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post 1541441771 01-22-2018, 05:49 AM
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You need to work on your self-confidence OP. You sound depressed by the posts that you have made in this thread. I know you said in one of your posts that you aren’t depressed, but a lot of people suffering depression will deny they have it. I think this is a strong possibility. Girls will not be attracted to men that lack confidence and come across needy. None of the materialistic stuff matters to the right kind of girl. You need confidence and need to learn how to act like the boss man. Until you acquire that skill you will struggle with girls no matter how good you look aesthetically. Make a girl laugh and feel comfortable around you when you are in their presence and you will find it easy to attract them.
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post 1541442151 01-22-2018, 05:57 AM
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I think is worse to spend your life with someone you really can´t stand just for fear of being alone in your final years.
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post 1541447401 01-22-2018, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
Hate 99.999% of women after spending 3 hours with them. So nope, TimothOPIE.
Might be your personality suks man. JS...
post 1541448611 01-22-2018, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
I’m 30 in 6 months and still single. Havent talked to chicks outside of a few dates here and there since college.

What keeps me going is staying shredded, having a nice place, being debt free, and having savings.

What I think will greatly assist in my journey to find someone is no fap, no porn, meditation, and pursuit of lots of hobbies, + travel. A year of self improvement is a looooong time if you work at it each and every day.

If you take care of yourself in all facets of life there’s no reason you can’t find a girl in her early twenties to settle down with you
the cope is overwhelming
post 1541449031 01-22-2018, 07:34 AM
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No. Being single and being able to do what I want whenever I want is GOAT. Easy to make platonic friends to fill the void and have chit to do on weekends. A LTR gf would never approve of me going out to a bar or club on Friday just to get chit faced and have fun
post 1541450241 01-22-2018, 07:49 AM
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Skip to 1:06

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAyKJAtDNCw



No joke, I use to rub one out to this video. Seeing those two women go at it....fuk....
post 1541450441 01-22-2018, 07:52 AM
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Hell no. I spent the weekend in Vegas with my main chick and while it was a great time, I couldn't wait to get away. Idk how you guys actually live with and see your girls every single day. That'll never happen in my life and I've never had trouble getting new girls/puss whenever I want so nothing to be afraid of. I'll be dead before I'm old as dirt
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post 1541490081 01-22-2018, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
I'm a naysayer for watching a YouTube video and acknowledging that the girls are paid actors following a script. Did you even understand what I meant by it being scripted? It's not about the guys following a script, the WHOLE THING is a script.

Guy approaches girl "Hey, do you want some money. We're just doing some funny film for YouTube. I'm going to come up to you and you just have to be super receptive and give me a fake number"

Cold approaching works but you're a deluded fool if you think youtube videos are genuine. If avoiding that delusion makes me negative - so be it.
I don't believe all youtube infields are genuine - yes a lot are faked. Which is fine. The point is to test cold approach for yourself. Face the fears. Get out there. Get better at it and you can easily land 1-2 dates a week doing it.
post 1541490891 01-22-2018, 02:58 PM
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grass is always greener

i envy you independent brehs

having a huge sofa but a barnacle GF who is always trying to latch onto you is so fukken annoying

my fear is that i'll end up not alone enough

it's all charisma. went out with my buddy on saturday as his wingman. dude is jacked and has a full head of hair. met a pair of chicks and both of them said they liked me better. i was insulting them in a way they found funny the whole time. chit is so easy it's not even fun anymore srs
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post 1541490951 01-22-2018, 02:58 PM
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I like alone time. On one hand I'd love to get married and settle down. On the other hand I'm easily annoyed not having my own freedoms. It's a tug-of-war
"Is that really a fukin question? Do you need two hands to count your IQ, or is one enough." - residesinAZ
post 1541491141 01-22-2018, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted By repsDTGdaily⏩
I like alone time. On one hand I'd love to get married and settle down. On the other hand I'm easily annoyed not having my own freedoms. It's a tug-of-war
I like alone time too

Find someone who doesn’t want to live in your pocket
post 1541491261 01-22-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I like alone time too

Find someone who doesn’t want to live in your pocket
You know how hard that is? As people become more attached they want to hover more as time passes. Things aren't always going to be like the first few months of a relationship

edit: I am seeing someone currently, she's not bad about it yet. But I always get that feeling things will change
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post 1541491441 01-22-2018, 03:04 PM
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post 1541491901 01-22-2018, 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted By repsDTGdaily⏩
You know how hard that is? As people become more attached they want to hover more as time passes. Things aren't always going to be like the first few months of a relationship

edit: I am seeing someone currently, she's not bad about it yet. But I always get that feeling things will change
So you’re not saying you need alone time but that you don’t want commitment ? Kind of different.

