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post 1541035671 01-18-2018, 09:19 AM
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Do girls never answer on purpose ?

Seriously why is it that whenever you reach a girl be it your sister, your aunt, your colleague or even worse a girl you're trying to seduce ( but does not necessarily reciprocate), they never respond within a decent amount of time (an hour ) ?

As if it is some kind of technique that they pass from generation to generation, from mother to daughter and perfect it since they're teenagers.

BRB female colleague and I haven't seen each other for weeks, we spend a nice lunch together tuesday and she proposes me to grab some coffee some time together today : Message sent about 5 hours ago, still no response.

I'm not even interesting in her so don't even start with your "it would not bother you if you were not interested" : I just want some respect as a human being for god's sake.
post 1541036031 01-18-2018, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
female colleague and I haven't seen each other for weeks, we spend a nice lunch together tuesday and she proposes me to grab some coffee some time together today
Good Sir, in regards to the female colleague you mentioned I must point you in the direction of my username when it comes to the issue of the pictures.
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this would be a good Black Mirror episode
post 1541036381 01-18-2018, 09:25 AM
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lmao.
post 1541036621 01-18-2018, 09:27 AM
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Some women send a txt and then immediately throw their phone into a black hole. This is normal OP.
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post 1541036721 01-18-2018, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I text the guys I like back immediately.
This...They don't like your ass OP.
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post 1541036731 01-18-2018, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I text the guys I like back immediately.
I think that is pretty accurate^

If she consistently is taking a long time to text back you aren't exactly high up on the priority list.
post 1541036901 01-18-2018, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I text the guys I like back immediately.
So my sisters and aunties hate me ?

TFW when the girls of your own familly can't stand you.
post 1541037011 01-18-2018, 09:31 AM
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first time i've posted this

but

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post 1541037061 01-18-2018, 09:31 AM
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I think it goes both ways. Girls infatuated with you either dont make you wait or know if theyve been super compliant they want you to chase a bit

Shes prob pretty hot yea? Probably got more options. Wants you to think shes not that easy

Im judging by you saying everythingis going well
post 1541037121 01-18-2018, 09:32 AM
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My mom does this to me sometimes. The ****?

Some women use it as a tactic to get you to chase, others to show they aren’t interested. My ex, would actually open and forget to respond though. Ever girl is different. I don’t judge off of text, in person is so much more honest.
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post 1541037271 01-18-2018, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
So my sisters and aunties hate me ?

TFW when the girls of your own familly can't stand you.
No there are just other people they would rather text ahead of you. Friends, spouses, love interests, etc.
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post 1541037281 01-18-2018, 09:33 AM
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In every relationship one person wants the other person more, sometimes this switches between people but one is always chasing the other. The person waiting on a reply is the one chasing, and the one not in control.

Also not everyone is glued to their phone, could be that they legitimately don't check it often.
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post 1541037301 01-18-2018, 09:33 AM
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Nah I do it all the time without thinking of it. I'll see the message pop up but forget to read it.

That or Chad is laying some pipe, OP. One or the other.
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post 1541037381 01-18-2018, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
My mom does this to me sometimes. The ****?

Some women use it as a tactic to get you to chase, others to show they aren’t interested. My ex, would actually open and forget to respond though. Ever girl is different. I don’t judge off of text, in person is so much more honest.
lol at "forget to respond"? if you love someone or even like them they will be on your mind all and you don't just "forget to respond" lmao no wonder its your ex
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I am not glued to my phone and I leave it on silent.
I am not interested in text messages or chit chat 24/7.
If it's urgent leave a voicemail or text.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I think it goes both ways. Girls infatuated with you either dont make you wait or know if theyve been super compliant they want you to chase a bit

Shes prob pretty hot yea? Probably got more options. Wants you to think shes not that easy

Im judging by you saying everythingis going well
Yeah she's hot, I won't deny it and SHE probably has a lot of orbiters bothering her all day long but I'm not one of them, I have got her number for ages and never bothered to send her anything not work-related.
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Not everyone is glued to their phone.
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Lol the same girls that do this are the same ones talking about "oh you never texted me back yesterday!!" Fuk outta here with that lmao
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Originally Posted By betajohn⏩
lol at "forget to respond"? if you love someone or even like them they will be on your mind all and you don't just "forget to respond" lmao no wonder its your ex
Well it never bothered me because she was working 12hr Days. She always was so apologetic about it, but I didn’t care. She’s my ex because we had other issues.
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
Well it never bothered me because she was working 12hr Days. She always was so apologetic about it, but I didn’t care. She’s my ex because we had other issues.
this story keeps getting better and better, do you have actual proof she was working 12 hours days and not off with someone else? if anything when I work long long days I go out of my way to text my significant others to keep me sane and to get me through the day. something isn't right and I can see why it didn't work out between you guys. btw I'm a psychiatrist
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I've been the one to do this to girls I wasn't so hot on. I knew if I texted back quickly it would show I had an interest in them when I wasn't trying to convey that, so I would purposefully wait long periods sometimes so they would know I had other **** I felt was more important.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I text the guys I like back immediately.
This. Sometimes if the person is not that important I won't get back to them for a hour or two, but if the person matters, or the time frame matters (for example in this case where you are trying to make plans for today, not another day) I'll text back straight away.

There's no way she hasn't checked her phone in that time, she just doesn't want to go to coffee and is too bitch to say
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
This. Sometimes if the person is not that important I won't get back to them for a hour or two, but if the person matters, or the time frame matters (for example in this case where you are trying to make plans for today, not another day) I'll text back straight away.

There's no way she hasn't checked her phone in that time, she just doesn't want to go to coffee and is too bitch to say
Aren't you married though lol
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I read a meta-analysis that found 90% of messages are read within the first 90 seconds of delivery..
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Yeah she's hot, I won't deny it and SHE probably has a lot of orbiters bothering her all day long but I'm not one of them, I have got her number for ages and never bothered to send her anything not work-related.
I think the hotter the girl the more inclined they are to do this.. I think you get a bit more declarative and tell her whats up

And then leave it at that. Dont chase too much

Ive had a hot girl not respond for a WEEK, and then respond a week later saying we should hang out
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I get it : If she does not reply right away it means she's not interested.

I was speaking in a general way : Even women in whom I have zero interest whatsoever seem to play that trick on me. Not guys, heck even my senior manager who works his arse off 12+hours a day is more responsive than them.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I think the hotter the girl the more inclined they are to do this.. I think you get a bit more declarative and tell her whats up

And then leave it at that. Dont chase too much

Ive had a hot girl not respond for a WEEK, and then respond a week later saying we should hang out
It's just because they have so many guys they're juggling. If you watch and remember when you see hot girls walking around in public, try and remember the last one you saw who wasn't texting or talking to someone.
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