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Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes
01-28-2018, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By psai⏩
With Tinder we often have the tendency to assume we are just having a 1 on 1 conversation with the girl in the pics. You can't take a couple of individual convo results to heart when you can't convert it to a number/date. Anything could be happening on the other side of that convo - she's probably talking to 50 other dudes at the same time, could be her friend messing around with her phone, maybe she's just looking for some validation with no intention of ever meeting anyone, could be a dude frauding as a girl or a fatfish who gets off having guys hit on them, or any host of other reasons. I guarantee all of these things have happened to me, and probably many times.the problem is that at least one of those girls went NC right after i asked her out to a drink, even though our previous conversation was going really well.
If you have a couple convos that seemed good but turn to dead ends, don't worry about it an just move on. If it starts to become a trend and happens more often than not, maybe it's a problem with your game then - post screens and get advice.
01-28-2018, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
you're completely right. for me tinder tends to be a bit of a roller coaster. sometimes i'll be chatting with multiple women and other times i'll have girls going NC and a week or more without any new matches. guess this is one of those "downs" and i just needed to vent. thanks for the feedback mane, i appreciate it.With Tinder we often have the tendency to assume we are just having a 1 on 1 conversation with the girl in the pics. You can't take a couple of individual convo results to heart when you can't convert it to a number/date. Anything could be happening on the other side of that convo - she's probably talking to 50 other dudes at the same time, could be her friend messing around with her phone, maybe she's just looking for some validation with no intention of ever meeting anyone, could be a dude frauding as a girl or a fatfish who gets off having guys hit on them, or any host of other reasons. I guarantee all of these things have happened to me, and probably many times.
If you have a couple convos that seemed good but turn to dead ends, don't worry about it an just move on. If it starts to become a trend and happens more often than not, maybe it's a problem with your game then - post screens and get advice.
If you have a couple convos that seemed good but turn to dead ends, don't worry about it an just move on. If it starts to become a trend and happens more often than not, maybe it's a problem with your game then - post screens and get advice.
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01-28-2018, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
What do I have to type to find the first gif?Too bad there's no thin, decent looking, 20 something yo Caucasian women available for guys under 6' lol.










01-28-2018, 06:12 PM
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01-28-2018, 07:39 PM
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mind blown every time wat the heck
01-28-2018, 07:59 PM
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Why don't you just spend a week in South America?
~100 matches matches a day
Women much more attractive than girls here
Tinder is less "pay-to-play" down there
You can yield months worth of work in NYC in just 4-5 days there
~100 matches matches a day
Women much more attractive than girls here
Tinder is less "pay-to-play" down there
You can yield months worth of work in NYC in just 4-5 days there
01-28-2018, 11:30 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Sounds like a quality woman that would *never* cheat on you.Edit: my next wife will probably be a 21yo. Colombian ig whore (looks wise).
My next wife will be an 18-year-old Asian 6 with an N count of 0. I'll be 50 at that point and planning to live until 150, so I want her to still be looking good when I'm elderly.
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01-29-2018, 01:32 AM
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bio for those who want a cocky vibe on their profile....
Spoiler!
Spoiler!
not arrogant, just better
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01-29-2018, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
dink size?She got what she wanted.
Spoiler!
Edit: Dunno if this is a good or bad thing. I do know she could barely take my dink on 200mg yohimbe.
Spoiler!
Her pussy was sooo fuarkin tight...

Edit: Dunno if this is a good or bad thing. I do know she could barely take my dink on 200mg yohimbe.
and where can I get this stuff
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01-29-2018, 07:01 AM
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[QUOTE=spadelexus post_id=1542163031]Lol thanks for predicting my fictitious future wifes infidelity.
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[YouTube]7esz7R9p_40[/youtub e][/QUOTE]do you ever get asked if youre arrogant or why youre arrogant???
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[YouTube]7esz7R9p_40[/youtub e][/QUOTE]do you ever get asked if youre arrogant or why youre arrogant???
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01-29-2018, 07:52 AM
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01-29-2018, 08:53 AM
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How far would you guys drive for a smash? I live in a small town and have my distance on 40 miles and still get 40-50 matches in 2 days. only problem is very few 6's or better. and the 18-20 year range is mostly girls wanting attention since it's a small area and they take days to reply. My only option really is to drive about an hour. and what pic you guys think is better? I use the first one now