You can live with someone and still be yourself, but there will always be a transitional period of adjusting from single to couple to serious couple and weirdly you don’t resent it
post 1541492211 01-22-2018, 03:13 PM
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nope

everything i do in life is to make sure i have peace and solitude

i'm extremely scared of ending up having to share a home with someone when i'm old, which is why i am getting euthanasia
post 1541492741 01-22-2018, 03:19 PM
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Bro, get a passport and visit some countries outside the states..

Do some research on a few places and go have some fun at the very least.

Plenty of cool chicks outside the US.

Hell, I got one living in my basement. Serious.
post 1541493871 01-22-2018, 03:31 PM
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More worried about my negative personality traits keeping me from every sustaining healthy relationships. This is across the board with family, friends, and lovers. Feels broken.
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post 1541494141 01-22-2018, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So you’re not saying you need alone time but that you don’t want commitment ? Kind of different.

You can live with someone and still be yourself, but there will always be a transitional period of adjusting from single to couple to serious couple and weirdly you don’t resent it
Maybe I'm just unsure how I'd take the transition. I've always had freedom and that has ended past relationships.
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No. Even when I was alone, I didn't get "scared" per say. The "want" was there to share your life with someone - but if it hadn't happened, I'd have just busied myself doing something else (like building a financial empire which would have gone to the extremely poor/needy after I died).
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post 1541494461 01-22-2018, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Diabolous⏩
Bro, get a passport and visit some countries outside the states..

Do some research on a few places and go have some fun at the very least.

Plenty of cool chicks outside the US.

Hell, I got one living in my basement. Serious.
Post some pics. Leave the chains on for extra hnnnnnnnnggg
post 1541494601 01-22-2018, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By repsDTGdaily⏩
Maybe I'm just unsure how I'd take the transition. I've always had freedom and that has ended past relationships.
I suppose you have to want it more than your supposed “freedom”

There comes a time when you look ahead and think the thought of yourself as middle aged isn’t that far away ..how do you see yourself...if you want to be a Lone Ranger at 50 then fair enough, but if you want to be / have that traditional family then there’s comes a time when you have to commit to making that happen

Perhaps it depends on the people you meet but I think there’s a certain amount of Kevin Costner’s field of dreams in it ..if you want that and are ready for that you are more capable of finding that person

Either way is fine
post 1541495701 01-22-2018, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I suppose you have to want it more than your supposed “freedom”

There comes a time when you look ahead and think the thought of yourself as middle aged isn’t that far away ..how do you see yourself...if you want to be a Lone Ranger at 50 then fair enough, but if you want to be / have that traditional family then there’s comes a time when you have to commit to making that happen

Perhaps it depends on the people you meet but I think there’s a certain amount of Kevin Costner’s field of dreams in it ..if you want that and are ready for that you are more capable of finding that person

Either way is fine
Eh...we'll see. I could be considered middle-aged. turning 38 this year
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post 1541496641 01-22-2018, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Lucianus⏩
nope

everything i do in life is to make sure i have peace and solitude

i'm extremely scared of ending up having to share a home with someone when i'm old, which is why i am getting euthanasia
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post 1541496831 01-22-2018, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
lol'd so true tho... don't know why i love being alone so much

probs autistic or something
post 1541497081 01-22-2018, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Lucianus⏩
lol'd so true tho... don't know why i love being alone so much

probs autistic or something
i like to go out and be extremely social on friday-sunday and then be left the fukk alone for the rest of the week

GF doesn't like to go out and wants to spend every waking moment with me

i end up just going out with the brehs on the weekend and then having to spend time with her during the week

usually i'll get progressively more angry as time goes by and then explode

good times
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post 1541497411 01-22-2018, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
i like to go out and be extremely social on friday-sunday and then be left the fukk alone for the rest of the week

GF doesn't like to go out and wants to spend every waking moment with me

i end up just going out with the brehs on the weekend and then having to spend time with her during the week

usually i'll get progressively more angry as time goes by and then explode

good times
yes!

me too! i can be really social too but it's like i have a battery... and it gets extremely drained when i'm around people, and when I'm alone it feels like i'm being charged up
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nope, if you're scared to be alone you shouldn't be in a relationship
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post 1541497861 01-22-2018, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted By dimassive⏩
nope, if you're scared to be alone you shouldn't be in a relationship
I’m scared to be alone because I’m in a relationship tho
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