I mean, I can understand OP - he's wondering "what could be" and whether she's "the one". For most guys it gets a lot harder to meet relatable women as you get older and get on the daily grind; no amount of money can make up for that unless you were going the mail bride route all along.

With that said, it would be a huge ass mistake to stay behind for her. Not only you barely know her, it seems like she's already accepted that you won't be around for a long time - her mind is already set on looking for the next guy, which is why she doesn't want to meet you again before you go. She liked the romance but your limited availability was no doubt a huge part of her experience. There's nothing that remotely indicates you'd put up with each other's daily bull**** or even be able to keep each other interested without touching/****ing being involved - which is why IMHO I don't think a long-distance relationship would even be worth a shot.

You're going to meet new women at your MBA and probably have access to tons more by getting to know people in different programs sharing the same campus. You seem like a smart, cheeky and considerate dude - no doubt you will find a better catch!

You should give up that spot to that university to somebody else.

You're clearly a fukin moron and im 100% srs


- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF
- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF
- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF
- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF
- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF

TINDER

You would be a complete moron to reject the offer for some girl you met recently. The career opportunities the mba will open up far exceeds some lust you have right now. Also, a top mba careers pretige and would open up many dating opportunities. I’m in an MBA program now and I see how easily my single friends get attractive women. It helps that women know you will be making bank after. Stfu and matriculate this fall

OP, serious question, are you retarded?Negged.

I'm seriously baffled how beta and outright retarded some dudes can be.

Cliffs:

-TLDR
-OP is a beta virgin

OP you sound like the biggest dipchit I've ever come across. Delet this post. Delet tinder.

Don't do it. You come first, always. It is a woman's job to support you unconditionally, you do what is right for you.

Where's OP? Anyways, being beta is the worst thing you can be. If you a girl chasing your dreams, you're an idiot. Chase dreams not people.

If there's a connection with any potential, then you need to sit down and have a grown-up conversation about it. If she's not willing to do that, then you should leave and tell her that you won't be looking her up again later.

Otherwise, if she's actually interested in LTR and feels similarly about the connection, then you should defer, or pick a different school that's closer--where you went to school doesn't mean anything to anybody.

A chance at true love is way more important. You just need to make sure that she's serious and capable of an adult conversation about things before making a decision. Where you met her doesn't matter... after all, YOU are just some tinder hunk.

Also, this whole 'beta' thing is kind of ridiculous. True men have feelings and recognize they are more important than 'alpha' nonsense. Studies already show betas are what women want for LTR material, so in actuality, they are the true Alphas.

Do not give up such a great chance just for a girl! It'll end badly anyway and under no circumstance can you trust a Tinder girl.

You need to think this one through...do what's right and accept the university offer because the girl will f**k you over anyway.

Excellent post.

I understand where 99% of the replies are coming from. It was infatuation after the first date, and now, after some days have passed, I've decided that it would obviously be quite foolish to defer the acceptance and wager my future on this girl.

However, I think true love is, and should be the end all of what a man seeks in life. Unfortunately the misc has adopted a rather toxic perception toward women. I've been browsing and posting for the last 7 years and lord knows, I've become a borderline misogynist too. This has turned everything into a numbers game. How hot the chick is, or how many chicks a dude has railed. Not against all that, but deep down, don't these miscers want a shot at true love too?

I realize tinder is the last place on earth where you'd think of meeting, the 'one.' But in any case, since the misc makes it out to seem that finding a half decent girl ANYWHERE is next to impossible, then taking my chances with a tinder girl doesn't seem too ridiculous.

We're meeting on Monday and having a serious talk. Fingers crossed!

Dude. You're being an idiot. She is a tinder slut. Your life is way more important than that. If you had been dating seriously, that would be a different story, but this is not true love. You are going to regret it later when she cucks you for Chad.

It actually got much worse after that. OP, we love you. Not to sound like parents cuz parents are lame but if this was my son I'd start smacking the **** out of you Indian style. Not really but bro come on. You're scaring me here. Feels can be really strong and I'm sure you have thought about what if you didn't go but after you're your novel and the special thanks section I can tell you there is only one option. Guarantee there's 30 of the exact girl at the uni you're going to.

But I think you know what you should do.

OP thinking of messing up his future for a girl who swiped for a guy with “Kindle and chill?” in his profile and who “ thought [some random guy] was an ******* over text who only wanted sex” yet proceeded to see him anyway.

Strong. Gee OP, this is the one you’ve been waiting for huh *******. So Good Will Hunting. Such gotta go see about about a girl. Dumbarse.

Srs.

I admire and am jealous of your idealism, OP. I've been in enough relationships to be totally cynical at this point. Now I just enjoy being single.

Your education and career opportunities are way more important thank an infatuation. Trust me.

There is not just one person for everyone, there are levels of compatibility. You could meet someone at uni who is just as good, or better. You could meet someone in your future career etc.

You have a hundred shots at being with someone who is right for you. You have ONE shot at being young, enjoying yourself at university (with all that that entails), and at getting yourself on the right path from the get-go.

