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ยป Anyone else get scared they may end up alone? [srs]
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post 1541403351 01-21-2018, 06:52 PM
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Anyone else get scared they may end up alone? [srs]

Dating game is just brutal

Don't use tinder, bumble, or any other online dating platform so not hooking up with a ton of randoms.

Getting real sick of the club scene and I don't find it fun. Feels really empty just drinking and going out for the sole purpose of meeting drunk girls.

Rarely go on dates because I don't meet any new girls.

Wtf brahs, things aren't looking good. How does everyone navigate the dating scene these days? Don't want to end up alone..
post 1541403881 01-21-2018, 06:56 PM
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Nah. I'm more worried about dying without accomplishing anything significant. Srs
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post 1541404061 01-21-2018, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Dating game is just brutal

Don't use tinder, bumble, or any other online dating platform so not hooking up with a ton of randoms.

Getting real sick of the club scene and I don't find it fun. Feels really empty just drinking and going out for the sole purpose of meeting drunk girls.

Rarely go on dates because I don't meet any new girls.

Wtf brahs, things aren't looking good. How does everyone navigate the dating scene these days? Don't want to end up alone..
Why do you think you fear "ending up alone?"
post 1541404461 01-21-2018, 07:00 PM
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Being single has plenty of advantages. If you want to meet your wife supposedly match.com is pretty good.
post 1541404691 01-21-2018, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By SwiftRick
Nah. I'm more worried about dying without accomplishing anything significant. Srs
Oh absolutely. Anything women related is so far down on the priority list.

I'm at a point where my professional career and everything else in my life is where I've always wanted it to be and I'm on a path to continued success for the foreseeable future. Now, the only other frontier is finding a good girl
Originally Posted By CheekyChris23
Why do you think you fear "ending up alone?"
I dunno dude, I just don't meet any new girls really in my day to day life and the whole club thing drains my soul
post 1541413631 01-21-2018, 08:24 PM
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need advice brahs
post 1541413831 01-21-2018, 08:26 PM
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Hate 99.999% of women after spending 3 hours with them. So nope, TimothOPIE.
post 1541413921 01-21-2018, 08:27 PM
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post 1541413941 01-21-2018, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
professional career
Bishes don't care about your intern job in Chemical Engineering / Cubicle Jockey. You know they can legit sign up on like Seeking Arrangement and a 55 year old with a $40 million net worth will buy them a BMW and shower them with gifts? Never mind, than they just simply be Instagram hoes and 500+ white knights will send them stuff all day.
post 1541414221 01-21-2018, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM
Bishes don't care about your intern job in Chemical Engineering / Cubicle Jockey. You know they can legit sign up on like Seeking Arrangement and a 55 year old with a $40 million net worth will buy them a BMW and shower them with gifts? Never mind, than they just simply be Instagram hoes and 500+ white knights will send them stuff all day.
2 of my uncles got duped into sending russian women thousands of dollars to "fund their travels to Canada".

Lol, my mother's brothers are fools and 2/3 of them have never had a girlfriend. I'm pretty much following suit, except I've had girlfriends.
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post 1541414521 01-21-2018, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM
Bishes don't care about your intern job in Chemical Engineering / Cubicle Jockey. You know they can legit sign up on like Seeking Arrangement and a 55 year old with a $40 million net worth will buy them a BMW and shower them with gifts? Never mind, than they just simply be Instagram hoes and 500+ white knights will send them stuff all day.
Yeah, my job is none of those things and I'm not into insta sloots
post 1541414571 01-21-2018, 08:35 PM
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Worrying about?

That ship has sailed for me brah.

Still get trim, no fuks given
post 1541415261 01-21-2018, 08:46 PM
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Yeah I am scared. I don't know what is worse; Settling down with a person whose second choice or being alone.

As you get older the quality of women go down the drain unless you marry much younger.
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post 1541416221 01-21-2018, 08:56 PM
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lol oh I KNOW I'm ending up alone, it's been accepted for several years now, and at this point I can't even imagine the rest of my life NOT being alone.
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post 1541418031 01-21-2018, 09:17 PM
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go to church

they literally like pair you with people, you go to singles events, etc.

