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post 1546727551 03-18-2018, 04:01 AM
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Just got rejected repeatedly (7x) at the bar/lounge.

Just got rejected repeatedly (7x) at the bar/lounge.

Feelsterribleman.

Straight up 6'+ Chad/Stacy central. My vibe capped out quite low though.
My main cope is that all those guys are having alcohol help them meanwhile I'm sober.

I approached a girl a head taller than me in the end for the fck of it lmao. (I'm 5'5)
post 1546727621 03-18-2018, 04:05 AM
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Sorry you approached 7 random women cold?

In a bar?

Scattergun approach was it? Did you use the same line? Do you think each one was completely oblivious to you scoping, sharking, approaching one after the other ? I mean this must have been at least 5 minutes for each target so that’s 35 minutes of lurching from one woman to another.
post 1546727721 03-18-2018, 04:13 AM
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lol I would of taken all 7 home

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post 1546727751 03-18-2018, 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Sorry you approached 7 random women cold?

In a bar?

Scattergun approach was it? Did you use the same line? Do you think each one was completely oblivious to you scoping, sharking, approaching one after the other ? I mean this must have been at least 5 minutes for each target so that’s 35 minutes of lurching from one woman to another.
Yea. Cold and scattergun.
"Hey how are you? Random comment about their outfit or song playing..."
I don't blame them in a way. My vibe wouldn't pick up through time or after each approach. I came off needy even asking if they have bf (too direct, easy exit) and had horrible flow in my questions which made it quite nonorganic. Was like 2 hours. Many were with guys or group but perhaps I got too picky which wastes time.
post 1546727811 03-18-2018, 04:19 AM
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post 1546727841 03-18-2018, 04:23 AM
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Originally Posted By inb4everything⏩
Just got rejected repeatedly (7x) at the bar/lounge.

Feelsterribleman.

Straight up 6'+ Chad/Stacy central. My vibe capped out quite low though.
My main cope is that all those guys are having alcohol help them meanwhile I'm sober.

I approached a girl a head taller than me in the end for the fck of it lmao. (I'm 5'5)
Did you randomly approach or did you watch for some signals.

5'5 is tough bro, I'm 5'9 and when I was doing this in my 20s in Central London nightclubs, I was practically invisible.
post 1546727911 03-18-2018, 04:28 AM
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Did you try flexing for them, that would of sealed the deal bro.
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post 1546728171 03-18-2018, 04:41 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Did you randomly approach or did you watch for some signals.

5'5 is tough bro, I'm 5'9 and when I was doing this in my 20s in Central London nightclubs, I was practically invisible.
Random approach. Yeah I'm comfortable with it unless they're 5'9"+...I know they all reject me visually (unless some womanlet) so I got nothing to lose lol . Just a bad night plus haven't gone in a while...last time I maintained some decent convos at least.
post 1546728691 03-18-2018, 05:18 AM
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At least you go out there approaching them, even though you are aware about your looks. More alpha than 99% of the misc
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post 1546728871 03-18-2018, 05:27 AM
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post a pic of your outfit and I will let you know why you failed. 90% of men don't know how to dress properly.
I just want to share the knowledge I have obtained throughout my life and hopefully change someone's life.
post 1546729011 03-18-2018, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted By momo5⏩
post a pic of your outfit and I will let you know why you failed. 90% of men don't know how to dress properly.
cope
post 1546729241 03-18-2018, 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Kabamaro⏩
Fellow manlet

I’ve always found Clubs challanging: hard to have a conversation with loud music so it’s going to be mostly physical they will go for the manmore

Have more success meeting women elsewhere
Where do you normally find them?
post 1546729341 03-18-2018, 05:45 AM
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Dam dawg.
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post 1546729521 03-18-2018, 05:50 AM
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post 1546729531 03-18-2018, 05:50 AM
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5'5 .......go to a Mexican bar next time you'll have a better chance.
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post 1546729581 03-18-2018, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted By LouiePiper⏩
Where do you normally find them?
beaches, restaurants, classes, social events.etc
post 1546729691 03-18-2018, 05:55 AM
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It’s proven women like tall men opie. And check this out, super short women also like tall men.
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post 1546729731 03-18-2018, 05:56 AM
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One thing I like to do is pick out something that stands out about them and comment how you like it.

