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Thread: Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

post 1544055841 02-16-2018, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
I think you're underestimating how out of touch, clueless, and angry a ton of miscers are... Especially in regards to dating.
This...
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
I think you're underestimating how out of touch, clueless, and angry a ton of miscers are... Especially in regards to dating.
**** me for listening to this website so much when i was younger

somethings are right but so much of it is through such a bitter lens
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post 1544056121 02-16-2018, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By feminineenergy⏩
How many "too scared to ask her out," "going nc because she didn't text back quick enough," "what do," "she'll chase you if she's interested" threads exist on this board?

Men are confusing as women.
See the above post
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Originally Posted By Arkileon⏩
**** me for listening to this website so much when i was younger

somethings are right but so much of it is through such a bitter lens
Sloots gonna sloot is a timeless truth. I didn't believe it from the misc, I believed it when it happened to me.
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Originally Posted By Arkileon⏩
**** me for listening to this website so much when i was younger

somethings are right but so much of it is through such a bitter lens
Mostly it's bullchit, I never expected to see sooo much cope and defense mechanisms in average-decent looking guys. They also know women as much as I know astrophysics... and whenever the bitter truth appears, that's trolling, can't be true cause they can't handle it.
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post 1544056601 02-16-2018, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By olympianspirit⏩
Sloots gonna sloot is a timeless truth. I didn't believe it from the misc, I believed it when it happened to me.
You may very well cuck another man in the near future. It's been running rampant in my social circle.
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post 1544057771 02-16-2018, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By feminineenergy⏩
How many "too scared to ask her out," "going nc because she didn't text back quick enough," "what do," "she'll chase you if she's interested" threads exist on this board?

Men are confusing as women.
Lol. Those are men who don't get laid, aka, not the kind of guys any woman is chasing. A man who is desirable isn't texting you back because he's scared like a little bitch. He's not texting you back because he isn't into you and has other options.

There's nothing confusing about what men do. It's always quite simple. It's only confusing when you overthink it with the assumption that the man is thinking the same way you do, which he obviously isn't because he's a man and not a woman. Men act according to their level of interest, which may vary from smash and dash to fwb to actually wanting a relationship, and his behavior will be pretty consistent with that goal.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Ok, one last update and then I will let this thread die. I really like kurdish chad but he is being off with me one day, ok the next, I've asked him twice more if he wants to do something together and both times he's been like 'maybe I'll let you know' and then not let me know. So I've had a bit of wine and sent him this text

"I'm a very straight forward person and I appreciate the same. I like you a lot, but I am getting the impression that you are no longer interested. If this is the case then you need to tell me so I know not to pursue"


So now we wait....
Why do you like him a lot? Have you gone out on date with him even once? What do you even know about him.
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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Why do you like him a lot? Have you gone out on date with him even once? What do you even know about him.
It's 100% because of his looks. Take all of his personality traits onto a Timothy and she wouldn't give a fuk
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so many truthbombs in this thread.
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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Why do you like him a lot?
because he is attractive. That's pretty much it
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
I think you're underestimating how out of touch, clueless, and angry a ton of miscers are... Especially in regards to dating.
There's a lot of truth to what the misc says, it's just stated so extreme that they make it seem like if you're not "perfection" then you have no chance.
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post 1544061141 02-16-2018, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩
There's a lot of truth to what the misc says, it's just stated so extreme that they make it seem like if you're not "perfection" then you have no chance.
True, but I also think the misc generally places the fault on the woman, when a lot of times it happens due to the mans faults. Not a whole lot of accountability on here.


A lot of time "sloots will sloots" but 90% of the time, there's a reason why the sloot sloots. And 100% of the time you could have seen it coming and could have bailed before said slooting.
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
True, but I also think the misc generally places the fault on the woman, when a lot of times it happens due to the mans faults. Not a whole lot of accountability on here.


A lot of time "sloots will sloots" but 90% of the time, there's a reason why the sloot sloots.And 100% of the time you could have seen it coming and could have bailed before said slooting.
To be fair, I'd say it's more like 90%, but yes. It's always obvious to everyone except for the guy getting cucked.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
She did go on two dates with him but yeah I agree it's based on looks.

What women like lookswise varies though because she posted a pic of a similar looking guy and he is not attractive to me at all.

And I've posted pics of guys I'm attracted to that other women weren't into at all.
Its 100% about looks for him too.

If this brah was attracted to her, they would be smashing/dating right now. He's not, so he went NC. Its really that simple.

He admired the balls it took to ask him out, and was intrigued by OP, and probably took a little off guard, but once they went out and got one on one, face to face, none of that mattered and he didnt see the point in spending time on someone he didn't sexually desire, regardless of what her personality was like.

Dudes will drive 2 hours to sniff a fart through a water hose if they want to bang you. Showing no effort/interest in someone is really tough to do if we want the sugarwalls in any way shape or form. We will overlook a LOT in that case.

Sorry for being blunt, but that's pretty much how these things work. At least for dudes.