01-29-2018, 08:57 AM
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Friendly reminder to all that Spadelexus' profile is poor but he claims otherwise. Literally him in a wifebeater with a gold chain around his neck like a chav sexpest, a mirror selfie in his bedroom looking like a guido and some other low quality pics, yet acts like you need impressive pics to slay and bemoans other peoples profiles.
01-29-2018, 09:09 AM
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[QUOTE=johnnytable post_id=1542173861]How far would you guys drive for a smash? I live in a small town and have my distance on 40 miles and still get 40-50 matches in 2 days. only problem is very few 6's or better. and the 18-20 year range is mostly girls wanting attention since it's a small area and they take days to reply. My only option really is to drive about an hour. and what pic you guys think is better? I use the first one now
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[img]https://i.imgur.com/1HY6Tac.jpg[/im g][/QUOTE]stay safe Derek......
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[img]https://i.imgur.com/1HY6Tac.jpg[/im g][/QUOTE]stay safe Derek......
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01-29-2018, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted By GodfatherDon⏩
neggedFriendly reminder to all that Spadelexus' profile is poor but he claims otherwise. Literally him in a wifebeater with a gold chain around his neck like a chav sexpest, a mirror selfie in his bedroom looking like a guido and some other low quality pics, yet acts like you need impressive pics to slay and bemoans other peoples profiles.
edit- FUK i repped him, someone else neg him and i'll rep you????
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01-29-2018, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
lol I can handle myselfstay safe Derek......
01-29-2018, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
done brehnegged
edit- FUK i repped him, someone else neg him and i'll rep you????
edit- FUK i repped him, someone else neg him and i'll rep you????
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01-29-2018, 10:23 AM
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Damnit!

Was in bed and basically still asleep when I got this.
We haven't met yet, but she's super cute and we have a date lined up for later this week. Hasn't sunk me, but certainly going to put her on high guard.

Was in bed and basically still asleep when I got this.
We haven't met yet, but she's super cute and we have a date lined up for later this week. Hasn't sunk me, but certainly going to put her on high guard.
01-29-2018, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
Could have rebound with something else like "your test to see how much you can take a flirtatious banter on our first date"Damnit!

Was in bed and basically still asleep when I got this.
We haven't met yet, but she's super cute and we have a date lined up for later this week. Hasn't sunk me, but certainly going to put her on high guard.

Was in bed and basically still asleep when I got this.
We haven't met yet, but she's super cute and we have a date lined up for later this week. Hasn't sunk me, but certainly going to put her on high guard.
01-29-2018, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩
I was in bed and really not awake at all. You're right, I probably could have come up with something better. This girl doesn't seem stupid though - I'm pretty sure she'd realize what happened no matter what. She seemed to take it reasonably well though and laughed rather than getting all pissy. The "65" refers to an ongoing joke about the chances of our date going well. We were up to 76% last night.Could have rebound with something else like "your test to see how much you can take a flirtatious banter on our first date"
01-29-2018, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
Fuarrrrr k watch out the chinless Manlet’s about boyos!negged
edit- FUK i repped him, someone else neg him and i'll rep you????
edit- FUK i repped him, someone else neg him and i'll rep you????
01-29-2018, 04:46 PM
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can i send pics to someones inbox to tell me if i should bother "looksmaxing" or if there is prolly no point cause im ugly w/ no swag, so i can stop wasting time on this thing or come back to it later (not that i dont enjoy swiping - it is quite addicting).
which one of you can tell me if i have a sufficient enuff maxilla 4 this ducking app?
which one of you can tell me if i have a sufficient enuff maxilla 4 this ducking app?
01-29-2018, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By badattinder⏩
i can rate u better than any of these guys can. PMcan i send pics to someones inbox to tell me if i should bother "looksmaxing" or if there is prolly no point cause im ugly w/ no swag, so i can stop wasting time on this thing or come back to it later (not that i dont enjoy swiping - it is quite addicting).
which one of you can tell me if i have a sufficient enuff maxilla 4 this ducking app?
which one of you can tell me if i have a sufficient enuff maxilla 4 this ducking app?
01-29-2018, 05:25 PM
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that girlfreind line is fuking gold spade you a bawse and you shall receive good karma back my freind
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01-29-2018, 05:52 PM
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Why are there dogs on here now? Plus I went like a month without getting a single match then all of a sudden this morning I woke up to like 16 matches, what gives?
01-29-2018, 08:06 PM
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Reminder that you should 'brand' your profile according to the demographic you want to target; as OP mentioned the bad guy/good guy template is easy enough to follow.
Which is to say: maximizing your chances within a niche - and therefore minimizing your chances within others - is most likely a better strategy than trying to win across the board by trying to appeal to all women.
Anyways, first post of 2018!
Which is to say: maximizing your chances within a niche - and therefore minimizing your chances within others - is most likely a better strategy than trying to win across the board by trying to appeal to all women.
Anyways, first post of 2018!
Any way of identifying yourself based on something you've done rather than what you have or are?
No?
Then I'm not surprised you're unhappy.
01-30-2018, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By GodfatherDon⏩
still slay more than youFuarrrrr k watch out the chinless Manlet’s about boyos!
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01-30-2018, 06:10 PM
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Some possible good news for us geezers:
https://www.fastcompany.com/40524242...imination-case
Tinder can't charge those over 30 more than others for Plus. Not sure if this applies in Canada though - or if it just means they will jack up the prices for everyone.
https://www.fastcompany.com/40524242...imination-case
Tinder can't charge those over 30 more than others for Plus. Not sure if this applies in Canada though - or if it just means they will jack up the prices for everyone.
01-30-2018, 09:06 PM
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>when she doesn't play along with the set-up line
WOAT
WOAT
Any way of identifying yourself based on something you've done rather than what you have or are?
No?
Then I'm not surprised you're unhappy.
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