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post 1544033361 02-16-2018, 03:28 PM
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Man ur either trolling that u look like ur 12 or ur a *****s wildest white boi dream in prison

I hate ****s who cant answer the phone, be a man and tell him on the phone.
post 1544033471 02-16-2018, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Why should I have to do this ? Why do I have to confront anyone? I am not obligated to answer the phone or answer my door. He has called 7 times now. I just want to be left alone. I'm fukin done with people.
Srs answer: because you're an adult and it's part of life.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
I'm not fukin trolling, if he calls in an hour I will record myself and put him on speaker phone and upload it to YouTube and post it here. This thread is fukin srs I'm losing my god damn mind I'm sick of living here I want to escape this plane of existence but there is nowhere to escape to the whole world is full of sick degenerate selfish evil fuks I just want to be left alone for one fukin night after a week of bullscheit I'm fukin sick of people they srs sicken me thinking about how people really are
OP has been mentally broken by an old dude asking for favors.

How tf did you make it to adulthood?
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Well dealing with alcoholics can be very tiresome.

Either man up and tell him in a friendly but firm way that you're not going to drive him anymore or be smart enough and move to a new place.

Sure this sounds "Beta" at first but I'd rather come home to my safeplace than being in constant fear of a crazy alcoholic who might shoot me lol.
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honestly after reading this it srsly starting to sound like a rollbread

but i believe op tho, probably the closest thing to being a rollbread without the rollbread, if not you got me
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I didn't see any stats yet. How big is he OP? I can't see your stats on mobile if they're up. You on that manlet time?

Also lol at losing a fight to an alcoholic. I used to work at a hospital and we would get a lot of alcoholics. Even the big ones were never intimidating. They would get loud and talk a lot of shiet but as soon as someone stepped up to them and got loud back they'd soften up.

Drunks are so uncoordinated, sloppy, and malnourished I wouldn't worry about getting into a fight with one. If you were a regular pussy boy who didn't lift I could see how they would look like trouble though.

Just be as vague as possible. "Sorry dude I'm busy. I gotta do something. I can't something came up." I don't see how hard that could be. He can't make you do anything. Just tell him you're busy with school or work and you don't have time. If he presses you just say you don't want to talk about it. Seriously tell him to back up.
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Originally Posted By HerculesGhost
Srs answer: because you're an adult and it's part of life.
I am an adult and can't imagine myself calling someone 7 times within a couple hours unless I was bleeding to death and 911 didn't work. This guy has fukin issues and I don't want to deal with it. Why should I have to? Why ? Who the fuk would think it's okay to call someone 7 times and bang on their door? I'm fukin done and I'm losing my mind I can't take this anymore. I fukin hate this place. If I do answer and tell him no it's just going to cause more problems when he sees me drive to the dumpster tonight to take my trash out. I wish everyone would just leave me the fuk alone and disappear. I'm sick of everyone they disgust me.
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I didn't see any stats yet. How big is he OP? I can't see your stats on mobile if they're up. You on that manlet time?

Also lol at losing a fight to an alcoholic. I used to work at a hospital and we would get a lot of alcoholics. Even the big ones were never intimidating. They would get loud and talk a lot of shiet but as soon as someone stepped up to them and got loud back they'd soften up.

Drunks are so uncoordinated, sloppy, and malnourished I wouldn't worry about getting into a fight with one. If you were a regular pussy boy who didn't lift I could see how they would look like trouble though.

Just be as vague as possible. "Sorry dude I'm busy. I gotta do something. I can't something came up." I don't see how hard that could be. He can't make you do anything. Just tell him you're busy with school or work and you don't have time. If he presses you just say you don't want to talk about it. Seriously tell him to back up.
He's not drunk because I haven't driven him to the store to get his vodka. Also he has a gun and his woman left him recently because of his psychotic scheit. I am 165 skinny fat 5 ' 11" because I stopped going to the gym after the Haitian gang took over the gym mean mugging me in the reflection of the window and talking scheit in their fake French about stealing my headphones.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Why should I have to do this ? Why do I have to confront anyone? I am not obligated to answer the phone or answer my door. He has called 7 times now. I just want to be left alone. I'm fukin done with people.
It's the only way you'll learn. If you don't stop that chit here it wont be the last time. There will be other people down the line who are more than willing to take advantage.

