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Thread: At what age is the point of no return for finding the one?

post 1544322381 02-19-2018, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not me I would date any age as long as I like him. Would prefer younger guys actually but that's not realistic for anything longer term.
Yeah, this isn't a retirement community, this is a virgin community.
post 1544322981 02-19-2018, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By brothoven⏩
Still going strong in my 30s, though not sure how long it'll last. I just started dating a hot 22 year-old Ukrainian chick, but I will admit she's got more baggage than a Boeing 747. Finding a good quality woman is tough.
wtf does a 32 year old man have in common with 22 year old chick. I always wonder where you guys even meet in the first place.

One of my 34 year old friends married a 23 year old after like a year.
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Originally Posted By brothoven⏩
Still going strong in my 30s, though not sure how long it'll last. I just started dating a hot 22 year-old Ukrainian chick, but I will admit she's got more baggage than a Boeing 747. Finding a good quality woman is tough.
I'll completely admit that finding a quality girl in the US is tough once you pass 30, because ageism is so ingrained in US culture. However, if you visit Latin America it's the exact opposite. When I visit Latin America I will have hot 18 year old girls from wealthy families literally begging me to take them on a date. It's just a cultural thing, as they actually prefer an older guy to one their own age.
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What if you are 30, but look 18-19? Will younger women (early 20s) be interested since they think you are their age?
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
There's always someone out there for everyone, no matter the age.
That’s just some feel good cliche thing ppl always say like true beauty is on the inside.
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Originally Posted By Knice1232⏩
What if you are 30, but look 18-19? Will younger women (early 20s) be interested since they think you are their age?
Yeah and if you look that young it may be too young looking for them.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not me I would date any age as long as I like him. Would prefer younger guys actually but that's not realistic for anything longer term.
Originally Posted By ArtistBrahs⏩
You should look as good at 33 as you did at 27. You should look about as good at 40 as you did 33.

Go to any dating profile and women almost always go up 10 years from there age and rarely go down, especially older they get.

The opposite is true with men, we prefer to date our age or down 5-10 years.
Well as an older woman who has some acquaintance with other older women from what I've seen older women are more open to dating down. Partly for simple physical reasons (they still like sex) and probably because somewhere around 40 the numbers tilt from more men than women to more women than men. Someone that could be your child is icky to most though, so 10 years younger is approaching the limit for anything with a chance at being long term.
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post 1544324991 02-19-2018, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By HomerJThompson⏩
lol, please remind yourself of this post when you are 52, i am not saying every guy would do it, but almost every guy that is 52 would want to have the ability to be able to pull girls in their early 20s.
This is such a stupid post. When I am in my 50s I want to send my kids to college and just chill at home with the wife and dogs. Priorities change. I can't even imagine trying to go to bars or clubs at age 50. That would be super sad.
post 1544325411 02-19-2018, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ArtistBrahs⏩
Honestly a mans prime is 34-40 assuming you got your health and career in order.

Good luck finding the one below age 28, you might think you found her but you will be divorced in early 30s like everyone else.

Both genders have growing pains and it takes time to get an established career and good relationship skills.

With that said women date up and men date down so you can usually get a girl 10-15 years younger than you as long as you still got your mojo and are confident. Women prefer high status guys compared to guys there age who can't offer much. Looks aren't nearly as important to women as men, You learn this as you get older. Not to be confused with good health btw. Women just like mature men who can provide and dudes like pretty young fertile females.

I'm 36 and have more female options than ever but I look no older than 30. I wouldn't want a chick younger than 24 and because she likely doesn't have her life sorted and would likely still be slooting or hanging with dumb people. Same time I wouldn't want a girl my age or older cause women peak earlier and she prob has kids and baggage.