“I like your shoes” or “I like your tattoo (if visible and not in creeper location)”

They usually say thanks. I walk away or turn away and go back to my business.

I give it 20 minutes or so, in this time they either find their way to me or if they don’t I will bump back into them “accidentally” and strike up an actual conversation. Ask her name and go from there.

By doing this they’re already somewhat comfortable with you and are more likely to engage
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post 1546729831 03-18-2018, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Redfish225⏩
It’s proven women like tall men opie. And check this out, super short women also like tall men.
That last sentence is the biggest myth on the misc

Women like men a certain height taller than them. If you get a 5’2” with a 5’10” good looking guy hitting on her and 6’2” lanky guy hitting on her, with identical “game” being thrown from both, the 5’10” guy will win that girl every time

Now if the girl is 5’8” then yeah the 5’10” guy is probably gonna lose even if he is more attractive than the 6’2”
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post 1546729911 03-18-2018, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
That last sentence is the biggest myth on the misc

Women like men a certain height taller than them. If you get a 5’2” with a 5’10” good looking guy hitting on her and 6’2” lanky guy hitting on her, with identical “game” being thrown from both, the 5’10” guy will win that girl every time

Now if the girl is 5’8” then yeah the 5’10” guy is probably gonna lose even if he is more attractive than the 6’2”
Cope
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post 1546730011 03-18-2018, 06:01 AM
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Bruh hate to break truth bomb but manlets in a social setting such as bar/club is tough especially when women expect to hook up with 6'feet plus.

Your social game has to either be really good, or you have something about you that gravitates ppl wanting to talk to you. Eg athlete, celeb, ceo ect.

Aside from that if your social game is avg, you are better off trying countries that have men at a avg height of 5'5" And below
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post 1546730661 03-18-2018, 06:30 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
One thing I like to do is pick out something that stands out about them and comment how you like it.

“I like your shoes” or “I like your tattoo (if visible and not in creeper location)”

They usually say thanks. I walk away or turn away and go back to my business.

I give it 20 minutes or so, in this time they either find their way to me or if they don’t I will bump back into them “accidentally” and strike up an actual conversation. Ask her name and go from there.

By doing this they’re already somewhat comfortable with you and are more likely to engage
That sounds autistic / kind of weird advice PUA's would give.
post 1546730701 03-18-2018, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Redfish225⏩
It’s proven women like tall men opie. And check this out, super short women also like tall men.
I'm sure he appreciates the gut-wrenching reality check
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
That sounds autistic / kind of weird advice PUA's would give.
no actually that's a great approach
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Originally Posted By halfbreedbrah⏩
5'5 .......go to a Mexican bar next time you'll have a better chance.
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Once a woman has watched another woman brutally reject you, it's over boyo. You just kept doubling down.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Originally Posted By garthismad⏩
no actually that's a great approach
So you walk up to a random girl in a bar, say one random line and then walk away? Sounds autistic / weird as fuk.

Almost as autistic as that *waves frantically* chit those virgins send through text messages to girls they like.
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it’s only because you don’t have a top tier face, unrelated to body langauge
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
So you walk up to a random girl in a bar, say one random line and then walk away? Sounds autistic / weird as fuk.

Almost as autistic as that *waves frantically* chit those virgins send through text messages to girls they like.
okay I'll dumb it down for you since you don't understand. It's a good move because it shows he's not afraid to lose her that he has many options he puts the vibe out he lets her know he's there he's interested it says a lot if she gives him I contact she will be more likely to since she already kind of knows who u are. It makes her feel comfortable. also next time you meet in a different area a change of venue making her feel even more comfortable
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Originally Posted By ANumber1⏩
One a woman has watched another woman brutally reject you, it's over boyo. You just kept doubling down.
this too tho op, select your targets carefully. Also have fun out there talk to everyone guys the bartender girls just be cool when they know you're cool and just having fun they want to have fun too and may come around and f*** you for it
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