it to your Tinder account. Without Tinder, Instagram would be nothing.
I've sent between 500-800 DMs on Instagram over the last year. I've banged two girls from it (they were both also on Tinder by the way). Meanwhile, I've banged 15+ girls from Tinder in that same timeframe, with MUCH less work.
People are not moving to Instagram. It's a niche market. At best, it's only worth focusing on if you find you're not getting results from Tinder anymore.
12-14-2017, 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted By OneWayFS⏩
So are you from Alaska?Any boyos want to test out a line for me? Yes came up with this line while hammered. I didn't have Tinder so I ended up diving into the snaps of any girl who was looking good in their snap story at the time (I guess, I barely remember).
"So are you from Alaska?" (Or some form of that question.)
I had no reply to it, but I'm 6 for 7 on it w/ positive responses:
3 were 6-6.5/10s
1 5/10
1 7/10
1 9/10 (by my standards)
1 didn't respond, but I saw she'd probably already deleted me off snapchat probably because of a "racial" joke I made (no racist, but it was worth the comedic value).
I'm really not that aesthetic (average probs) so it can't be because of looks.
I just need a decent follow up because I had to wing it differently every time.
I'm about to hop back on tinder once the Spring semester starts since no one is in town atm
"So are you from Alaska?" (Or some form of that question.)
I had no reply to it, but I'm 6 for 7 on it w/ positive responses:
3 were 6-6.5/10s
1 5/10
1 7/10
1 9/10 (by my standards)
1 didn't respond, but I saw she'd probably already deleted me off snapchat probably because of a "racial" joke I made (no racist, but it was worth the comedic value).
I'm really not that aesthetic (average probs) so it can't be because of looks.
I just need a decent follow up because I had to wing it differently every time.
I'm about to hop back on tinder once the Spring semester starts since no one is in town atm
Wat dat do??
12-14-2017, 07:20 AM
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got #30, for the year, in, last night. 19 year old, stoner, curvy chick, taking a break from studying for finals. basically told me she needed some D to get her mind off of finals. #nogagreflex
(this time, last year, I was at more than double, btw. shows how the times have changed)
(this time, last year, I was at more than double, btw. shows how the times have changed)
12-14-2017, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I went one one date with a cute, bubbly British girl visiting my city who I approached downtown but it led to nothing. Everything else was online.Did you also meet girls from irl connections or only from online this year? Last year I had two dates from irl but this year none, only from online.
I've decided against doing daygame, it's simply not time-efficient and doesn't make sense for me logistically.
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some of my previous profile photos that I thought were good were ok and maybe not getting as many matches, it is all about the vibes of the photos and your bio plays a part I cleaned it up added value haha and now I am getting matches without even boost solid ones I noticed a few females recreate profile porlly desperate lol. my new avatar photo is on my IG so they can see it. I hope All IS WELL WITH YOU GUYS KEEP LIFTING AND ENJOYING LIFE AND ENJOYING THE FEMALE FUN!
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hold me, brahs. met a chick tonight i MAY try to go steady w/. (obviously won't confess feelings tomorrow through txt or any of that nonsense, and will follow 'the script', but yeah, fuark, a chick i can say i'd be into dating, and felt that energy like she liked me, too, touching my leg and me touching hers back etc)
cliffs: met at bar
she buys my second beer
notice some guy trying to hit on her as she is closing out the tab (minor 5hit test to see how i'd react?)
offer to drive her home
says 'yes'
sensual pash upon drop off (i didn't want to, to keep her guessing, but she would not get out, and just looked at me with her seductive, green eyes), as one of my favorite songs started to play in the background
total time together 2:30 hours -- usually most of my drink dates last 1 hour or less, before i try to bounce them, if logistics are good.

lives 2 minutes from me, too
and wasn't from bumble or tinder
will txt Monday
cliffs: met at bar
she buys my second beer
notice some guy trying to hit on her as she is closing out the tab (minor 5hit test to see how i'd react?)
offer to drive her home
says 'yes'
sensual pash upon drop off (i didn't want to, to keep her guessing, but she would not get out, and just looked at me with her seductive, green eyes), as one of my favorite songs started to play in the background
total time together 2:30 hours -- usually most of my drink dates last 1 hour or less, before i try to bounce them, if logistics are good.

lives 2 minutes from me, too
and wasn't from bumble or tinder
will txt Monday
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[QUOTE=liftyousay post_id=1537574771]hold me, brahs. met a chick tonight i MAY try to go steady w/. (obviously won't confess feelings tomorrow through txt or any of that nonsense, and will follow 'the script', but yeah, fuark, a chick i can say i'd be into dating, and felt that energy like she liked me, too, touching my leg and me touching hers back etc)
cliffs: met at bar
she buys my second beer
notice some guy trying to hit on her as she is closing out the tab (minor 5hit test to see how i'd react?)
offer to drive her home
says 'yes'
sensual pash upon drop off (i didn't want to, to keep her guessing, but she would not get out, and just looked at me with her seductive, green eyes), as one of my favorite songs started to play in the background
total time together 2:30 hours -- usually most of my drink dates last 1 hour or less, before i try to bounce them, if logistics are good.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/Apc34v2.gif[/im g]
lives 2 minutes from me, too
and wasn't from bumble or tinder
will txt Monday[/QUOTE]proof that we're all human itt
good job mayne
hoping for ya
cliffs: met at bar
she buys my second beer
notice some guy trying to hit on her as she is closing out the tab (minor 5hit test to see how i'd react?)
offer to drive her home
says 'yes'
sensual pash upon drop off (i didn't want to, to keep her guessing, but she would not get out, and just looked at me with her seductive, green eyes), as one of my favorite songs started to play in the background
total time together 2:30 hours -- usually most of my drink dates last 1 hour or less, before i try to bounce them, if logistics are good.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/Apc34v2.gif[/im g]
lives 2 minutes from me, too
and wasn't from bumble or tinder
will txt Monday[/QUOTE]proof that we're all human itt
good job mayne
hoping for ya
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12-15-2017, 01:54 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
cheers. i mean i've been burned , somewhat, before, like everyone else, but not exactly after feeling the way i did coming out of this date, per say, so we'll see. was just a new and different vibe in the air. i mean she was basically talking about her friends , while on the date, saying things like 'you'll meet them' etc as she touched my leg, and things like that. it's just cool to finally meet a chick who you think is on your level. just going to see what happens, without rushing it, either.proof that we're all human itt
good job mayne
hoping for ya
good job mayne
hoping for ya
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
This. Year started out 10/10 then went 0/10. But we shall make it.proof that we're all human itt
good job mayne
hoping for ya
good job mayne
hoping for ya
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This thread never fails to deliver.
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