Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum
» Neighbor at this apt is harassing me and I'm fukin going insane
  1. Results 151 to 180 of 250
  2. First
  3. 4
  4. 5
  5. 6
  6. 7
  7. 8
  8. Last
post 1544045811 02-16-2018, 05:26 PM
-
#151
  1. eltoro24
  2. Registered User
  1. eltoro24
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Posts: 8,850
  5. Rep Power: 28747
Originally Posted By Caeculus
I am an adult and can't imagine myself calling someone 7 times within a couple hours unless I was bleeding to death and 911 didn't work. This guy has fukin issues and I don't want to deal with it. Why should I have to? Why ? Who the fuk would think it's okay to call someone 7 times and bang on their door? I'm fukin done and I'm losing my mind I can't take this anymore. I fukin hate this place. If I do answer and tell him no it's just going to cause more problems when he sees me drive to the dumpster tonight to take my trash out. I wish everyone would just leave me the fuk alone and disappear. I'm sick of everyone they disgust me.



He's not drunk because I haven't driven him to the store to get his vodka. Also he has a gun and his woman left him recently because of his psychotic scheit. I am 165 skinny fat 5 ' 11" because I stopped going to the gym after the Haitian gang took over the gym mean mugging me in the reflection of the window and talking scheit in their fake French about stealing my headphones.
I lold
Dodgers!
BAAA BAA Baa Taaa Taaa Toothy
post 1544046011 02-16-2018, 05:28 PM
-
#152
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  3. Join Date: Sep 2010
  4. Location: Nunya, Bizness USA
  5. Age: 41
  6. Posts: 20,902
  7. Subscribers: 3
  8. Rep Power: 312836
This is why I say no to any favors neighbors ask.. they normally think I’m a bitch but it’s to prevent this ****..
Ignore list:

Johnvee73
post 1544046391 02-16-2018, 05:33 PM
-
#153
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2018
  4. Age: 52
  5. Posts: 13,120
  6. Rep Power: 134131
Originally Posted By Caeculus
How did you learn ?
I learned by ending up in your situation 1 too many times and then finally seeing the pattern. I was recently asked for a ride by a lady at work when it was POURING rain. Didn't even hesitate to say no. I told her I was going in the opposite direction. Didn't and still don't feel bad about it because I remembered how shhitty it feels when you get trapped into being a permanent free taxi for someone.
post 1544046801 02-16-2018, 05:40 PM
-
#154
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2006
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 1,753
  6. Rep Power: 13909
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne
This is why I say no to any favors neighbors ask.. they normally think I’m a bitch but it’s to prevent this ****..
you had to be you huh.. I was gonna talk ****, then I realized I just busted your balls, doing it again, though warranted, will make me seem like the typical misc women hater. So yea, avoid doing favors for people on the off chance they turn to psychotic, drunken, armed, losers.
post 1544046971 02-16-2018, 05:43 PM
-
#155
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  3. Join Date: Sep 2010
  4. Location: Nunya, Bizness USA
  5. Age: 41
  6. Posts: 20,902
  7. Subscribers: 3
  8. Rep Power: 312836
Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988
you had to be you huh.. I was gonna talk ****, then I realized I just busted your balls, doing it again, though warranted, will make me seem like the typical misc women hater. So yea, avoid doing favors for people on the off chance they turn to psychotic, drunken, armed, losers.
Strictly neighbors
Ignore list:

Johnvee73
post 1544047501 02-16-2018, 05:51 PM
-
#156
  1. waitwhat
  2. Registered User
  1. waitwhat
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2008
  4. Age: 51
  5. Posts: 113
  6. Rep Power: 706
This is actual a good lesson for you to learn. From now on be aware of what can happen.

Looking young is never a bad thing. You’ll appreciate it later.

Next time he calls answer the phone and say ‘dude I’ll give you a ride tomorrow, I can’t handle this **** right now’ and then hang up. Give him something to think about. And give him that ride tomorrow and while driving tell him you can’t taje it anymore. You don’t have to look at him. Just keep eyes on the road and get it out before you get to the store. Again give him something to think about. Leave the car running and keep convo limited on ride home. Act bothered the whole time. Then drop him and then drive to the gym. Put your rage into those weights. Next time you see him give him a quick what’s up and keep moving. Act like somethings different and he’ll probably not call that much and if he does, just say ‘no I’m busy and that you have to go.’ He will probably change. Work on your car speech tonight. I think it will work.
post 1544047761 02-16-2018, 05:55 PM
-
#157
  1. person101
  2. Registered User
  1. person101
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2006
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 2,735
  6. Rep Power: 6652
OP has gone silent. Geezer probably murkd him
post 1544047961 02-16-2018, 05:57 PM
-
#158
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2006
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 1,753
  6. Rep Power: 13909
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne
Strictly neighbors
You should be friendly with neighbors, more than other acquaintances, they could potentially save your life, or at the very least do you a favor when in need... But let me apologize for my attitude toward you, I've been reading a lot of stupid **** on the misc, and when I finally post, it's more of a built up aggravation than any actual anger toward any poster.

