Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

02-17-2018, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩

if she's hot then it's not a problem. If she's not then you just want her to leave you the fuk alone without needing to hurt her feelings.

I'm here all night

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02-17-2018, 02:26 AM

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#782

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

Hang on I just need to put on my Domme gear ..pass the talc

hnng

02-17-2018, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

^^^ LOL

No

This isn’t a lesson

This is a burnt cakes moment ...you don’t give up you just try again

It doesn’t really matter if you hurt, you’ll get over that, it’s about feeling feelings and taking chances

That’s the only way you’re going to make it

Learning not to do this again means you stop taking chances, life is about taking chances

I’m proud of you ..next time perhaps be a little less direct though, I don’t think men like feeling emasculated by women making all the moves, particularly not macho eastern ones

No op should have realized this guy didn't like her, but she just kept going. No it's fine if a girl you are attracted to makes a move.

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02-17-2018, 02:36 AM

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02-17-2018, 02:37 AM

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#785

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

No op should have realized this guy didn't like her, but she just kept going.

Emotions are reflective, if you really like someone you will imbue their responses and actions with the same feelings and look to excuse those actions that jarr

That’s just human nature

And I don’t think there’s any should have about it ...defences do not help unless you are top tier ...people need to express desire and emotion and roll with the punches, cos it sometimes clicks

02-17-2018, 02:38 AM

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Originally Posted By WrestlingFan123⏩

Don't even trip girl. Give that dude a high five and all smiles lmao treat HIM like Mfing pal. - WrestlingFan's lady

in all seriousness, it'll only be awkward if she overthinks or makes it awkward. I wouldn't even think about it anymore.

02-17-2018, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

Emotions are reflective, if you really like someone you will imbue their responses and actions with the same feelings and look to excuse those actions that jarr

That’s just human nature

And I don’t think there’s any should have about it ...defences do not help unless you are top tier ...people need to express desire and emotion and roll with the punches, cos it sometimes clicks

If I liked a chick, but she was not interested, I would not pursue anymore. I don't have time to deal with that.Op has learned though, and she will find someone better.

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02-17-2018, 02:47 AM

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#788

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

If I liked a chick, but she was not interested, I would not pursue anymore. I don't have time to deal with that.Op has learned though, and she will find someone better.

I suppose I dunno re women approaching tbh, been too long and I never gave off more than IOI although the strength of IOIs can be quite fierce and unmistakable LMAO

I think you may miss out on those of a shyer or more submissive nature by misreading interest signs

Coupled with the fact that like is not always instant, and women can be swayed by the romantic notion of pursuit ..it’s in the fairy tales and made for TV movies, it becomes a definition of expectations ...traditional women will hold more to that I suppose

It would be easier if we had lights on our forehead that turned red, amber and green depending on feelings within tbh

02-17-2018, 02:49 AM

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02-17-2018, 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

I suppose I dunno re women approaching tbh, been too long and I never gave off more than IOI although the strength of IOIs can be quite fierce and unmistakable LMAO

I think you may miss out on those of a shyer or more submissive nature by misreading interest signs

Coupled with the fact that like is not always instant, and women can be swayed by the romantic notion of pursuit ..it’s in the fairy tales and made for TV movies, it becomes a definition of expectations ...traditional women will hold more to that I suppose

It would be easier if we had lights on our forehead that turned red, amber and green depending on feelings within tbh

I agree, but OP will get over it soon.

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02-17-2018, 02:52 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

I suppose I dunno re women approaching tbh, been too long and I never gave off more than IOI although the strength of IOIs can be quite fierce and unmistakable LMAO

I think you may miss out on those of a shyer or more submissive nature by misreading interest signs

Coupled with the fact that like is not always instant, and women can be swayed by the romantic notion of pursuit ..it’s in the fairy tales and made for TV movies, it becomes a definition of expectations ...traditional women will hold more to that I suppose

It would be easier if we had lights on our forehead that turned red, amber and green depending on feelings within tbh

I've approached before, worked out fine. When I asked their opinion on it later down the line they just said they liked it because it took balls (no pun intended). But I think it does boil down to the individual. There will be men out there who might see it as a turn off, but they'd be stupid to let that interfere if they were attracted to the girl anyway

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02-17-2018, 03:03 AM

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Can't really say im surprised with how it turned out, but at least you made something happen which takes some courage.

