Didn't read wut do brah

Sounds like you're afraid, mate. Nothing wrong with not wanting kids, but I'm not sure I follow your reasoning, really. Just because you had a chitty child hood doesn't mean your kids have to. Like the other poster said, this can be a chance to "right the ship". This girl sounds like a gem if she's really the way you describe her. Think hard about breaking this off because you'll probably never find someone like her who will put up with you and your misanthropy.

If you one is misanthropous does that mean that person hates themselves?

What's the point in living if you don't want your legacy to carry on?

this

Why make a post and then rage when ppl call you out *******.

Lmao just lmao @ playing videogames at 30 years old.

It’s a tough one op. Even if you have kids that doesn’t mean everything will turn out for the better.
But what if you break up with her then regret it because before you know it you have become a single and childess 40 year old who plays videogames and watches netflix alone.

You don't want to be one of those people that have kids when they're close to 40..

I don't look at it as your time wasted like the others are saying. Did you have a good time? Did you learn about yourself and her? Did you become a better person?

But because your subconscious is bringing out these worries, you should probably tell her what you think about your life moving forward so your both on the same playing field and she can choose what she wants to do

OP got absolutely rekt here.

You're getting some harsh but good advice. Loyal no nonsense girlfriends don't exactly grow on trees. You better make sure you're doing the right thing before you throw away three years of your life and a proven mate, I would not throw it away on a whim. Relationships are all about compromise. Nothing you listed is a deal-breaker unless you decide kids are not for you. You'll never find someone who is going to mirror you 100%. Put in a little effort. Do some chores. Be somewhat flexible. Tell her how you feel. Communicate. Do what she likes from time to time. Most guys here would give their left nut for what you got.

I think you need therapy to workout your childhood issues no matter what life you want to live

And to be honest with gf who seems like quite a catch, she will eventually get over you and build the life she wants

time will march on anyway whatever you decide ..if you are set on how you want your life to be at 40 or 50 or even 70 then you need to open the conversation with her

Having a tough childhood doesn't mean you shouldn't have kids man. On the contrary, it's given you good insight into how important it is to be a good parent and how much it matters to a kid. You can keep this in mind and be the kind of father a man should be. Based on what you've written this girl sounds like she'll be a great mom and wife, you are lucky to have her in your life.

On the other hand if your concern is really that having a kid will be too big of an imposition on your life then yes you should let her go.

You need to evolve.

Instead of watching movies and tv shows that where the characters are saying and doing chit you wish you were doing/saying. How about you do some of those things, speak your mind like they do become the realistic version of these people, the best you.

Instead of tweaking your PC to make to reach peak optimization, learn to use a new software how about you divert that energy into a new, more healthy hobby. Been building PC's since age 12 for myself, family and all friends I get it, it's time to grow up. Unless you're going to realistically make something out of it as in you're good at coding and have lots of ideas for apps and projects in the works lettuce be real OP, you're overclocking your CPU/GPU, you're installing mods on games/customizing your OS. That's not productive it's something you do in your spare time after the "work" is done when your a teen.

How about you learn jiu-jitsu, learn to play an instrument, learn to cook amazing food for you and your wife/wife's family on occasion, or whatever life enriching hobby floats your boat. Put that energy into giving your child all the tools you can for him/her to be the best version of themselves they can be, to live life to the full. It sounds like you're about to make the worst decision of your life that I can only imagine ends in one of two ways.

Suicide once you realise humpty dumpty had a great fall and all the king's horses an all the kings men couldn't put humpty together again.

A dark never ending sea of self loathing depression wishing you would end it all but you know in your heart of hearts you lack the balls to do it, realizing this and that you have done it all to yourself and it only gets worse with the passage of time you eventually overdose or die from obesity/sedentary lifestyle at an early age but not before experiencing decades of the hell on earth that is the remainder of your perpetual dopamine high low cycle seeking useless existence.

-The realest chit I ever wrote on this misc 2018.

This is all coming from me, a person who intends to not have kids himself but for completely unrelated reasons (philosophical) than yourself.

Happiness is not just something that happens OP, you need to work for it. If theirs one thing worth working for it's that.