TLDR age 40-45 is a solid cut off date for men and 28-35 for women. All girls are gonna sloot you can forget about finding your virgin princess btw. What you should look for is someone who is LTR material and still has her glow.
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post 1544325811 02-19-2018, 08:59 PM
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Instead of making threads like this, how about you leave your house and talk to a woman. Just see what happens
post 1544326021 02-19-2018, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Instead of making threads like this, how about you leave your house and talk to a woman. Just see what happens
No that would be too simple for miscers. They need to come up with elaborate explanations for why they are single instead of the fact that they never approach anyone.
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Honestly, early-mid 20s is already like finding a needle in a haystack, not exaggerating. Unicorns do exist, but they are so rare that it's almost not worth searching for because of the amount of used goods you'll have to waste your time with until (if) you find one. 18 is really the cut off for realistically finding a pure girl. Once they hit college 99% of the "good girls" are desperate to fit in with their peers (roommates, classmates, new friends, social circles, sowhorities, etc.) that they succumb and begin drinking/partying, and what follows is having sex with men they don't plan to marry, and boom, they're ruined for life. I'd say 25 is the point of no return where it's impossible to find a girl your age who isn't absolutely repulsive or a religious nut and still remains pure for the man she wants to marry. At my age I currently know a total of 2 girls who are pure - one is religious, still makes out with a fuk ton of dudes, parties, has cheated on her partner(s), and dresses provocative at times. The other is just a conservative who shares similar beliefs to myself (women shouldn't have sex with men they don't plan on marrying). So really, I know 1 respectable girl at my age. 1. Uno. ONE. Well, I know more, but they're all in long-term relationships with the guy(s) they lost their virginity to.
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lol just gotta love the misc. filled with autistic virgin knowitalls
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Instead of making threads like this, how about you leave your house and talk to a woman. Just see what happens
I always talk to women, try to go out as much as I can. I'm only 20 so I'm in the golden age. I visit different colleges every weekend and have drunken sloppy sex almost every week but sometimes chit just gets me thinking. I see how big of sloots these bishes are and I just can't think about settling down with somebody seriously just yet. That's why I ask what age is most optimal. I'm pretty consumed with work though so I haven't been out as much as I could be.
Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
No that would be too simple for miscers. They need to come up with elaborate explanations for why they are single instead of the fact that they never approach anyone.
Why do you act like you have chit perfect lol. I can't even tell if you're a guy or a girl.
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Originally Posted By Cinderblock⏩
wtf does a 32 year old man have in common with 22 year old chick. I always wonder where you guys even meet in the first place.

One of my 34 year old friends married a 23 year old after like a year.
Not much. In terms of maturity and life experiences, we are world's apart. I feel like I need to teach her everything about life. But we do enjoy each other's company.

We met on Plenty of Fish, but she was also on Christian Mingle, and I had some stuff in my profile about faith and traditional values. She actually messaged me and asked me out. I'm the first decent guy she's ever dated, all the other men she's ever been with have treated her like trash.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I'll completely admit that finding a quality girl in the US is tough once you pass 30, because ageism is so ingrained in US culture. However, if you visit Latin America it's the exact opposite. When I visit Latin America I will have hot 18 year old girls from wealthy families literally begging me to take them on a date. It's just a cultural thing, as they actually prefer an older guy to one their own age.
Amazing. Though you're just 25. What about when you're 30+? If there an age where you become too ancient for 18 year olds?

Anyway, that's unfortunate about our culture. In fact, as soon as I started telling people I was dating a 22 year-old, several commented that she was too young for me. I always laugh and say my rule is simple: If Uncle Sam approves, then I approve.



(and uh, 16 is the age of consent in my state...)

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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
This is such a stupid post. When I am in my 50s I want to send my kids to college and just chill at home with the wife and dogs. Priorities change. I can't even imagine trying to go to bars or clubs at age 50. That would be super sad.
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Originally Posted By jmoneyjumpman⏩
To the point that anything after this age you'd just get a used up cum rag?
Son, it's 2018. The age is 14.
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What if u have some history with that person dating in college then reunited 10 yrs later
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Originally Posted By jmoneyjumpman⏩
I always talk to women, try to go out as much as I can. I'm only 20 so I'm in the golden age. I visit different colleges every weekend and have drunken sloppy sex almost every week but sometimes chit just gets me thinking. I see how big of sloots these bishes are and I just can't think about settling down with somebody seriously just yet. That's why I ask what age is most optimal. I'm pretty consumed with work though so I haven't been out as much as I could be.


Why do you act like you have chit perfect lol. I can't even tell if you're a guy or a girl.
There's no optimal age bro, but in my opinion a chick out of college is like an used up tire looking to be inflated a couple of more times. You either find a decent girl in college or you'll end up being the dude inflating her dirty vagina up after 25.
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you guys sadly need to stop getting intimidated by women who are better in bed than you

cos no fecker cares if you take yourself out of the market but you .. there's millions of people out there and on an individual level you are not worth considering ...if your attitudes suck so do you even when you consider yourself high value

at least "beta orbiters" dont end up alome for life
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everyone in my city is partnered up with someone within 1 or 2 years difference max. i think it works really well because when you're living in a house with a partner doing mundane things like talking about bills you want someone on your level. so, being around the same age, same level of education and socioeconomic class helps a lot. me and my partner have a few dvds and cds that we both have a copy of, we have the same background. it works. so forget things like when should you settle down, just look for someone who is similar to you.
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
No decent looking man of true accomplishment/intelligence, near or in his 30s wants anything serious with a 20 to 22 year old girl. I know this is a strange concept for the misc because this place is largely made up of socially awkward dreamers with little going for themselves, but short of being eyecandy in a strip club or a bar somewhere, an accomplished man is not seriously considering 20 to 22 as "wife" material. That's actually creepy as fuk.

