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post 1542682741 02-03-2018, 05:35 AM
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Are average men really checking out of the dating game?

Is this truth or just cope?
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post 1542682871 02-03-2018, 05:37 AM
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its cope for men but hurts women as a whole in the long run
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Average men are definitely checking out, or at least falling way short of where they want to be. I read that there are now higher percentages of virgins that are male, among college students.
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
its cope for men but hurts women as a whole in the long run
There will always be thirsty guys hitting on girls though, they wont go without
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
its cope for men but hurts women as a whole in the long run
How does self-pitying men who rot at home poop-socking games every weekend while heading towards an early (obesity related) grave hurt women in the long run? Sounds to me that these pathetic specimens of masculinity are the ones hurting in the long run, not women - who, at a first glance, would simply be choosing mates from a higher quality pool.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
There will always be thirsty guys hitting on girls though, they wont go without
while thats true ive also seen countless friends of mine give up eventually after trying for a long time.

female standards are ridiculous af lol 2/10 thinking she deserves a chad (this isnt a misc meme its reality)
post 1542683251 02-03-2018, 05:49 AM
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
while thats true ive also seen countless friends of mine give up eventually after trying for a long time.

female standards are ridiculous af lol 2/10 thinking she deserves a chad (this isnt a misc meme its reality)
80/20 rule though

Chad’s are usually seeing 3-5 girls so theres enough to go around
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
How does self-pitying men who rot at home poop-socking games every weekend while heading towards an early (obesity related) grave hurt women in the long run? Sounds to me that these pathetic specimens of masculinity are the ones hurting in the long run, not women - who, at a first glance, would simply be choosing mates from a higher quality pool.
no ur wrong. 2/10 female deserves a 2/10 man, she wanting a chad is ridiculous and makes no sense lmao

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post 1542683271 02-03-2018, 05:50 AM
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Originally Posted By supersystem3⏩
Average men are definitely checking out, or at least falling way short of where they want to be. I read that there are now higher percentages of virgins that are male, among college students.
This is how it appears when i look around. Men looking like boys. Cope on their faces. Men settling.

Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
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post 1542683311 02-03-2018, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
while thats true ive also seen countless friends of mine give up eventually after trying for a long time.

female standards are ridiculous af lol 2/10 thinking she deserves a chad (this isnt a misc meme its reality)
I think it's more like out of shape 5/10 girls think they deserve chad. But i see your point brah

Their appearance is usually boosted at least one point from social media
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post 1542683371 02-03-2018, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
80/20 rule though

Chad’s are usually seeing 3-5 girls so theres enough to go around
yes but chads arent settling down with these women hence the women suffering in the long run.

even timothys dont want anything to do with glowless older women lol men with jobs etc can get
much younger women in older age
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
no ur wrong. 2/10 female deserves a 2/10 man, she wanting a chad is ridiculous and makes no sense lmao

brb when old af and glowless (where did all the good guys go?)
You are wrong. If below average guys are checking out of the game (the point of this thread - there isn't one about women checking out) it means that there are less men in the game. But logic and experience in the real world shows that even obese behemoth females can get laid at the snap of their fingers, whereas below average guys cannot. So how is this worse for women in the long run? You're aware that plenty do not want to have kids, and that it's a trope to say "yeah but when they hit 35 or so they are really going to want to settle down!!!11"

Plenty don't.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
You are wrong. If below average guys are checking out of the game (the point of this thread - there isn't one about women checking out) it means that there are less men in the game. But logic and experience in the real world shows that even obese behemoth females can get laid at the snap of their fingers, whereas below average guys cannot. So how is this worse for women in the long run? You're aware that plenty do not want to have kids, and that it's a trope to say "yeah but when they hit 35 or so they are really going to want to settle down!!!11"

Plenty don't.
dude the guys smashing these women arent marrying them thats what i mean by suffering in the long run.

these women can get sex yes i agree with you on that but starting a family, getting marriage out of it isnt happening.
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Its true men, and women are stopping reproduction.
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post 1542683791 02-03-2018, 06:06 AM
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Can confirm. I'm checked out.

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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
these women can get sex yes i agree with you on that but starting a family, getting marriage out of it isnt happening.
Times are changing, and you're not getting my point:

1. Couples don't really want to have kids any more - the higher you go up in gdp per capita the lower it gets. Compare Monaco's GDP per capita (around USD 170k) to its birth rate: around 6.7 children per 1000.

2. The highest birth rates are in the poorest countries on the planet (e.g., Niger).

The point is that value systems no longer function around 'starting a family' or 'getting married', and this trend continues to become more and more prevalent. Andthisis why 'average men' are checking out - because plenty of women don't care to get married any more - they have jobs now and don't 'need' a partner. So marrying someone out of 'want' requires a lot more now than it ever did before.

