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post 1547115011 03-22-2018, 11:27 AM
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I think I have a text lined up.
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Originally Posted By JitnikoVi
Girl I'm seeing is like this. We don't call and text maybe couple times a day. Says shes in love but we barely communicate; I don't feel the same.
How long have you guys been together? I don't go that far as saying in love right away. For me, being in love with someone takes time. Well if you don't feel the same then both of you are not on the same page. Tell her what you want and if she cannot agree to it, then both of you are not right for each other.
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Originally Posted By sword_
I don't need a woman blowing smoke up my ass all the time but I like feedback. I could deal with that type of relationship you're in.
How much feedback do you want and in what time frame (right away, after # of dates, couple of weeks)? Some people can still show desire for you in other ways other than texting every day. Have you had someone where you just look at them (no talking or seeing them for a couple of days) and still feel peace inside like everything is going to be okay? I have.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl
How much feedback do you want and in what time frame (right away, after # of dates, couple of weeks)? Some people can still show desire for you in other ways other than texting every day. Have you had someone where you just look at them (no talking or seeing them for a couple of days) and still feel peace inside like everything is going to be okay? I have.
Once a day. Also like I said if you're texting me many times a day and you drop off significantly it raises concern. Your previous behavior is a baseline on how you act moving forward and anything out of the ordinary can be easily spotted.
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post 1547118501 03-22-2018, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_
Once a day. Also like I said if you're texting me many times a day and you drop off significantly it raises concern.
While dating sure. But this is normal in a relationship and you should give each other space. Makes you look forward to seeing them more and you have more to talk about.

This thread has far too much one-itis advocacy going on IMO. The only exceptions should be both people agree to date only each other (and it comes from her) and or if you have insane chemistry/hang daily and you can just tell that your both not seeing other people. Only the odd woman will run away if she has competition, but majority will work harder as a result, especially the hot ones
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Originally Posted By Nedo
While dating sure. But this is normal in a relationship and you should give each other space. Makes you look forward to seeing them more and you have more to talk about.

This thread has far too much one-itis advocacy going on IMO. The only exceptions should be both people agree to date only each other (and it comes from her) and or if you have insane chemistry/hang daily and you can just tell that your both not seeing other people. Only the odd woman will run away if she has competition, but majority will work harder as a result, especially the hot ones
She's attractive but I've dated and bedded younger and more attractive (srs). I thought we just clicked.

Anywho a massage therapist wants to go on a date with me tonight.

Not gonna text this doc.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Anywho a massage therapist wants to go on a date with me tonight.

Not gonna text this doc.
Nice.

How did you last leave off with the doc?
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Originally Posted By Nedo
Nice.

How did you last leave off with the doc?
Was tempted to fire off a text. Most my friends are telling me NO. I think it's a strong position to NOT text. But at the same time conveying your thoughts and leaving it at that...the ball is in their court and you're done with it.
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post 1547124281 03-22-2018, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_
Was tempted to fire off a text. Most my friends are telling me NO. I think it's a strong position to NOT text. But at the same time conveying your thoughts and leaving it at that...the ball is in their court and you're done with it.
If she cares about you, she will be thinking about you and choked you ain't texting and will reach out. If she doesn't, she don't care. An interested woman lets it be known, very simple.

You never answered my question though, how did you last leave off with her? With anybody, you want to always leave off on a good/high note which usually allows you to pick up where you left off and triggers her to want to hear more from you.
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Originally Posted By Nedo
If she cares about you, she will be thinking about you and choked you ain't texting and will reach out. If she doesn't, she don't care. An interested woman lets it be known, very simple.

You never answered my question though, how did you last leave off with her? With anybody, you want to always leave off on a good/high note which usually allows you to pick up where you left off and triggers her to want to hear more from you.
Oh sorry...we hung out last Monday and she was physically withdrawing from me. I recall she was cool that afternoon. Then we had some confusion about one of my plans of going to this Kava bar. She didn't know what it was. Just weird over text. So she wants to do SXSW stuff here in Austin.