You sound like a selfish dikhead right now OP. She sounds like a great person who has flaws just like you do with your nerdy computer chit. You need to talk to her with an open mind about it but I'm pretty sure you'll decide a kid is a rewarding process.

You currently live one of those great lives op. Did ur gf get with you because you had a good amount of money?

Break up with her for her own good. You seem very bitter about your childhood and it seems like you need to see someone to help you move on.

Do her a favor and break up with her srs, you're a loser and she deserves better... Not hating on you, I have the same personality as you and would feel really bad about wasting years of a nice girl's life.. Just smash hookers and play videogames and hope you die before 50 because life without a family is pathetic when you're old.

Or change and count your blessings that you find a girl like that among an ocean of new age sloots and have a normal life with her..

or this is just a fake/brag thread and op is a *******

Op kinda reminds me of those comics of the nerdy guy that didn't get any girls and now he's got a good job, women are lined up to make him into their beta provider.

Lol @ using words like roastie, being a *******, and thinking a house and car equates to a good life. If you act/think like this in real life you should set her free to find an actual man and spend a couple years becoming one yourself.

OP is seriously a fckin loser. He will now ruin this girls life as she will be undesireable due to her age. OP is a beta video game palying soyboy *******.

Slack-jawed ******* over here.

1) People have kids because that's what sex was meant to do. Reproducing is the natural order for living things. Take your supreme bullchit about "normal" being for "sheep"andyour dirty fedora back to the Emo Gazebo.

2) If you don't want to have kids, that's fine, but you shouldn't let your whackjob parents control your attitude toward life like the cuck you obviously are. You sound like you have serious psychological issues that you need to address. What woman would ever respect a man who let his mommy and daddy decide the course of his life for him, even if it's indirect through abuse?

3) Yes, at 27, wanting kids in 2 years, she's starting to run low on time. She'll probably still be able to succeed, but the odds of a miscarriage and other complications increase significantly after 30. You don't want a kid with a disability but you might actually be causing her to end up raising one. Your extreme selfishness is evident in your conclusion that she can always just do IVF or adoption once you screw up her life, as if that isn't a burden, both emotionally and financially. This is something that's important to her and you're fuarking her over with your beta indecisiveness.

4) Don't kid yourself. If you have another mission in life besides fatherhood or even just want to smash a lot of puzz, people can respect that. You do not. You aren't on your grind, getting your house in order, building something meaningful. "Oh, I prefer nerdy things." "I am an introvert!" Don't sugarcoat being a lazy recluse playing make-believe with video games and movies instead of doing anything real with your life. I like video games and movies too, but I'm balancing that with a career, college, home improvements, travel, and chasing tail while still saving aggressively for an early retirement.

You are not special, different, edgy, or smarter than everyone else. You are an underachiver. Dump her because she does not have time to waste on you and it's unethical for you to keep stringing her along. "Aw, but I can't end it, I do love her." No, you don't.Sheloves you, and is likely at least somewhat co-dependent, because she puts up with you instead of telling you to fist yourself. You only loveyourselfor you'd be taking responsibility for your end of the relationship. You are a disappointment to her and will only let her down further. Cut her loose so you are free to spend the next two years fixing yourself while she can meet a man who she can actually be with.

Jesus Christ. You are 30. I would neg you in real life.

You will deeply regret breaking up with this girl. You sound like a huge nerd who is ugly. The chances of you finding another genuine girl like this is very slim bro. The fact that you went through 3 years with this girl and didnt discuss these issues with her shows you're a scumbag. You were using this girl until it became too serious, and now you want to bail. NEGGED.

tl;dr

jk did read some

pics or?

Grow tf up and try not to miss your - most likely - only chance in your life to start a family with a girl who seems to be a genuine caring person with the right priorities. Realize that there are quite a lot of people who would gladly switch places with you.

It's you, not her.

ill impregnate her for you, if you're scared

FIRE or no-FIRE your choice

Does she have a phat turdcutter though OP?

Can't give legit advice without knowing this info

i can proudly say i haven't read a word

Lol holy fuk. I'm continually amazed at people that do fk all with their lives these days. Must reproduce. Must get married. Must watch latest reality tv shows every night while I drink more and more.