You could just go full hermit mode and never interact with others but fuk that. That'll ruin your life and rob you of experiences. Learn to say no. I used to have trouble with that in elementary school until another kid told me it's alright to say no to people wanting to borrow your chit or get favors and that kid flat out taught me a life lesson. You should have learned this lesson by now but it's not too late either. You need to learn to be ok with confrontation. Stop being a pussy.
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what you are really scared of is being unliked

Otherwise, you would confront this guy ... listen Op, you have to stop this behaviour now! And I mean your behaviour!
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I am 165 skinny fat 5 ' 11" because I stopped going to the gym after the Haitian gang took over the gym mean mugging me in the reflection of the window and talking scheit in their fake French about stealing my headphones.
Lmao, confirmed roll bread.

Bro, i gotta tell you this was pretty good. I almost fell for it till you started talkin chit about not hitting puberty till 19.

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He's not drunk because I haven't driven him to the store to get his vodka. Also he has a gun and his woman left him recently because of his psychotic scheit. I am 165 skinny fat 5 ' 11" because I stopped going to the gym after the Haitian gang took over the gym mean mugging me in the reflection of the window and talking scheit in their fake French about stealing my headphones.


This can't be real lol.Troll confirmed
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Originally Posted By Snake955i
Lmao, confirmed roll bread.

Bro, i gotta tell you this was pretty good. I almost fell for it till you started talkin chit about not hitting puberty till 19.

Repped for a riveting roll bread
I didn't start having my voice change until may 2008 when I was 3 months away from my 19th birthday. I was forced to read out loud in my senior English class and when I was reading my creative writing assignment in front of the class my voice kept cracking and squeaking and the whole class was giggling including the teacher trying to hold back a laugh. One student named Alex interrupted me by yelling out "it's about time" and got a big laugh. Yeah I'm fukin making up this scheit
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Stop being a pussy. Call him back and tell him you're not giving him rides anymore. If he asks why tell him the truth: "It's annoying and I don't want to do it anymore."

That's it. It will end right there tonight. That is if you want it to end. Part of me thinks you want this weird drunk nutcase to assfuk you. Which will definitely happen if you don't put a stop to this. Your decision: call him out now or lube up for later. Good luck bro.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
I didn't start having my voice change until may 2008 when I was 3 months away from my 19th birthday. I was forced to read out loud in my senior English class and when I was reading my creative writing assignment in front of the class my voice kept cracking and squeaking and the whole class was giggling including the teacher trying to hold back a laugh. One student named Alex interrupted me by yelling out "it's about time" and got a big laugh. Yeah I'm fukin making up this scheit
Honestly, you're not ****ing sick of people, you're sick of yourself. There's a reason these things don't happen to most normal men.. they're happening to you because of who you are.

Though you have an interesting background given how you feel about your development as a man, that should be something you look into. The thing is.. you said you DID look into it, and the professionals told you otherwise, seems to me you want to blame how you are on things that don't exist. The fact is, having more testosterone won't make you more inclined to deal with confrontation. I mean, if this was an elderly drunk woman, you'd be taken advantage of just the same, and if you deny that, you couldn't simultaneously deny being afraid of an old man.

Pick your poison.

Edit: before you even say it, "he's an alcoholic with a gun", like that means anything, besides a cover for your bitchassness, he's not drunk now and certainly, he won't MURDER someone for them stating they don't want to be a taxi driver anymore.. I mean just stop it.
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damn they ruin everything in the gym mean mugging
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc
Stop being a pussy. Call him back and tell him you're not giving him rides anymore. If he asks why tell him the truth: "It's annoying and I don't want to do it anymore."

