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post 1537356771 12-13-2017, 01:34 AM
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Create good affinity with all sentient beings.
post 1537356961 12-13-2017, 01:44 AM
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In order of importance, and I don't see how anyone could argue with this list:

1) Put yourself out there (i.e. leave your fukin' house and be around people, preferably women).
2) ACT when an opportunity presents itself (i.e. try).
3) Maximise your looks, status, wealth, etc.

1 and 2 are pivotal, imo, and explain why you see a lot of dudes who appear largely unimpressive yet still get women. Conversely, you can be hot chit, but if you're anti-social and never around women and never ever try then you're not gonna get anywhere.
post 1537357001 12-13-2017, 01:46 AM
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You should never have sex with women just to practice for "The One". Romancing and flirting is different to actually committing sexual misconduct.
post 1537357221 12-13-2017, 01:52 AM
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Just be yourself. I always liked chicks with a sense of humor. They rip on me, I rip on them. The good chicks will always know when you're fukking with them and vice versa. All that polite, gentleman chit goes out the window. In the end, you just both laugh at the insults towards eachothet.
post 1537357691 12-13-2017, 02:10 AM
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You dont need game if you can just use physical force to overpower them.
post 1537358051 12-13-2017, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted By seekingainz
He could try chloroform. Bolobrah used to swear by it. Look where it got him in life!
Ah bolobrah. Seems like a lifetime ago. Wonder how old his kid is now.
post 1537358241 12-13-2017, 02:36 AM
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Looks are 50% of the game. After that its knowing how to make women chase you. Alpha.
post 1537358381 12-13-2017, 02:39 AM
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Be yourself
If you can dream it, you can do it
post 1537358641 12-13-2017, 02:47 AM
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Tell him to stop being a beta wimp that sits in his room playing video / watching porn all day which I’m sure he does.

Why dont you hit the clubs/bars with this guy? Or even help him order an escort?

24 year old virgin is pathetic (If it isnt for religious reasons that is)
Originally Posted By Jeffbrah
Looks are 50% of the game. After that its knowing how to make women chase you. Alpha.
Lol at needing to play games. Good looks & good personality checking in. Never had any problems getting sloots
Follows Chestbrah's training routine crew
post 1537358751 12-13-2017, 02:50 AM
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use a big net
post 1537358831 12-13-2017, 02:53 AM
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Be social, have low standards
post 1537358881 12-13-2017, 02:56 AM
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don't be a wk
post 1537358911 12-13-2017, 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted By aminaheath
Be yourself
This one
post 1537359021 12-13-2017, 03:01 AM
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Friendzone her right off the bat. If you go straight for the kill, you're taking the route that 99% of other men who are trying to get her have taken.

Once you start off like that, there is no pressure, she'll be at ease, and you'll be yourself more often. If you know that you're going to see her again, take it fukking slow. Only be direct if you know there's no chance of seeing her after this.
Hi
post 1537359071 12-13-2017, 03:03 AM
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Ok fellas. I'm here at my mom's living room sleeping on the carpet after driving for 18 hours or so. Feet look nice and aesthetic AF (RIP Zyzz). Knees on point. Mr. Olympia 2022 without a doubt. Be yourself boyos. I'm about to go get some breakfast and scare the locals away.

post 1537359081 12-13-2017, 03:03 AM
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1. Get off the misc
2. Get outside
3. Get succesful at something you like
4. Build and maintain your social circle, living isolated fuks up your social skills
5. Approach girls you're attracted to, and yes, be yourself. If you're someone who cares good for himself, is succesful and confident then it's all good

Play on, player
post 1537359111 12-13-2017, 03:05 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34
Ok fellas. I'm here at my mom's living room sleeping on the carpet after driving for 18 hours or so. Feet look nice and aesthetic. Knees on point. Mr. Olympia 2022 without a doubt. Be yourself boyos. I'm about to go get some breakfast and scare the locals away.

You're right toe is trying to get away.
Hi
post 1537359621 12-13-2017, 03:21 AM
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Tell them you are eternal ruler in tekken 7
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post 1537359651 12-13-2017, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted By aminaheath
Be yourself
I can poke a hole in this...

