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02-26-2018, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Dont focus on your height, its not a big deal. Worry about what your best points are and try to display those on your profile.What tinder advice could you offer an average guy that's 5'7?
Also what going out/bar advice could you offer to an average 5'7 who is a loner by bad circumstances? Srs.
I'm pretty witty, but I lack aggression. Trying to work on it.
Also what going out/bar advice could you offer to an average 5'7 who is a loner by bad circumstances? Srs.
I'm pretty witty, but I lack aggression. Trying to work on it.
Truth is tinder isnt for everyone, and might not be you. Depends if you have a decent face, physique and some good photos.
In bars just try and let loose and have fun, realise its not a big deal if you make an ass of yourself, we all do it
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02-26-2018, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Its definitely true that the worst type of people are the ones that use tinder the most, but when you can literally swipe through 100s or even 1000s of people a day you dont need a high proportion to make it better than meeting people organicallyCheers..i believe you there are good people to be found there but a lot of trash to sort through i guess
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02-26-2018, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
i personally wont be in a relationship with a girl that goes out and drinks for a plethora of reasons.“Never gf a girl from tinder” or “Never gf a girl from a bar/club”
I see this mentality posted on the misc all the time, and it doesnt make sense and just reveals your insecurities.
Yes trashy women frequent both more than quality ones but that doesn’t mean good women arent there either. Nowadays everybody uses tinder, if anything you’d probably be a bit weird if you were single and not on there for one reason or another. Same with bars/clubs, everyone goes out and socialises sometimes, and theres nothing wrong with that. Would you honestly want a girl that never drinks/goes out? She’d be super boring.
It really just speaks to your own insecurities, not wanting to be in those competitve environments and feeling inferior to other men. It doesn’t take a genius to realise a good girl from a bad one, but this is based upon actual traits learned over time, not on the location of where you first meet them.
The truth is social drinking environments and online dating are the best platforms for finding girls. They give you access to the most girls with the least effort, if you are only hitting on girls you happen to come across the chances are so much slimmer of finding someone compatible.
Cliffs:
- There are both quality and trashy women on tinder and in bars
- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
I see this mentality posted on the misc all the time, and it doesnt make sense and just reveals your insecurities.
Yes trashy women frequent both more than quality ones but that doesn’t mean good women arent there either. Nowadays everybody uses tinder, if anything you’d probably be a bit weird if you were single and not on there for one reason or another. Same with bars/clubs, everyone goes out and socialises sometimes, and theres nothing wrong with that. Would you honestly want a girl that never drinks/goes out? She’d be super boring.
It really just speaks to your own insecurities, not wanting to be in those competitve environments and feeling inferior to other men. It doesn’t take a genius to realise a good girl from a bad one, but this is based upon actual traits learned over time, not on the location of where you first meet them.
The truth is social drinking environments and online dating are the best platforms for finding girls. They give you access to the most girls with the least effort, if you are only hitting on girls you happen to come across the chances are so much slimmer of finding someone compatible.
Cliffs:
- There are both quality and trashy women on tinder and in bars
- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
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02-26-2018, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
So you want a girl that literally never goes out? Fair enough if true but would never be my choice, i need someone who knows how to have funi personally wont be in a relationship with a girl that goes out and drinks for a plethora of reasons.
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02-26-2018, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
trust me bro. ive been friends with girls that seem nice and innocent with boyfriends who were in a different university.So you want a girl that literally never goes out? Fair enough if true but would never be my choice, i need someone who knows how to have fun
they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.
one of them tried to put my hand up her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.
i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
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02-26-2018, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
this sounds like insecure soyboy cope but i been clubbing for years and seen what 90% of drunk girls do, one time after making out and grinding all night a girls says add me on fb, i open up her profile and im like "is this you and your bf in profile photo?" she just says "yeah" like its nothing lol, gave a bert starei personally wont be in a relationship with a girl that goes out and drinks for a plethora of reasons.