That's it. It will end right there tonight. That is if you want it to end. Part of me thinks you want this weird drunk nutcase to assfuk you. Which will definitely happen if you don't put a stop to this. Your decision: call him out now or lube up for later. Good luck bro.
Yeah if I do that my life will probably end. I do want the harassment to end but The guy is obviously psychotic and I have to pass his door every single day unless I stay in my upstairs apt like I'm in solitary confinement. The walls are so thin here he can hear me leaving and leaves his window open to hear me coming home and he pops out to confront me. I'm still drinking and hopefully will be able to call him or answer in a while and I'll be able to give the misc some fukin sick entertainment by posting the video of the call and confirm I'm not a fukin troll. You people are just as fuked as everyone else because all humans are fukin sick degenerate selfish evil fuks. God forbid I have a real honest conversation about something that is really bothering me. What do you think I meant by putting in the title "...I'm fukin going insane" ? I can't take this anymore, this world is fuked and I don't belong here, especially in the United States. I don't feel like this is my home. The last time I felt anything was when I was in Ireland and I liked it a lot. People are different there but there are still some problems but nothing close to the problems in the United States. I had a huge culture shock coming back here and I got very depressed. I wish I got the blonde girls contact info before she left. Idk what to do anymore I can't take this scheit
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Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988
Honestly, you're not ****ing sick of people, you're sick of yourself. There's a reason these things don't happen to most normal men.. they're happening to you because of who you are.

Though you have an interesting background given how you feel about your development as a man, that should be something you look into. The thing is.. you said you DID look into it, and the professionals told you otherwise, seems to me you want to blame how you are on things that don't exist. The fact is, having more testosterone won't make you more inclined to deal with confrontation. I mean, if this was an elderly drunk woman, you'd be taken advantage of just the same, and if you deny that, you couldn't simultaneously deny being afraid of an old man.

Pick your poison.

Edit: before you even say it, "he's an alcoholic with a gun", like that means anything, besides a cover for your bitchassness, he's not drunk now and certainly, he won't MURDER someone for them stating they don't want to be a taxi driver anymore.. I mean just stop it.
I agree somewhat but these old geezer/ SoyBoy doctors refuse to do a blood test. If they did I would accept the results if I was within normal range and go see a psychiatrist. I have other reasons for thinking I have a hormone problem as well that I don't want to discuss here. How many people do you know didn't begin puberty until 19 years old only after some self help ?
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Originally Posted By ineed$
damn they ruin everything in the gym mean mugging
Yeah 8 Haitians just hanging out every day taking up the machines and benches and you alone locked in a gym and you hear them cackling and talking something about cutting you up for headphones in broken French isn't anything to worry about
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
I agree somewhat but these old geezer/ SoyBoy doctors refuse to do a blood test. If they did I would accept the results if I was within normal range and go see a psychiatrist. I have other reasons for thinking I have a hormone problem as well that I don't want to discuss here. How many people do you know didn't begin puberty until 19 years old only after some self help ?
Listen, I'm not trying to belittle, as a matter a fact, I have a few close friends that are soft like you, and I actually enjoy there company more because I don't have to be on edge as much and not every convo/action is driven by an over abundance of testosterone and boredom.(more early-mid twenties but you get the point)

For everything we're picking at you about there are just as many attributes that make you better or more enjoyable to be around than others. But, I was a "late bloomer" too, I entered high school at <100lbs. I don't know about not having chest hair at 29 but that's all genetics, I knew a kid in 8th grade with a ****ty little beard.

Back to the point, you can.. as a grown man.. pay for your own full panel blood test for under $100 and any doctor will take that as gospel.

If you really think you have an issue, address it. If you have just another excuse, than you know you need to work on yourself.