if you're 27-32, decent looking, accomplished, and still single then that means you've already ran through dozens of 20-22 year old girls. You're also in a career space where you mostly communicate with intelligent/accoplished people so the conversations of a 21 year old may as well be listening to a 10year old describe their day at school. I took myself out on valentine's day because i turned down plans to get dinner/fuk a 20 year old college student. I can still regularly pull young 20s, but just lol @ seeking out "the one" in a 22year old girl. Misc logic of peace.
Strongest cope I have ever seen


The immature 20-22 year olds simply turn in to immature 25+ year olds.

Sorry but near the end of college age you can tell who is and is not going to be a mature adult in their life.

It becomes much more about the person after a certain age, not the age itself. Upper class college girls have matured into what they will be as an adult.

You have an argument for freshman and sophomore maybe but not upper class girls.

Lol at thinking your 28 year old chicks are much wiser and in tune with you than they would have been at age 22
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Originally Posted By Brozef⏩
Depends on looks.

If your ugly and 40 = time to swallow a 12 gauge
my bro just turned 42(weird to think about). He is super successful in his career and just got his 24 yo GF preggos. They've been dating for 4 years or so, scooped her up when she was in college.

lol at all the cope from miscers saying dating younger is weird.

brb nothing in common
brb maturity

but who was similar hobbies.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
you guys sadly need to stop getting intimidated by women who are better in bed than you

cos no fecker cares if you take yourself out of the market but you .. there's millions of people out there and on an individual level you are not worth considering ...if your attitudes suck so do you even when you consider yourself high value

at least "beta orbiters" dont end up alome for life
If a woman isn't selective of what type of man she lets cum inside of her and gives it up for any tatted up scrub pothead that gives her some attention what does that say about her? And if you fuk her what does that say about you?

Sex is not a sport. As much as they push the narrative, it is impossible for a woman to separate sex and love into different categories in her mind. And after every man that fuks her and then leaves, he leaves with a part of her. Eventually after going through enough men, she no longer has any love left to give. She is broken permanently. A broken girl unable to trust or love.

How can she have any love left for you if she's already had the same feelings and experiences with 20+ men before you? Sex and creating a human life is the most intimate and sacred experience two people can have. Sex is not a sport and promiscuity is not "experience"
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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
If a woman isn't selective of what type of man she lets cum inside of her and gives it up for any tatted up scrub pothead that gives her some attention what does that say about her? And if you fuk her what does that say about you?

Sex is not a sport. As much as they push the narrative, it is impossible for a woman to separate sex and love into different categories in her mind. And after every man that fuks her and then leaves, he leaves with a part of her. Eventually after going through enough men, she no longer has any love left to give. She is broken permanently. A broken girl unable to trust or love.

How can she have any love left for you if she's already had the same feelings and experiences with 20+ men before you? Sex and creating a human life is the most intimate and sacred experience two people can have. Sex is not a sport and promiscuity is not "experience"
Precisely. That Rabbit bitch is literally 50+ and hideous. When she first joined this forum she didn't know how to properly crop her avatar and when you made it full size her face was fully visible. Somebody posted it in a thread calling her out and she whined to a mod and had the person banned + the post removed, and she cropped her (old) avatar properly going forward. Trust me on this one, she has NO room to speak - she is repulsive and haggard beyond belief.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
If a woman isn't selective of what type of man she lets cum inside of her and gives it up for any tatted up scrub pothead that gives her some attention what does that say about her? And if you fuk her what does that say about you?

Sex is not a sport. As much as they push the narrative, it is impossible for a woman to separate sex and love into different categories in her mind. And after every man that fuks her and then leaves, he leaves with a part of her. Eventually after going through enough men, she no longer has any love left to give. She is broken permanently. A broken girl unable to trust or love.

How can she have any love left for you if she's already had the same feelings and experiences with 20+ men before you? Sex and creating a human life is the most intimate and sacred experience two people can have. Sex is not a sport and promiscuity is not "experience"
I agree with your sex is not a sport and promiscuity not an experience point.

but love is not finite...and there is not just one person in the world you could love

the people who I worry about are those who are constantly putting it off cos they have time. none of us know how much time we have and life is made of experiences and connections
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Lmao at this thread. 95% of it is virgins who have no clue about dating and relationships.
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