Does anyone else hate other people?

02-15-2018, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩

Jordan Peterson had a great quote about this. People getting upset at hypothetical scenarios and situations that doesn't even exist. Getting upset at your own mind's creation.

Being rustled by complete strangers who don't even realize they are doing something irritating to you serves no purpose. Just move on.

But it’s not strangers that bother me

02-15-2018, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩

Hate only destroys you in the end. All that stress will slowly kill you and your enthusiasm for life.

ass brah has a point

02-15-2018, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩

Jordan Peterson had a great quote about this. People getting upset at hypothetical scenarios and situations that doesn't even exist. Getting upset at your own mind's creation.

Being rustled by complete strangers who don't even realize they are doing something irritating to you serves no purpose. Just move on.

Exactly....some things dont even matter at all but our mind easily goes into negativity becoz we are hiding our own miseries by doing so.

But i still think some people are victim of jealousy and unwanted attention, which does serious harm but to no purpose.

02-15-2018, 09:07 PM

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When were in poor state of health we might become withdrawn partly due to our brain generating negative impulses around people, instead of positive ones. Which can be confused for general dislike.

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02-15-2018, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted By PeptideY⏩

When were in poor state of health we might become withdrawn partly due to our brain generating negative impulses around people, instead of positive ones. Which can be confused for general dislike.

so you think it’s more of a coping mechanism?

02-15-2018, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩

If you can’t tolerate the average Joe you better hit the ground running because.... well you’ll see, trial by fire I guess. Stay safe OP

i don’t understand this

02-15-2018, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

Could you try and be more specific?

Your best bro / "friend" will fuk your girlfriend the second you turn your back

Your princess girlfriend that isn't like all the other girls is a whore that will cheat on you when you least expect it and that girl that loves you so much can turn on you with the quickness of flipping a light switch and will hate you with every feeling she has and will create fake rape allegations against you for revenge of moving on and finding a new girlfriend

Those people that are nice to your face? The second you leave the room they are all giggling and heehe ing talking scheit about you

Something happened around 2011/2012 and people are getting more evil as more time goes by. Aggressive, selfish, degenerate fuks that will fuk you the first chance they get

02-15-2018, 09:13 PM

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Used to. I've calmed down a lot in the last couple of years.

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02-15-2018, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩

Your best bro / "friend" will fuk your girlfriend the second you turn your back

Your princess girlfriend that isn't like all the other girls is a whore that will cheat on you when you least expect it and that girl that loves you so much can turn on you with the quickness of flipping a light switch and will hate you with every feeling she has and will create fake rape allegations against you for revenge of moving on and finding a new girlfriend

Those people that are nice to your face? The second you leave the room they are all giggling and heehe ing talking scheit about you

Something happened around 2011/2012 and people are getting more evil as more time goes by. Aggressive, selfish, degenerate fuks that will fuk you the first chance they get

sounds a lot like my life.

Originally Posted By Firefightn24⏩

Used to. I've calmed down a lot in the last couple of years.

What calmed you down?

02-15-2018, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

I’ve homestly gotten to the point where I just can’t tolerate the average person. I don’t trust them, and I constantly get burned. Sure, there are sometimes when it’s my fault for not getting along with other people, but some of this **** they do is just ridiculous. I hope this is just a phase and I eventually get over it, but it’s getting progressively worse for the last two years. Maybe that’s why I’ve returned to bb.com for the first time in years.

I don't hate, but I have the thing where I feel like I'm talking to an insect or animal.

In addition, for the same reasons as you, I slightly fear normal people as they always seem to be up to something wrong and damaging. The number of people who don't seem to care what they do is crazy. That and average people just repeat what they see on TV, the internet, etc. They seem like badly programmed robots to me.

I love to socialize, but it's getting really boring.

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02-15-2018, 09:27 PM

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]why is everyone negging me?

02-15-2018, 09:32 PM

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All the guys have women issues these days, or they have few scars left from the past. Serious reason why everything turned so bad in the recent years. Complex!

02-15-2018, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

why is everyone negging me?

Why did you quote me, I haven't negged anyone today

02-15-2018, 09:39 PM

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Everyone suffers pain in their lives. Don't let this pain define your future. Learn to let go and embrace inner peace. Forgive those that have wronged you and move on. Don't hold the sins of people in your past against other people in the present and future. Life is a journey full of ups and downs. Embrace this truth and revel in the positive and let go of the negativity. Happiness is a state of mind, not a destination.

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02-15-2018, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩

Why did you quote me, I haven't negged anyone today

it was an accident, sometimes when I hit multiquote button, it doesn’t go away

02-15-2018, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

i don’t understand this

If you can’t tolerate average ppl you better leave the misc promptly because this place might make you hate even more ppl than you already do. A lot of annoying ppl around these parts. Fortunately there are still a few kewl ones tho.

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02-15-2018, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩

If you can’t tolerate average ppl you better leave the misc promptly because this place might make you hate even more ppl than you already do. A lot of annoying ppl around these parts. Fortunately there are still a few kewl ones tho.

