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Just got rejected repeatedly (7x) at the bar/lounge.
03-18-2018, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
That last sentence is the biggest myth on the misc
Women like men a certain height taller than them. If you get a 5’2” with a 5’10” good looking guy hitting on her and 6’2” lanky guy hitting on her, with identical “game” being thrown from both, the 5’10” guy will win that girl every time
Now if the girl is 5’8” then yeah the 5’10” guy is probably gonna lose even if he is more attractive than the 6’2”
Women like men a certain height taller than them. If you get a 5’2” with a 5’10” good looking guy hitting on her and 6’2” lanky guy hitting on her, with identical “game” being thrown from both, the 5’10” guy will win that girl every time
Now if the girl is 5’8” then yeah the 5’10” guy is probably gonna lose even if he is more attractive than the 6’2”
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03-18-2018, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By garthismad⏩
You sound like a virgin who's never actually been to a bar on a Fri / Sat night srs.okay I'll dumb it down for you since you don't understand. It's a good move because it shows he's not afraid to lose her that he has many options he puts the vibe out he lets her know he's there he's interested it says a lot if she gives him I contact she will be more likely to since she already kind of knows who she is makes her feel comfortable also next time no meat in a different area a change of venue making her feel even more comfortable
03-18-2018, 06:50 AM
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Originally Posted By garthismad⏩
Lol at overanalyzing itokay I'll dumb it down for you since you don't understand. It's a good move because it shows he's not afraid to lose her that he has many options he puts the vibe out he lets her know he's there he's interested it says a lot if she gives him I contact she will be more likely to since she already kind of knows who u are. It makes her feel comfortable. also next time you meet in a different area a change of venue making her feel even more comfortable
you go to random girl and you say nice shoes or nice dress and you walk away....Most probably she'll be startled why a stranger is giving weird comment and leaving - in 2 seconds she'll be back to her normal circle.
Exception is if you're a Chad yourself then you get a chance she might go tell her friends "guess what, Chad there said i have nice shoes"
Chances are, if you're analyzing the situation , you're not a Chad
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03-18-2018, 06:58 AM
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LOL at approaching random women. Reeks of desperation and low social status. I've never cold approached a woman and never will because it's sad. Even more sad approaching them at bars over the age of 25.
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03-18-2018, 07:04 AM
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Sorry bro it just doesn't work that way.
It's all about status and in that situation you have NONE. Since you're 5'5, you don't get physical status. How about friends? Walk in with your group, establish presence then slowly mingle. No friends? Walk around and try to get familiar with the different groups there (including talking with the guys) and hopefully one of the groups will accept you.
Cold approach, no status, shotgun approach = instant rejection. No girl in her right mind will leave the security of her group to go with someone like that...
It's all about status and in that situation you have NONE. Since you're 5'5, you don't get physical status. How about friends? Walk in with your group, establish presence then slowly mingle. No friends? Walk around and try to get familiar with the different groups there (including talking with the guys) and hopefully one of the groups will accept you.
Cold approach, no status, shotgun approach = instant rejection. No girl in her right mind will leave the security of her group to go with someone like that...
03-18-2018, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By elmariachii⏩
you don't grandpa Simpson her. Say something cheeky, like "I'll c u later kitten" then flare your lats and walk awayLol at overanalyzing it
you go to random girl and you say nice shoes or nice dress and you walk away....Most probably she'll be startled why a stranger is giving weird comment and leaving - in 2 seconds she'll be back to her normal circle.
Exception is if you're a Chad yourself then you get a chance she might go tell her friends "guess what, Chad there said i have nice shoes"
Chances are, if you're analyzing the situation , you're not a Chad
you go to random girl and you say nice shoes or nice dress and you walk away....Most probably she'll be startled why a stranger is giving weird comment and leaving - in 2 seconds she'll be back to her normal circle.
Exception is if you're a Chad yourself then you get a chance she might go tell her friends "guess what, Chad there said i have nice shoes"
Chances are, if you're analyzing the situation , you're not a Chad
03-18-2018, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
you gotta go for what you want. All rules aside u have to, to liveLOL at approaching random women. Reeks of desperation and low social status. I've never cold approached a woman and never will because it's sad. Even more sad approaching them at bars over the age of 25.
03-18-2018, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
This is good advice for a soyboy / bottom boy. Just wear tight pants and let the men come to you.LOL at approaching random women. Reeks of desperation and low social status. I've never cold approached a woman and never will because it's sad. Even more sad approaching them at bars over the age of 25.
I just want to share the knowledge I have obtained throughout my life and hopefully change someone's life.
03-18-2018, 08:33 AM
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Do you even mystry method brah?
