Can guys be friends with women?

12-12-2017, 10:00 PM

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I actually met this attractive woman at a Jiu Jitsu class a few weeks ago. The next day she matched with me on Bumble and we had dinner.

Not sure if she's into me still but I'm not really into her. She is classically attractive. 5'11'' short blonde hair and into BJJ and kickboxing. She just doesn't do it for me.

Who knows. Still trying to think how I can turn her into a friend or at least have her around. I've texted her here and there and she seems down to do something again and I will probably see her during BJJ soon.

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12-13-2017, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩

haven't you dated women with a phone full of men who said they are just friends?

i have

i'm not with any of them

Tmrl..reminds me of the meme of girls only having guy friends and a bunch of hot dogs in her mouth lol

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12-13-2017, 11:45 AM

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some women think so. However, if shes attractive at all, no, men will tell you the truth.

If youv ever had a single sexual thought about your female "friend"...then you've passed that threshold.

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12-13-2017, 11:48 AM

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Friends that they fuk. I think it's only possible if the girl has a BF and her guy friends are through him. Of course, I just assume we're talking about a typical lame ass high-emotion relationship

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12-13-2017, 12:11 PM

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I don't think any female friendship would be able to rise to the level of one of your best guy friends. It's just not possible due to the fact that sexual tension will always be there. You can be 'friends' in the sense that you hang out with a group of people and have fun doing stuff. But if you're ever in a bind and need to turn to someone, you're going to your bro, not a female 'friend.'

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12-13-2017, 12:54 PM

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Yeah they can, but there's always going to be ulterior motives involved (someone wants to bang the other, or expand their social reach/circle, meet and bang new people, or bang friends of friends).

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12-13-2017, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted By screwnuts⏩

A girl that has mostly male friends is usually damaged goods in my experience. Either she’s an attention whore or she’s actually banged most of them.

Originally Posted By Layne205⏩

This is a scientific fact. "I just don't get along with other girls" = Other girls call me out when I try to fuk every man in sight.

Definitely some truth to this, not going to say it's 100, but I knew two different girls who mainly had guy friends and the first was both the attention whore/banging them, and the second I only met once at a party but was super flirty with me even though she was engaged, with her fiance at the party. She told me shouldn't stand "catty bitches". Lol, misc redpilling me on why.

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12-13-2017, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted By DGen94⏩

Tmrl..reminds me of the meme of girls only having guy friends and a bunch of hot dogs in her mouth lol

12-13-2017, 01:16 PM

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I only have three male friends. Would never sleep with them. They haven’t given me many reasons to think that they would either. Two of them I’ve known since high school and did sports with. The other one I very briefly dated in college. They’re definitely not the same type of friendship I have with my girl friends for sure. A lot less communication, more just hey I’m gonna be in your part of town, wanna get lunch?

They said she's gone too far this time

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12-13-2017, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩

Definitely some truth to this, not going to say it's 100, but I knew two different girls who mainly had guy friends and the first was both the attention whore/banging them, and the second I only met once at a party but was super flirty with me even though she was engaged, with her fiance at the party. She told me shouldn't stand "catty bitches". Lol, misc redpilling me on why.

I don't get this whole I'm mainly friends with guys because females are catty. If you don't like catty females don't be friends with the catty females or if your friend is catty tell her to shut the fk up.

My close friends which is like 2 super close friends are not catty and we rarely bitch about other people because we have more weird stuff to chat about instead.

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12-13-2017, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted By RaphaelDeLaGhetto⏩

Women are humans too with jokes and personality ...

Lol

12-13-2017, 01:29 PM

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My sis and I are pretty tight, I mean growing up we didn't hang much, she's 6 years younger than me. But now as adults we aight. We are supposed to meet for a drink this weekend to exchange gifts, and I'm gonna see if she'll hit up Star Wars TLJ with me.

12-13-2017, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩

My sis and I are pretty tight, I mean growing up we didn't hang much, she's 6 years younger than me. But now as adults we aight. We are supposed to meet for a drink this weekend to exchange gifts, and I'm gonna see if she'll hit up Star Wars TLJ with me.

I think that's different, that's family, no possibility of anything sexual or emotional developing

12-13-2017, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

I think that's different, that's family, no possibility of anything sexual or emotional developing

I wish things were different

(no incest) (no weirdo)

12-13-2017, 01:42 PM

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Yes, it's possible. I've been a semi-pro musician most of my life and have numerous female friends (some of whom are/were very attractive). Having said that, I would rather play music with them than bang them because it usually ends bad once you start banging.

12-13-2017, 01:45 PM

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I can't be friends with anybody male or female, so I can't answer that question.

Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

I think that's different, that's family, no possibility of anything sexual or emotional developing

Cookie! You have an avi. I don't know what to make of all this.

12-13-2017, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩

I can't be friends with anybody male or female, so I can't answer that question.

Only because of this.

this applies to anyone wanting your friendship.

Edit: fukken gif needs to work. why I'm so unworthy!

12-13-2017, 01:54 PM

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You have to be pretty immature to write off a whole gender for being friends with and be able to like spending time with someone who you don't want to stick your dink inside.

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12-13-2017, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩

I can't be friends with anybody male or female, so I can't answer that question.

Cookie! You have an avi. I don't know what to make of all this.

You likey?

12-13-2017, 01:57 PM

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You can be friends with them when they are not attractive enough

It sucks because I actually like female company cause I have similar interests...

12-13-2017, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted By Sumgai⏩

You can be friends with them when they are not attractive enough

It sucks because I actually like female company cause I have similar interests...

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12-13-2017, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩

#nofatchicks

Indeed

sucks for the ones that actually has a pretty face if only they loose the muffin...

12-13-2017, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted By DGen94⏩

In my opinion i think only beta guys, family ,or gay dudes can

What do you think? Would you trust a girl with a guy friend

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Varies on person to person. But in general, yes.

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12-13-2017, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩

I wish things were different

(no incest) (no weirdo)

:-/

12-13-2017, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

:-/

I mean I wish she were a Star Wars nerd so she’d see the movie with me

12-13-2017, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩

I wish things were different

(no incest) (no weirdo)

Wtf

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I mean I wish she were a Star Wars nerd so she’d see the movie with me

Thank gawd. Don’t scare me like that, lol.

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12-13-2017, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted By Deathstroke⏩

I mean I wish she were a Star Wars nerd so she’d see the movie with me

I'm sure.

Also I can't see what he said but fking lol at jaymz posting anything in this that considering the history

12-13-2017, 02:59 PM

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I think eventually one party will want to bang the other if its not that-way from the jump.

I have a female coworker/friend that I've already discussed smashing with. Listed the reasons why I think its a bad idea and why it won't happen. Every now and then I get that mid-night text though when she's horny. I haven't smashed her and don't plan on it, but I could at literally any time.