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Thread: Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

post 1542350731 01-30-2018, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah with my gym date that ghosted me I just said hi in a friendly way in passing and that was fine. Only saw him a few more times there though so that was good.
What a Dbag, ghosting someone he's going to see in the gym afterwards? Wow.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well he did the slow fade like op's guy. That's how all my rejections went. Like they don't go NC immediately but they stop initiating texts and respond with delays and very short messages etc so they kind of create distance and fade away until you give up.

This guy I went out with twice and we didn't have any chemistry or connection personality wise at all, but I thought he was cute so I would've kept seeing him. He was really young so it wouldn't have been anything serious but I would have liked to have something casual with him.
Still d-baggy. Why can't people just say they're not interested instead of doing this ghosting BS? I have never ghosted anyone and I won't. As hard as it is to tell them I'm not interested, I woman up and do it. I'm really intrigued by you being interested in continuing to see someone you feel no chemistry or connection with.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Hnnngggg!!!!
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post 1542354121 01-30-2018, 08:59 PM
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post 1542354541 01-30-2018, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Sup bby?

Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes it's because I don't have many good options and I'm very lonely so I'm willing to settle as to chemistry/emotional connection. If I had more good options then I'd select both physical attraction and emotional attraction/connection/chemistry.

When there is both it feels amazing. I had that with my ex and I really miss that feeling. Haven't had any emotional connection with anyone else after him but I do feel physical attraction. I'd love to meet someone new with both but that might never happen again so I'm ok with just physical attraction.
I don't think I've ever given someone a chance just because of physical attraction. There had to be some chemistry/connection. I'm sorry that you're so lonely and you're having such a hard time finding someone.I'm surprised you haven't felt a connection with anyone at all since your ex. I can't imagine that.
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I've always felt so bad having to ghost girls after first dates in the past... But sometimes the compatibility just isn't there and it's for the best for both parties involved.

But with your forwardness and extroverted social skills OP way better opportunities will come around in no time. Don't sweat it. Look on the bright side, atleast you didn't get blown up.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Any updates op?
Well I haven't seen him yet, (since last friday when he never got back to me about meeting that evening), but we have send a few sparse texts to each other, some I have initiated (I know that's desperate and beta) and a couple he has. I am actually going to be in the gym in a couple of hours and it is one of his regular days there, so I am expecting to see him. Will check in after to update....
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Well I haven't seen him yet, (since last friday when he never got back to me about meeting that evening), but we have send a few sparse texts to each other, some I have initiated (I know that's desperate and beta) and a couple he has. I am actually going to be in the gym in a couple of hours and it is one of his regular days there, so I am expecting to see him. Will check in after to update....
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes it's because I don't have many good options and I'm very lonely so I'm willing to settle as to chemistry/emotional connection. If I had more good options then I'd select both physical attraction and emotional attraction/connection/chemistry.

When there is both it feels amazing. I had that with my ex and I really miss that feeling. Haven't had any emotional connection with anyone else after him but I do feel physical attraction. I'd love to meet someone new with both but that might never happen again so I'm ok with just physical attraction.
Do not settle. Spend your time investing in yourself and being happy just being you...No one else. Get to an awesome place in your life and in time the right guy will come along. In my experience, neglecting the emotional aspect of relationships and being with people you're only attracted to will ultimately make you lonelier and more unhappy. Invest in yourself and be the best version of yourself in the meantime. Don't let loneliness bring you down. I know how you feel as I just recently left a relationship where I had a huge emotional connection and I'm still heart broken. BUT this ain't my first rodeo and I know it gets better with time, and does so faster if you work on bettering yourself =)




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Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
I'd date you, but you'd really have to work on that O face doe......its a bit aggressive.

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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
Yup, it's over. Interested men make things happen as fast as they can.

On to the next one
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
Well at least he wasn't a total Dbag and said hi. Just move on. Hey, at least you had the nerve to ask him out in the first place. I'd never be able to do that. lol
Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
I've always felt so bad having to ghost girls after first dates in the past... But sometimes the compatibility just isn't there and it's for the best for both parties involved.
There's never a reason to ghost. Just tell them you're not interested.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, so I was in the gym and he came in, and came up to me to say hi and we chatted for a bit. So he is not avoiding me, but I'm guessing he just wants to be friends instead of dating me. Ohwell.jpg
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Well I haven't seen him yet, (since last friday when he never got back to me about meeting that evening), but we have send a few sparse texts to each other, some I have initiated (I know that's desperate and beta) and a couple he has. I am actually going to be in the gym in a couple of hours and it is one of his regular days there, so I am expecting to see him. Will check in after to update....
God knows it's not desperate and beta to initiate conversation.

If he also thinks it's beta to initiate then you both sit around like dumbasses waiting for the other person to reach out.

You do what you want. You want to talk then you talk. You don't worry about ratios or timing or any of that stupid crap.
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Kurdish brah wants to know whether you will let him smash or not instead of another date.

Just lay it on a plate for him and get flirty.

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Originally Posted By iiSteve⏩
Next time you flirt... dont call him a terrorist, brb asking black dude if he can rap, or asian girl how she didn't crash on the way to the gym. Otherwise good luck , we all been there wanting to ask out our gym crush and not doing anything.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well he did the slow fade like op's guy. That's how all my rejections went. Like they don't go NC immediately but they stop initiating texts and respond with delays and very short messages etc so they kind of create distance and fade away until you give up.

This guy I went out with twice and we didn't have any chemistry or connection personality wise at all, but I thought he was cute so I would've kept seeing him. He was really young so it wouldn't have been anything serious but I would have liked to have something casual with him.
fkn lol, more proof that it's all about looks. If Timothy had amazing chemistry with you and a great personality, you wouldn't go past the first date, but because this guy was good looking and that alone was enough of a reason to want to keep seeing him. I think in reality you want what you can't have. He didn't want you, didn't think that you were worthy, and you were on a mission to prove him wrong to validate yourself. That must have been a hit to your confidence.
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