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» Cold approached girl at gym, now "date" on sunday. What to do?
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post 1537547741 12-14-2017, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
She's very cute, OP. As for what you should do, your plan already seems fine. I'll probably get negged for saying this by thirsty miscers, but if she's intelligent, you like her, and you see long term potential, I would go slow rather than trying to get in her pants on the first date. Other than that, just talk to her like you would any other person.
No No fukin NO......that's how you go straight to friend zone, do not pass go, do not collect a sniff of her panties.

She likes OP cause he lifts and demonstrates alpha qualities......the second OP goes into slow nice guy mode, she'll be doing straight leg deadlifts infront of another guy in the gym.

escalate throughout the night and bang on the second date....there's no such thing as nice intelligent girls......they all want the D.
post 1537550061 12-14-2017, 06:31 PM
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Stop being an idiot:


-Don't overthink things
-Have a good time
-If this isn't just a goal to smash, let things progress naturally. If there's a genuine connection and you guys get along well, it'll progress properly without worry, and things will just seem like they're falling into place.


Is she Norwegian or Finnish? Because she looks it
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post 1537550581 12-14-2017, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper
Stop being an idiot:


-Don't overthink things
-Have a good time
-If this isn't just a goal to smash, let things progress naturally. If there's a genuine connection and you guys get along well, it'll progress properly without worry, and things will just seem like they're falling into place.


Is she Norwegian or Finnish? Because she looks it
Nice one, Finnish.
post 1537552241 12-14-2017, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
Fukkin dead lmao
post 1537553991 12-14-2017, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
Lol.

You're gonna cuck it up op and she'll end up with some black fuk.
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post 1537554301 12-14-2017, 07:17 PM
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nope, definitely not a 8, so stop stressing
post 1537554511 12-14-2017, 07:19 PM
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GJDM OP, she has that innocent/slooty look like that girl from GoT

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post 1537557021 12-14-2017, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By BannyGoBanny
nope, definitely not a 8, so stop stressing
Strong reading skills
post 1537557541 12-14-2017, 07:59 PM
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fuk her dad
post 1537557761 12-14-2017, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
Lmao best post
post 1537557881 12-14-2017, 08:04 PM
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fap before the date for dat der clear head and rational decision making.
post 1537558031 12-14-2017, 08:07 PM
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Stop over thinking it to op. Just relax...or is this your 1st time?


- I hesitate to go for girls at my gym

- Lets say it does go good and you date than things don't work out and things end bad

- But then she starts banging Chad from the gym, we all have one.

- And there she is, loling, playing around with chad, lifting weights, taking selfies with Chad and there you are alone trying to avoid them at all cost, can't even workout right
post 1537558211 12-14-2017, 08:09 PM
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She's pretty OP, and she's tall. Taller than 75% of the misc.

Hopefully you won't be insecure when she wears heels and puts her arm around your shoulder.
*Willing to risk it all crew*
post 1537558421 12-14-2017, 08:11 PM
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She's all G bro - take her to a casual eatery have a couple of drinks. If shes GF material you probably won't get to smash on the first date - just gauge how it goes.

Look up something interesting in your city you want to do and take her to do that afterwards.
post 1537558641 12-14-2017, 08:13 PM
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go ice skating boyo. nobody wanna sit around and ask interview questions, if anything. get food after ice skating
be the turtle in the race.
post 1537559351 12-14-2017, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Cadet4life
go ice skating boyo. nobody wanna sit around and ask interview questions, if anything. get food after ice skating
That is actually not a bad idea. She enjoys ice skating.

1. Restaurant (pre book a table at a nice place I know)
2. Ice skating/Walking in a nice park/Town
3. Bar

I’ll walk her home and we see what happens.
post 1537559521 12-14-2017, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By GnarlySheen
fap before the date for dat der clear head and rational decision making.
On no-fap since Sunday. Need to avoid this since it ruined my sexlife a bit.
post 1537559561 12-14-2017, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By rhadam
Go NC and fap instead.
Propose to her like this guy would do
post 1537690131 12-16-2017, 11:12 AM
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Meet her again today on the line in the supermarket. Chatted a bit and walked with her after, she is still up for tomorrow.
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What to do?

post 1537690641 12-16-2017, 11:21 AM
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Eat -> Drinks -> Go home separately or together
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post 1537692191 12-16-2017, 11:46 AM
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Looks homely OP, should have avoided rating her though as it's inviting naysayers. Hope things work out.

Also tell her to tone down the make up, she looks older than 18 in the first pic.
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give her the HIV
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post 1537692951 12-16-2017, 11:58 AM
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just remember

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Prepare yourself OP!

post 1537764611 12-17-2017, 08:50 AM
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its time, wish me luck boyos.
















post 1537766481 12-17-2017, 09:21 AM
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Originally Posted By RG90Natty
its time, wish me luck boyos.
















Forehead of peace





Good luck mayne!
post 1537767381 12-17-2017, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By RG90Natty
its time, wish me luck boyos.
He doesn't look bad OP, don't forget to take some lube.
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its a guy nohomo, mane. you homo?


proceed
post 1537768081 12-17-2017, 09:52 AM
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23? ****** she looks 30
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