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post 1546907971 03-20-2018, 07:54 AM
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Dude enjoy it while it lasted it was a fun expierience now time to move on to the next one. Some people are virgins and never even got to kiss a girl like me. Your a good looking dude no homo
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Ghosting and slow fading is not a game though. It's a non verbal communication of low/no interest.
While SS is delusional in her own dating exploits she is on point with this one. Was speaking to Sword last night and he was raging that she hadn't told him she wasn't interested anymore but she has. She didn't say the words but her actions (or lack of) clearly communicate she is not that interested anymore. This is how it goes today....it favours women even more because they've always struggled with rejecting a guy so going ghost is perfect for them.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88
While SS is delusional in her own dating exploits she is on point with this one. Was speaking to Sword last night and he was raging that she hadn't told him she wasn't interested anymore but she has. She didn't say the words but her actions (or lack of) clearly communicate she is not that interested anymore. This is how it goes today....it favours women even more because they've always struggled with rejecting a guy so going ghost is perfect for them.
Yeah good conversation BTW thanks for letting me rant lol.

EDIT: JUST ****ING TEXTED ME. I **** you not.

"*waves* I made it back in one piece :-) how was time with the family?"

Setting a date up on Thurs with another girl BTW.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Yeah good conversation BTW thanks for letting me rant lol.

EDIT: JUST ****ING TEXTED ME. I **** you not.

"*waves* I made it back in one piece :-) how was time with the family?"

Setting a date up on Thurs with another girl BTW.
Better to rant on whatsapp than to fuk some pleb up with your MMA skills lol.

Lmao at text. Let her put in some work now brah....lets see how much she really wants it.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88
Better to rant on whatsapp than to fuk some pleb up with your MMA skills lol.

Lmao at text. Let her put in some work now brah....lets see how much she really wants it.
I love the entire group man and appreciate it for sure.
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Originally Posted By sword_
You talk about dealbreakers mostly. Just where the conversation lies. Honestly on first dates I talk about things to connect with the girl. Very topical.

I probably can screen if I practice though but her behavior appeared as though she wanted something serious. Would call me, make plans, yada yada. Like I said about the sex stuff too wanting an emotional connection.
Very interesting if that’s all you got out of my question.

Be very honest with me ,as well as yourself, but besides a warm body and your private parts what do you bring to the table to bridge an emotional connection? This is not categorized as a deal breaker but it forces you to look within. Well if you have nothing to offer or if the woman is emotionally unavailable for that you are just going to keep attracting chicks that want to smash & dash!
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Originally Posted By sanblz33
Very interesting if that’s all you got out of my question.

Be very honest with me ,as well as yourself, but besides a warm body and your private parts what do you bring to the table to bridge an emotional connection? This is not categorized as a deal breaker but it forces you to look within. Well if you have nothing to offer or if the woman is emotionally unavailable for that you are just going to keep attracting chicks that want to smash & dash!
Are you being rhetorical with this question? I consider myself a quality male with passion, loyalty for my loved ones and have been resilient in life. I get what you mean though
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post 1546914351 03-20-2018, 09:05 AM
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Ohhhh chit, I had a feeling she would msg but didn't want to mention it incase she didn't because you were already bummed out lol. Its possible that she may have done this delay in contacting you to see how desperate you are, to wrap you around her finger and to get you thinking about her (boy did it work, huh?). It also shows you have more work to do though too to get her interest higher (none of this would be happening if her interest was high, but its still salvageable). You played it perfect by not reaching out again and waiting. She is absolutely playing games given she did not even acknowledge missing your call, notice that?

You've prob already replied but if by chance you haven't, delay your response until later this evening, then turn up the humor and sarcasm to the max bro, be fun, no boring chit at all just banter. WHEN she wants to get together, you deny the soonest day she is available because "you already have plans with a friend, when else are you free". Tell her exactly that. Until then, don't be needy and don't be in touch everyday unless she reaches out first. Every 2-3 days is a good balance. I am under the impression that you come off all in with this girl (I get it you like her), and you are extremely interested but trust me when I say, patience at the start pays off. She needs to feel as if SHE has more work to do with you, nomsayin
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post 1546914871 03-20-2018, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo
Ohhhh chit, I had a feeling she would msg but didn't want to mention it incase she didn't because you were already bummed out lol. Its possible that she may have done this delay in contacting you to see how desperate you are, to wrap you around her finger and to get you thinking about her (boy did it work, huh?). It also shows you have more work to do though too to get her interest higher (none of this would be happening if her interest was high, but its still salvageable). You played it perfect by not reaching out again and waiting. She is absolutely playing games given she did not even acknowledge missing your call, notice that?