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02-26-2018, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
I agreetrust me bro. ive been friends with girls that seem nice and innocent with boyfriends who were in a different university.
they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.
one of them tried to put my hand down her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.
i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.
one of them tried to put my hand down her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.
i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
People who.dont drink can definitely be trusted more in a relationship.
People just ask yourself how many dumb things in general youve done drunk...
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02-26-2018, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
So you’re saying you’ll only trust a girl who is never in a situation to cheat? Thats a complete lack of trusttrust me bro. ive been friends with girls that seem nice and innocent with boyfriends who were in a different university.
they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.
one of them tried to put my hand up her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.
i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.
one of them tried to put my hand up her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.
i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
If you are loyal you wont cheat regardless, it just makes the opportunity easier
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02-26-2018, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Miscer minds are so occupied with "every girl is getting dicked by Chads 24/7" that they automatically assume every girl that goes to a club and swipes on tinder is a sloot.Cliffs:
- There are both quality and trashy women on tinder and in bars
- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
- There are both quality and trashy women on tinder and in bars
- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
That said, id much rather "gf" a girl not from tinder as the chase with a girl from tinder is not nearly as interesting.
Also an interesting note, some of the best chases ive had recently were with girls who HAD tinder but DIDNT match me. In b4 "you got cucked, they banged Chad on the side"
But they were down to hang out whenever so like, dont value yourself only based on your tinder matches
Also you have to remember that the ideal woman for a miscer is a anime loving FA
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02-26-2018, 03:33 PM
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The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go.
Every man at some point in his life is gonna lose a battle. Hes gonna fight and hes gonna lose. But what makes him a man, is that in the midst of that battle he does not lose himself.
02-26-2018, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
Sounds like you have a good balance, tinder definitely shouldnt be your only option but its good to supplement with when you have down timeMiscer minds are so occupied with "every girl is getting dicked by Chads 24/7" that they automatically assume every girl that goes to a club and swipes on tinder is a sloot.
That said, id much rather "gf" a girl not from tinder as the chase with a girl from tinder is not nearly as interesting.
Also an interesting note, some of the best chases ive had recently were with girls who HAD tinder but DIDNT match me. In b4 "you got cucked, they banged Chad on the side"
But they were down to hang out whenever so like, dont value yourself only based on your tinder matches
Also you have to remember that the ideal woman for a miscer is a anime loving FA
That said, id much rather "gf" a girl not from tinder as the chase with a girl from tinder is not nearly as interesting.
Also an interesting note, some of the best chases ive had recently were with girls who HAD tinder but DIDNT match me. In b4 "you got cucked, they banged Chad on the side"
But they were down to hang out whenever so like, dont value yourself only based on your tinder matches
Also you have to remember that the ideal woman for a miscer is a anime loving FA
Side note: nerdy fa girls are very likely to be on tinder srs
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02-26-2018, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
i know some girls that go out with their friends but dont drink, or would have at most 1 drink. Im fine with a girl like thatSo you’re saying you’ll only trust a girl who is never in a situation to cheat? Thats a complete lack of trust
If you are loyal you wont cheat regardless, it just makes the opportunity easier
If you are loyal you wont cheat regardless, it just makes the opportunity easier
majority of chicks go out to get wasted and get attention from dudes
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02-26-2018, 03:35 PM
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Thank you OP. I followed the Miscs advice blindly, closing off my interest from any Woman from Tinder and anywhere else. I do what the Misc tells me. I trust them.
BUT NOT ANYMORE. You, Luke. You have finally enlightened me. What you have done for me is open my heart and eyes, and let the future in. One day at a time.
BUT NOT ANYMORE. You, Luke. You have finally enlightened me. What you have done for me is open my heart and eyes, and let the future in. One day at a time.
