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post 1541160611 01-19-2018, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Seriously why is it that whenever you reach a girl be it your sister, your aunt, your colleague or even worse a girl you're trying to seduce ( but does not necessarily reciprocate), they never respond within a decent amount of time (an hour ) ?

As if it is some kind of technique that they pass from generation to generation, from mother to daughter and perfect it since they're teenagers.

BRB female colleague and I haven't seen each other for weeks, we spend a nice lunch together tuesday and she proposes me to grab some coffee some time together today : Message sent about 5 hours ago, still no response.

I'm not even interesting in her so don't even start with your "it would not bother you if you were not interested" : I just want some respect as a human being for god's sake.
If she is half decent looking just think how many guys let alone people try to hit her up. I have a bunch of "home girls" and some of them have shown me their messages they get on social media and text messaging from guys they know and even randomz. **** is ridiculous bro. They don't even bother checking their **** anymore man. You're just another dude man. Try to separate yourself from the other douch bags but that's if you actually care about her even if it's just as friends. If you don't care about her at all then don't trip.

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post 1541180931 01-19-2018, 03:10 PM
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post 1541181521 01-19-2018, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh I want a relationship more than anything. Would love to get serious with someone and only talk to one guy.

Just talking to different guys now because I haven't found one to date yet, but that is what I really want.
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post 1541182191 01-19-2018, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Op went NC on this thread lol. Must have lost his phone.
na alive and lol OP probably got texted back once and sitting waiting for text 2
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh I want a relationship more than anything. Would love to get serious with someone and only talk to one guy.

Just talking to different guys now because I haven't found one to date yet, but that is what I really want.
Texting/banging different guys to find the right guy. lol

Listen...if you like one guy...talk to him and forget the rest. A guy does not like when the girl he is attracted to talks to every single guy out there.
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post 1541183541 01-19-2018, 03:36 PM
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I think a different phenomenon might be happening for OP.

I know of girls that over think things and get nervous about writing replies. Some girls have to send a text to several of their friends first to get advice about replying first. But that's just some girls where you haven't built up a lot of comfort yet, and obviously doesn't count your aunts, sisters, or female family members.

If your family takes a while to respond it's probably just because they hate you.
post 1541184191 01-19-2018, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Op went NC on this thread lol. Must have lost his phone.
I got my answer but after 4 goddman hours : Said some bullchit to explain her late answer and promised we would grab coffee together everyday for the next week.

Today I also got the phone number from another female colleague I'm really interested in

Sent her a text at 3.00PM with my name so that she could save my number under my name, she responded about an hour ago, 10:30PM local time in Paris. That's more 7 hours after the text got sent.

So my theory still applies.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah it sucks. I'd much rather only talk to one guy that I can date but I don't have anyone like that.



Yeah to me that means they are not really interested. But other posters said maybe they are playing games so idk. For myself I can say I respond right away when I see the text.
doesnt mean they arent interested.

i am interested in and i dont reply back straight away, i get caught up at work and other ****
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah it sucks. I'd much rather only talk to one guy that I can date but I don't have anyone like that.



Yeah to me that means they are not really interested. But other posters said maybe they are playing games so idk. For myself I can say I respond right away when I see the text.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah it sucks. I'd much rather only talk to one guy that I can date but I don't have anyone like that.



Yeah to me that means they are not really interested. But other posters said maybe they are playing games so idk. For myself I can say I respond right away when I see the text.
Not sure if srs? If you are attractive, just go out to any store, star bucks, and guys will approach you. Take it from there.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah it sucks. I'd much rather only talk to one guy that I can date but I don't have anyone like that.



Yeah to me that means they are not really interested. But other posters said maybe they are playing games so idk. For myself I can say I respond right away when I see the text.
i mean i have had girls who are infatuated text right away but ive also had girls who were take a while as well. in my experience it has been the GENERALLY hot ones that take a while. like the type to go out anywhere and get hit on. i dont think they understand the opposite of that demand. but one of the hottest girls ive "dated" - a few dates - we went to high school together. i remembered her number and decided to text her because she was in the area.. she would take hours, 3 days, a week, etc. i remember i was like fuk it and didn't text back and she randomly texted me out of the blue saying "lets hang out" a week after i last texted her

OP, again, i just think you lay down the law.. something to the sort of "look i like you. (optional) i want to take you out, but im not playing games. take it or leave it" sort of approach

just go off the cuff and what feels right, but i mean if they have any interest they'll probably reciprocate. and if they don't they clearly don't respect you so it quells all issues

and then it will weed out the sloots playing mind games and attention games as well. AND they know whats up
post 1541265111 01-20-2018, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Sorry all I say is hi or sup
Well I mean... Sometimes it can work but on average, you don't have much of a high chance of a response unless the girl likes your looks off the bat.
Originally Posted By nuggeryt⏩
Just lol how delusional and unaware of their own behavior females are

You stand out by being good looking, the message means jack shiet
Yeah well I'm not a girl and in my experiment, I didn't even use a girl's pic, I used my own lol And yeah, I made it clear I was just a feminine guy but I still was getting messages from all kinds of guys. I mean, I don't understand why since I don't look female at all but I mean, that should say something.
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It’s a chad filter that just filters out chads.

