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Thread: Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

post 1541990531 01-27-2018, 08:00 AM
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Damn, sorry it didn't workout YIM, hopefully it just escaped his mind the next day. Sending you all my good vibes and a hug

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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Then try younger less attractive ones? with dating it's about balance; you can only expect back what you're putting in. If you say you're an avg 40 y/o, then go for people in your lane.. if that makes sense. I don't know how to word that without coming across as a kunt, but you know what I mean

YIM.. don't sweat it, you'll bounce back
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes it sounds good in theory but I don't want to date someone I'm not physically attracted to.

Last year I seriously considered dating people I'm not attracted to and focusing on other things than physical attraction. I've very carefully thought it through and ultimately decided that it's not worth it to me. I'd truly rather stay alone than date someone I'm not really into just to not be alone.

Not saying the guy has to be 10/10. I'd be very happy with say a 7/10 who is my type physically and who I'm attracted to. And I'd greatly prefer a 7/10 who is my type and with good personality over a 9/10 with terrible personality. But if there's no physical attraction that's a dealbreaker for me.
Never laughed so hard, come on SS you find a 20 year old attractive but by your own logic why on earth would they stick with you over other 20 Year olds?
Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
LMAO Melis spitting truth.

brb I'm a 5/10 but I'll only date 7-8/10s

That's women logic for you.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Fuk it, neg me misc, everyone in this thread who repped me just neg me hard on recharge.

He never asked for a second date so I asked him if he wanted to see me again. He said yeah sure, maybe tomorrow (yesterday). Said he would let me know. Guess what....................he never let me know. My fault for catching feelz so quick. From now on I'm just gonna be the stone cold, cold as ice yeahimmad......
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes it sounds good in theory but I don't want to date someone I'm not physically attracted to.

Last year I seriously considered dating people I'm not attracted to and focusing on other things than physical attraction. I've very carefully thought it through and ultimately decided that it's not worth it to me. I'd truly rather stay alone than date someone I'm not really into just to not be alone.

Not saying the guy has to be 10/10. I'd be very happy with say a 7/10 who is my type physically and who I'm attracted to. And I'd greatly prefer a 7/10 who is my type and with good personality over a 9/10 with terrible personality. But if there's no physical attraction that's a dealbreaker for me.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I'm not saying they should. And I would date older guys too. Just saying I'd rather be alone than date someone I'm not physically attracted to.
Are you sure your average? I'm 21 we are horny as Fck. If you were really a pawg we would at least smash once. I'm gonna need pics to confirm.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I got rated 6/10 so I'll go with that. And I'm looking for dating not just sex. Women in general can have have sex with pretty much anyone they want, but dating is a different story.
I'm saying if you bang like a goddess we won't leave. 6/10 irl standards or misc? Were you rated this at 40?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I got rated 6/10 so I'll go with that. And I'm looking for dating not just sex. Women in general can have sex with pretty much anyone they want, but dating is a different story.
You've probably got lousy teddies and your breath smells
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I got rated 6/10 so I'll go with that. And I'm looking for dating not just sex. Women in general can have sex with pretty much anyone they want, but dating is a different story.
By who lol
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Sucks donkey balls YIM. Just give yourself a few days to wallow in self pity and smash some weights. I’ve been rejected a couple times myself, it’s for a sure a bit of a blow and you might end up having even more of a crush. That said, plenty of other kurdish chads out there who know how to appreciate naked shoulder rides.
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post 1541992491 01-27-2018, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
No attraction dating is the key to misery.

You're doing it right.
I've never done it and I'm not willing to start now. Besides, dating someone you're not attracted to is using them and I'm not about that life.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I'm not saying they should. And I would date older guys too. Just saying I'd rather be alone than date someone I'm not physically attracted to.
I'm right there with you.
Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
LMAO Melis spitting truth.

brb I'm a 5/10 but I'll only date 7-8/10s

That's women logic for you.
Here's the reason I think this is a stupid argument, everyone's taste is different. Her 9/10 is my 6/10. It's not about looking for a fukking perfect specimen, it's looking for someone that is attractive toYOU. Plus, I've seen plenty of decent looking guys with fat ugly whales so clearly guys have different standards as well.
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post 1541992521 01-27-2018, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
You've probably got lousy teddies and your breath smells
Plus hot dog down a hallway.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I'm really sorry op. Has happened to me plenty of times and yes it feels terrible. It's normal that you feel bad about it. Don't say it's your "fault" because it's totally normal to like someone and want them to like you back. And even if you don't have feels for the guy it still feels bad to get rejected because it's a blow to the ego.

Just part of modern dating unfortunately. I'm kind of used to it by now sadly. At least half my dates that I met over the past year and a half didn't like me back and didn't ask me out again.