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02-26-2018, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
Exactly its just about picking the good ones, no reason why you cant find those types in bars too.i know some girls that go out with their friends but dont drink, or would have at most 1 drink. Im fine with a girl like that
majority of chicks go out to get wasted and get attention from dudes
majority of chicks go out to get wasted and get attention from dudes
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02-26-2018, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
very rare OPExactly its just about picking the good ones, no reason why you cant find those types in bars too.
maybe 5% good ones that can be considered relationship material
majority get wasted and try to get attention from guys
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02-26-2018, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
God your generation is pathetic.Nowadays everybody uses tinder, if anything you’d probably be a bit weird if you were single and not on there for one reason or another.
02-26-2018, 03:39 PM
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Sorry but there's nothing wrong with not wanting to gf someone who is trying to get some random dick to jump on
02-26-2018, 03:40 PM
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Agreed with OP. Every girl has been to a bar or a club at one point and Tinder has become mainstream enough that most young people have at least made a profile.
That said, it's advice that'sgenerallytrue and can be good to keep in mind, especially for inexperienced miscers who can't tell the difference between "good" and "bad" girls. That and in terms of probability, you're much more likely to find a sloot in the club or on Tinder than a good girl because the sloots are on there that much more often. The problem is that miscers take this general rule too literally, but they have this problem with most things.
That said, it's advice that'sgenerallytrue and can be good to keep in mind, especially for inexperienced miscers who can't tell the difference between "good" and "bad" girls. That and in terms of probability, you're much more likely to find a sloot in the club or on Tinder than a good girl because the sloots are on there that much more often. The problem is that miscers take this general rule too literally, but they have this problem with most things.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Agreed that it's about frequency, but I would apply to Tinder as well now. There's an obvious difference between a girl who uses Tinder to get new dick every week and a girl who makes a profile out of curiosity and almost never uses it. Of course, the chances of meeting the latter is slim, especially they almost never or never meet anyone on there.It's aboutfrequency- no I would not date a woman that frequents bars and clubs. And no, not every woman is on Tinder - notably those with self respect.
02-26-2018, 03:41 PM
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02-26-2018, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
This is the misconception, not everyone who steps in a bar or makes a tinder account has had or is looking for casual sexSorry but there's nothing wrong with not wanting to go someone who is trying to get some random dick to jump on
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02-26-2018, 03:42 PM
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02-26-2018, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
this too. i don't even hit the clubs anymore. stopped a year agoLmao, OP is a typical pleb. brb no drinking/going clubbing means the girl doesn't know how to have fun.
if you dont hit the clubs doesnt mean your boring brah
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02-26-2018, 03:43 PM
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It's fine to entertain as an option but know thyself. If you are ugly to average looking, a meat market app like Tinder is not a medium that plays to your strengths. Similarly, if you take rejection deeply personally, Tinder is probably going to fuel the flames of your growing resentment and cynicism.
02-26-2018, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
Around my age, only maybe 5% of girls dont drink. And yes theyre either super into sports/fitness or weirdLmao, OP is a typical pleb. brb no drinking/going clubbing means the girl doesn't know how to have fun.
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02-26-2018, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
You aint seeing sht UK ****g, i bet everything that i have that your slay count is single digits.Go and pick up girls at the musuem then, il be seeing her on the side when i find her on tinder anyway
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02-26-2018, 03:45 PM
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Bars and clubs? sure.
Tinder? lol **** no you've lost me there.
Maybe by your standards you can find an acceptable gf from tinder, and all power to you if you can
Tinder? lol **** no you've lost me there.
Maybe by your standards you can find an acceptable gf from tinder, and all power to you if you can
02-26-2018, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Can agree on the bar to an extent, but yeah that's what tinder is for.This is the misconception, not everyone who steps in a bar or makes a tinder account has had or is looking for casual sex
02-26-2018, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
i know some very pretty and smart girls that don't drink.Around my age, only maybe 5% of girls dont drink. And yes theyre either super into sports/fitness or weird
when considering a relationship, ill rather have a girl thats passionate about her career and goals in life, rather than someone who goes out to the club to get wasted. maybe its just me tho
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02-26-2018, 03:46 PM
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