Girls who think a guy is chad will blank it to see if chad has interest. Non chads/ good guys will stop responding. Chads Pursue and phuck.

Ive had girls who never answer texts but I’m their oneitis in real life, it’s weird and childish
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I’ve had a girl respond 4 months later lol
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I'm texting a girl currently (8.5/10) and she typically sometimes takes anywhere from 6-14 hrs to respond. I joked to her about it in person and she said the only people she responds to quickly are her folks and her very close guy friend who is gay.

I now am learning to check my phone less frequently since we've been talking and took 10 hrs to respond to her last whats app messages lol.

Last time I checked her whats-app about 4 hrs after sending my messages she left them as unread but had been active since i sent them.

Haven't checked my phone since just after 9 am (UK time) (12 hrs since I whatsapp'd) so unsure if she has wrote me back yet.

I'm trying to repair the situation with her though bc i spent the night round hers the other week and the following day I fb messaged her and she left me on read on all day.

So I got insecure and fb messaged her the day after she aired me saying I had assessed the evening we had and there were two red flags IMO.

1 - she didn't make much effort with her appearance and 2 - she gave out details about a previous sexual conquest which I felt she didn't need to disclose to me.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
He texted back TODAY op so like 5 days later. Just so you know you're not the only one dealing with this bs lol.
he isn't interested srs
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Texted girl from last friday : It was about noon here in Paris, it's exactly 11:21 PM right now : No response.

I asked her to hang out and have a few drinks.

I know she's not interested but hell not a even a word, am I so worthless ?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
He texted back TODAY op so like 5 days later. Just so you know you're not the only one dealing with this bs lol.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Disregard him and move on to the next one, someone who values you enough to give some time and attention. He'll comeback when he'll go through a dry spell and you're gonna reverse that game on him.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
He texted back TODAY op so like 5 days later. Just so you know you're not the only one dealing with this bs lol.
Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Texted girl from last friday : It was about noon here in Paris, it's exactly 11:21 PM right now : No response.

I asked her to hang out and have a few drinks.

I know she's not interested but hell not a even a word, am I so worthless ?
Jesus 5 days and No response days after means they are busy with someone else. Thats how it's been since the dawn of texting age. Everyone is always on their phones including my old ass parents. They see the messages. She leaves you on read or does the be where they stealth read the message but still shows unread just move on lmao. I remember playing these games in my early 20s lmao
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Texted girl from last friday : It was about noon here in Paris, it's exactly 11:21 PM right now : No response.

I asked her to hang out and have a few drinks.

I know she's not interested but hell not a even a word, am I so worthless ?
Why don't you ask her out in person?
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it's not that it's such a conscious thing, it's really just down to excessive options and also the lack of excitement in receiving a message/attention.

I'm obviously a dude, but I know that I prob annoy most folks I know b/c I either never respond to texts or take for fukkin ever to respond. I don't do it to piss folks off or be a dick or anything. It's just that my phone gets blown the fuk up literally all day every fukkin day. So there are chunks of time where I don't check it as I just forget since it's constantly getting some kind of notification/message. Then when I do, there are a lot so I quickly glance through reading them but often just read it with every intention of responding to most but like an ADD girl....I'm just off and doing the next thing. I forget to respond and that's what I do over and over.

Generally, I'llplanto respond and think to myself "Oh yeah OK I'll shoot them a response here in just a bit". Then I think that 22 more times with other messages...."later" rolls around and I just forget or am doing a zillion things until finally going to sleep. Then I start the next day managing to do it again.

So, that's pretty much what it's about...
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes I know that's what the whole thread is about.
Hmm try this: "im not trying to force you or control you, but i find the amount of time you take between texts annoying. Now, im not insinuating anything nor am i mad, im just going to say if it continues i wont put up with it"

Idk something of that nature. Maybe feel out his response to see if its genuine or not.. If its not, bad news. Worst news is he doesnt respond. I think its good he texted you but not sure if hes playing you

But i think this would clear the air a bit. Maybe try to do that in a bit kinder/ more feminine wording
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Hell no lol. I already know he's not interested.

Still don't really mind taking to him here and there. I'm just realistic about his interest level.
Why not?

I agree with you majority of time its not good, but theres a slight chance hes truly busy

Im not sure its worth getting mad over when you dont know whats up

Idk i cant imagine texting a girl a week later that im not interested in. Theres some level of interest unless he thinks he has you wrapped around his finger and is using you for attention. I would 100% blow off a girl im not interested in after a week
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Why not?

I agree with you majority of time its not good, but theres a slight chance hes truly busy

Im not sure its worth getting mad over when you dont know whats up

Idk i cant imagine texting a girl a week later that im not interested in. Theres some level of interest unless he thinks he has you wrapped around his finger and is using you for attention
if a guy was really interested not a single thing would stop him from getting in contact with a sloot srs.
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