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post 1544277791 02-19-2018, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
I did miss the boat. I missed out on getting a decent quality women. I screwed over my career. I’m far too ugly and now behind in life to turn that around. Sure, I can get a new job, but my dating life won’t ever improve. I have tried tons and tons, I’m just not attractive to women anymore. Every guy has a breaking point when you just say “fuk it” and throw in the towel.
Like I said you need professional help. Try to get over your misery over losing your clearance because you aren't emotionally equipped to do whatever that work is anyway.
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Eh the only thing I don't have going for me is that I'm short. Other than that, my family worked hard to provide me a good life. I always had spare money because of a weekly allowance. College was paid off by them. Been told I'm good looking by girls several times. I consider myself charismatic because my mum socialized me well with other kids. Got like a 3.9 HS so I think I'm at least average intelligence. Started lifting from a young age because health was always important in my family. Etc, etc.
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Originally Posted By poolshark472
Like I said you need professional help. Try to get over your misery over losing your clearance because you aren't emotionally equipped to do whatever that work is anyway.
I did that work for a decade. I didn’t have any performance issues. Sure, right now I’m down about that loss, as would anyone, it doesnt mean I’m unable to perform. This is a place to vent. Professional help? Like I said they are taking me off meds/all psychologists before I’m officially out.

If you don’t think other people would be down about this situation, you don’t a firm grasp of reality. Also, it is very easy to see the agenda they worked. Brb tell me I’m too crazy to serve, Brb ok you have orders now, you are not crazy, let’s get you off meds. It’s very fuked up. The military doesn’t take care of its people.
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch
You should be mad at your parents for raising you to be a negative, whiny little kunt
You don’t know chit dude, or what I have done in my life. I didn’t get to where I was by mistake.
post 1544278481 02-19-2018, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
I did that work for a decade. I didn’t have any performance issues. Sure, right now I’m down about that loss, as would anyone, it doesnt mean I’m unable to perform. This is a place to vent. Professional help? Like I said they are taking me off meds/all psychologists before I’m officially out.

If you don’t think other people would be down about this situation, you don’t a firm grasp of reality. Also, it is very easy to see the agenda they worked. Brb tell me I’m too crazy to serve, Brb ok you have orders now, you are not crazy, let’s get you off meds. It’s very fuked up. The military doesn’t take care of its people.
Lol yeah bro I'm the one without a firm grasp of reality. Stop assuming you're the only one that's run into a dead end and had to change their course in life. Good luck with everything.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
You sound sound a bit low / depressed. You're not thinking the right way. If you were smashing some quality women, you'd be high on testosterone levels and you wouldn't be thinking like this.

How much contact do you have with women on a day to day basis?
Smashing quality women is not going to happen. I’m too ugly, I don’t understand why people don’t understand that. Sure you can get rich and buy woman if you are ugly, but that’s not my style. I talk to women a few times a week atm. I’m not going into any work, I’m just job hunting right now.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
I did that work for a decade. I didn’t have any performance issues. Sure, right now I’m down about that loss, as would anyone, it doesnt mean I’m unable to perform. This is a place to vent. Professional help?Like I said they are taking me off meds/all psychologists before I’m officially out.

If you don’t think other people would be down about this situation, you don’t a firm grasp of reality. Also, it is very easy to see the agenda they worked. Brb tell me I’m too crazy to serve, Brb ok you have orders now, you are not crazy, let’s get you off meds. It’s very fuked up. The military doesn’t take care of its people.
Think you are still covered up to 6 months after separation. Have you gone through TAPs yet? If not, request to go now and then go through it again before you actually separate.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
Smashing quality women is not going to happen. I’m too ugly, I don’t understand why people don’t understand that. Sure you can get rich and buy woman if you are ugly, but that’s not my style. I talk to women a few times a week atm. I’m not going into any work, I’m just job hunting right now.
Ok so you don't have a job and I bet this is not helping with your negative mindset. Your mood will lift when you find work and you'll start thinking differently srs.

There was another person on the misc, he was convinced he was ugly / that he had a supposed jaw deformity.