If you honestly think that very attractive women suffer in the long run for 'slooting around' when they are young, you are misguided, as is most of the Misc. Even 50 year old + women who have taken care of themselves are hit on constantly, whether or not they are married, so again - please understand - any woman, even disgusting fatbody women, have men chasing them. There are thirsty men in every nook and cranny of this world. So if women are 'suffering in the long run' because they don't get married or have kids, guess what - they aren't marrying a corresponding man either, which means the men suffertoo, except the hbbs that don't get married will constantly have beta men chasing them for the rest of their lives.

Again, female suffering not once.
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you can only get trampled on for so long

even a dog will go away eventually , and they are far more forgiving than a human
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
you can only get trampled on for so long

even a dog will go away eventually , and they are far more forgiving than a human
Would you agree that there aren't many "good" women left?

Or they are losing their value? Especially the more attractive one.
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I know 2 guys in my field that are legit MGTOW. Used to think it was pathetic but with #metoo #timeup and this feminism shiit I can't blame them anymore especially since one of them got fuked over hard by his ex-wife. I still have fukbuddies but LTR's and Marriage are out of the question
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Would you agree that there aren't many "good" women left?

Or they are losing their value? Especially the more attractive one.
there are

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Originally Posted By OliverTwisterJr⏩
I know 2 guys in my field that are legit MGTOW. Used to think it was pathetic but with #metoo #timeup and this feminism shiit I can't blame them anymore especially since one of them got fuked over hard by his ex-wife.I still have fukbuddies but LTR's and Marriage are out of the question
What if I told you... you're also MGTOW?
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Guess I’ll have to reproduce at Gengis khan rates to make up for all the failures of humans around nowadays.
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nah
we will always chase vagina like a mouse in a wheel
even if we never get it
its literally what life is about
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Blame prozac, started ssri's for depression and i can't get aroused like at all, penor is dead

Women on prozac lose their menses and give fuk all about men
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I think average men are checking out of the online dating game because they realize it's a lost cause, not necessarily the dating game itself.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
nah
we will always chase vagina like a mouse in a wheel
even if we never get it
its literally what life is about
this mfer leading the beta downfall of man


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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
this mfer leading the beta downfall of man


reproducing.
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average men were pushed out of the dating game
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
Times are changing, and you're not getting my point:

1. Couples don't really want to have kids any more - the higher you go up in gdp per capita the lower it gets. Compare Monaco's GDP per capita (around USD 170k) to its birth rate: around 6.7 children per 1000.

2. The highest birth rates are in the poorest countries on the planet (e.g., Niger).

The point is that value systems no longer function around 'starting a family' or 'getting married', and this trend continues to become more and more prevalent. And this is why 'average men' are checking out - because plenty of women don't care to get married any more - they have jobs now and don't 'need' a partner. So marrying someone out of 'want' requires a lot more now than it ever did before.

If you honestly think that very attractive women suffer in the long run for 'slooting around' when they are young, you are misguided, as is most of the Misc. Even 50 year old + women who have taken care of themselves are hit on constantly, whether or not they are married, so again - please understand - any woman, even disgusting fatbody women, have men chasing them. There are thirsty men in every nook and cranny of this world. So if women are 'suffering in the long run' because they don't get married or have kids, guess what - they aren't marrying a corresponding man either, which means the men suffertoo, except the hbbs that don't get married will constantly have beta men chasing them for the rest of their lives.

Again, female suffering not once.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
Times are changing, and you're not getting my point:

1. Couples don't really want to have kids any more - the higher you go up in gdp per capita the lower it gets. Compare Monaco's GDP per capita (around USD 170k) to its birth rate: around 6.7 children per 1000.

2. The highest birth rates are in the poorest countries on the planet (e.g., Niger).

The point is that value systems no longer function around 'starting a family' or 'getting married', and this trend continues to become more and more prevalent. Andthisis why 'average men' are checking out - because plenty of women don't care to get married any more - they have jobs now and don't 'need' a partner. So marrying someone out of 'want' requires a lot more now than it ever did before.

If you honestly think that very attractive women suffer in the long run for 'slooting around' when they are young, you are misguided, as is most of the Misc. Even 50 year old + women who have taken care of themselves are hit on constantly, whether or not they are married, so again - please understand - any woman, even disgusting fatbody women, have men chasing them. There are thirsty men in every nook and cranny of this world. So if women are 'suffering in the long run' because they don't get married or have kids, guess what - they aren't marrying a corresponding man either, which means the men suffertoo, except the hbbs that don't get married will constantly have beta men chasing them for the rest of their lives.

Again, female suffering not once.
his point is that female nature to actualise, needs children which is done through marriage. so they wont do it fine, but theyll be miserable after 30. then you get single motherhood which isnt ideal either, another problem
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