He's not attracted, and that's all there is to it. Move on and prosper OP.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
Just got this back 'I like our friendship, we can be friends'























hold me misc
Yow...well at least now you know

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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Why do you like him a lot? Have you gone out on date with him even once? What do you even know about him.
Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
It's 100% because of his looks. Take all of his personality traits onto a Timothy and she wouldn't give a fuk
Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
because he is attractive. That's pretty much it
I'd seen him a few times in the gym and was attracted to him and that's why I asked him out on a date. I thought of it as a bit of fun, see where it goes etc.

But, it was only after the date and after we had spent time together that I started to catch the feelz. For me, being attracted to someone's looks doesn't = feelz. The reason I'm taking this rejection so hard is that I did genuinely get feelz (far too soon I know).

Also at one point I believed he had some feelz for me too, and when I started seeing signs that that wasn't the case I made cope excuses in my head like maybe he's just tired or busy etc etc
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
I'd seen him a few times in the gym and was attracted to him and that's why I asked him out on a date. I thought of it as a bit of fun, see where it goes etc.

But, it was only after the date and after we had spent time together that I started to catch the feelz. For me, being attracted to someone's looks doesn't = feelz. The reason I'm taking this rejection so hard is that I did genuinely get feelz (far too soon I know).

Also at one point I believed he had some feelz for me too, and when I started seeing signs that that wasn't the case I made cope excuses in my head like maybe he's just tired or busy etc etc
Yeah, looks are being overplayed here. I'm sure he's a good looking guy, but if he wasn't charming and good in bed on top of that, you wouldn't have gone head over heels for him.

But yes, feelings can be rough and deceptive that way. We really only know our own feelings, and so when you have that positive rush of emotions while interacting with someone, you falsely assume that the other person is feeling the same thing. Everyone makes that mistake sometimes.
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Originally Posted By atgbrahsrs⏩
lmao this thread is just a real life example of what the Misc says:

- girls will chase Chads, game doesnt exist

- Chads will have options so they wont be invested


OP confirm ?
Welcome to the cold hard facts of life Miscers.

You can be an autistic retard as a Chad and still get girls to come up to you.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
The signs were all there he wasn't interested, but no I had to keep asking him to meet, and texting with little response. Made myself look like a dick.
Well you tried. Thanks for sharing Op.

If I was him I would've been up front with you. I hate people (especially women) who aren't straight with me and would rather play head games.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
I'd seen him a few times in the gym and was attracted to him and that's why I asked him out on a date. I thought of it as a bit of fun, see where it goes etc.

But, it was only after the date and after we had spent time together that I started to catch the feelz. For me, being attracted to someone's looks doesn't = feelz. The reason I'm taking this rejection so hard is that I did genuinely get feelz (far too soon I know).

Also at one point I believed he had some feelz for me too, and when I started seeing signs that that wasn't the case I made cope excuses in my head like maybe he's just tired or busy etc etc
Oh you foolish girl. Now you learned your lesson...hopefully.
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Yeah, looks are being overplayed here. I'm sure he's a good looking guy, but if he wasn't charming and good in bed on top of that, you wouldn't have gone head over heels for him.

But yes, feelings can be rough and deceptive that way. We really only know our own feelings, and so when you have that positive rush of emotions while interacting with someone, you falsely assume that the other person is feeling the same thing. Everyone makes that mistake sometimes.
lol stfu, this girl asked him out, pursued him for sex

she was already head over heels for him when she saw his FACE

it's called the halo effect, her mind tricks her that he has other redeeming qualities, and amplifies them, because of his FACE
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Originally Posted By Jadedfadedisbae⏩
cliffs of thread?
Opie is a complete ******* of the worst kind
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No he is not her friend.
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Oh you foolish girl. Now you learned your lesson...hopefully.
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Originally Posted By wildturkey⏩
You want me to kill him?

Actually can someone else do it? I don't really want to go back to jail
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
lol stfu, this girl asked him out, pursued him for sex

she was already head over heels for him when she saw his FACE

it's called the halo effect, her mind tricks her that he has other redeeming qualities, and amplifies them, because of his FACE
Do you capitalize face every time you write it?
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Oh you foolish girl. Now you learned your lesson...hopefully.
No

This isn’t a lesson

This is a burnt cakes moment ...you don’t give up you just try again

It doesn’t really matter if you hurt, you’ll get over that, it’s about feeling feelings and taking chances

That’s the only way you’re going to make it

Learning not to do this again means you stop taking chances, life is about taking chances

I’m proud of you ..next time perhaps be a little less direct though, I don’t think men like feeling emasculated by women making all the moves, particularly not macho eastern ones
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Originally Posted By ItzcoolBrah⏩
strong username to post content ratio lol
hahaha yup
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I don’t think men like feeling emasculated by women making all the moves,
if she's hot then it's not a problem. If she's not then you just want her to leave you the fuk alone without needing to hurt her feelings.


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