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Thread: Are average men really checking out of the dating game?

post 1542689421 02-03-2018, 08:04 AM
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Girls would rather share an alpha then settle for a sub 8 male. In some cases women would rather **** their dog.

Thing is by the time they are willing to settle they have had so many dinks and absorbed so much sperm they can no longer bond with a man. Making for miserable and short relashionship for both and then the man gets raped in divorce court.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Women have men chasing them to f*ck them, but not to date them. Who cares if there's betas who will date them. They aren't attracted to those guys. This is like saying if you stay in shape as a male late in your 50s you'll have gay men hitting on you too, but you're not attracted to gay men so how much value does it really hold for you?

This is cope if you don't think women are more miserable today than they have been in the past. There's actually a lot of studies that suggest women's overall happiness has been in a steady decline over the last few decades.
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The reality is that most "men" don't want to put in the ridiculous amount of "work" which is required to get even mediocre pussy these days
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Originally Posted By NillaWafer⏩
I think average men are checking out of the online dating game because they realize it's a lost cause, not necessarily the dating game itself.
This, you socially awkward fuks think cause you cant get swiped on you just give up. Negative maybe put down your devices and socialize with real people.
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Describe an average guy?
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I have some average looking friends and none of them are virgins but I can tell it sucks to be in their position. They'll get laid occasionally by an average looking girl but can't pull the hot girls and can't pull girls regularly. My friend was really excited he had his first bumble date after having the app for years. I was happy for him but cot dam it sounded depressing
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What is the point in dating really? Honestly after you have a girl say she loves you and you really believe it and then she leaves you, itโ€™s like why try again when I canโ€™t be sure she is going to stay committed, or even faithful? Her next boyfriend is right around the corner and you are one mistake from her leaving you for the next guy because sheโ€™s bored. Iโ€™ll just keep smashing sloots and not bother with long term relationships until a really special girl comes along and marriage is out of the question with the laws we have today and the way the court system treats men
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Describe an average guy?
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post 1542692411 02-03-2018, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
The reality is that most "men" don't want to put in the ridiculous amount of "work" which is required to get even mediocre pussy these days
x2. With virtual porn, and interactive sex bots making "sex" easily available and instantly gratifying, the need for an actual person becomes less desirable because of the work involved. But for relationships/companianship however, men will work for that because that is a commodity no technology can replicate..
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Is this truth or just cope?
Very true but 90% their own fault.

Ive seen numerous legit subhumans believe they deserve a good looking woman. Ive met many averagecels that wont date fat chicks - if you dont lift and are average youre in the fat chicks league short of natural genetic gifts.
post 1542693031 02-03-2018, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By TheFuarkingBoss⏩
Its true men, and women are stopping reproduction.
Good earth is overpopulated anyways
post 1542693191 02-03-2018, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
The reality is that most "men" don't want to put in the ridiculous amount of "work" which is required to get even mediocre pussy these days
Fuking ridiculous

I agree too. The average guy is losing right now
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Here is the thing. As far as dating goes. Stuff like #metoo shames men for being men. If all men in the dating game, not us settled down brahs sorry, would stoop assuming typical male roles and only worry about themself for 2 years you would see how quick #metoo turns into #whataboutus? Women crave attention and when they aren't getting it they begin to assume their natural roles.
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dating sucks

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post 1542693401 02-03-2018, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
How is the average woman 'checking out' from dating? On the Misc all there seems to be are plenty of FAs in sex doll threads talking about how they can't wait to buy one and that women will "suffer in the long run". Yeah, that's cope - pumping away in a rubber doll is the epitome of masculinity right? LOL.
How are they not checking out from the dating game just as much? You're on the f*cking misc, strong biased sample of reality.

I don't know how old you are because it doesn't say your age, but I'm 30 and know a lot of unhappy girls who have checked out from the dating game bro. They've all got dogs or cats to keep them company instead.
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Everybody wants to have an emotional connection....at least when they get a little older. Women are not struggling anywhere near as much as men to find either emotional or sexual needs. At the end of the day they get to pick and choose, and don't have to do anything but exist. Real struggle right there. If a 6/10 woman can't find a genuine dude in her league by age 30 there is something seriously wrong.

I will not deny that ugly girls often do struggle though. They are most likely not happy. But above average woman (even if 5.5 or 6/10) come on.....
This is nothing but victim mentality.I'm a male and have it so hard compared to women. Misc is always quick to point out the victim mentality of feminists and minorities on here but when it comes to the dating scene it's always the exact same type of victim mentality that you see in those other groups.It's not fair how easy it is for women wahhhhh. Reality is dating sucks for both sides for different reasons but it sucks all the same. Men aren't worse off in finding a suitable partner, you homos just choose the victim mentality that makes you think you are.
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Originally Posted By StainlesSon⏩
The internet exaggerates everything, the average guy just as the average gal is doing fine, all this mgtw and feminism bs is just extremism
this

Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Describe an average guy?
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i never got into the dating game, am i missing out brahs?
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all you have to do is a quick google search or quora or reddit askguys/girls to see how pathetically lonely some women are becoming.