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03-18-2018, 08:36 AM
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Also the book of Yareally. srs
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03-18-2018, 08:44 AM
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Ouch. Went out last night and just had to stand there at 6’3. Got approached or groped at least 6 times. At 5’5 you may want to just acquire currency, sorry brah.
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03-18-2018, 08:49 AM
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Never ask if they have a boyfriend
Ignore if they say they have one
Make sure you got something to say
You give a fuk, you have to not give a fuk. Bitches are retarded remember that.
If one sees you get rejected the others will reject because bitches are retarded. This applies to rolling solo, you need a squad. Not miscer types but dudes that can pull. Than it doesn’t matter if one rejects, changes the whole dynamic.
Also you are 5’5 so you absolutely need a squad of Killa’s to roll with it.
Ignore if they say they have one
Make sure you got something to say
You give a fuk, you have to not give a fuk. Bitches are retarded remember that.
If one sees you get rejected the others will reject because bitches are retarded. This applies to rolling solo, you need a squad. Not miscer types but dudes that can pull. Than it doesn’t matter if one rejects, changes the whole dynamic.
Also you are 5’5 so you absolutely need a squad of Killa’s to roll with it.
03-18-2018, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
There's nothing PUA about this. It's easier to break the ice by giving someone a compliment in pretty much any situation. Whether you are hitting on them or just trying to be friendly, even in a business setting.That sounds autistic / kind of weird advice PUA's would give.
It's not PUA retard it's simple human behavior.
You can definitely turn it into an autistic filled situation if you're an awkward c*nt but that's not really my problem. Fix your awkwardness. Giving compliments to someone isn't remotely off putting if you have even a basic level of social aptitude.
It sounds like you're just awkward bro, and if so no approach is going to make you seem less awkward. You have to fix the awkward vibe you give off before doing anything else.
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03-18-2018, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget⏩
post content to user name ratioWater is wet. Not gonna lie I'm the same height as OP and it's a fuking huge disadvantage but I've still managed to pull a few 8/10's and girls flirt with me regularly and those are the ones I approach lol @ approaching a girl that hasn't gave u any signs of interest and lol @ going to a club/bar when ur basically a midget.
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03-18-2018, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By elmariachii⏩
Like I said above, if you are weird or awkward then there's no special approach that won't make you seem weird or awkward.Lol at overanalyzing it
you go to random girl and you say nice shoes or nice dress and you walk away....Most probably she'll be startled why a stranger is giving weird comment and leaving - in 2 seconds she'll be back to her normal circle.
Exception is if you're a Chad yourself then you get a chance she might go tell her friends "guess what, Chad there said i have nice shoes"
Chances are, if you're analyzing the situation , you're not a Chad
you go to random girl and you say nice shoes or nice dress and you walk away....Most probably she'll be startled why a stranger is giving weird comment and leaving - in 2 seconds she'll be back to her normal circle.
Exception is if you're a Chad yourself then you get a chance she might go tell her friends "guess what, Chad there said i have nice shoes"
Chances are, if you're analyzing the situation , you're not a Chad
That has nothing to do with giving someone a compliment. Complimenting people goes over really well to start a conversation. But if you're an awkward c*nt you're going to be an awkward c*nt no matter what. That's really not my problem.
If you try this and the girl gets creeped out it's not the compliment, it's how you're doing it. I can't fix that through the internet, sorry bro. Either body language, or tone, or something else you're putting out there that's ruining it. Not one person has ever said I got turned off by a stranger complimenting me (assuming it's done in good taste and the compliment you give isn't crossing a line somewhere, i.e. nice ass).
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03-18-2018, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
All that awkwardness talk is you basically just projecting, doubt you even know / are aware what that is.There's nothing PUA about this. It's easier to break the ice by giving someone a compliment in pretty much any situation. Whether you are hitting on them or just trying to be friendly, even in a business setting.
It's not PUA retard it's simple human behavior.
You can definitely turn it into an autistic filled situation if you're an awkward c*nt but that's not really my problem. Fix your awkwardness. Giving compliments to someone isn't remotely off putting if you have even a basic level of social aptitude.
It sounds like you're just awkward bro, and if so no approach is going to make you seem less awkward. You have to fix the awkward vibe you give off before doing anything else.
It's not PUA retard it's simple human behavior.
You can definitely turn it into an autistic filled situation if you're an awkward c*nt but that's not really my problem. Fix your awkwardness. Giving compliments to someone isn't remotely off putting if you have even a basic level of social aptitude.
It sounds like you're just awkward bro, and if so no approach is going to make you seem less awkward. You have to fix the awkward vibe you give off before doing anything else.
And lmao just lmao at randomly walking up to a girl in a club, spouting off one line and walking away and thinking you're some sort of badass when the reality is you're autism level 1000 to everyone watching.