There wasn't much going on. BTW this was HER idea, not mine. She shot down my two ideas lmao. She constantly had her hands in her pockets, but it was also cold. She was complaining about a persistent pain she has been having also. I've known about this for a while. On top of that was the fact she was going to sleep earlier b/c she had five surgeries the next day. Pretty standard to be high stress as an oncologist.

So she's still kissing me but being distant. Mind you 24 hours prior she was cuddling with me, telling me I look and smell nice, etc. She loved to play with my ears and smack my ass lol.

So none of that the day I saw her. It ended with "I'll let you know about tomorrow". She didn't let me know.

Slower texts, less fun banter. Shorter texts. She got a little smart ass over text b/c I joked about her not telling me good night. Then went to Belize, no contact then other than the IG ****ery. She gets back Sunday, doesn't text me until Tuesday with an upbeat message. I reply back upbeat.

So it's Thursday now and here we are. Probably shopping for new dick on Bumble since I saw her active.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Good luck tonight op! Are you going for drinks or what kind of date? Hope you have fun and just let go of the other girl.
Drinks I guess. Haven't really planned it out. Never really do haha.
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She found out through your social media that you're a black dude that supports Donald Trump.
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Ya date with this massage therapist was cool. Super nerdy which is very endearing. Bad kisser lol but nice ass.

Actually very cool to talk to because she's very emotional and well read. The doctor I liked but I sorta had to deal with boring conversations with her about work which is cool but we aren't just our jobs.

Will have a second date with her.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Ya date with this massage therapist was cool. Super nerdy which is very endearing. Bad kisser lol but nice ass.

Actually very cool to talk to because she's very emotional and well read. The doctor I liked but I sorta had to deal with boring conversations with her about work which is cool but we aren't just our jobs.

Will have a second date with her.
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Originally Posted By feminineenergy
She found out through your social media that you're a black dude that supports Donald Trump.
LOL prob found my misc account.
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Originally Posted By feminineenergy
She found out through your social media that you're a black dude that supports Donald Trump.
"The most recent girl that ghosted me did so after I said I didn't absolutely hate the guy and concerning foreign policy so far its better than Obama.

Looking back Im really wondering was that THE reason.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
"The most recent girl that ghosted me did so after I said I didn't absolutely hate the guy and concerning foreign policy so far its better than Obama.

Looking back Im really wondering was that THE reason.
Oh yeah? lol

Well I know this chick wasn't into drugs. I joked around on our first date when she mentioned she couldn't date a heavy drug users. I said "what about a light drug user?". I was totally joking.

I remember before going to hang with her she was upbeat and texting normal. I mentioned trying kava root. She got really confused over text. Then when I saw her she was sorta out of it or disconnected. But I dunno if I said anything. I joked about her sleep schedule but no need to be hypersensitive if that was the case. Just tell me if it was.

Really don't know but I **** you guys not it was night and day with her behavior around me lol.

Politics yeah some women nix you for that. Oh well.

I also took this girl to the shooting range mind you and I do it as a hobby. That may put off some women but IDK.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Oh yeah? lol

Well I know this chick wasn't into drugs. I joked around on our first date when she mentioned she couldn't date a heavy drug users. I said "what about a light drug user?". I was totally joking.

I remember before going to hang with her she was upbeat and texting normal. I mentioned trying kava root. She got really confused over text. Then when I saw her she was sorta out of it or disconnected. But I dunno if I said anything. I joked about her sleep schedule but no need to be hypersensitive if that was the case. Just tell me if it was.

Really don't know but I **** you guys not it was night and day with her behavior around me lol.

Politics yeah some women nix you for that. Oh well.

I also took this girl to the shooting range mind you and I do it as a hobby. That may put off some women but IDK.
Reasons you don't bring up politics until it's official
An old friend told me last week to keep some secrets (your real political views, past drug use) from your SO.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Reasons you don't bring up politics until it's official
An old friend told me last week to keep some secrets (your real political views, past drug use) from your SO.
I don't have any drug use it was just a silly joke lol. She did get weird about the kava stuff though.

Right I agree about political views. I strongly avoid that sort of stuff.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Oh yeah? lol

Well I know this chick wasn't into drugs. I joked around on our first date when she mentioned she couldn't date a heavy drug users. I said "what about a light drug user?". I was totally joking.