And the "slow fade" is common for that. Instead of rejecting outright or talking about it openly they'll just say oh I'll let you know and they'll be vague and just slowly fade out.

Don't blame yourself for anything, it's ridiculous to think it's bad you like someone. All you can do is just keep your guard up and hold feelings back until it's clear whether he likes you back. Usually becomes clear quickly after the first date but not during the first date itself.
The key to not letting rejections of new prospects get you down is to realize that they are turning down a "perception" of who they think you are with the limited knowledge they have while in the situation they are in. They may not even have a clue of the person you really are. Also, they may be going through a rough time battling some things you have no clue about.

To oversimplify it all, don't take it personal, and move on to the next one.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Plus, I've seen plenty of decent looking guys with fat ugly whales so clearly guys have different standards as well.
I thought your husband divorced you?
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^^ but those fat ugly whales will be doing SOMETHING to keep Chad around. There's no way it's because he prefers them over women who are more physically attractive/in his lane. It doesn't work like that. Taste does indeed vary but we can all agree on who's noticeably attractive and who isn't, whos punching above their weight and who's settling. Taste doesn't really matter in that case
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
I thought your husband divorced you?
You thought wrong, boyo. I filed for divorce. Besides, what does that have to do with guys dating fat ugly whales? lol
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Fuk it, neg me misc, everyone in this thread who repped me just neg me hard on recharge.

He never asked for a second date so I asked him if he wanted to see me again. He said yeah sure, maybe tomorrow (yesterday). Said he would let me know. Guess what....................he never let me know. My fault for catching feelz so quick. From now on I'm just gonna be the stone cold, cold as ice yeahimmad......
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
^^ but those fat ugly whales will be doing SOMETHING to keep Chad around. There's no way it's because he prefers them over women who are more physically attractive/in his lane. It doesn't work like that. Taste does indeed vary but we can all agree on who's noticeably attractive and who isn't, whos punching above their weight and who's settling. Taste doesn't really matter in that case
Never trust a girl whos thighs don't touch. She will lead you astray. Silence just take the dentures out and gum it. Guarantee you could lock down a young buck like that.
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
^^ but those fat ugly whales will be doing SOMETHING to keep Chad around. There's no way it's because he prefers them over women who are more physically attractive/in his lane. It doesn't work like that. Taste does indeed vary but we can all agree on who's noticeably attractive and who isn't, whos punching above their weight and who's settling. Taste doesn't really matter in that case
Lol exactly, or brb divorce wife cause pregnant. Tbh though silence likes fat dudes, or correction fat football players. Same dudes on the street would be disgusting to her I bet.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I'm not saying they should. And I would date older guys too. Just saying I'd rather be alone than date someone I'm not physically attracted to.
Have fun being alone then. You have unrealistic standards.
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Originally Posted By Train_Harder⏩
The key to not letting rejections of new prospects get you down is to realize thatthey are turning down a "perception" of who they think you are with the limited knowledge they have while in the situation they are in. They may not even have a clue of the person you really are. Also, they may be going through a rough time battling some things you have no clue about.

To oversimplify it all, don't take it personal, and move on to the next one.
well fml that means I must have done or said something wrong during the date. Funny thing is, we spent the whole time chatting and laughing and getting along really well
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Have fun being alone then. You have unrealistic standards.
How is it unrealistic standards to want to date someone you're physically attracted to? Do you date women you're not attracted to? We're not talking about people who are models. We're talking someonesheis personally attracted to that I would probably think is a 5/10. Because we all have different tastes.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How is it unrealistic standards to want to date someone you're physically attracted to? Do you date women you're not attracted to? We're not talking about people who are models. We're talking someonesheis personally attracted to that I would probably think is a 5/10. Because we all have different tastes.
Her type are 6'9 NFL football player..let's be srs. None of them would date a chick who spends her time getting banged by many tinder dudes.
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Her type are 6'9 NFL football player..let's be srs. None of them would date a chick who spends her time getting banged by many tinder dudes.
lol I don't think that's what she's looking for IRL. Plus, the one she really likes is like a 5-6/10 to me. So if he was just a normal dude walking down the street who's to say he wouldn't be interested in an attractive woman like SS?
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Is opie really 48? Srs question
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I got rated 6/10 so I'll go with that. And I'm looking for dating not just sex. Women in general can have sex with pretty much anyone they want, but dating is a different story.
Dating as in long term or just fun for a couple of months? I can't imagine a sane man in his twenties is gonna be interested in dating a "6/10" in her forties for the long term. Not to mention you're looking for "chads", which doesn't make this any easier.
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Originally Posted By Coach
Is opie really 48? Srs question
No, I believe she's in her mid to late 20's. Think she said somewhere in this thread.
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