Oh I know that they’re annoying. I just don’t have any other people in my life so I resorted to here

02-15-2018, 10:07 PM

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It got to a point where it really wasn't healthy. I'm really, really trying to find the positive in people. It's so hard not to fantasize about throwing 99% of them into an active volcano.

02-15-2018, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩

It got to a point where it really wasn't healthy. I'm really, really trying to find the positive in people. It's so hard not to fantasize about throwing 99% of them into an active volcano.

yup, same. I think I’ve become to the point where I’m more passive about it, though.

02-15-2018, 10:12 PM

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I don't hate people.

I save my hatred for truly vile things.

Like brussels sprouts and asparagus.

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02-15-2018, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

Oh I know that they’re annoying. I just don’t have any other people in my life so I resorted to here

We can be friends until you give me a reason not to be. What are your interests in life? What do you do for work, if you work? What food could you not live without for the rest of your life?

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Originally Posted By evergreen2017⏩

sounds a lot like my life.

What calmed you down?

Mix of getting older I suppose, and the fact I'm in my 3rd year of teaching. I teach 3rd grade. If I let stuff bother me I would go crazy. If being surrounded by 20 eight year olds is doable, then being around adults is just fine.

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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩

You aren't in the possession of any firearms, are you OP?

OP is loading his 30 round mags as we speak.

02-15-2018, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩

We can be friends until you give me a reason not to be. What are your interests in life? What do you do for work, if you work? What food could you not live without for the rest of your life?

Im a student, but due to some things that came up with an ex girlfriend, I am taking the quarter off and living at home. I study philosophy with physics and psych minors. Couple credits away from music minor. Also, love rock climbing and outdoorsy stuff, on top of music. I’m pretty into what I study, but I’ve got some senioritis lately. I don’t workout anymore, but I did in high school. School eventually took a priority and fitness seemed unimportant

I’ve started to love Thai food lately, especially curry

02-15-2018, 10:41 PM

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Very much so.

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Originally Posted By JaegerBrah⏩

Very much so.

is “BPD” borderline personality disorder, or bipolar disorder?

02-15-2018, 10:49 PM

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I know how you feel OP. But you really have to learn to direct your energy elsewhere and not futilely expending it on other people that, on an individual basis, really don't matter. Otherwise you're just going to end up alienating those rare people who you actually have a lot in common with. No-one can deal with constant negativity, even if they're in the same boat eventually someone will put some distance between the other because of how taxing it can be on the human spirit to hear nothing but. There has to be some optimism.

One way I've come to deal with people is by moving to a different country. The environment here is far more suited to my disposition, there are far more people worthy of respect due to work ethic, no political correctness, thick skin, better lifestyle and dietary choices (if you don't include all the middle aged men with alcoholism). Also, and this is a key variable, I no longer accidentally eavesdrop on conversations. I have really sensitive hearing so can pick up conversations without even trying to do so, however here I have to focus to make anything out and even then I don't understand. I get really irked by people discussing really banal stuff like he said she said, that night they got "totally wasted", celebrity gossip etc and theycouldbe talking about that but I'm none the wiser.

But when I fly back to the UK, oh god do I want to immediately get back on the plane.

Without moving to a different country, all you can do is try to develop a social circle of people who you have a lot of admiration for and commonality with, focus on them, and get a partner who will shift your focus from the general populous to her and the family you may ultimately raise.

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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩

I know how you feel OP. But you really have to learn to direct your energy elsewhere and not futilely expending it on other people that, on an individual basis, really don't matter. Otherwise you're just going to end up alienating those rare people who you actually have a lot in common with. No-one can deal with constant negativity, even if they're in the same boat eventually someone will put some distance between the other because of how taxing it can be on the human spirit to heating nothing but. There has to be some optimism.

One way I've come to deal with people is by moving to a different country. The environment here is far more suited to my disposition, there are far more people worthy of respect due to work ethic, no political correctness, thick skin, better lifestyle and dietary choices (if you don't include all the middle aged men with alcoholism). Also, and this is a key variable, I no longer accidentally eavesdrop on conversations. I have really sensitive hearing so can pick up conversations without even trying to do so, however here I have to focus to make anything out and even then I don't understand. I get really irked by people discussing really banal stuff like he said she said, that night they got "totally wasted", celebrity gossip etc and theycouldbe talking about that but I'm none the wiser.

But when I fly back to the UK, oh god do I want to immediately get back on the plane.

Without moving to a different country, all you can do is try to develop a social circle of people who you have a lot of admiration for and commonality with, focus on them, and get a partner who will shift your focus from the general populous to her and the family you may ultimately raise.

In a strange way, that felt like some of the most genuine and understanding interaction I’ve had with another person in a while.

At my first college, I had the mentality of getting a partner that I could shift my focus away from the general population, but that puts a lot of pressure on one person, and when it goes south, man does it hurt hard.