If in a multi story apartment, I understand, but a street with a handful of close neighbors.. I mean if they like you, they'll go out of there way to be like uhh someones been scoping out your place or call 911 when something doesn't seem right.

Just seems.. neighborly
post 1544047981 02-16-2018, 05:58 PM
-
#159
  1. MMAMatty
  2. Registered User
  1. MMAMatty
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2016
  4. Age: 41
  5. Posts: 832
  6. Rep Power: 2242
Originally Posted By Critter5592
Use to have a guy at my old job that was like 40 and didn't have a license/car. Every day he would ask people for a ride home, I had to say no the first time he asked me just to set a standard. I felt a little bad on the ride home, but I got over it and he never asked me again. Like bro I was 21 at the time, im not giving a grown man a ride home and then it becomes a pattern.
What if he gave you money though? Would you do it then??
post 1544048261 02-16-2018, 06:01 PM
-
#160
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  1. MichelleLnne
  2. Troll Patrol
  3. Join Date: Sep 2010
  4. Location: Nunya, Bizness USA
  5. Age: 41
  6. Posts: 20,902
  7. Subscribers: 3
  8. Rep Power: 312836
Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988
You should be friendly with neighbors, more than other acquaintances, they could potentially save your life, or at the very least do you a favor when in need... But let me apologize for my attitude toward you, I've been reading a lot of stupid **** on the misc, and when I finally post, it's more of a built up aggravation than any actual anger toward any poster.

If in a multi story apartment, I understand, but a street with a handful of close neighbors.. I mean if they like you, they'll go out of there way to be like uhh someones been scoping out your place or call 911 when something doesn't seem right.

Just seems.. neighborly
I’m talking about apartments, where you can tell that the second you say yes to someone- they will continue asking you for ****. I had one ask me for my WiFi password and another ask me to babysit her children(having never met them before) I guess it depends on my reading of the person...but normally no
Ignore list:

Johnvee73
post 1544048581 02-16-2018, 06:05 PM
-
#161
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  1. LuNaTiC1988
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2006
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 1,753
  6. Rep Power: 13909
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne
I’m talking about apartments, where you can tell that the second you say yes to someone- they will continue asking you for ****. I had one ask me for my WiFi password and another ask me to babysit her children(having never met them before) I guess it depends on my reading of the person...but normally no
I was too quick on the trigger, you're absolutely right, F that. Wifi pw and babysitting a strangers children, christ, what sort of parent is even okay with having a stranger babysit. And wifi pw is just a poor man milking your data.
post 1544049651 02-16-2018, 06:18 PM
-
#162
  1. Awhat
  2. Registered User
  1. Awhat
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2010
  4. Location: Australia
  5. Posts: 4,003
  6. Rep Power: 3848
Just firmly and politely tell him i’m not able to take you everywhere anymore brah.

gotta man up some time G if it’s not this guy it’ll be someone else. it’s a good lesson / practice.
post 1544051631 02-16-2018, 06:47 PM
-
#163
  1. ineed$
  2. Registered User
  1. ineed$
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2007
  4. Posts: 9,636
  5. Rep Power: 17322
RIP OP, both got into a drunken fight. Guess who lost
post 1544051961 02-16-2018, 06:50 PM
-
#164
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2012
  4. Location: North Carolina, United States
  5. Posts: 26,058
  6. Rep Power: 209290
Originally Posted By person101
OP has gone silent. Geezer probably murkd him
In b4 fbi

OP if you're still alive just address him as a man with no emotions involved

Tell him you cannot spend your spare time transporting him when you are actively building on yourself
post 1544052021 02-16-2018, 06:51 PM
-
#165
  1. Caeculus
  2. Banned
  1. Caeculus
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Mar 2017
  4. Posts: 8,428
  5. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Miscamus
op youre prob a troll, but either way annoying af.

I want to punch you.

You have a few choices.

1.) kill yourself and end it all.
2.) confront the dude
3.) call cops
4.) turn phone off and hope he goes away.

prob just be best to kill yourself based on your outlook on life
Why do you want to punch me ?

