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post 1542009061 01-27-2018, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
If you're not going to provide a detailed report of each sexual encounter from 2000-2018, cross referenced with corresponding reports from your partner and un-redacted photographic evidence, I really don't see how you're going to help YIM with her Kurdish Chad goals.

I guess you're only interested in helping others when it's "convenient".
I thought reading the last 6 pages of this thread was going to turn out to be a big ****ing waste but it turned out all right with this post.
post 1542009321 01-27-2018, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
If you're not going to provide a detailed report of each sexual encounter from 2000-2018, cross referenced with corresponding reports from your partner and un-redacted photographic evidence, I really don't see how you're going to help YIM with her Kurdish Chad goals.

I guess you're only interested in helping others when it's "convenient".
Well this one time in band camp
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Ever since Saddam gassed them I have had a soft spot for them. I hope it goes well OP. In for reports back.
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Originally Posted By Deathstroke
Ever since Saddam gassed them I have had a soft spot for them. I hope it goes well OP. In for reports back.
You're a little late to the party boyo. lol
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Originally Posted By Legz422
You're a little late to the party boyo. lol
Srs? Ah damn! Well in your opinion is it worth reading through??? If you say yes I shall trust you.
post 1542010151 01-27-2018, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY
Can someone tell me in cliffs WTF is going on?
YIM went on a date and it didn't work out

It's now become a discussion of "but someone else's 10 is another's 4.."

When really the reality still remains; you have to have realistic dating expectations.
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post 1542010181 01-27-2018, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Well this one time in band camp
If you're not going to answer the question I'll tell you why.

Women that have more lust for their husbands tend to have more sex on the range of 4 to 7 times a week throughout the marriage.

As attraction lowers frequency lowers.

Also women who are more attracted to their men initiate more often overtly than those that aren't.

Examples would be. He comes home you're already spread out on bed naked.

He's in the living room watching TV you walk into the room naked.

Grabbing him physically and initiating. Waking him up with a bj.
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post 1542010321 01-27-2018, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
If you're not going to answer the question I'll tell you why.

Women that have more lust for their husbands tend to have more sex on the range of 4 to 7 times a week throughout the marriage.

As attraction lowers frequency lowers.

Also women who are more attracted to their men initiate more often overtly than those that aren't.

Examples would be. He comes home you're already spread out on bed naked.

He's in the living room watching TV you walk into the room naked.

Grabbing him physically and initiating. Waking him up with a bj.
Pot psychology doesn’t work so well when there’s a control dynamic in your relationship

Or kids
post 1542010341 01-27-2018, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Deathstroke
Srs? Ah damn! Well in your opinion is it worth reading through??? If you say yes I shall trust you.
Meh, it's not a bad read if you're bored. lol
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post 1542010511 01-27-2018, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Pot psychology doesn’t work so well when there’s a control dynamic in your relationship

Or kids
How would kids affect a thing? I have three kids.
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post 1542010841 01-27-2018, 01:02 PM
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Rabbit you already said you're an introvert right?

That automatically sets you as a statistical outlier so what works for you won't work for the vast majority of people in the world.

When I talk about these things I'm not addressing individual quirks but things that work and apply to the greatest percentage of people on the planet.
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post 1542011191 01-27-2018, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Well this one time in band camp
True, I think we still have those videos in the archives. But what happens in band camp....

At this point I think we can all agree it would be easiest if you just invite leoslayer over to watch and give some pointers.
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post 1542011401 01-27-2018, 01:11 PM
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LOL kids impact on overt sexuality in shared areas

And I’m not an introvert ...not sure how anyone can get that impression

And Vox ..you said that was between the mods and me
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Originally Posted By Melis689
YIM went on a date and it didn't work out

It's now become a discussion of "but someone else's 10 is another's 4.."

When really the reality still remains; you have to have realistic dating expectations.
Who knew this is how the world works, let copers cope lmao
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
LOL kids impact on overt sexuality in shared areas

And I’m not an introvert ...not sure how anyone can get that impression

And Vox ..you said that was between the mods and me
You are right but he still has a point, don't even have to be married to see the correlation.
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post 1542011951 01-27-2018, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
LOL kids impact on overt sexuality in shared areas

And I’m not an introvert ...not sure how anyone can get that impression

And Vox ..you said that was between the mods and me
You stated in this thread introvert did you not?

Kids might affect you walking into the living room naked of they're home but things like your husband walking up behind you and kissing your neck and pressing his crotch against you clothed wouldn't.

Saturday afternoon kids are in living room watching something or playing. Wif walks up to me in garage grabs my ass and I bend her over the car.