You've prob already replied but if by chance you haven't, delay your response until later this evening, then turn up the humor and sarcasm to the max bro, be fun, no boring chit at all just banter. WHEN she wants to get together, you deny the soonest day she is available because "you already have plans with a friend, when else are you free". Tell her exactly that. Until then, don't be needy and don't be in touch everyday unless she reaches out first. Every 2-3 days is a good balance. I am under the impression that you come off all in with this girl (I get it you like her), and you are extremely interested but trust me when I say, patience at the start pays off. She needs to feel as if SHE has more work to do with you, nomsayin
Haven't replied yet. Had to make a mad dash for work to get into a meeting. Think she's playing a game for sure. Glad I bitched in here instead of doing something stupid.
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post 1546914951 03-20-2018, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
He seems like a quality person with plenty to offer so that's not the issue. She was just looking for something else. I don't think he should take it personal or as if there was anything he should do differently. He showed clear interest, her interest level did not match, so it was just not a good fit.
I feel like showing too much interest is to my detriment. Game playing so I'm recoiling.
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On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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post 1546916761 03-20-2018, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_
Are you being rhetorical with this question? I consider myself a quality male with passion, loyalty for my loved ones and have been resilient in life. I get what you mean though
I was not being rhetorical. I don’t know you personally but you seem overly sensitive to people that you should really be kicking to the curb (NC does not count lol ). I know you are a high quality guy but for some reason women don’t respect you and your time. You really need to look within and find out why! Also when you are getting to know & build a connection with women are you able to gauge the level of reciprocity?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
He seems like a quality person with plenty to offer so that's not the issue. She was just looking for something else. I don't think he should take it personal or as if there was anything he should do differently. He showed clear interest, her interest level did not match, so it was just not a good fit.
I understand what you are saying but she still wanted to bang though!
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Do not message her until later this evening bro!!! Its her turn to wait and think about you now. No excuses explaining the delay, just respond as if you did immediately. And don't get caught on bumble like she did. Stay off until you reply, otherwise its heat bag lol.

Ask her how her trip was and think of something funny to respond based on what she says. After a few messages and things hopefully get good with banter, go radio silence on her later tonight because you "fell asleep", say around 9:30PM or so (and stay off bumble lol). Then just msg her the next morning continuing the convo and only tell her you fell asleep if she asks. Getter tiger, she should be assuming the worst muahaha
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Originally Posted By sanblz33
I was not being rhetorical. I don’t know you personally but you seem overly sensitive to people that you should really be kicking to the curb (NC does not count lol ). I know you are a high quality guy but for some reason women don’t respect you and your time. You really need to look within and find out why! Also when you are getting to know & build a connection with women are you able to gauge the level of reciprocity?
Yeah I'm sensitive for sure. Maybe I showed my excitement too soon. It was reciprocated in the fact she actually called me...I never do that unless trying to set something up. This was after sex.

I think she's generally a distant person though.

Truth be told I've dated much younger women and could disconnect with ease. Just the dynamic between two individuals can make people act out of character.
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Originally Posted By Nedo
Ohhhh chit, I had a feeling she would msg but didn't want to mention it incase she didn't because you were already bummed out lol. Its possible that she may have done this delay in contacting you to see how desperate you are, to wrap you around her finger and to get you thinking about her (boy did it work, huh?). It also shows you have more work to do though too to get her interest higher (none of this would be happening if her interest was high, but its still salvageable). You played it perfect by not reaching out again and waiting. She is absolutely playing games given she did not even acknowledge missing your call, notice that?

You've prob already replied but if by chance you haven't, delay your response until later this evening, then turn up the humor and sarcasm to the max bro, be fun, no boring chit at all just banter. WHEN she wants to get together, you deny the soonest day she is available because "you already have plans with a friend, when else are you free". Tell her exactly that. Until then, don't be needy and don't be in touch everyday unless she reaches out first. Every 2-3 days is a good balance. I am under the impression that you come off all in with this girl (I get it you like her), and you are extremely interested but trust me when I say, patience at the start pays off. She needs to feel as if SHE has more work to do with you, nomsayin
Again, while all of these ignoring games might work, why bother. Just move on imo and fcuk the games.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Again, while all of these ignoring games might work, why bother. Just move on imo and fcuk the games.
I'll respond later and just be normal. Won't pursue.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes which means she is not out of his league or anything like that. She was attracted enough to want sex with him.

She just does not seem to want a real relationship or emotional intimacy with him, so if that is what op wants he should just move on.

Why waste time trying to get an emotionally distant busy person, when you can better use that time to try to find someone new who is a better fit and who wants to be close from the start.
Honestly I don't even think she can at her age but she did talk a good talk. Just going to recoil and not pursue strongly, date others, rah rah.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes good for you. What's your Thursday girl like?
Kinda more of an earthy chick. Owns a massage place. Haven't really talked as much though due to our scheduling.
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On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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Originally Posted By sword_
Owns a massage place.
Oh boy, not one of those I am thinking of is it?
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Originally Posted By Nedo
Oh boy, not one of those I am thinking of is it?
No just a standard massage therapist. Lot of active people here in Austin so it's a given.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Um well thanks I guess
You complain about the current state of the dating scene but you follow many of the trends that contribute to how bad the scene currently is. For example, you don't think ghosting is right but you just admitted you ghost yourself. So hypocritical, I don't even.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Setting a date up on Thurs with another girl BTW.
*high five*

Try to screen this chick out a little. A little less PUA/game and more of getting a feel of what intangible things you can offer. I’m very very subtle about this. You are way too sensitive man & this might be the most effective risk mitigation protocol before you deploy any emotional resources.

You post way too many cope threads in the misc!

Oh yeah and stop with the games. Lol!
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Originally Posted By sanblz33
*high five*

Try to screen this chick out a little. A little less PUA/game and more of getting a feel of what intangible things you can offer. I’m very very subtle about this. You are way too sensitive man & this might be the most effective risk mitigation protocol before you deploy any emotional resources.

You post way too many cope threads in the misc!

Oh yeah and stop with the games. Lol!
All good I know you mean well.
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On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Only in the sense of chatting online for a bit and then not responding. Not if we have met in person, then I do respond even if I'm not interested. And I don't drag things out past a first date if I'm not interested. Then I will decline a second date so I don't waste his time or mine.
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