"why don't i get guys striking conversations with me anymore"
"don't get hit on at bars anymore"
"guys ignore me now"
etc
etc

mgtow is full of pathetic cope and neckbeards but also divorced men that gave up. chads are also living the mgtow life whether they claim it or not. mgtow = no ltr or marriage. simple.

yes, women are suffering. if you randomly look through instagram you'll see the girl nights out, gym selfies and pet selfies or "stay at home nights alone"... where's the man?? sex gets old quick.

women want to settle down and so do men but modern feminism is destroying all that along with inflated egos.

men are expendable in today's society more than ever before and they are checking out completely while women still get pretty every weekend with the hopes of landing that 8+/10 man with his own place and lots of money. when 30 wall hits they start becoming desperate and by the time 35-40 hits, they start becoming bitter and angry. everyone here has had that single female manager before, i'm sure.
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The average man are checking out because we are all being labeled as "rapist." Everyday, another male get accused of false rape allegations.
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im proud mgtow and i wish the stigma would die as im not the stereoptypical neckbeard who just uses mgtow as a cope

i have had my fair share of tinder smashes (during tinder prime era) and i have had my fair share of LTRS as well (never again).

ill log into bumble whenever i get the urge for sex but being single is the preferred lifestyle. less stress, less obligations, less annoyances. freedom.

relationships/marriages are a scam to keep men loyal to the "system". f that
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Originally Posted By CatabolicBrah⏩
no ur wrong. 2/10 female deserves a 2/10 man, she wanting a chad is ridiculous and makes no sense lmao

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I would like to think of it as retirement, rather than checking out. I had a good run, lots of good lays, had a few good gfs, but nothing turned into letโ€™s get married material. Got cheated on, left for another many times. Once you get to a certain age, you realize itโ€™s not going to happen, or at least donโ€™t think about it anymore. Iโ€™ll still log into tinder and have a few bar sloots here n there, but my chances of getting a quality decent looking girl has passed. I never made the Super Bowl, but had a few impressive seasons.
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One thing that surprises me is that women dont seem to have clued into these trends (men wanting nothing to do with them once they've hit the wall after riding the c@ck carousel in their 20's for example).

Men are talking about this stuff on forums all over the Web but women still seem to be existing in this make believe fairy tale world where "they can have it all because they are strong independent women."
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Originally Posted By RightKindaGuy⏩
im proud mgtow and i wish the stigma would die as im not the stereoptypical neckbeard who just uses mgtow as a cope

i have had my fair share of tinder smashes (during tinder prime era) and i have had my fair share of LTRS as well (never again).

ill log into bumble whenever i get the urge for sex but being single is the preferred lifestyle. less stress, less obligations, less annoyances. freedom.

relationships/marriages are a scam to keep men loyal to the "system". f that
lmao what "system"? do you mean your primary biological role as an organism? to reproduce and pass your genes on? and then ensure that your genetic offspring have the opportunity to do the same? yeah f*ck that man that's stupid as hell
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Originally Posted By PowerPal⏩
can bench 220, 80k+ a year. 6ft tall
Would have killed myself years ago with those stats
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I'm looking to change careers right now and there's more jobs than I've ever seen before traditionally filled by young males posting every week. We have one of the lowest birthrates in the world playing into it but it does seem that young men are dropping out of the workforce. Not seeing a bunch of successful relationships around us is a big factor in this too. Know too many guys working themselves to death to please ungrateful unattractive wives.
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can confirm. average face and poor genetics but actually lift crew checkin in. unless a sloot shows high interest its just not worth the time imo. i got better **** to do.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
Have you read the thread title?

Have you read the thread?

I am aware of the literature on the decreasing happiness that women report over time, but what does that have to do with average men checking out of the dating scene? Yes, women always receive attention from men - it is not just to fukk, it is to date etc. But the FAs don't have anything except their sex toys. And they are the ones arguing that a guy who buys a sex doll, checks out of the dating scene, is apparently doing and faring well. That's coping of the highest order. Hope it's clearer now.
I'd say a women's unhappiness starts when she starts to see her friends get married or have kids. Also as a women ages (like mid-late 30s) it makes it more difficult for her to compete with younger women, so she's not exactly pull the same guys as before (especially since most guys might assume she's looking for something serious rather than a fling).
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Would have killed myself years ago with those stats
Thatโ€™s hardly avg. Avg is 50 k salary, 5 ft 9, can bench 160, Dad bod.
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