He went on that Tinder thread, PMed his face pic to some of the more seasoned Tinder veterans, and they all said he looks like 6/10 maybe 7/10 on a good day.

You should try that too.
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Originally Posted By Casca
Think you are still covered up to 6 months after separation. Have you gone through TAPs yet? If not, request to go now and then go through it again before you actually separate.
Yes, I have went through TAPS. I’m barred from all federal jobs because of that diagnosis. There is a reason I’m down about this. I’m loooking at state jobs atm.
post 1544279841 02-19-2018, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
Baldness plus just general facial aging. I know I’m not wrong, like I e said before I had women tell me over and over again I am ugly, I’ve had them point out my hair, I’ve had women make fake throw up noises after removing my hat. If people keep telling you something over and over and over again, how is that not the truth?
You must look something like your mother and father and they still manged to get married and procreate your dumbass.

Clearly there is hope OP.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
Ok so you don't have a job and I bet this is not helping with your negative mindset. Your mood will lift when you find work and you'll start thinking differently srs.

There was another person on the misc, he was convinced he was ugly / that he had a supposed jaw deformity.

He went on that Tinder thread, PMed his face pic to some of the more seasoned Tinder veterans, and they all said he looks like 6/10 maybe 7/10 on a good day.

You should try that too.
I was working not too long ago and it didn’t make any difference in the female regard. If I’m too ugly to get a women while being in the military, I don’t think I will have any shot whatsoever with any regular job, unless I become a fire fighter or cop or something like that.
post 1544280501 02-19-2018, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie
You must look something like your mother and father and they still manged to get married and procreate your dumbass.

Clearly there is hope OP.
My dad doesn’t have good genetics, he gave me the short and pre-mature balding genes. My mom is very short, but was ok looking. Back then as a guy, you didn’t need looks, just having a decent job was good enough. Things are different t now.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
I did that work for a decade. I didn’t have any performance issues. Sure, right now I’m down about that loss, as would anyone, it doesnt mean I’m unable to perform. This is a place to vent. Professional help? Like I said they are taking me off meds/all psychologists before I’m officially out.

If you don’t think other people would be down about this situation, you don’t a firm grasp of reality. Also, it is very easy to see the agenda they worked. Brb tell me I’m too crazy to serve, Brb ok you have orders now, you are not crazy, let’s get you off meds. It’s very fuked up. The military doesn’t take care of its people.
They have to take you off meds to not give you a medical retirement. Hurry up and do you VA chit and get a hold of yourself seriously. I know people that had severe PTSD, missing legs/arms, quadriplegics, bullet wounds, TBI, mortar shrapnel etc. that weren't as whiny as you. Honestly you prolly do need to keep seeing the shrink and continue the medicine route, it's not a bad thing nor dies it make you less of a man. What makes you less of a man is not accepting your short comings and refusing to find a way to work/live your life around them and continuing to make horse chit excuses. Might sound harsh but it's the honest truth.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
I was working not too long ago and it didn’t make any difference in the female regard. If I’m too ugly to get a women while being in the military, I don’t think I will have any shot whatsoever with any regular job, unless I become a fire fighter or cop or something like that.
I have a feeling this ugliness thing is more in your mind than anything. Go to that Tinder thread, and PM some guys your face pics, they will help you.
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Originally Posted By meenman83
They have to take you off meds to not give you a medical retirement. Hurry up and do you VA chit and get a hold of yourself seriously. I know people that had severe PTSD, missing legs/arms, quadriplegics, bullet wounds, TBI, mortar shrapnel etc. that weren't as whiny as you. Honestly you prolly do need to keep seeing the shrink and continue the medicine route, it's not a bad thing nor dies it make you less of a man. What makes you less of a man is not accepting your short comings and refusing to find a way to work/live your life around them and continuing to make horse chit excuses. Might sound harsh but it's the honest truth.
That’s the thing, I was medically retired, that is what is on my orders. It just doesn’t make sense to me, why they would take me off so quick. They want to get the re-eval quick too. As far as the whining thing you don’t know how I am IRL, I wouldn’t have a single co-either or friend peg me as a whiner. Yes I vent here, but it’s really the only place I do. It doesn’t show how I am or how I act IRL.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
You don’t know chit dude, or what I have done in my life. I didn’t get to where I was by mistake.
You’re complaining about your parents giving you bad genes. You’re 35 dude, lots of people start balding then. And lol at height. Only on misc is height so important. Unless you’re 5’3 and below that’s not gonna hold you back.