Don't give up the box so fast next time if you're aiming for something more then sex though...

02-17-2018, 03:05 AM

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

Oh you foolish girl. Now you learned your lesson...hopefully.

That she can get sex from a Chad just by asking?
Tough lesson

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02-17-2018, 03:07 AM

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

I agree, but OP will get over it soon.

No I won't, I feel like I've been stabbed through the heart

Originally Posted By Melis689⏩

I've approached before, worked out fine. When I asked their opinion on it later down the line they just said they liked it because it took balls (no pun intended). But I think it does boil down to the individual. There will be men out there who might see it as a turn off, but they'd be stupid to let that interfere if they were attracted to the girl anyway

He did say that he liked it that I approached him and initiated. Guess he just wasn't that into me in the first place

Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

No op should have realized this guy didn't like her, but she just kept going. No it's fine if a girl you are attracted to makes a move.

Yeah and he obviously wasn't attracted, but no I had to keep fabricating in my head that he might be, convinced myself he just needed a push in the right direction and now feel like a complete tool

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02-17-2018, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩

That she can get sex from a Chad just by asking?
Tough lesson

Looks like she fell for the kunt.

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02-17-2018, 03:19 AM

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What you up to tonight YIM?

02-17-2018, 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩

YIM you didn't catch the feels, you were just lusting. It'll fade fast, you'll be over it before you know it

I've been lusting after seeing your last progress pic

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02-17-2018, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

What you up to tonight YIM?

Drinking wine at home alone and crying srs

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02-17-2018, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩

Drinking wine at home alone and crying srs

Das not it

02-17-2018, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩

Yeah, looks are being overplayed here. I'm sure he's a good looking guy, but if he wasn't charming and good in bed on top of that, you wouldn't have gone head over heels for him.

But yes, feelings can be rough and deceptive that way. We really only know our own feelings, and so when you have that positive rush of emotions while interacting with someone, you falsely assume that the other person is feeling the same thing. Everyone makes that mistake sometimes.

Face rules all.

I've came way too soon, or had whiskey dick in bed and still have had chicks blowing up my phone afterwards, such is life. The only people attempting to lower the value of face in terms of female attraction and interactions simply doesn't have it going for them.

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02-17-2018, 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩

Drinking wine at home alone and crying srs

Get girlfriends round

02-17-2018, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩

Drinking wine at home alone and crying srs

I know you're probably not thinking logically right now but honestly there's nothing you should feel bad about right now

first of all, to address the ''how awkward will it be meeting him in the gym'' - lmao, ask yourself if it will matter 1 year from now? you'll look back at it and laugh, it's just been one of many experiences and as soon as your emotions cool down it won't matter, at all

also, about your mindset going into it vs. the misc: sure, misc was right, but there's a fine line between misc's endless pessimism and your attempt to give it a try, leaving your comfort zone, going against the stream. Don't lose that, down the road you'll meet someone exactly because of that mindset, while the miscers giving you advices here are fapping in their mum's basement, browsing misc and commenting ''damn all women are sloots, glad I'm alone hehe'' - now that's the real cope

Straightforwardness like that would intrigue the **** out of me, even if I felt zero physical attraction towards you I'd want to get to know you better because of that, I respect that a lot and it's so much better than playing games. I'm not saying it's the way to go with all people, but there definitely is a good amount of men who see the value in it....anyways, what I'm getting at is, don't feel bad about being/doing you, ever.

02-17-2018, 03:49 AM

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

Looks like she fell for the kunt.

hasn't it just been like two dates?

sure you didnt go clingy mode YIM? maybe he was interested but got scared off

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02-17-2018, 03:49 AM

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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩

Drinking wine at home alone and crying srs

Well ****. You gotta give it some time from your last relationship. Good luck, like others have said. At least you had courage to make something happen for yourself. That's a step that a lot of people can't make. So be proud of that.