Im atheist and saying this **** btw. Church = the last bastion for somewhat wholesome women.
post 1541418091 01-21-2018, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Oh absolutely. Anything women related is so far down on the priority list.

I'm at a point where my professional career and everything else in my life is where I've always wanted it to be and I'm on a path to continued success for the foreseeable future. Now, the only other frontier is finding a good girl



I dunno dude, I just don't meet any new girls really in my day to day life and the whole club thing drains my soul
I feel the same way brah. Make good money, financially responsible, making good gains, eating whatever I want. Only thing missing is a girl. I suppose brahs like us should start approaching more at the gym?
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post 1541418461 01-21-2018, 09:21 PM
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Idgaf about relationships with women
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post 1541418561 01-21-2018, 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Daz206
lol oh I KNOW I'm ending up alone, it's been accepted for several years now, and at this point I can't even imagine the rest of my life NOT being alone.
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post 1541418651 01-21-2018, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted By deft0nes
Idgaf about relationships with women
Where do you find the girls you hookup with then. How are people doing it these days? Is it just the club and tinder?
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Scare/fear implies doubt.

There's no two ways about it, I'm definitely going to end up alone.
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post 1541419101 01-21-2018, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By SwiftRick
Nah. I'm more worried about dying without accomplishing anything significant. Srs
same
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post 1541419781 01-21-2018, 09:39 PM
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Yeah.
Especially now it seems like time is flying by..
Almost 30..
My thoughts on having kids are changing.. I used to be completely opposed to it but with the right girl it would be worth it.

But I cant even get a girl to talk to me, let alone stay.
The longest period ive had a girl talk to me and hang out was 2 months..
Literally every single time it stops at the 2 month mark. None of them were serious relationships or anything but its weird how that happens.

I am just not good at entertaining girls and it seems thats all they want..excitement,fun..a comedian, a rich guy..

While I just want a nice, loyal (lolyeahright) woman to love .
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post 1541420651 01-21-2018, 09:49 PM
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Nah, there are a lot of cool girls out there.
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Originally Posted By ttuTRAP
Nah, there are a lot of cool girls out there.
where the hell do I find them?

do I have to go to the farmers market? where are these cool girls congregating??
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Dating game is just brutal

Don't use tinder, bumble, or any other online dating platform so not hooking up with a ton of randoms.

Getting real sick of the club scene and I don't find it fun. Feels really empty just drinking and going out for the sole purpose of meeting drunk girls.

Rarely go on dates because I don't meet any new girls.

Wtf brahs, things aren't looking good. How does everyone navigate the dating scene these days? Don't want to end up alone..
imo you're thinking about it too much. a good mentality towards women in general is that its cool to have a girlfriend but its not necessary that you find the love of your life right now. its best to simply not care, and the next time you see some pretty girl eye fuking you, walk up to her and hit on her like a cocky bastard. flaunt your six pack to her, get her back to your place and kiss her on the next, see where that takes you.

maybe shel surprise you with an awesome personality, or maybe shel be annoying as fuk and youl have to tolerate her until you're bored with her.
Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
where the hell do I find them?

do I have to go to the farmers market? where are these cool girls congregating??
dude, youre shredded as fuk. just walk around town wearing clothes that show off your body, girls will gawk at you, just go talk to the first one that looks good to you.
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post 1541421261 01-21-2018, 09:56 PM
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kinda man

not for not being able to acquire females, no issues with that, but yeah as i get older it's seeming sillier and sillier

but lol @ u, this is all you ever post about, hating on females, dating game, anyone even trying to date etc. either process it in a reasonable way or just deal with it man
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post 1541421571 01-21-2018, 10:01 PM
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Kinda. I have more important priorities to focus on atm. I still live with my parents so I ain't hitting up Tinder sloots to bring back for one night stands either
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