Your attitude is a huge factor and people pick up on the ‘poor me’ attitude very quickly. Nobody wants anything to do with someone like that.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
That’s the thing, I was medically retired, that is what is on my orders. It just doesn’t make sense to me. As far as the whining thing you don’t know how I am IRL, I wouldn’t have a single co-either or friend peg me as a whiner. Yes I vent here, but it’s really the only place I do. It doesn’t show how I am or how I act IRL.
Okay well then get your chit together, with a medical retirement you'll also should have gone through your VA medical ratings as well and would give you opportunity to attend lots of different mental health groups and solid doctors. AGAIN you keep ignoring the key stuff everyone is telling you. I am done with your asking for help then keep deflecting to other stuff and say you're venting, if you don't want answers don't ask. Good luck with your future endeavors.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
I have a feeling this ugliness thing is more in your mind than anything. Go to that Tinder thread, and PM some guys your face pics, they will help you.
It’s not though. I’ve been told over and over again that I’m in fact ugly. This did not happen when I was younger. It’s not something in my mind. It’s the real deal.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
It’s not though. I’ve been told over and over again that I’m in fact ugly. This did not happen when I was younger. It’s not something in my mind. It’s the real deal.
Send me a face pic.
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch
You’re complaining about your parents giving you bad genes. You’re 35 dude, lots of people start balding then. And lol at height. Only on misc is height so important. Unless you’re 5’3 and below that’s not gonna hold you back.

Your attitude is a huge factor and people pick up on the ‘poor me’ attitude very quickly. Nobody wants anything to do with someone like that.
I give up on this topic. People will always say it’s the persons fault, when they are in fact to physically deficient, it’s reality.
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I think we should all dislike your parents for your existence you little bitch
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Originally Posted By Miscipline
I think we should all dislike your parents for your existence you little bitch
At least I wasn’t born in Canada
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I thik the biggets problem most miscers have is not that they are ugly, its the fact that they might have to accept a woman that might be overweight and bit ugly.
At work there is this giant woman she is really ugly but this balding guy always tries to hug her. AT some point you have to accept that its time to ignore astethics.
Everything I post is trash.
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Originally Posted By TitusVI
I thik the biggets problem most miscers have is not that they are ugly, its the fact that they might have to accept a woman that might be overweight and bit ugly.
At work there is this giant woman she is really ugly but this balding guy always tries to hug her. AT some point you have to accept that its time to ignore astethics.
Yeah, short and balding guys get thrown in the same class as overweight/ugly women. I could date a girl who’s face wasn’t great, if she was in shape and cool, but even those types have high looks standards. I just can’t date an overweight chick, I’ve always been in shape and active.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
At least I wasn’t born in Canada
Are yew trying to talk some **** about me there bud?
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Originally Posted By Miscipline
Are yew trying to talk some **** about me there bud?
Saying I have some things to feel blessed about.
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Originally Posted By Highwind7
father told me that if he were a manlet or bald he'd never have kids because they wouldn't deserve the suffering.
At least someone gets it.
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Jesus you're a pathetic guy.

Your height and balding aren't the issue as we all witnessed by your massive meltdown in the misc a couple months ago. You have serious mental issues and you aren't doing anything to address it. I just hope you don't go full supreme gentleman on everyone.
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Originally Posted By Suqat
Get ****ed.
Yet you are 6 ft 5.
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger
Jesus you're a pathetic guy.

Your height and balding aren't the issue as we all witnessed by your massive meltdown in the misc a couple months ago. You have serious mental issues and you aren't doing anything to address it. I just hope you don't go full supreme gentleman on everyone.
I figured you would show up eventually, you seem to enjoy others misfortunes.
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