But to the main issue.. there is no question this dude is an *******. The fact he's okay with calling back to back and knocking on your door knowing full well you're home and actively avoiding him. He's only doing this to you because he knows he can get away with it and best case, you buckle and give him his ride.
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Believe me I know what you're going through. I had to live with someone like this. I used to live in a residential care facility. like a psych ward but more laid back and you're free to do as you please. basically you live in a facility with 50 other people and you just live there. There was a guy there that was flat broke and would ask EVERYONE, ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, for money, cigarettes, snacks, you name it. You would tell him NO. assertive as possible and he would come back 5 minutes later asking again. He would go hustle a dollar off someone then come back and ask again. You would tell him NO and he would be back again 5 minutes later asking again. There was literally nothing you could do to get him to stop. I would literally confront him and tell him im not helping him again and to stop asking and he would be back 5 minutes later with some other proposition. You would tell him NO and he would say "why not?" "come on man" "blah blah blah" he would literally not take no for an answer. There was no shaking the retard. And no he wasn't only doing it to me, he was doing it to everyone that lived there(so don't think that it has something to do with you). I eventually moved out of that place so I didn't have to deal with the idiot any more but if I would have had to stay there longer I don't know what I would have done. It might have started to turn physical at some point but I think even that wouldn't have helped. The dude was just clueless. All you can do is ignore him and hope he stops and deal with it. Just keep telling him no and realize he has severe problems. If you have to fight him at some point don't be afraid to do that but realize that's not really a solution either or the answer. The guy will just keep doing it, there's something wrong with him. Hang in there man, just keep telling him no and things will eventually get better and you'll be better/stronger in the end/when it's all done.
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LOL I found this on the other thread over and thought I was on here.
Originally Posted By Caeculus
Vast majority of people are degenerate evil fuks and I wish I could escape but there is nowhere to escape to. I am trapped here in this plane of existence. I used to be niave to how people really are and assumed wrongly about strangers but some things have reminded me lately why I was a loner in high school. Fuk it really sucks and it's depressing but it is what it is. I don't hate anyone but I'm going to work on keeping my mouth shut and keeping to myself
its true brah...so be selective in hwo u choose to be friends with. Cut them off easily. Esp this one.
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Originally Posted By AdviceCounselor
Believe me I know what you're going through. I had to live with someone like this. I used to live in a residential care facility. like a psych ward but more laid back and you're free to do as you please. basically you live in a facility with 50 other people and you just live there. There was a guy there that was flat broke and would ask EVERYONE, ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, for money, cigarettes, snacks, you name it. You would tell him NO. assertive as possible and he would come back 5 minutes later asking again. He would go hustle a dollar off someone then come back and ask again. You would tell him NO and he would be back again 5 minutes later asking again. There was literally nothing you could do to get him to stop. I would literally confront him and tell him im not helping him again and to stop asking and he would be back 5 minutes later with some other proposition. You would tell him NO and he would say "why not?" "come on man" "blah blah blah" he would literally not take no for an answer. There was no shaking the retard. And no he wasn't only doing it to me, he was doing it to everyone that lived there(so don't think that it has something to do with you). I eventually moved out of that place so I didn't have to deal with the idiot any more but if I would have had to stay there longer I don't know what I would have done. It might have started to turn physical at some point but I think even that wouldn't have helped. The dude was just clueless. All you can do is ignore him and hope he stops and deal with it. Just keep telling him no and realize he has severe problems. If you have to fight him at some point don't be afraid to do that but realize that's not really a solution either or the answer. The guy will just keep doing it, there's something wrong with him. Hang in there man, just keep telling him no and things will eventually get better and you'll be better/stronger in the end/when it's all done.
LOL did u ever try to get aggressive or push him shove him? Might have helped
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Op answer the door buck naked only holding a jar of vaseline. Then as loud as you can start yelling "JUST DO IT I DON'T CARE ANYMORE" as you bend over snd smear it all over your butthole.

He'll either be so freaked out he'll never bother you again or you'll get to lose your virginity
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Also keep doing this

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Negged for wasting my time. Some people are just born to lose OP and you're one of those people. Change your mindset and convince yourself to enjoy the abuse and being a loser in general.
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I learned a long time ago to NEVER offer rides to people without cars. Once turns into twice turns into they just expect it and don't even appreciate it.