Children have zero impact. Bathrooms have locks. Bedrooms have locks. Children take naps and have bedtimes.

Children are no excuse.
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post 1542012111 01-27-2018, 01:22 PM
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Not gonna lie at this point I'm imagining rabbit getting plowed bent over a car and waking me up to bjs.
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^^ well that escalated
Originally Posted By leoslayer1
You stated in this thread introvert did you not?

Kids might affect you walking into the living room naked of they're home but things like your husband walking up behind you and kissing your neck and pressing his crotch against you clothed wouldn't.

Saturday afternoon kids are in living room watching something or playing. Wif walks up to me in garage grabs my assignment and I bend her over the car.

Children have zero impact. Bathrooms have locks. Bedrooms have locks. Children take naps and have bedtimes.

Children are no excuse.
No I said husband is an introvert

And we have no issue with kids seeing us kissing or cuddling it’s good modelling ...the only one who hates that is the dog

We also built an entire floor kids aren’t allowed on

Children impact on freedom of adult interrelationships and dependent on their age on energy levels and physical availability ...I don’t think that can be disputed
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Originally Posted By potbellymadar
We’re done
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despite you seeing other guys, im willing to give you another shot Yeahimmad
It's all off, so cum at me
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Originally Posted By StrawHat94
Sup bro

-OP sees a guy she likes in her gym, she tells misc about it. Plans to ask him out the next time she sees him in the gym

-OP sees him, talks to him and they swap numbers

-Plan a date via text, go on dinner date. OP goes dark for a day or two (few pages of miscers asking her for update)

-Date went well and they kissed (I think)

-They talk about a second date (when they see eachother in the gym), guy says he'll text her..... doesn't

-OP thinks he doesn't like her and misc consoles her.

-Some other argument is going on about attraction or some chit
lol this is just spot on


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post 1542015301 01-27-2018, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad
It's all off, so cum at me
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes it sounds good in theory but I don't want to date someone I'm not physically attracted to.

Last year I seriously considered dating people I'm not attracted to and focusing on other things than physical attraction. I've very carefully thought it through and ultimately decided that it's not worth it to me. I'd truly rather stay alone than date someone I'm not really into just to not be alone.

Not saying the guy has to be 10/10. I'd be very happy with say a 7/10 who is my type physically and who I'm attracted to. And I'd greatly prefer a 7/10 who is my type and with good personality over a 9/10 with terrible personality. But if there's no physical attraction that's a dealbreaker for me.
Honestly, you sound like some of the FA's on here who talk about wanting a cute virgin who loves them unconditionally when they themselves bring little to nothing to the table. Yeah, physical attraction is necessary, but when your idea of a 7/10 is a fit 25 year old and you're an average 45 year old (which is the equivalent of a 2-3/10 25 year-old unless the guy has mommy issues)... yeah, not going to happen. At best, the guy will be just looking for an easy lay, which is fine if that's what you're looking for too. But I'm assuming that you want more than that.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well like I said before with a younger guy I would just look for short term casual dating or fwb. With an older guy long term more serious dating. Either of those would work for me.
Why not shirt term casual dating with an older guy?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
It's hard brother. It really is.

I have three first dates between tonight and Tuesday andseeing a regular tomorrow.
Why not date her exclusively if you're looking for something more than just sex as you've said previously?
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1
Lol at a girl asking a guy out. If he’s interested, he’ll come to you
lmao shut up ***
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Why not date her exclusively if you're looking for something more than just sex as you've said previously?
Because I don't see her than more than a cool chick I like to spend time with now and then. I like her, we have fun but I'm not in love with her nor her me. We see each other once or twice a week and hardly text in between.


She does enjoy updates from the sex doll thread. And she does crossfit. So those are plusses.
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Originally Posted By Melis689
When really the reality still remains; you have to have realistic dating expectations.
Exactly, people cannot wrap their head around the notion of you'll lose 99% of the time as acquiring a true partner is a 1% chance.
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lol @ how this thread turned from op's love life, to the Silencespeaks and Leoslayer show.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu
And most people seem to forget sex actually gets better over time (if you're with the right person and you're both communicating). That first time with someone, while exciting, is usually awkward comparing the to 2nd, 3rd, etc.

I also find that the more I like someone as a person, the less I notice their physical flaws, and the more endearing I find their quirks. Compatible partners grow into each other. You learn to love one another and get excited to just see that person. With all my previous relationships, whenever I think of them fondly, it's always the experiences I shared with them, moments we had, chilling on the couch rubbing his feet kind of thing. Not "we had mind blowing sex", how good the sex was, is always just an afterthought.
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