1) why do you think I should end it? Was reading Sartre's "no exit" and I related to what he was talking about. "Hell is other people" . Was wondering if you had a reason why you think one of my options is taking the exit?
post 1544053021 02-16-2018, 07:03 PM
-
#166
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  1. Shysty021
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2012
  4. Location: North Carolina, United States
  5. Posts: 26,058
  6. Rep Power: 209290
Originally Posted By Caeculus
Why do you want to punch me ?

1) why do you think I should end it? Was reading Sartre's "no exit" and I related to what he was talking about. "Hell is other people" . Was wondering if you had a reason why you think one of my options is taking the exit?
You chose to respond to the most backwards retarded chit in this thread

Shows your character *******...nit pic on the most negative to address when chit doesnt even effect you

You must be a 25>
post 1544053091 02-16-2018, 07:03 PM
-
#167
  1. PisseninMisc
  2. Registered User
  1. PisseninMisc
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2015
  4. Age: 40
  5. Posts: 16,596
  6. Rep Power: 141961
Originally Posted By Caeculus
Yeah if I do that my life will probably end. I do want the harassment to end but The guy is obviously psychotic and I have to pass his door every single day unless I stay in my upstairs apt like I'm in solitary confinement. The walls are so thin here he can hear me leaving and leaves his window open to hear me coming home and he pops out to confront me. I'm still drinking and hopefully will be able to call him or answer in a while and I'll be able to give the misc some fukin sick entertainment by posting the video of the call and confirm I'm not a fukin troll. You people are just as fuked as everyone else because all humans are fukin sick degenerate selfish evil fuks. God forbid I have a real honest conversation about something that is really bothering me. What do you think I meant by putting in the title "...I'm fukin going insane" ? I can't take this anymore, this world is fuked and I don't belong here, especially in the United States. I don't feel like this is my home. The last time I felt anything was when I was in Ireland and I liked it a lot. People are different there but there are still some problems but nothing close to the problems in the United States. I had a huge culture shock coming back here and I got very depressed. I wish I got the blonde girls contact info before she left. Idk what to do anymore I can't take this scheit
You're either a troll or gone full retard. If you really don't understand that you're just being paranoid and retarded in this post idk what else to tell you. Enjoy living in fear and getting walked over for the rest of your miserable life you dumbass *******.

For reference: I live in fukin LA dude. Lived in many seedy parts of town in my 20's with people that you would immediately stereotype as "thugs" or "gangsta" scum that are menacing to some sort of ideal you have of how the US society should look (an ideal that never existed at all mind you, just in your delusional fantasies.) Fortunately I'm not a sadkunt ******* like you so have both befriended and confronted many neighbors in the past. Several times it started with a friendship and ended with me telling to fuk off. The opposite happened as well, where I thought some neighbors were a dik but we just ended up drinking and partying together and becoming good friends. Stop living your life in fear and handle your business instead of bishing on misc about losing your sanity and how you don't feel at home here in the 10/10 best country in the world.

Oh and also: Fist yourself *******.
*** Dawn Patrol Crew ***

Rustle me = get repped
post 1544053441 02-16-2018, 07:06 PM
-
#168
  1. askem
  2. Registered User
  1. askem
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2009
  4. Location: Chicago, Illinois, United States
  5. Posts: 8,725
  6. Rep Power: 10316
Fake your death, op.

It's the only way.
post 1544053531 02-16-2018, 07:08 PM
-
#169
  1. ANumber1
  2. Duke of New York
  1. ANumber1
  2. Duke of New York
  3. Join Date: Jul 2013
  4. Location: New York, United States
  5. Posts: 18,570
  6. Rep Power: 128694
Originally Posted By Caeculus
Why do you want to punch me ?

1) why do you think I should end it? Was reading Sartre's "no exit" and I related to what he was talking about. "Hell is other people" . Was wondering if you had a reason why you think one of my options is taking the exit?
Hooooold up, brocephalus.

You need to talk to somebody. Can be a priest, therapist, psychiatrist, whatever, but this isn't about testosterone.