PHUCK THAT ISH!
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Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988
Listen, I'm not trying to belittle, as a matter a fact, I have a few close friends that are soft like you, and I actually enjoy there company more because I don't have to be on edge as much and not every convo/action is driven by an over abundance of testosterone and boredom.(more early-mid twenties but you get the point)

For everything we're picking at you about there are just as many attributes that make you better or more enjoyable to be around than others. But, I was a "late bloomer" too, I entered high school at <100lbs. I don't know about not having chest hair at 29 but that's all genetics, I knew a kid in 8th grade with a ****ty little beard.

Back to the point, you can.. as a grown man.. pay for your own full panel blood test for under $100 and any doctor will take that as gospel.

If you really think you have an issue, address it. If you have just another excuse, than you know you need to work on yourself.

But to the main issue.. there is no question this dude is an *******. The fact he's okay with calling back to back and knocking on your door knowing full well you're home and actively avoiding him. He's only doing this to you because he knows he can get away with it and best case, you buckle and give him his ride.
I thought it was illegal to get a blood test without a doctor's referral, can you aware me ?
Originally Posted By AdviceCounselor
Believe me I know what you're going through. I had to live with someone like this. I used to live in a residential care facility. like a psych ward but more laid back and you're free to do as you please. basically you live in a facility with 50 other people and you just live there. There was a guy there that was flat broke and would ask EVERYONE, ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, for money, cigarettes, snacks, you name it. You would tell him NO. assertive as possible and he would come back 5 minutes later asking again. He would go hustle a dollar off someone then come back and ask again. You would tell him NO and he would be back again 5 minutes later asking again. There was literally nothing you could do to get him to stop. I would literally confront him and tell him im not helping him again and to stop asking and he would be back 5 minutes later with some other proposition. You would tell him NO and he would say "why not?" "come on man" "blah blah blah" he would literally not take no for an answer. There was no shaking the retard. And no he wasn't only doing it to me, he was doing it to everyone that lived there(so don't think that it has something to do with you). I eventually moved out of that place so I didn't have to deal with the idiot any more but if I would have had to stay there longer I don't know what I would have done. It might have started to turn physical at some point but I think even that wouldn't have helped. The dude was just clueless. All you can do is ignore him and hope he stops and deal with it. Just keep telling him no and realize he has severe problems. If you have to fight him at some point don't be afraid to do that but realize that's not really a solution either or the answer. The guy will just keep doing it, there's something wrong with him. Hang in there man, just keep telling him no and things will eventually get better and you'll be better/stronger in the end/when it's all done.
This sounds like the guy I'm dealing with except he lost his girlfriend recently and has a gun
Originally Posted By ineed$
LOL I found this on the other thread over and thought I was on here.




its true brah...so be selective in hwo u choose to be friends with. Cut them off easily. Esp this one.
Noted and I will implement this in the future. Never want to deal with this again.
Originally Posted By poolshark472
Negged for wasting my time. Some people are just born to lose OP and you're one of those people. Change your mindset and convince yourself to enjoy the abuse and being a loser in general.
Sorry if I offended you if you're Haitian. Didn't mean anything by it other than there are sketchy people just hanging out in the gym that don't work out and take up the equipment and the security is worthless when I asked him why they are allowed to do this and I'm frustrated.
Originally Posted By JoeDelts
I learned a long time ago to NEVER offer rides to people without cars. Once turns into twice turns into they just expect it and don't even appreciate it.

PHUCK THAT ISH!
How did you learn ?
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
I thought it was illegal to get a blood test without a doctor's referral, can you aware me ?
You thought it was illegal to check up on your own well being? Of course not, people get blood tests out of their own curiosity for many different reasons.

You can look more into it online, but I assure you, it's perfectly normal and legal.

Edit: 2 second google..https://www.directlabs.com/

Apparently, you order what test online, show up at the nearest clinic, get blood drawn, receive results online.

Also, this is the first google result I saw, be sure to do your own research before picking where to get your test done.
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