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post 1538623801 12-26-2017, 10:05 AM
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Originally Posted By kopikum⏩
You guys are delusional, most regular average guys get way less action than people might think, most guys I know are lucky if they get laid 2-3 times a year (without gf of course)
This, most guys struggle with women, of course they're going to lie and say they don't
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2 of the best looking, arrogant, loud mouth ppl i know have a lay count of 5
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Depends alot on your lifestyle. I haven't had a solid long term relationship for 2 years now and it's definitely spaced out....

I was messing with a fwb for a few months after, mostly of out of convenience/desperation. I've hooked up with a few girls from college classes and at clubs or raves, but my friends in LTR definitely get laid more on the regular. The biggest problem is I'm on the 9-5 grind + helping family. When I was just going to college and hanging out all week it was way easier to meet girls.

I've also shot down alot of friends trying to hook me up with people. I just don't like getting hooked up through friends, even if she's hot.
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post 1538626521 12-26-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By wangbadan⏩
Lmao @ some of these estimates, 4-5 new girls a week just lol. That’s 208 a year, 1040 over 5 years assuming single from 22-27

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In the old days it would have been impossible. Going out, locating single women, trying to chat them up.

But now? You think that's tough with all the online dating apps?

There are thousands and thousands of girls you can contact any time anywhere. They are all looking for a good dicking. All you have to do is arrange a time and not be a creep. It's so easy to get your dick wet these days.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
With tinder and low standards you can bang 4-5 different girls a week...trust me on that.
this. turn bi and the kill count goes up higher

so i've heard from a friend..... of course
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
In the old days it would have been impossible. Going out, locating single women, trying to chat them up.

But now? You think that's tough with all the online dating apps?

There are thousands and thousands of girls you can contact any time anywhere. They are all looking for a good dicking. All you have to do is arrange a time and not be a creep. It's so easy to get your dick wet these days.
I never said it wasn’t easy. But if we’re talking the average 5-6/10 dude here, just lol if you think he can pull even close to an average of 4 meets with new girls each week much less sleep with all of them. Keyword average, not phucking top tier model status
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post 1538629141 12-26-2017, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted By RushEm⏩


thats 4.62B, not million,Billionvisits last month. To ONE porn site.
just LOL if you think guys are getting laid. If it was possible to regain virginity after 6 months of no poocy 80% of guys would be born again virgins
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post 1538629251 12-26-2017, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By wangbadan⏩
I never said it wasn’t easy. But if we’re talking the average 5-6/10 dude here, just lol if you think he can pull even close to an average of 4 meets with new girls each week much less sleep with all of them. Keyword average, not phucking top tier model status
You could definitely lower your standards and slay more. That's not something I've been willing to do.
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post 1538629431 12-26-2017, 11:16 AM
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No idea. I'm above average
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0 unless they are attractive and TRYING HARD. The key is that most guys don't spend as much time/money/effort to get laid, they rather just watch porn.
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Lol

I swear misc...if you are not awkward, angry, weird, also you don’t put vagina on a pedestal and go out to bars, use dating apps, or have a large social circle you can get laid at least twice a week with different females on the regular. More if you are putting in work on it, less if you are busy with school, work, hobbies, etc.

I can’t believe the nonsense I’m reading. You guys can’t be this pathetic. Your ideas of male attractiveness are incredibly wrong, your capn save a ho beliefs about women are wrong, and your incredible self-hate is insane.
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Originally Posted By DDSF1⏩
Hitting the bars 3-4 times a week or hanging out with a large social circle (party’s, kick-backs), you can pull 4-5 a week too. The key is building a stable and having a main girlfriend. That’s when you are golden. You got “wifey” and a couple regular side pieces and throw in the randoms. Brah just don’t be an awkward, angry, weirdo miscer type...you can fuk a lot or wait for a good girl that WONT fuk immediately, or at all before marriage, and is going to be your future wife.


Edit- time lololol you need time, if you are busy then those numbers go down lol
I know you clarified this slightly in your edit, but having a "stable of bitches" and a gf is like having a full time job. Ive tried to juggle 3 chicks a couple times, and was GLUED to my phone all day.
And you didnt even mention the MONEY you have to spend when youre dating more than one chick. Its a lose-lose situation when you are with more than one chick at a time; all time and money evaporates.
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can have sex every day if i felt like it, girls are too easy and promiscuous these days
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Originally Posted By nick1990⏩
I know you clarified this slightly in your edit, but having a "stable of bitches" and a gf is like having a full time job. Ive tried to juggle 3 chicks a couple times, and was GLUED to my phone all day.
And you didnt even mention the MONEY you have to spend when youre dating more than one chick. Its a lose-lose situation when you are with more than one chick at a time; all time and money evaporates.
Tinder hookups? A $20 dinner will easily turn into a half dozen bangs before they figure out you aren't really interested in them. That's like $3 a bang. A lot cheaper than backpage.

Once you fuk them once you move them to the netflix n chill folder. You don't keep dating.
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Once a year if lucky
This. But I don't think most guys are even trying to get laid.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Tinder hookups? A $20 dinner will easily turn into a half dozen bangs before they figure out you aren't really interested in them. That's like $3 a bang. A lot cheaper than backpage.

Once you fuk them once you move them to the netflix n chill folder. You don't keep dating.
Maybe im just an idiot, but i was taking the chicks to much nicer than $20 dinners haha. I was also doing "dating things" like Disneyland, day trips to LA, ballgames, etc. Would end up being like $200 a date or some **** haha.

But the main thing for me was the time aspect. I just couldnt be on my phone that much. Made me super unproductive. Again, maybe i was just doing it incorrectly, but these chicks were quite hot and i wanted to keep them around.

EDIT: No no, these were definitely not tinder hookups. All my stuff comes organically through friends of friends, bars, shows, etc. Tinder would be a hell of a lot cheaper i suppose.
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Originally Posted By nick1990⏩
Maybe im just an idiot, but i was taking the chicks to much nicer than $20 dinners haha. I was also doing "dating things" like Disneyland, day trips to LA, ballgames, etc. Would end up being like $200 a date or some **** haha.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Tinder hookups? A $20 dinner will easily turn into a half dozen bangs before they figure out you aren't really interested in them. That's like $3 a bang. A lot cheaper than backpage.

Once you fuk them once you move them to the netflix n chill folder. You don't keep dating.
I should really cut the BS on hop on Tinder.

I used to be all proud that I was the only one in my group that didn't use it. Joke's on me.
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This is all individual with lots of variables. I have a friend that is a chad, and he is coming up here to 12 months no slay. Guy is good looking and lifts, but just socially awkward with woman and makes beta choices. On the other hand i see guys who are 4-5/10 get with 7-8'/hbb.

But if i'd have to state a dude will slay 0 - 2 times a year if he doesn't go to the bar if he does party he will be 3-5 a year. Just because of the social circle and what not. If you do online dating. You can maybe stretch that out to 2-3 girls a year if you do casual dating for a half a year then jump to another girl then your golden. So i'd say 2 a year in most cases. But 1 a year is not surprising next to 0 these days.

But all the variables matter like demography. For example if your an ethnic person in a small ass white town your not gonna get any pusssie lets be realistic. I live in a smallish town. If i know one person they know my friend and i know there friend and so on. So you can't get your dyck wet here and not have someone else find out. I stopped going to the bar with my friends. So i essentially have zero social circle. i go to work, school gym. rinse and repeat.
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Originally Posted By AddictiveMuscle⏩
This is all individual with lots of variables. I have a friend that is a chad, and he is coming up here to 12 months no slay. Guy is good looking and lifts, but just socially awkward with woman and makes beta choices. On the other hand i see guys who are 4-5/10 get with 7-8'/hbb.
happens alot. Bet your friend gets eye phuked all the time. But aesthetics won't save you if you're a poocy on the inside.

My manlet, scarfaced, 50k/year cousin slayed more than most Chads I know. And now he has a 9/10 gf.
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I can just tell by how most normal guys act that they either have gf or fuk buddies. Your average dude has good enough social skills to get girls, I seriously doubt they go on extended dry spells. These are just your average looking dudes with decent social skills.

Problem with a lot of lifters is they are too aesthetic and socially awkward, and won't lower standards. Anybody here could talk to an average looking girl. Sometimes you can actually be too good looking if you don't have the social skills to match it.

Seriously anyone here could talk to a 4 or 5/10
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I can just tell by how most normal guys act that they either have gf or fuk buddies. Your average dude has good enough social skills to get girls, I seriously doubt they go on extended dry spells. These are just your average looking dudes with decent social skills.

Problem with a lot of lifters is they are too aesthetic and socially awkward, and won't lower standards. Anybody here could talk to an average looking girl. Sometimes you can actually betoo good looking if you don't have the social skills to match it.

Seriously anyone here could talk to a 4 or 5/10
If someone is really really good looking, he will be fine. He will just be called the "hot quiet guy" and girls will giggle to each other if they say hi to the "hot quiet guy". They will play the dare game and eventually suck his d1ck.

Simple.
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Depends on if it's in a big city or a smaller place I've got buddies on the coast that get laid all the time that couldn't even sniff one in the city.
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