I remember before going to hang with her she was upbeat and texting normal. I mentioned trying kava root. She got really confused over text. Then when I saw her she was sorta out of it or disconnected. But I dunno if I said anything. I joked about her sleep schedule but no need to be hypersensitive if that was the case. Just tell me if it was.

Really don't know but I **** you guys not it was night and day with her behavior around me lol.

Politics yeah some women nix you for that. Oh well.

I also took this girl to the shooting range mind you and I do it as a hobby. That may put off some women but IDK.
That might be the reason. Drugs are a deal breaker for me, even light use. I'd just say so though.
Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Reasons you don't bring up politics until it's official
An old friend told me last week to keep some secrets (your real political views, past drug use) from your SO.
Shouldn't be kept secret. I'd want to know if someone was a previous drug user. Especially if it was the more addictive substances.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Reasons you don't bring up politics until it's official
An old friend told me last week to keep some secrets (your real political views, past drug use) from your SO.
Yeah hide all the deep and important aspects of your character until later on. That'll work well.

If you have strong political beliefs that define you then you should be open about it.

Keeping secret the most important aspects of yourself is going to be problematic. I understand no one wants to be rejected especially on critical components of themself. But what results is we only scratch the surface of each other and as a result we can only form shallow transitory connections. When relationships progress further and we reveal more things can tend to fall apart. Or you just keep things hidden away and carry that burden until it breaks you. I know what I'm proposing is stupid and no one is going to put themself out there like that. But it's really what's hindering us. If it's important to you that you are accepted for some particular trait, idealogy, etc then it's best to get it out of the way early rather than later.
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Originally Posted By BuildUpNow
Yeah hide all the deep and important aspects of your character until later on. That'll work well.

If you have strong political beliefs that define you then you should be open about it.

Keeping secret the most important aspects of yourself is going to be problematic. I understand no one wants to be rejected especially on critical components of themself. But what results is we only scratch the surface of each other and as a result we can only form shallow transitory connections. When relationships progress further and we reveal more things can tend to fall apart. Or you just keep things hidden away and carry that burden until it breaks you. I know what I'm proposing is stupid and no one is going to put themself out there like that. But it's really what's hindering us. If it's important to you that you are accepted for some particular trait, idealogy, etc then it's best to get it out of the way early rather than later.
Some folks aren't open to dating people that has experienced with psychedelics, even if they weren't addicted to it. That's why sometimes it's OK to keep a secret about it.
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Originally Posted By Legz422
That might be the reason. Drugs are a deal breaker for me, even light use. I'd just say so though.
I don't do drugs at all it was a joke. CHL/LTC carrier so I can't do any of that ish. This was like date 1/2 though. We were well past that.
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Got another date later today.

Doctor unmatched me on Bumble. Maybe just clearing her queue for more dick or she noticed that we hang out within close proximity of one another (less than 3 miles away).

Also some 24 year old was trying to have sex with me this weekend but I totally wasn't into her. She slept at my place but SUPER ANNOYING. Threatened to kick her out lol.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Why don’t you just ask her?

Neither of you should be playing games

You know what you want and she damn well should be old enough to know what she wants

So quit with the mind games and just ask her
This. You're overthinking. A Simple conversation about where you both see the relationship going should clear things up.
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE
This. You're overthinking. A Simple conversation about where you both see the relationship going should clear things up.
You should read the rest lol. Ghosted buddy.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Oh yeah? lol

Well I know this chick wasn't into drugs. I joked around on our first date when she mentioned she couldn't date a heavy drug users. I said "what about a light drug user?". I was totally joking.

I remember before going to hang with her she was upbeat and texting normal. I mentioned trying kava root. She got really confused over text. Then when I saw her she was sorta out of it or disconnected. But I dunno if I said anything. I joked about her sleep schedule but no need to be hypersensitive if that was the case. Just tell me if it was.

Really don't know but I **** you guys not it was night and day with her behavior around me lol.

Politics yeah some women nix you for that. Oh well.

I also took this girl to the shooting range mind you and I do it as a hobby. That may put off some women but IDK.
Most girls have been cool with me taking them to the range.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
Most girls have been cool with me taking them to the range.
I thought it was a good idea but people get nervous.
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