If who you are is a very introverted person, or you're not naturally socially, then being "you" isn't conducive to getting women.
post 1537359791 12-13-2017, 03:25 AM
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step 1: be good-looking
step 2: don't be ugly
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*conservative crew*
*son or coathanger crew*
*women shouldn't be allowed to vote crew*
*always tells the truth even if it hurts crew*

Some people cry and some people die by the wicked ways of love
But I'll just keep on rolling along with the grace of the Lord above
post 1537360111 12-13-2017, 03:38 AM
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only on the misc do people get most of their lays from cold approaches. Irl i barely see it happening. Many bounce girls of from mutuals with in their social circle.
post 1537363371 12-13-2017, 05:13 AM
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I would say social skills are most important all no with actually going for many girls. I am good w social skills but often times I’ll start chatting up a girl irl and can no os flowing but then I don’t even go for number.
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post 1537363711 12-13-2017, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Power_Strike92
I'm compiling a list to help out my roommate. He won't listen to me. He's a 24 year old virgin.
Get to the point and ask any girl you are interested out.

Tell your friend to ask out every single hot girl he sees. Be confident, be able to hold a convo, and be a funny kunt.
RIP Pedro Suarez Vertiz. Te queremos Hermano

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post 1537363741 12-13-2017, 05:24 AM
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Be good looking
post 1537364091 12-13-2017, 05:37 AM
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Make actual moves and escalate (or try to)

You'll quickly either get reciprocation or rejection

The tip sounds like common sense but so many brahs just hover around a sloot waiting for some imaginary force to take action
post 1537364441 12-13-2017, 05:46 AM
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Be confident and have good conversational skills. Looks obviously matter so if you're ugly then dress with more style than a Chad would. Clean cut, clean shave. Cologne. The usual suspects
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post 1537364911 12-13-2017, 06:01 AM
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1) Social circle: the bigger, the better chance you have of pulling some sloot. Cold approaching has never worked for me and probably won't unless you're an 8/10+. Getting to know someone through someone else allows that connection to build. I'd wager the vast majority of couples have met through social circle as opposed to Tinder/Cold approaching etc. Join clubs, go to bars, hang out with work colleagues etc. This just opens all kinds of doors.

2) Develop yourself: being on the misc a lot of this relates to lifting which is definitely a great idea. Having a good body gives you an edge obviously but the internal confidence it builds is more important in my opinion. Make sure you are dressing well, keeping clean, Get enough sleep. Make sure you're enjoying your job and are doing well in it too. Self improvement is key

3) Be good with others. Seriously, nice guys can win. Don't be a pushover but try and develop yourself into that funny kind guy that everyone wants to be around. I was a FAer but this definitely helped me get laid and also my first 2 gfs. I tried too hard to be a jerk before this and women can see straight through it. Unless you are a badboy (and I doubt it if you're on the misc lol) I think this is the best route to go down.

At the end of the day contrary to a lot of what people on here think, there are plenty of good women who actually just want a decent, ok looking guy with a good sense of humour who's not going to mess them about. True, there are a lot of bad apples in the cart too but don't let your friend become disillusioned by bad experiences.

Number 1 tip - get out there and make friends.
post 1537365261 12-13-2017, 06:12 AM
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Originally Posted By LordMU
be good looking. You can't control your height or hairline but you can certainly determine whether you're a fat slob, have a dad bod or are shredded and aesthetic as hell.
-Get jacked
-Dress well
-Approach

I'd bet good money that you're friend is neither jacked, nor does he dress well nor does he approach.
Layjitt.

Oh and tell him to wear Aventus by Creed. No need for looks or game, just wear Aventus bro
When it all comes down
There'll be nothing left to catch you but ground
It's calling your name and filling your head
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post 1537365801 12-13-2017, 06:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Power_Strike92
I'm compiling a list to help out my roommate. He won't listen to me. He's a 24 year old virgin.
Maximize your looks: haircut/skin/exercise+definition/clothing/shoes/confidence!
There is an unspoken thing, we are iron brothers and sisters, we are to support each other and...It is our duty to support our brothers and sisters in the iron game!
post 1537366801 12-13-2017, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted By jimmyjabbar
Dont be a bish, take your shot. You'd be surprised how open a lot of chicks are to going out/hooking up. Most dudes just dont make moves
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