Again 100% srs.

Love it. OP comes in for advice, ignores the 99% of the posts telling him he is a dumbass, and takes the advice of the one person that takes his side.

Typical misc.

Also, OP demonstrating the difference between book smarts and street smarts.

Chooses pussy over getting into the top university . Lol

Fixed.

lol she's not that into you ******* (srs)

"Tale as old as time
True as it can be
Barely even friends
Then somebody bends
Unexpectedly"



Lol. In for updates on Monday.

OP should choose the girl.

And leave the Uni spot for someone who actually deserves it.

Pathetic stuff.

This is actually accurate.

OP is already distracted and making wrong decisions and showing lack of discipline before he went to school.

He has been thrown off his game and lost all his poise because of a 3 week tinder sloot.

Yeah, but this time it’s different, she is different than all the rest. Right. Lol

If this was true love, she would want, and be encouraging, him to go to school so they can live comfortably together. She would want to be with a successful man, right?

If it’s true love, she would find a way to make it work while he goes to school. Keep that in mind as well.

This isn’t her fault to be fair. She didn’t ask him to quit school. This is on OP.

Plus you don’t know anything about a person in 3 weeks to claim that it’s the one. Especially one that is already getting distant.

That’s why you don’t go crazy after one great first date. People with dating experience will tell you that they had great first dates and it amounted to nothing in the end. A great first date doesn’t guarantee anythin in the future.

But OP seems inexperienced. He fell for the first girl that gave him attention and told him what he wanted to hear.

He wants to defer for a year. Meaning he sees himself with her for the long run. What if she dumps him in a week or 2? He loses a year due to sheer stupidity.

Imagine what he will be like if he gets there. Those places are super competitive and cutthroat.

If he can be swayed this easily then him going to the school will be a big waste of time and energy anyway.

Also Lol to the fact that he is so whipped that he got mad that his friends are texting him instead of her.

youre ****ing delusional. shes probably getting railed by other dudes on tinder. while youre blowing up her phone, shes messaging other guys lmao

I think the issue is that perhaps most miscers have no idea how to interact with the opposite sex. If you treat people like people and don't always think with your dick, then it's pretty hard to not find a nice girl. Most women are nice people, just like most guys are most people.

TLDR this is a really ridiculous forum, not sure why I ended up here other than it was 4 am and there were no new posts in Workout Programs.

First: If you give up a golden opportunity for her, it's pretty likely that you'll end up resenting her, even if things work out and you end up in a LTR with her.

Second: "I don't need to meet you again to know that I like you, but you going away, and us texting now and then is definitely going to kill whatever we have now. I'd rather have last night and pick up where we left off when you come back." Translation: I'd like to bang other dudes while you're away, but I might consider adding you to my rotation when you get back.

Honestly, it doesn't sound like she's as smitten as you are, and even if she was, making a life-altering sacrifice that you're almost certainly come to regret once the honeymoon phase wears off isn't worth it.

Tinder Chick vs. College chicks.

Save the money and stay with your new girl. Seriously....

Are you out of you bloody mind?

The right girl at the wrong time is the wrong girl

This will end up being a sticky as the most epicly retarded thread.

Guy meets tinder chick to get laid and gives up the rest of his life being rich within a week.

Want to actually punch OP in the face.

Cliff needs cliff. Uni girls are better than Tinder girls. You can meet so many girls in college. Don't throw your life because one girl rejected you on Tinder.

You will regret it.

I won't lie. I was very suspect of this on the first date. My intention was to bang. In fact, toward the end of the date she was like, 'Let me show you my workplace'. This was at 12:30 in the night/morning. Unfortunately she rummaged around in her bag and realized that she'd forgotten it. I don't know if that was a test or what, but i'm glad she forgot them.

For the record I'm not a virgin, and I have converted a tinder date to a smash before. However, I'm telling ya'll (and none of you will believe me), this girl is different. Maybe, just as my intentions had changed over that first date, her intentions changed too. I hope so. Maybe she's giving up her slooting ways (if she was one in the first place).

ALl I know is that this girl is killing me. Its been a week, and she is the only thing I can think about. To top this off, we have a bunch of pre course reading to do and I haven't been able to focus on a single module. I have decided to attend, but now I'm worried that I won't be able to keep up or give it my all because my head is going to be wrapped around this girl for god knows how long. I'm meeting her on Monday. I'm in half a mind not to go, and let my head clear up, but I know I'm going to end up going which in turn is going to have me falling even harder for her and distracting me even more. Fuk.If there's even a one in thousand shot at this, isn't it worth taking? I don't think I could meet someone who's better than this girl. She crosses every T and dots every I that completes me. Sounds cheesy as fuk, but that's all I can think right now.She claims that she wants to stop at where we had left off so we can pickup when I get back - hence her plan to create some distance. This would have a better chance of working correct? As opposed to committing to something with barely a week left, and then trying LTR?

Move on brah , while you will be away for a year , she will get banged by like 10 different guys. LTR do not work . Try smash as many times as possible before you leave though.