Only in a miscer's imagination is the above a cool thing to do.
03-18-2018, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
I'd do something like this OP, rather than randomly walking up cold to people. You need super high confidence and energy to do that and even then you'll get blown out a few times.One thing I like to do is pick out something that stands out about them and comment how you like it.
“I like your shoes” or “I like your tattoo (if visible and not in creeper location)”
They usually say thanks. I walk away or turn away and go back to my business.
I give it 20 minutes or so, in this time they either find their way to me or if they don’t I will bump back into them “accidentally” and strike up an actual conversation. Ask her name and go from there.
By doing this they’re already somewhat comfortable with you and are more likely to engage
“I like your shoes” or “I like your tattoo (if visible and not in creeper location)”
They usually say thanks. I walk away or turn away and go back to my business.
I give it 20 minutes or so, in this time they either find their way to me or if they don’t I will bump back into them “accidentally” and strike up an actual conversation. Ask her name and go from there.
By doing this they’re already somewhat comfortable with you and are more likely to engage
I talk to randoms all the time when I go out. To keep it simple, when I talk to people it's from an angle of helping everyone have a better time. I get in a social vibe with my friends and then open convo with groups around us. I go to breweries so I ask what they're drinking, and tell them about this kick ass spot in town with awesome beer and food they should check out, introduce them to my friends who do/live/are going somewhere awesome.
Once you start chatting you may end up striking a chord and mention something they have alot of interest in. People who are great at socializing can dig that out of people effectively. If cute girls are in the group try to bring them into the conversation, because sometimes people will just sit there while you talk to the person you started convo with, and then the convo dies because you're basically hijacking their friend.
Also try not to go to traditional "upscale" or "nightclub" type bars. Music is usually too loud and people act like it's a club (super defensive/bitchy). Try breweries or something like a beer garden where people aren't acting like stuck-up, wannabe *******s.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
There's literally nothing PUA/Autistic about what he said.All that awkwardness talk is you basically just projecting, doubt you even know / are aware what that is.
And lmao just lmao at randomly walking up to a girl in a club, spouting off one line and walking away and thinking you're some sort of badass when the reality is you're autism level 1000 to everyone watching.
Only in a miscer's imagination is the above a cool thing to do.
And lmao just lmao at randomly walking up to a girl in a club, spouting off one line and walking away and thinking you're some sort of badass when the reality is you're autism level 1000 to everyone watching.
Only in a miscer's imagination is the above a cool thing to do.
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HBB reaction when the guy above approaches random girl in club, spouts off autistic one liner and then walks away thinking he's a gangsta.
03-18-2018, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Who says it's autistic though? It depends on the person, if he's acting awkward and autistic yeah would be weird, but if he's chill it's all good.HBB reaction when approach random girl in club, spout off autistic one liner and then walk away.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
You're almost 50 why you in this thread?Who says it's autistic though? It depends on the person, if he's acting awkward and autistic yeah would be weird, but if he's chill it's all good.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
I already know what you're thinking....you're thinking he means walk up, blurt "I like y-y-your shoes" and then 180 out of there before she can react.HBB reaction when the guy above approaches random girl in club, spouts off autistic one liner and then walks away thinking he's a gangsta.
Stop making it as autistic as possible in your head. You can compliment someone without looking like an FA because you were genuinely interested. I've done it, and I've had hbb's do it to me. But I guess they're autistic too.
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03-18-2018, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
What does my age have to do with anything? lol Since I'm a female, I think I know what is ok to say when approaching a chick at a bar vs what not to say.You're almost 50 why you in this thread?
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lol I'd laugh and say thanks.Nice legs
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
^^^ This guy is right on.I already know what you're thinking....you're thinking he means walk up, blurt "I like y-y-your shoes" and then 180 out of there before she can react.
Stop making it as autistic as possible in your head. You can compliment someone without looking like an FA because you were genuinely interested. I've done it, and I've had hbb's do it to me. But I guess they're autistic too.
Stop making it as autistic as possible in your head. You can compliment someone without looking like an FA because you were genuinely interested. I've done it, and I've had hbb's do it to me. But I guess they're autistic too.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Judging by your age I'd say you haven't been in a club in years. We're talking about HBBs half your age, plz go.What does my age have to do with anything? lol Since I'm a female, I think I know what is ok to say when approaching a chick at a bar vs what not to say.
lol I'd laugh and say thanks.
^^^ This guy is right on.
lol I'd laugh and say thanks.
^^^ This guy is right on.
03-18-2018, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Why are you being a dik to someone that is trying to give perspective from a females viewpoint? I don't have to go if I don't want to so fuk off.Judging by your age I'd say you haven't been in a club in years. We're talking about HBBs half your age, plz go.
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