You've got all of this blown way out of proportion in your head. This is classic anxiety and paranoia. Ignore the fuarkers giving you a hard time here, ignore the neighbor, you should talk to somebody. Do it for the Misc.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1544068061 02-16-2018, 10:09 PM
-
#170
  1. person101
  2. Registered User
  1. person101
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2006
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 2,735
  6. Rep Power: 6652
Glad you are still alive OP I was worried something happened when you went quiet. You should seriously see a therapist if you can afford it or have insurance. It can be hard to find a good one but if you do it could really help you. It sounds like you have some anxiety, depression, and self confidence stuff going on. A good therapist could help you with that and hook you up with some anti anxiety meds if needed.
Also like some of the previous posters said you should be able to request and pay for a test check if you think you need one.
post 1544069851 02-16-2018, 10:34 PM
-
#171
  1. EternaLovE
  2. Banned
  1. EternaLovE
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2015
  4. Posts: 9,643
  5. Rep Power: 0
u are scuh a bitch man, jesus christ. man the **** up and TELL HIM TO **** OFF.
post 1544070861 02-16-2018, 10:53 PM
-
#172
  1. McFlavour
  2. Registered User
  1. McFlavour
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2009
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 2,377
  6. Rep Power: 6991
if your too afraid to say not then its easy, lie to him. say you got your license suspended or something and cant drive or are on a provision where you are not allowed any passengers in the car
post 1544071851 02-16-2018, 11:11 PM
-
#173
  1. Gayle1
  2. Banned
  1. Gayle1
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: May 2009
  4. Posts: 5,576
  5. Rep Power: 0
lol @ telling op to fight an unstable armed low life with nothing to lose. Move out srs

Would it be possible to get moved to a different apartment if you were to explain your situation to management?

Option 1
You need to tell him no and go no contact. Keep a gun close by and watch your back. Get the police involved if it continues.

Option 2
Continue to help him as you work on moving out. Then go full NC.

Option 3
Beat his ass and risk him putting a bullet in your head as you unexpectedly walk out your door.
post 1544073331 02-16-2018, 11:40 PM
-
#174
  1. Gayle1
  2. Banned
  1. Gayle1
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: May 2009
  4. Posts: 5,576
  5. Rep Power: 0
Rip
post 1544073581 02-16-2018, 11:47 PM
-
#175
  1. HYMENATOR
  2. piss-weak
  1. HYMENATOR
  2. piss-weak
  3. Join Date: Sep 2012
  4. Location: Australia
  5. Posts: 3,931
  6. Rep Power: 27040
His constant calling and knocking and you avoiding him is you being harangued. You need to turn the tables on this to break the cycle. Go and bash on his door, right now. Tell him you've got a lot on your plate, you're busy, you're a private person and you don't want to be bothered anymore. You are not a taxi service. Tell him he'll have to make his own arrangements. Trust me the conversation taking place on his doorstep and not yours will make a difference.
post 1544074391 02-17-2018, 12:03 AM
-
#176
  1. tightteeshirt
  2. Registered User
  1. tightteeshirt
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2016
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 6,540
  6. Rep Power: 14739
lol 99% sure this is a troll job. op sitting at home buzzed on a Friday night decides to troll the misc. probably has a neighbor that bugs him about rides sometimes so op decided to really exaggerate it and turn it into a dramatic story. I'm on to you op.
post 1544074551 02-17-2018, 12:07 AM
-
#177
  1. TaeBoNinja
  2. Vagina Whisperer
  1. TaeBoNinja
  2. Vagina Whisperer
  3. Join Date: Sep 2009
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 46,748
  6. Rep Power: 174067
Originally Posted By tightteeshirt
lol 99% sure this is a troll job. op sitting at home buzzed on a Friday night decides to troll the misc. probably has a neighbor that bugs him about rides sometimes so op decided to really exaggerate it and turn it into a dramatic story. I'm on to you op.
Doesn't sound like a troll thread. People like OP are common these days. Like others called earlier, he's a yard bitch. His neighbor reads it being 58 and from a generation back when men were.....men. And the haitians at the gym know he's a punk likely from the way he moves and acts. I'm sure he gets pushed around at work too.
6'3 Master Race
GOATCal Crew
No Pillow Crew
Pureblood Crew
post 1544074801 02-17-2018, 12:12 AM
-
#178
  1. TrotonKat
  2. Registered User
  1. TrotonKat
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2016
  4. Age: 42
  5. Posts: 10,782
  6. Rep Power: 21335
Next time tell him your not driving him anymore because this **** is getting annoying and just give me a fkn break. Than hang up or shut the door
"Anyone who is not shocked by quantum theory has not understood a single word". Dr. Niels Bohr

***GTR Crew***

https://www.instagram.com/catmo_ger/ ***follow back if you aware me***
post 1544075691 02-17-2018, 12:40 AM
-
#179
  1. Travis99
  2. Philosophy Crew
  1. Travis99
  2. Philosophy Crew
  3. Join Date: Jul 2011
  4. Posts: 12,076
  5. Rep Power: 81603
Tell him thr truth. You like time to yourself offer him help fixing his car or explain Uber to him. Be polite but assertive.

Or suk his deek
There is no they…
post 1544075711 02-17-2018, 12:41 AM
-
#180
  1. TheJunkMan81
  2. Banned
  1. TheJunkMan81
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Age: 45
  5. Posts: 1,201
  6. Rep Power: 0
OP change name to Cuckulus
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts